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ASW · 05-24-2010, 06:32 PM

i talked with my wife about it an told her it was just a job an she was cool about it an said she didnt mind an that she wouldn't mind working with me doing it. But when we had moved my mother an grandmother asked me what i was goin to be doin for work an i told them that i would rather not talk about it with them i think they know because my father an grandfather know an they my had said something i just don't know how to come out an say it to my mother an grandmother?

L-Pink · 05-24-2010, 06:36 PM

Depends, what are you actually doing?

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StrokeKing · 05-24-2010, 06:36 PM

I didnt tell them to avoid rumors,

BIGTYMER · 05-24-2010, 06:38 PM

You don't. Tell them you run websites or work on the internet.

J. Falcon · 05-24-2010, 06:39 PM

I told my wife and mother the truth, but lied to my grandmother and in laws.

epitome · 05-24-2010, 06:40 PM

Setup a weight loss site and give the URL to family when they ask. That then becomes what you do for a living.

Ironically, most of my family knows but many of my friends do not.

ASW · 05-24-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Depends, what are you actually doing?

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im not like doin video's or anything like that i promote an work in sale's

ASW · 05-24-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome

Setup a weight loss site and give the URL to family when they ask. That then becomes what you do for a living.

Ironically, most of my family knows but many of my friends do not.

thats a good idea lol i never would had thought about that

ASW · 05-24-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by J. Falcon

I told my wife and mother the truth, but lied to my grandmother and in laws.

how did your mother take it. my inlwas know they are cool about it as well

LoveSandra · 05-24-2010, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BIGTYMER

You don't. Tell them you run websites or work on the internet.

this is how i tell

bloggerz · 05-24-2010, 06:58 PM

just say you are a webdesigner. doesnt necessarily mean porn

ASW · 05-24-2010, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by StrokeKing

I didnt tell them to avoid rumors,

what do you mean what kinda rumars?

ASW · 05-24-2010, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bloggerz

just say you are a webdesigner. doesnt necessarily mean porn

i guess i could say that cuz it wouldn't be lieing to them good one thanks fo the

Bird · 05-24-2010, 07:09 PM

no matter what the content is its just online marketing..

ASW · 05-24-2010, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Bird

no matter what the content is its just online marketing..

that is true

L-Pink · 05-24-2010, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ASW

im not like doin video's or anything like that i promote an work in sale's

Like Bird said .....

Why not tell people you are involved in traffic brokering and/or internet marketing of various products. Tires, televisions, clothing, porn, sales are sales. Marketing is a respected profession be vague.

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theS2O · 05-24-2010, 09:43 PM

my wife knows and some friends.. i have my mainstream designs site too. so, when someone ask, basically i tell them that i do logo and web designs.

papill0n · 05-24-2010, 09:47 PM

I couldnt give a shiiiiit what anyone thinks. People will judge you regardless.

I told my family and then bcc'd them a list of urls.

LeRoy · 05-24-2010, 09:48 PM

"It's 100% legal mom"

Spunky · 05-24-2010, 09:51 PM

I just don't tell em.internet marketing and it's complicated.start talking html,and script lingo and they get bored fast

Prof. Woland · 05-24-2010, 10:08 PM

tell anything but dont show their LoveSandra's avatar

Yngwie · 05-24-2010, 10:33 PM

My dad actually helped me when I started this. As for other family members I just told them exactly what I do since I don't care what anyone thinks. They either accept me for me and what I chose to do for work or they don't. Either way it would not have stopped me.

escoman · 05-24-2010, 10:46 PM

What do you gain by telling them? Nothing.

Arnox · 05-24-2010, 10:47 PM

They don't know, but I don't think they'd care.

digitaldivas · 05-24-2010, 10:51 PM

...my parents have always known that I was a little "off"

brentbacardi · 05-24-2010, 11:26 PM

I tell people i dont want to know... I am a photo assistant for a made up photographer that i put some fake stuff on the internet about who does fashion modeling and that I dabble in online marketing for some extra income. I do tell plenty of people what I do, just some I never would... ie certain family members and high school buddies and such.

nathan_madness · 05-25-2010, 12:04 AM

Just told them straight up. My wife works with me and my oldes just don't care.

lazycash · 05-25-2010, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LoveSandra

this is how i tell

Did you have to explain to them what a sigwhore does or did they already know?

v4 media · 05-25-2010, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by bloggerz

just say you are a webdesigner. doesnt necessarily mean porn

Then people ask to see your sites... I tell people I do backend development.. you know databases and stuff.. it bores them and they shut up.

Paul Markham · 05-25-2010, 03:58 AM

I asked my Mum if she wanted to come for a drive and told her I was going to the Hustler building to submit sets. She said "OK"

Family have always known I was a bit on the wacky side.

raven1083 · 05-25-2010, 04:03 AM

what it is to you in the first place.

Roby · 05-25-2010, 04:51 AM

Say thems that you are a programmer in internet

seeandsee · 05-25-2010, 05:18 AM

I was making galleries and they saw it one day, and accepted i sell porn, but no too much questions about it ;)

mike134 · 05-25-2010, 05:21 AM

yeaah my fam is fine with it, they are actually cool though.

Sosa · 05-25-2010, 05:31 AM

Was easy. I didn't have a job in college but yet paying all my bills and having extra spending money. She didn't believe me at first until I showed her some check stubs lol.

ASW · 06-20-2010, 11:34 PM

thanks everybody yall all have helped me very much

TeenCat · 06-21-2010, 12:21 AM

checks are comming, everyone is happy doesnt matter what i do if its legal

Fiddler · 06-21-2010, 12:21 AM

My close family members know, and all my friends know but keeping it from my grand parents, aunts and uncles etc.

ErectMedia · 06-21-2010, 12:51 AM

I'm a momma's boy so that was easy, don't think she told anyone else though so just her and my friends know which is fine as I don't think going any farther than that is necessary.

ASW · 06-21-2010, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by TeenCat

checks are comming, everyone is happy doesnt matter what i do if its legal

hell yea i hear you on that if i can't get in trouble doing what i do then why not do it right

woj · 06-21-2010, 07:03 PM

what good could come out of telling them? Just tell them you run websites or design websites or something, doesn't really matter...

geedub · 06-21-2010, 07:37 PM

my whole family knows, fuck taking the time to make up lies and bullshit, every time i tried that with people it just lead to more questions i need to make bullshit up for on the fly then. fuck em if they can't take it.

Roby · 06-22-2010, 03:00 AM

never told thems about

Davy · 06-22-2010, 03:05 AM

The question is not how to tell your family. That should be pretty easy.

The question is how you would tell a company what you did in porn if you had to work in mainstream again.

ASW · 06-26-2010, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Davy

The question is not how to tell your family. That should be pretty easy.

The question is how you would tell a company what you did in porn if you had to work in mainstream again.

ok so how would you do that? cuz that is a good question as well

bausch · 06-26-2010, 05:32 PM

I don't talk to my family and am not close with them. Therefore I don't disclose anything about my life to them at all. It's none of their business. I never even see them to be honest and I prefer it that way. I don't have a relationship with them. I have my own life.

Robbie · 06-26-2010, 05:43 PM

I pulled an "Elvis"

When they found out what we were doing (I was able to keep it secret for almost 11 years) they all lectured me. So I bought my parents a car, sent them on a cruise, bought them both new computers. Suddenly they are okay with everything.

ASW · 06-26-2010, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Robbie

I pulled an "Elvis"

When they found out what we were doing (I was able to keep it secret for almost 11 years) they all lectured me. So I bought my parents a car, sent them on a cruise, bought them both new computers. Suddenly they are okay with everything.

hahaha hell yea money makes everybody good

05-24-2010, 06:32 PM	#1
ASW Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 259	how did you go about tellin your family about you workin with porn i talked with my wife about it an told her it was just a job an she was cool about it an said she didnt mind an that she wouldn't mind working with me doing it. But when we had moved my mother an grandmother asked me what i was goin to be doin for work an i told them that i would rather not talk about it with them i think they know because my father an grandfather know an they my had said something i just don't know how to come out an say it to my mother an grandmother?

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Yngwie I am an Alien from space Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 11,118	My dad actually helped me when I started this. As for other family members I just told them exactly what I do since I don't care what anyone thinks. They either accept me for me and what I chose to do for work or they don't. Either way it would not have stopped me. __________________ ICQ: 16544251 - Skype: gator37 @ eastlink.ca - email: yngwie @ isys.ca Last edited by Yngwie; 05-24-2010 at 10:36 PM..

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bausch Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,017	I don't talk to my family and am not close with them. Therefore I don't disclose anything about my life to them at all. It's none of their business. I never even see them to be honest and I prefer it that way. I don't have a relationship with them. I have my own life. Last edited by bausch; 06-26-2010 at 05:35 PM..

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