How do u ask someone for loan repayment??

You dont have a leg to stand on in a lawsuit.

Mark my words: she will come up with excuse after excuse for delaying the repayment.
I think you have been taken advantage of. Say goodbye to that money.

sounds good.. but we are close and she knows i have a ton of money saved up. .way more than i gave her.. but i still want my 10k.. im starting to miss it..

her dad is very rich, and is a family friend, ill just call him and have him send me the wire.. the mofo is worth like $100mil... but her dad doesnt support her business idea thats why she couldnt get it from him

Don't lend what you can't afford to lose.

Well, if her dad is worth 100 mil then he sounds like a wise businessman.
And if he refused to give 10k to his daughter, you can deduce that whatever she is up to is a major FAIL

Just call her and tell you need the money. See what she answers to that.

ya i go by that rule usually.. dont know how i fucked this one up.. cuz shes kinda rich and we get along great and are close.. but i feel used.. she only started calling MORE right b4 she needed a loan, now she calls LESS after she gets the money.. fucking a!!

This thread reeks of inconsistencies.

Hey, when do you plan to pay me that 10k?

Seems to me you are NOT good friends and she's just using you. Off course she trusts you with her stuff like car, apartment,etc. She's broke! What does she care, you lend her 10k.

which inconsistency? i dont have time to come here and make bogus lies..im worried about how NOT to lose my friend and get my money back

so what do u suggest i do... thats why im here

I would be upset because she said 1 week and the loan was not repaid. I would have been even more upset that she didn't have the common courtesy to call me after 7 days and make up some BS excuse or at least make a partial payment.

Your fault for not calling on day 7 and asking for the money. People like her have the mentality like this.... They know you have money obviously just sitting around you don't need. They need it. You think nothing of sending it to them with no contract, loan terms, or anything. They tell you 1 week. It's been 3 weeks and you still haven't called to ask about it. They are convinced that the money is no big deal to you, you gave it away and not even checking up on it. So why are they going to sweat paying you back when they are in a bind and you don't need it or don't care about it.

When you make a big deal about loaning it, put interest rates on it. Say that you need this back, blah blah, you can only do this for 1 week because you need it for something else, etc... then you check with them on day 7, they will think a lot differently and you are much more likely to get paid.

What you can do now. Call up, tell them something came up you need the money back, its been 2 weeks over due, why haven't they called you. When they say they dont have it tell them you need 1/2, 1/4 something. and set up a payment schedule. because i think there is 0% chance you getting the money back in one lump sum any time soon.

Then you don't loan it, say you loaned it to someone else, or that you had some big expenses come up and you can't tie it up.


Sue her??? on what grounds? What proof do you have. You "GAVE" her money. Did you set up a contract, loan repayments, interest etc? If you just handed it over, you have no case. And even if it did, it will cost you more than 10K to sue her, go to court, win, file judgments against her and try to collect. And if she is borrowing money from you that probably means she is losing everything else so what would she have of value for you to lien ?

Seriously you are fucked. But it is your own fault. No contract, no terms, hand money away, person says 1 week and its 3 weeks later and you haven't even called them yet? so fucked.


The " i will be closing some deals soon" then sounds like you don't need to borrow money, because you will be closing a deal in the next week and will have money from that. The "deals" always fall through. And when they do there is no way to repay you.

See a few of my replies up. Demand the money, and then be willing to accept something even 1K from her, any money you can get is better than nothing, then you put her ass on a payment plan and HOUND HER till you get it all but it might take you a year or longer if you stay very persistent. People like her will hope you give up and go away after a couple payments.

Weren't you making $10K a day in mainstream not so long ago?

fuck im afraid u are right man.. she prolly thinks i dont even need it.. but i do its my business money i run my shit with..

yeah its gone down to only a few K but see its idiots like u that think like her..

i may have $1mil in account, who cares, bottom line is $10k is a lot of fucking money.. ive given away tons of $500-$1k loans to family i NEVER got back and i dont give a shit..

but i need my $10k simple and short.. there are 1000s of people here who make a LOT more than i do, and they would not give someone $10k for free... so whats ur point?