hahahahaha :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

u were supposed to swallow, you didnt.. so now pay me back biatch

The plot thickens...

You came on my face was that not enough?

I am not a whore that can be bought :2 cents:

well no cuz u said eww.. u coulda pretended to swallow or at least enjoy the cum..

u know what? if u let me fuck and cum in your ass i'll wipe out $5k of the debt

lol i hope u know its a joke.. i dont even know who this chic is :pimp but she seems funny..

make it 7k and we have a deal

if u let me fist ur ass after i cum then yeah 7k-deal

anyway i told her to hit me up, we are on gchat now.. gonna just say hey when do u think u'll pay me back? i need the money for some online biz..

im scared for some reason.. dont wanna fuck up the relationship... this sux ass

I trust nobody and I wouldn't give anything to anyone (except my girl... actually, I've got from her much more money than I've ever gave her anyway).

y dont u trust anyone

post a pic of her now!!!!!!!!!!

shes like 5'3, ok body, ok face, shes like a 6/10

Well, I mean for everyone I have very limited credit of trust. Why? I could give you many examples... ok one that comes to my mind with the words "money" and "family" in it. Someone from my very close family gave all life savings around ($40k) to one rogue preacher that rides his ass in maybach. This person was very well educated, university graduated, quite old more than 60 years old. I've always treated this person with a lot of respect. Now why the fuck this person did it? Now this person has no money even for medicines. I wouldn't mind if this person gave it to someone from my(her) family or even even to any stranger who is in need of money. There are many sick and poor people who need money for example for their children surgery or medical treatment. Even my parents aren't rich and sometimes there was no money for heating. I don't trust even my own family... sad but... huh...

gentle, just gentle

dont blame ya man.. i can count the # of people i can 100% trust with one hand..

my sis, my mom, my other sis, my other sis

thats it.lol

so does this sound like a good idea?

yeah thats why i try and never loan money to friends its always trouble and not worth ruining a friendship over

Where's my money bitch?

http://www.gifshare.com/gif/7784/punchwomanintheface

Dam hotlink

come on guys how do u ask for ur money while preserving a friendship??

fuck it im gonna say this

hey i have some biz i need to get into.. i need the money for work.. when do u think ull have it??

Just my opinion but you have stated in multiple posts how good a friend she is and how cool she is, if that is the case asking shouldn't really be an issue.

btw just to throw it out there..im supposed to go to vegas with her next week to hang out for her graduation party... FAIL

Doesn't matter what you say to this person. You'll never see more than a token payment, and only if you hound her immediately. All or most of that money is GONE and you are never going to see it again. The friendship is pretty much over as well. Resolve yourself of these facts and try to make another $10k to replace it.

how do u know this??? and shit i may as well as for it then

Good Lord why are you so insecure?

You are young, you have some money, you have seen some success, you have traveled the world a bit, you have a good degree with high honors... why so insecure?

And don't say you aren't. You are. The question is... why?

This girl shat on your friendship by using you. Plain and simple. Friends don't do that to each other. Period. Man up and realize that she isn't the friend that you think she is, get your money back, move on, make some real friends.

Life experience. And Judge Judy. Believe me, broke people that borrow large sums of money from friends or family never pay it back, except for more than a token payment, and even that only if you get real serious with them right away. This is especially true when they think the person that they borowed from has less money problems than they do. Not sure how old you are, but this is going to be an expensive life lesson for you.

say " you better win in Vegas so you can pay me the 10k "
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ehh who knows.. im not insecure around girls.. but who knows.. but ya last time i took a loan from someone yrs ago i COULDNT wait to repay them.. i paid them 2 weeks early.. and it was for like $10k+.. and i do agree she is kinda using me.. so at this point what do u suggest i tell her/do to her??

im 24 and yea this is already fucking with my head.. that $10k is a lot of money.. coulda bought a LOT of stuff with it or heck given it to my mom who needs it.lol

This is often true. If her father is as rich as you say you might be able to get the money that way though.

Look at the first page. I told you what to say. You don't need a reason to ask for your money back. Just know that she isn't going to be a friend anymore. It sucks but that's what happens when you put money in a friendship. You'll find better friends that don't take advantage.

I don't think I could ever ask family or friends for money. I just can't do it. That would be my absolute last option.

me too.. cuz u put them in a rough spot since they cant say no.. i dont like asking ppl for money in general at all..cant believe i gave someone $10k with no paper, contract, nothing.. fuck me

Wait, a few months ago you had hundreds of thousands burning through your pocket that you had no idea what to do with. Now $10k is a lot? It should all be relative. Plus, why didn't you help your Mom when you had that extra money to gamble with? One word comes to mind: priorities.

Tell her you're gonna start charging interest on the 10k and she should pay you back or work out a payment schedule.
WG

Where's my money bitch?

u guys keep missing the point.. $10k is a LOT of money to anyone.. my problem is not that i spent $10k, problem is i feel like i got USED for my money which is pissing me off..

i dont know why ppl think just cuz the more money u have, then $10k doesnt matter.. fuck the richest mofos $1 matters...

Im not that rich.. $10k is still a lot of money, and dont talk about me helping mommy.. ive been supporting her since and i buy her everything, was just saying i rather give it to my mom who actually cares than this chic who doesnt give a shit..

I didnt think much about this, but it started bugging me today when i realized she didnt even say thank u for the money and she is not even trying to tell me how she'll pay it back.. basically i feel kinda used

there are lots of people in this thread alone who are richer than me.. try begging them for free $100 and see if they'll give it to u..

then u expect me to let go of $10k? come on dude be serious

If you have the balls, just ask for the money.

If you want to be less direct, ask to borrow something of significant value for a week, such as her car. Keep it until she gets the hint and pays you your money.

im just gonna flat out ask for it.. what if she says shes broke..:upsidedow

This thread is boring, send me all your money and shoot yourself

She probably will. In that case, sit down and work out a payment plan. Get everything in writing so you can take her to court if need be.

She did this to herself. You should never feel bad for trying to get back something you are owed.

Is this friend Nigerian?

good point.. im just a mr nice guy thats my prob

Wow thats intense. I am sure she is going to take you real seriously when you "chat" with her online after her being 2 weeks late. Not even a phone call, a chat.



When do you think you will have it? LMAO way to leave it wide open and vague. You get what ever you can from her right now and you set up a payment plan.

On second thought since you apparently don't have any balls and this person knows that, just do yourself a favor and write off the money. Forget about it right now. With your attitude " i am scared to ask" " I don't want to lose a friend" "what should I say to her in chat" ... you never going to get the money back. She probably also knows as you stated " I always loan money to family and never get paid back" which is why she asked you she knows you have disposable money and she needed some. Now you are confirming everything she though. You got used and played and you are worried about hurting her feelings. congrats!


this has got to be a joke thread.... She has the money to fly to vegas, pay for a hotel, and I am sure gamble there (with your money). You don't see a problem with this. The bitches trip should be canceled so she can repay you.

You are pathetic... mental note, never hire this guy for debt collection services lol.

phrase comes to mind .... easy come easy go.

When people are this irresponsible with their money, whether they are blowing it on toys and shit, gambling it away themselves or letting other people leach all of their money off of them... it never lasts long. He may have made a lot, be making less now and not have anything left to show for it except a lot of happy friends and family who owe him money he will never see again.


LMAO that is exactly what happened. You "let go" 10K with out blinking... the money is gone. And you are right there are a lot of other people here who make more than you who wouldn't loan out $100. That is one of the reasons those people have more money than you... they didn't give theirs all away.

NO!

The only way you are ever going to get your money is if you ask her flat out, none of this nancy pants bullshit.

You will never get a cent if you act like her bitch. She is the one who should be sucking up to you! After all she had to come to you, it's HER who is doing her best at destroying the friendship.

This is NOT your problem, it's hers, lay it out to her.

Say :

nameofstupidbitch, i'm really disappointed in the way in which you have handled this Ten thousand dollars that I have loaned you.

You assured me that it would be back in my account within a week yet I haven't heard a word from you. Not even a promise or reason as to why I haven't received it.

So i'm asking you as this is alot of money to me, where is my money? Do you have it all? How much do you have? I need this money asap.

Family Friend????......before you loan money think about which one you need most :2 cents: GL

thanks for the mean wake up call will..im gonna get my money back