How many people on this board are maried? - GoFuckYourself.com

Manny The Freak · 12-27-2002, 10:52 PM

In our line of work it is quite difficult to keep a marriage alive. I am not planning nor do I ever see myself getting married. I think marriage puts restrictions on people thus preventing them from doing what they really want to do.

I tried dating a girl who was not in the business and it never worked out. If I had dated a girl in the biz I believe it would not work out because we would never see each other as much as we should. The line of work we have chosen is gruling and above all time consuming.

Rochard · 12-28-2002, 12:16 AM

Guilty.

I've been with my wife for nine years, married for four, and we have a two year old child.

My wife doesn't work in the business, but she's made an effort to understand it. My job requires me to do some things that would never fly in a normal marriage. However, my wife understands that my job may include filming to lesbians doing each other with chocolate syrup dripping from their breasts.

Work is work; The real fun is still at home.

Sarah_Jayne · 12-28-2002, 12:38 AM

I've been happily married for a bit over 6 years. Gets better every day. My hubby helps a bit with submitting but other than that he isn't in the biz. Sometimes I wish he was cause it would take a little heat off of me but he doesn't have the 'let shit fall off your back' attitude that you have to have to keep going in this neck of the woods.

Paul Markham · 12-28-2002, 01:27 AM

I'm on my third one and the best.

Eva is my partner in marraige and my partner in the business, none of what I have done in the last 4 years would have been possible without her. She's a tower of strength.

And now we have a beautiful baby daughter, all those I meet in Vegas be prepared to see the pictures

, our marriage is complete.

The happy couple;

andi_germany · 12-28-2002, 03:12 AM

Married.

Why do you think you cannot be married in this business? It is just a business unless you run around and want to fuck all your models. It is much easier to shoot if you have your wife on set. The models feel much more confortable. As I am European I will never understand most of the american women. It might be harder to be in business in the US and find a wife that has no problems with porn.

I always wondered why American women think they have to give it up when they have sex? Don't they enjoy sex?

aleck · 12-28-2002, 03:20 AM

i'm ok with my wifey, no probs coming from my biz at all.

oh, there is one - 'turn off ur fucking computer and come to me' - that's all :-)

ServerGenius · 12-28-2002, 03:39 AM

I'm married and my wife has no problems what so ever. Actually
she helps me run my business which probably would be a mess
without her.

DynaMite

funkmaster · 12-28-2002, 03:43 AM

"In our line of work it is quite difficult to keep a marriage alive."

... been living together with my girl for 9 years now, will we get married ... give me one good reason why we should ??

Paul Markham · 12-28-2002, 03:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by funkmaster
"In our line of work it is quite difficult to keep a marriage alive."

... been living together with my girl for 9 years now, will we get married ... give me one good reason why we should ??

Children.

KRL · 12-28-2002, 06:16 AM

Been married twice. First time in my early 20's and it was a short one. Second was much better, had some great times, she gave me a fantastic son, but when she hit her 40's things changed I guess and she fell out of love with me. We're still great friends after 15 years since we first met and had an incredibly amicable divorce.

At this stage, after having 2 and being older, you tend to be a bit more picky and take your time finding the right one.

Marriage is a good experience, but its not right for everyone. It has a lot of pluses, and an equal number of minuses. Before you get married, I highly recommend living together for several years, just to be sure you are fully compatible on a day in day out basis and don't get bored and tired of the routines that inevitably happen. You also have to be sure you have matching goals and aspirations.

My first wife didn't care about money and couldn't handle my entrepreneurial nonstop work style. My second like to shop so she loved me working my ass off. LOL

Beastiepoo · 12-28-2002, 06:20 AM

*raises hand*

Very happily married. Baby due next month. We both work in the biz and find it very comfortable and easy. And there is none of this 'Honey, I've got to work late at the office' crap.

demented · 12-28-2002, 06:22 AM

Im 21 years old. 2 beautiful baby girls. Been married 2 years. Filed for divorce about 3 months ago.

Just didn't work.

PornBroker · 12-28-2002, 07:31 AM

happily married
been together 5 years
she had our second baby 7 hours ago!!

sinmaster · 12-28-2002, 07:39 AM

Very happily married for 16 years, 2 kids.
My wife has no problems at all with this biz, she did at first until she seen a couple of checks and then it was all good, she didn't think I was actually trying to make money at first.

Sarah_Jayne · 12-28-2002, 08:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PornBroker

she had our second baby 7 hours ago!!

Big time congrats!

2spy · 12-28-2002, 08:38 AM

Married --------5 kids------3 in college-----3 grandbabies

Life is good------

It depends on how the both of you handle it.

Some times it takes age, and growth to discover a deep understanding of your love for one another.

what you do to make a good life for the both of you should be a partnership even if the other is involved in some other line of work

dirtyone · 12-28-2002, 08:40 AM

Negative... but I am always on the look out for the future ex mrs dirtyone.

strainer · 12-28-2002, 08:56 AM

Happily married for 19 years w/ 3 kids. Wife is still in shape and as hot as my models.

She has no problem with the business and even sometimes operates a camera for me.

Married people live longer.

Donnie Gangsta · 12-28-2002, 11:52 AM

I'm not married but when my girlfriend first asked me what I do, I told her 'the best I can' ... she still doesn't know

HeadPimp · 12-28-2002, 12:22 PM

Married almost ten years. She helps interview models, photo shoots and organize trips to Vegas. She even shoots some content for me...

I consider myself very lucky as most women I have ever met wouldn't be as cool as my wife is. I done feel sorry for the rest of you.

"Yes dear we are shooting POV content today..."

Slick · 12-28-2002, 12:37 PM

I'm 28 years old and have been with the same girl for 12 years and have been married for 2 and a half of those years. We've got 3 children.

My wife understands what I have to do to make money in the business although every now and then, it does get to her that I'm sitting on my computer looking at babes all day while working.

Marriage isn't that bad, it's always nice coming home and having a family there to actually be happy to see ya

Tala · 12-28-2002, 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PornBroker
happily married
been together 5 years
she had our second baby 7 hours ago!!

MUCH CONGRATS!!!!

Just got married on Halloween, although no papers were filed. I see no reason to inform an already overbearing government that I really love the guy I've been shaggin for the past three years. *shrug*

gigi · 12-28-2002, 01:05 PM

Huge Congrats Porn Broker!!

15 years together, 11 years married for me. Because I'm the wife there isn't any 'why do you look at naked chicks all day' scenario around here. We have 3 boys, and despite a vasectomy in March, we are recently expecting number 4. *yikes*

Hubby is perfectly fine with me doing what I do, although when I first started and money wasn't actually pouring in he complained alot that I was on my computer more than with him. But once the checks started coming in he had quite the change of heart.

Hubby comes with me to Vegas, and he stocks up his igallery bag with all the freebies and naked pics he can muster up...lol.

ytcracker · 12-28-2002, 01:37 PM

yea im young and married and my wife is real dope.

nothing to do with the business, uses a computer for nothing more than spider solitaire, but she is honestly where i turn for support in any matter.

baby on the way - pimpin aint easy.

i thought being a player was the way to go for a while, but it gets pretty old and empty. it's reassuring to know that even if everything else around me was to change, she would still be there, and frankly that's all i need.

vangend · 12-28-2002, 04:22 PM

I have been married for almost 4 months, been together for about 6 years.
She use to do some adult sites aswell but got fucking lazy and pregnant right after the wedding.

And keep on giving comments on what I should type here.

12-27-2002, 10:52 PM	#1
Manny The Freak Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Everywhere. Posts: 1,506	How many people on this board are maried? In our line of work it is quite difficult to keep a marriage alive. I am not planning nor do I ever see myself getting married. I think marriage puts restrictions on people thus preventing them from doing what they really want to do. I tried dating a girl who was not in the business and it never worked out. If I had dated a girl in the biz I believe it would not work out because we would never see each other as much as we should. The line of work we have chosen is gruling and above all time consuming. __________________

12-28-2002, 12:16 AM	#2
Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,050	Guilty. I've been with my wife for nine years, married for four, and we have a two year old child. My wife doesn't work in the business, but she's made an effort to understand it. My job requires me to do some things that would never fly in a normal marriage. However, my wife understands that my job may include filming to lesbians doing each other with chocolate syrup dripping from their breasts. Work is work; The real fun is still at home. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

12-28-2002, 01:27 AM	#4
Paul Markham Too old to care Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: On the sofa, watching TV or doing my jigsaws. Posts: 52,943	I'm on my third one and the best. Eva is my partner in marraige and my partner in the business, none of what I have done in the last 4 years would have been possible without her. She's a tower of strength. And now we have a beautiful baby daughter, all those I meet in Vegas be prepared to see the pictures , our marriage is complete. The happy couple; __________________ Blowout deal. 880 videos, 2,400 image sets, plus many RAW videos. $500. PM me for a deal. Skype Paulmarkham70

12-28-2002, 03:20 AM	#6
aleck Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 940	i'm ok with my wifey, no probs coming from my biz at all. oh, there is one - 'turn off ur fucking computer and come to me' - that's all :-) __________________ come trade shemale traffic here

12-28-2002, 03:39 AM	#7
ServerGenius Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Amsterdam Posts: 9,377	I'm married and my wife has no problems what so ever. Actually she helps me run my business which probably would be a mess without her. DynaMite __________________ \| http://www.sinnerscash.com/ \| ICQ: 370820 \| Skype: SinnersCash \| AdultWhosWho \|

12-28-2002, 12:38 AM	#3
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	I've been happily married for a bit over 6 years. Gets better every day. My hubby helps a bit with submitting but other than that he isn't in the biz. Sometimes I wish he was cause it would take a little heat off of me but he doesn't have the 'let shit fall off your back' attitude that you have to have to keep going in this neck of the woods.

12-28-2002, 03:12 AM	#5
andi_germany Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Germany Posts: 768	Married. Why do you think you cannot be married in this business? It is just a business unless you run around and want to fuck all your models. It is much easier to shoot if you have your wife on set. The models feel much more confortable. As I am European I will never understand most of the american women. It might be harder to be in business in the US and find a wife that has no problems with porn. I always wondered why American women think they have to give it up when they have sex? Don't they enjoy sex?

12-28-2002, 03:43 AM	#8
funkmaster So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: shell beach Posts: 7,938	"In our line of work it is quite difficult to keep a marriage alive." ... been living together with my girl for 9 years now, will we get married ... give me one good reason why we should ??

12-28-2002, 06:16 AM	#10
KRL Entrepreneur Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Posts: 31,429	Been married twice. First time in my early 20's and it was a short one. Second was much better, had some great times, she gave me a fantastic son, but when she hit her 40's things changed I guess and she fell out of love with me. We're still great friends after 15 years since we first met and had an incredibly amicable divorce. At this stage, after having 2 and being older, you tend to be a bit more picky and take your time finding the right one. Marriage is a good experience, but its not right for everyone. It has a lot of pluses, and an equal number of minuses. Before you get married, I highly recommend living together for several years, just to be sure you are fully compatible on a day in day out basis and don't get bored and tired of the routines that inevitably happen. You also have to be sure you have matching goals and aspirations. My first wife didn't care about money and couldn't handle my entrepreneurial nonstop work style. My second like to shop so she loved me working my ass off. LOL __________________ If you would like to develop your domains, you can lease inexpensive foreign labor from the leaders in the field at iWebmasters.com TO LOWER YOUR COSTS AND INCREASE YOUR PRODUCTION! * * * * * * * * * * * * Domains Adult News KRL's Newsletter Biz Tips Just Listed Domains

12-28-2002, 06:20 AM	#11
Beastiepoo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: In a clog shop thinking about tulips Posts: 1,971	raises hand Very happily married. Baby due next month. We both work in the biz and find it very comfortable and easy. And there is none of this 'Honey, I've got to work late at the office' crap. __________________ Dammit! My timing SUCKS! Hot body piercing jewellery at discounted prices - Click here! Got Goth traffic?? Make money with it at DarkPassions - Click Here!

12-28-2002, 06:22 AM	#12
demented Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Cincinnati Ohio Posts: 2,388	Im 21 years old. 2 beautiful baby girls. Been married 2 years. Filed for divorce about 3 months ago. Just didn't work.

12-28-2002, 07:31 AM	#13
PornBroker Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 686	happily married been together 5 years she had our second baby 7 hours ago!! __________________ please allow me to introduce myself, I'm a man of wealth and taste...I've been around for a long long year stolen many man's soul and faith...I was around when jesus christ had his moment of doubt and pain...made damn sure that pilate washed his hands and sealed his fate...pleased to meet you hope you guess my name...but's what's puzzling you is the nature of my game...

12-28-2002, 07:39 AM	#14
sinmaster Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Oregon Posts: 376	Very happily married for 16 years, 2 kids. My wife has no problems at all with this biz, she did at first until she seen a couple of checks and then it was all good, she didn't think I was actually trying to make money at first. __________________

12-28-2002, 08:38 AM	#16
2spy Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 58	Married --------5 kids------3 in college-----3 grandbabies Life is good------ It depends on how the both of you handle it. Some times it takes age, and growth to discover a deep understanding of your love for one another. what you do to make a good life for the both of you should be a partnership even if the other is involved in some other line of work

12-28-2002, 08:40 AM	#17
dirtyone Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: God's Country (Georgia) Posts: 3,706	Negative... but I am always on the look out for the future ex mrs dirtyone.

12-28-2002, 08:56 AM	#18
strainer Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 418	Happily married for 19 years w/ 3 kids. Wife is still in shape and as hot as my models. She has no problem with the business and even sometimes operates a camera for me. Married people live longer.

12-28-2002, 11:52 AM	#19
Donnie Gangsta Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 1,104	I'm not married but when my girlfriend first asked me what I do, I told her 'the best I can' ... she still doesn't know

12-28-2002, 12:22 PM	#20
HeadPimp Bad Mo-Fo Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 2,772	Married almost ten years. She helps interview models, photo shoots and organize trips to Vegas. She even shoots some content for me... I consider myself very lucky as most women I have ever met wouldn't be as cool as my wife is. I done feel sorry for the rest of you. "Yes dear we are shooting POV content today..."

12-28-2002, 12:37 PM	#21
Slick Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Houghton, MI Posts: 7,338	I'm 28 years old and have been with the same girl for 12 years and have been married for 2 and a half of those years. We've got 3 children. My wife understands what I have to do to make money in the business although every now and then, it does get to her that I'm sitting on my computer looking at babes all day while working. Marriage isn't that bad, it's always nice coming home and having a family there to actually be happy to see ya

12-28-2002, 01:05 PM	#23
gigi Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada Posts: 691	Huge Congrats Porn Broker!! 15 years together, 11 years married for me. Because I'm the wife there isn't any 'why do you look at naked chicks all day' scenario around here. We have 3 boys, and despite a vasectomy in March, we are recently expecting number 4. yikes Hubby is perfectly fine with me doing what I do, although when I first started and money wasn't actually pouring in he complained alot that I was on my computer more than with him. But once the checks started coming in he had quite the change of heart. Hubby comes with me to Vegas, and he stocks up his igallery bag with all the freebies and naked pics he can muster up...lol. __________________ eMail ICQ: 32862272

12-28-2002, 01:37 PM	#24
ytcracker stc is the greatest Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: rip sean murray Posts: 12,403	yea im young and married and my wife is real dope. nothing to do with the business, uses a computer for nothing more than spider solitaire, but she is honestly where i turn for support in any matter. baby on the way - pimpin aint easy. i thought being a player was the way to go for a while, but it gets pretty old and empty. it's reassuring to know that even if everything else around me was to change, she would still be there, and frankly that's all i need. __________________ www.ytcracker.com \| www.digitalgangster.com i love you

12-28-2002, 04:22 PM	#25
vangend Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: South Africa Posts: 29	I have been married for almost 4 months, been together for about 6 years. She use to do some adult sites aswell but got fucking lazy and pregnant right after the wedding. And keep on giving comments on what I should type here.