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Been married twice. First time in my early 20's and it was a short one. Second was much better, had some great times, she gave me a fantastic son, but when she hit her 40's things changed I guess and she fell out of love with me. We're still great friends after 15 years since we first met and had an incredibly amicable divorce.
At this stage, after having 2 and being older, you tend to be a bit more picky and take your time finding the right one.
Marriage is a good experience, but its not right for everyone. It has a lot of pluses, and an equal number of minuses. Before you get married, I highly recommend living together for several years, just to be sure you are fully compatible on a day in day out basis and don't get bored and tired of the routines that inevitably happen. You also have to be sure you have matching goals and aspirations.
My first wife didn't care about money and couldn't handle my entrepreneurial nonstop work style. My second like to shop so she loved me working my ass off. LOL
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