As with everything. But to start off with such a negative view seems a little sad to me. I'd rather be positive about things :) It's much better to be that way. You can have just as much fun, and feel good about life while doing it.

Sebastian is in a foul mood tonight for some reason. :)
It was good seeing you at the show Dutch...You're so damn busy I don't ever get to see you anymore around town.

Tune into Claudia-Marie's site tonight at 7 (pacific time) and say hello to her. We'll be streaming live

new to GFY?.. Or did you just come out of church and you're all hyped up about positive things?

I am a positive guy actually, however I am also a realist. And I will say things how I see them. In this instant I also realize that no matter what is being said it is not going to make a difference to anyone, so I might as well have some fun with it, right?

Trust me when I say that at one point in Perrie's life she will be like "that fucking asshole on GFY was right".. this shit does suck and it did bite me in the ass.


It might seem awesome to you that she finds chicks etc and you guys have tons of fun, and trust me I am all for that type of stuff. But I have seen it so many times dude, serious..

Just one example of a few friends of mine who did the same thing he thought he had it made, then one day she is cranky, he had a rough day at work, things get out of hand and they end up fighting. he ends up calling one of the chicks they used to share, he made the mistake to bang her, she found out and all hell broke lose..

Shit happens quick and looks like you have a lot of fun but you are also setting yourself up.. :thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Going to enjoy some dinner now.. Hope you guys enjoy it as long as possible and I mean that.

So because it's happened that way to people you know or have heard of.. That's the way it'll happen to EVERYONE? No.

Dave & I know each other... You don't know us.

you are right, I am.. rough day (week).. Maybe I shouldn't be on GFY right now. The I end up apologizing later.. lol

Why do I have to log on, I was hoping you'd say maybe I should come by.. heheh..

Going for dinner now.. Miss hanging out with you man.

Come on over. The show starts in an hour. :)

Difference is ... I'm not a cunt and would NEVER call up some girl and fuck her. So there you go :) Dude ... doesn't matter how many things you've seen ... you will not know someone's relationship or situation.

It's like me saying you're a virgin loser who can't get pussy so you shoot girls to get them naked. It'd be generalizing! And I don't do that.... you shouldn't either.

It's cool to be confident, but your cocky attitude is a little off base :) Glad you have an opinion ... you're just saying shit as if everything and everyone is the same. Which you should know isn't true.

Also ... Perrie and me have been literally together 24 hours a day , 7 days a week ... for all but two weeks of our almost 5 year relationship. We work together, live together, and literally all of our friends are mutual. We have zero flaws in our relationship, and have never had a proper argument. We've had disagreements, but we're both adult enough to not be a dick to each other. So we don't let arguments happen.

Some people can't believe that is possible ... that's because they've had shitty luck with girlfriends/boyfriends. We're just lucky I guess.

Thanks for the concern. But Perrie's too laid back to one day start complaining about the idea she brought up 4 years ago. :)

I'd like to add. If Perrie or me ever said we didn't want the threesomes anymore, both of us would stop immediately. :) I'd be 100% happy to do so.

Grr! It annoys me when people tell me how things in MY life are going to happen when they don't even know me! *angry face*

LOL! :) Doesn't matter!

EDIT: Wait ... I could have just said that over the desk. :D

lol at zero flaws

Well... you know what I mean ... I mean it's damn near perfect :) Sure, we don't see eye to eye on everything ... but as I said before ... we're grown up enough to work shit out without an argument :)

We've been together for almost 5 years. Sorry but everyone we know constantly tells us they think we're perfect together ... and you know what? It's true. And I don't mind saying it. So many cynical guys here. I'm in my 30's ... not exactly a love sick teen. I know life. I've been married before. Had a pretty shitty time of it. So you want cynical? I should be cynical. I got divorced and all the blame heaped on me, and a massive bill ...

But being with a girl like Perrie is a breath of fresh air. Even 5 years into the relationship, I'm still feeling pretty fucking happy about it.

Good stuff if you ask me! :D

Join the club... me and my wife (Smurfette) have been into the lifestyle for 11 years now, but we like it all... she enjoys women and men and I just stick to the women! lol

i'm 100% happy in my relationship with my girl. i just don't feel the need to spout all about it, and we *definitely* aren't perfect :) always a work in progress. all good, i'm glad you have found someone you can be happy with. cheers :glugglug

That's cool. And as mentioned before, doing what you wanna do is awesome. 11 years? And you haven't had a break up over it? Well, whaddya know ... there's hope for us after all! :D hehe.

Good work :)

Spout about it? Hmm. I get a lot of negativity because I am happy and enjoy saying I'm happy with my girlfriend. I'm not spouting. I bet your girl would LIKE you to speak up to others about it occasionally.

Plus, please note that I was only bringing these things up because Sebastian was trying his damnedest to make it look like there were cracks or there would be cracks. Which I didn't personally appreciate. Would you have just sat there and accepted those comments about your 100% happy relationship?

nope no breaks up... but we have seen alot of couples break up over the lifestyle... ground rules and communication is the key!

Absolutely! That is essential. And I definitely never withhold any thoughts I have to Perrie. And she gives the same back. At one point a couple of years ago ... for a few months, Perrie's confidence got low because she'd put on a few pounds while being off after an operation. She felt very insecure about her body ... and she immediately told me. And I immediately said I didn't want threesomes until she was ready again. A few months passed, she got her confidence back, and she said she wanted them. It's hugely important, I agree, to be communicative.

You guys clearly do it right! :)

why are you slowly creeping into being a suitcase pimp?

biz that bad?

Biz is terrible. I'm pimping your mum tommorow :D

lol calm down, dude. it's a message board, and you have no idea of what my girl wants or needs. she certainly isn't into me yapping about her on on gofuckyourself.com. just firing out some bullshit comments, as usual, take it for what it is.

but thanks for the maritial advice lol.

Now you know how I feel ! LOL! I am calm, and I wasn't saying what your girl wants or needs ... in fact, I didn't mention her needs once :) hehe.

Ok, I'm done now :D LOL! It appears that no one listens to me, and gets the wrong end of the stck. I'm also taking those pics down.

Was fun :)

Dave, after reading this, I want an extra discount on my toon, you have it too good...

if you are into public sex why is it only her face in the photos to be immortalized forever on the internet?

why not share the exposure?

"I bet your girl would LIKE you to speak up to others about it occasionally."

not that i give a shit. and we can spin this all evening (it's evenign where i am, and i'm bored waiting to pick someone up from a meeting. it's all good, i can no longer even get remotely worked up about anything on here. gfy is just one huge running joke.

my mom doesn't slum with emo faggots posting pics of naive young girls sucking their cocks on the internet in order to get their e-penis hard.

"I bet your girl would LIKE you to speak up to others about it occasionally."

not that i give a shit. and we can spin this all evening (it's evening where i am, and i'm bored waiting to pick someone up from a meeting. it's all good, i can no longer even get remotely worked up about anything on here. i think it was around 6 years ago i actually cared enough to get pissed (around the time ibill went under). gfy is just one huge running joke.

its all fun and games until you come home to your girl fucking another girl when you were supposed to be gone. although i suppose i say this somewhat out of jealousy but it does seem that most of the time things that are too good to be true often blow up in your face.

No ... she slums with the guys I sell her skanky ass to man :) You should know this ... you always ask for a cut of the cash! :)

appologize for double post. getting old.

No need to apologize :) And it's all good man :) You're right. This is just shooting crap around. Means nothing :)

Couples in the lifestyle have the strongest bonds

.... the highest level of communication and the most

The ultimate sense of security and dedication

and the hottest sex lives.

In fact, I would venture to say that of all the friends we had that were couples 10 years ago... the swingers are the only ones still together. The vanilla couples have since broke up divorced you name it.

@ Twisted and his pretty wife.. I will say that most couples do in fact start out as you guys have in seeking females only.

But don't worry pierrie you guys will be full swap in no time and you will likely end up being a hot wife or cuckin Dave for a while

then back to full to full swappin with select friends

but you guys will share a bond throughout all of this that most could never imagine...... and you will be happy the whole time and afterward.


I mean I dunno ... im just guessin that's how it goes

I don't see any pictures, hehe

Raf1, that's cuz jsut a few posts up, Dave said he pulled them down.

Dave and Perrie, don't let anyone try to rain on your parade. You two seem overall pleased with each other, and with the way I just read 78 posts to see what this was about, I noticed a few people came in and tried to ruin it, so to speak.

I sit here with a smug face thinking, damn these guys are jealous. What the hell is wrong with a couple of happy people shooting the shit on GFY?

I'm 100% happy with my fiance that I have been with for a little over 4 years, and as far as the swinging goes, we had talked about it about 3 years ago but it never went anywhere. We've had our squabbles and disagreements, but at the end of the day we still sleep in the same bed and wake up together (almost, LOL... I work way different hours than hers.)I may not be the best guy on the face of the earth but I treat my woman with respect and I try my best to keep her happy.

Long story short, if you don't like what these guys have to say, then don't try bringing them off their high horse., If they're happy, leave them be. Sheesh.

Join the crowd! The only way anyone can tell me what I am thinking or feeling is by being in my skin, and if that's possible, then there's some problems...

LOL! Never full swapping. The idea of being with another woman on my own makes me sick. And Perrie doesn't want to go with another guy. This is not me talking either ... from day one all the girl action we do was Perrie's idea. But what you say about the swingers etc is great. One day we'll stop doing what we do. We're not into the hard swinging ... but we just like a little bit of extra fun now and again. It satisfies Perrie's appetite for pussy, and gives me that little bit of two girl fun. Btw, any guys who think threesomes are better for the guys are wrong. Think about it ... two pussy's? Or a cock and a pussy? Seems like Perrie gets the most out of it !!! She gets more variety :D

Great post man ... I'm glad you're happy and life's good :)

thats what they want you to think but it goes bad more often than you think. you just don't hear about it. one couple i knew, the guys wife decided she wanted to leave her husband for one of the guys they'd been fooling around with so hubby decided to kill himself. he wasn't successful but definitly was not a happy ending.

I'm afraid that has nothing to do with the scene, and everything to do with moronic fuck heads like your friend's wife. Also him killing himself says more about how unstable his own mind is than anything else.