Guess it is a good ad for such phones :)

I am back btw.

Ask away, I have always tried to remain very open about things.
PS - that is far from selfish. Some people are more vain, some people care more about looks, some care about other issues. I personally would feel the same if I was not in my current body. I just am not that vain in mine. So I do not find it even a wee bit selfish. It is your leg that is fucked up for life after all.

PS I am back. I can not deal with the waiting. It is like waiting for a damn execution. Even if I have to deal with phone access.

Praying all goes well for you! Thinking the way you do, has got to be helping in a positive way. I have enjoyed your posts here on GFY, the mother in me wants to give you a HUGE virtual hug!

xoxo
~LL

If there is anyone I know who puts up a good fight, it's Dave. Hang in there my friend, my thoughts are with you and Julia. Hope you have an iphone with some decent games on it, I know waiting in a hospital seems like the time passes way slower than normal.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

You seem to have a positive attitude.... to me that really shows what a great person you truly are.

Stay strong!

fuck you are one tough ass dude..
wish you all best recovery. and try to get some nurse upskirt shots with that android of yours..

Dude what decade are you living in? LOL
Nurses stopped wearing skirts by the time I was 12-13 years old, and that was about a quarter of a century ago. Most all just wear nurse scrubs now which are nothing more than colorful smocks or shirt type things and scrub pants. Some wear doctor jackets/coats. None wear skirts though, if you see a skirt they work in admin.
Best you may get is a few down blouse shots if someone was interested, since the smocks have a deep V neck that goes to about the mid chest length. Technically they should wear shirts under them.

Next issue is most nurses in this area are Vietnamese or somewhere closes. Not my thing and to top that off, many are older. Have not located the Stanford nursing school staff yet.

I was lucky enough to meet Dave and his new wife the day they got married. What was impressive was what a great family they have. Why they picked a day that hot to get married outside is beyond me. What was it, like 120 degrees in the shade?
Dave when you get back, send me a email, lets get together!

Since you're there you may as well put in a request for the nurses to go back to wearing skirts...

Our thoughts are with you Dave and we wish you a speedy recovery.

AJ

Cause I wanted to get married on the 4th of July. Was the only way I could think of to make sure most all my friends had the day off each year, plus I not only get free fireworks on my anniversary where ever I travel in the US. I can get away with a BBQ or something easy going. so that is why.

It did not reach 120 that day, was close. But hey I did spring for outdoor air conditioning, tents, and free drinks.

I just remember the heat popping the tire on a trailer next door during the event, well atleast no humidity!
Other than the heat, it was a really good wedding!

God bless him and best wishes for his swift recovery.

LOL well yeah, it was hot. Just not 120 in the shade hot. :1orglaugh

Wish they would hurry the fuck up and take me. I fucking hate waiting on shit. Plus I am thirsty as hell and hungry too. Mostly have a desire for some damn liquid though. Need a giant glass of something cold.

Stay Positive! Goodluck

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Best of luck ASM!

Good luck with your surgery buddy

yeah they are taking me soon, just got word.

Good luck and stay strong

wow man, I thought you were already well after your previous surgery :( anyway, I wish you all the luck and hope you do well, I went thru the same shit last couple years and even when things may not look bright, there's always a light of hope. I don't have more words other than wishing you all the best

Wow I did not see this thread until now :helpme shows you how much I take notice of things :helpme

I knew you had some health problems but did not know just how bad it was :(

Belive it or not I always read your threads and posts because you do make a lot of sense(most of the time anyways :winkwink:)

I really wish you all the best and a very speedy recovery and Im sure a lot of people on here will be thinking about you

Hope surgery is going okay for you right now :) :) :)

and wow at your hemoglobin getting so low.. that's nuts! Hopefully they get it all cleared up so you can get the wound closed :)

And hope you get the friendly morphine drip this evening :) after surgery...


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Never met you ASM but I hope all goes well for you and i wish you a speedy recovery best of luck buddy Andrew :)

Good luck with the surgery.

Best wishes to you ASM

Only positive thoughts for you buddy! :thumbsup:thumbsup

Best of luck.

Damn ASM what a trooper and positive guy you are. Makes me ashamed to complain about ANYTHING going wrong in my life right now.

Stay strong & be well.

Yeah money doesn't matter when you see things like this. ASM is a strong willed guy, let's just keep our fingers crossed that the docs don't make him look like his avatar pic.

All the best, good luck and definitely stay strong!

Good Luck with everything, And to some degree I definitely know what you mean when you say murphy makes you pay for every damn thing you do in life, It's not comparable with your situation but has almost made me homeless...

May all go well !!

Best of luck and best wishes ASM, my prayers go out to you.:helpme

Best of luck to you! Here's a sexy nurse to get you started on your recovery! :winkwink:

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Sending good thoughts your way. Its always been a pleasure chatting with you :)

All the best man! Everything gonna be alright. You are a good man so good karma is with you! :thumbsup

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Our thoughts are with you from irc

You fucking troll!~ Go fuck off and die! :321GFY

Well I read all the messages in this thread, took 20 minutes of my time but it was 20 minutes well spent... Its nice to see the Adult community pulling together and wishing ASM best wishes... So I wish the surgery went well and wish u a quick recovery.

When your back at 100%, would love to some business with you but for now take care of yourself & all of us at GFY are also thinking about you... & the most important person in your life, your Wife. Loves you dearly & her prayers will pull you through.

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best of luck ASM :thumbsup

Well I made it fine through surgery.

Still have the legs for now. One should go during the next surgery and if all goes well with that surgery then I can get the other lopped off.

Oh I have to say this often, people can feel free to ask any type of questions they wish. If something is too personal I will just say so. Doubt any would be. However this does not always extend to business questions. Easier to answer questions than fill everyone in via email or guess at stuff that people are curious about.

No morphine drips for me. That shit barely works anyways. Makes me wonder how people end up loosing everything and sucking cock over it. I have a pain button with another drug, plus I get push (shots) by request - up to 4mg every 4 hours and 4mg more at dressing change time.

The wound is fucking massive. Looks like a shark took a bite out of my ass, but worse.

As for nurses - on the room floors there are next to no "white" nurses and those that I have seen are typically old. The rest are Vietnamese and Indian (dot kind). All the white girls seem to be in the OR staging room. Yeah not a fan of Indians or Vietnamese girls. Some can be cute, they are just rare.
Then NOBODY wears skirts, they wear scrubs or smocks and scrub pants. Anyone you see in a skirt is either a visitor or works in administration. Only nudity slips you may see are down smock shots. Mostly due to the deep V cut in the front, the lack of wearing a tshirt underneath, plus they hang their ID cards from one side often. Typically they use a retractable leash with keys or cards on them. The leash is not heavy but heavy enough to allow the shirt to swing open some when they lean over. No need to drop shit either. So if you like natural boobs (I do) on ethnic girls (not really my thing) getting flashed (seems hotter) you would like it. Personally not interested in other girls though, I like my wife.

ha you are a trooper, i know people who have root canals that act like they just had major surgery and you are the complete opposite

technology is amazing, must make things so much better for people who are in hospital

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Keep positive ASM and stay just the way you are. Thanks for all the help with all the random questions I emailed you. I got the goosebumps when I read what you're going through. You're a warrior and if I'm ever in a tough spot, I'll remember how a great person handles the situation like yourself.

David... Claudia and I are pulling for ya buddy. :)

Question...what specifically is your medical problem that is requiring the surgeries and requiring that your legs be amputated?

Good luck ASM! Stay strong, man.

I hope all goes well for you with the surgery. I will be thinking good thoughts for you

Just saw this thread. Had no idea you were in the hospital. You sound like you have a great perspective on it. Keep it up! I always enjoy your posts. Look forward to many more once you are outta there.

In reverse, the leg amputation was at first something I wanted to do but was holding off until I was better health wise (major surgery you know) and when the legs or leg could be used for something like a skin graft or muscle flap (look them up if you want). Thankfully I did not do it earlier as they need one now.

Anyways one of the requirements to ever use that chair that others ran the sig donation thread for and people here donated their sigs for that was up for auction, was that I would need to amputate my left leg. Reason being you need to have the ability to bend both legs and my left leg has tightened up and will not bend enough. Could just of had the tendons and muscles cut but to tell you the truth. My legs are just useless heavy time bombs that could go off at any time. Not to mention they make me less mobile and fuck with my quality of life - so I wanted them gone.

Now they need the leg because back in May when I went missing. I was dealing with my 2nd type of cancer. I had already had and dealt with bladder cancer a couple years ago. Anyways when they were removing it they had to cut out a huge chunk from my ass. That was left open due to surgery complications. I wanted to deal with it back at Stanford, where I am. They need the leg to close up the hole with a flap operation. If that takes, they will then remove the other. If it fails they have a backup.

That is the reason for that. I do have other issues, many.

good luck man