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SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:00 AM

I think people often forget this is GFY and "fucking around" not "serious discussions on who is legit". Those of you who took the thread title in any way serious considering the content "lighten up".

For those that know me/trust me or would value my opinion in any way would understand it was meant to be a joke. If anything actually promoting dg ( i would consider it bad taste to do the same thing to a company i didnt respect i.e. potshot )

Roald 08-04-2009 09:01 AM

On another note, look who shows up on that board:

Originally Posted by Alienx
Wouldnt bother going to GFY unless you like the funny pages.
Bunch of broke ass wannabee's and some of the dumbest so called webmaster's hang out there.
Try not to lower yer IQ reading it.


http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...18-alienx.html

Guess what its AlienQ LOL

JFK 08-04-2009 09:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Roald (Post 16144919)
On another note, look who shows up on that board:

Originally Posted by Alienx
Wouldnt bother going to GFY unless you like the funny pages.
Bunch of broke ass wannabee's and some of the dumbest so called webmaster's hang out there.
Try not to lower yer IQ reading it.


http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...18-alienx.html

Guess what its AlienQ LOL

he's alive and well in Blackhatworld ?:Oh crap

dav3 08-04-2009 09:11 AM

im guessing at least 2-3 more pages

lazycash 08-04-2009 09:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 16144546)
I'm lost...

Ak was referring to the disclaimer in the initial post and DG was referring to there not being a disclaimer in the thread title.

lazycash 08-04-2009 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Roald (Post 16144919)
On another note, look who shows up on that board:

Originally Posted by Alienx
Wouldnt bother going to GFY unless you like the funny pages.
Bunch of broke ass wannabee's and some of the dumbest so called webmaster's hang out there.
Try not to lower yer IQ reading it.


http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...18-alienx.html

Guess what its AlienQ LOL

Lol, doridori just showed up there also, must be the place to go after you get banned from gfy.

Roald 08-04-2009 09:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK (Post 16144940)
he's alive and well in Blackhatworld ?:Oh crap

probably making mad bling :thumbsup

Shap 08-04-2009 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16144883)
i would have if he asked me nicely.

the whole thread was meant to be a farce that obviously more than one person completely missed, I guess my skills as a comedian are lacking lol

I have no problems with datinggold this thread wasn't even a poke at them , it was merely a funny reflection of that thread. Like a drug dealer complaining the judge didnt use proper legal procedure.

I guess i picked the wrong time of day or everyone is cranky lately cuz o the tubes lol.

If i could change the title myself easily i already would have done it before dg ever posted because in hindsight it was more inflamatory than it was meant to be ( !!! was supposed to be ??? )

I'll fly datinggold in my sig for a month with a "retraction" for free but i aint gonna do shit if you make threats or are rude, especially when no ill will was intended.

Do you realize how hard Dating Gold works to have an honest and clean and reputable reputation? When you hit enter, to publish this thread, you undid all that. A business' reputation is nothing to joke about. Calling them a SCAM is no joke. That's a serious claim that no owner ever takes lightly.

trishauptown 08-04-2009 09:20 AM

Love to my Dating Gold Crew!!!

KillerK 08-04-2009 09:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shap (Post 16144980)
Do you realize how hard Dating Gold works to have an honest and clean and reputable reputation? When you hit enter, to publish this thread, you undid all that. A business' reputation is nothing to joke about. Calling them a SCAM is no joke. That's a serious claim that no owner ever takes lightly.

Why do you give a shit?

Redmanthatcould 08-04-2009 09:28 AM

Bad thread title.

And I love BHW...I get more useful info off there than DP. Probably 'cause they repost the good stuff off DP, so I don't have to there :)

AK 08-04-2009 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gimme-website (Post 16144019)
A common complaint on that thread is how bad DG support sucks. And unf I have to agree.

I had 150 bucks a month from tier 2 with DG, overnight that went down to zero. There could be many reasons for this.. im not shouting scam. But I wanted to know why....

I added a few DG reps on icq and just got a 2 week runaround.
Silence/one word replys/promises to look into it.
I gave up in the end.

We take pride in our affiliate support team.
If you can tell us who you are, I can look it up and see what happens.

Shap 08-04-2009 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KillerK (Post 16144998)
Why do you give a shit?

Because it's bullshit. If it happened to Dating Gold it could happen to us or any other well established company. As a business owner this is serious and can't be swept under the rug. Obviously there are ways to go about it. Everybody goes about handling situations their own way. I'm not commenting on that. I'm just commenting on the fact that creating a title with PROGRAM NAME is SCAM and it's supposed to be a joke is not acceptable. If I ran GFY i'd ban anybody who did that.

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shap (Post 16144980)
Do you realize how hard Dating Gold works to have an honest and clean and reputable reputation? When you hit enter, to publish this thread, you undid all that. A business' reputation is nothing to joke about. Calling them a SCAM is no joke. That's a serious claim that no owner ever takes lightly.

cmon now this is gfy , every sponsor has been called a scam/shave/etc at some point lol its almost a badge of respect. I didnt call them a scam infact I said quite the opposite i was merely quoting the thread that i posted the reference to.

The point of this thread was 3 fold .. 1 to laugh 2 to make dg aware of the thread 3 in some magical land that this guy had a legit complaint he couldnt get it solved there.

Shap 08-04-2009 09:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16145025)
cmon now this is gfy , every sponsor has been called a scam/shave/etc at some point lol its almost a badge of respect. I didnt call them a scam infact I said quite the opposite i was merely quoting the thread that i posted the reference to.

The point of this thread was 3 fold .. 1 to laugh 2 to make dg aware of the thread 3 in some magical land that this guy had a legit complaint he couldnt get it solved there.

Do you realize how many people don't read the threads and just look at the titles? Ask Eric how many people hit gfy today? Then look at how many people hit this thread. The difference between those two is how many people read a title about DG being scam and don't know it's a joke.

Shap 08-04-2009 09:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16145025)
cmon now this is gfy , every sponsor has been called a scam/shave/etc at some point lol its almost a badge of respect. I didnt call them a scam infact I said quite the opposite i was merely quoting the thread that i posted the reference to.

The point of this thread was 3 fold .. 1 to laugh 2 to make dg aware of the thread 3 in some magical land that this guy had a legit complaint he couldnt get it solved there.

2 and 3 are cool and could have done with hey DG heads up for you. Or maybe even an email to them. AK is on here enough he's easy to reach. Of course that wouldn't have brought in the views this title did right?

1 i still don't see what was supposed to be funny? All you said is some funny replies. That's it. What was funny about the post?

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shap (Post 16145023)
Because it's bullshit. If it happened to Dating Gold it could happen to us or any other well established company. As a business owner this is serious and can't be swept under the rug. Obviously there are ways to go about it. Everybody goes about handling situations their own way. I'm not commenting on that. I'm just commenting on the fact that creating a title with PROGRAM NAME is SCAM and it's supposed to be a joke is not acceptable. If I ran GFY i'd ban anybody who did that.

alot worse things can happen than a joke thread posted about you.:2 cents:

brand0n 08-04-2009 09:47 AM

guys guys guys.. everyone calm down...

BradM 08-04-2009 09:48 AM

bla bla bla "it's a joke thread"
there's nothing funny about slander and libel when you're the owner of the biz on the receiving end

bla bla bla "fucking around" smokey. keep spinning, doesn't matter.

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shap (Post 16145040)
2 and 3 are cool and could have done with hey DG heads up for you. Or maybe even an email to them. AK is on here enough he's easy to reach. Of course that wouldn't have brought in the views this title did right?

1 i still don't see what was supposed to be funny? All you said is some funny replies. That's it. What was funny about the post?

it was on a "blackhat" forum , and he said it was "whitehat" traffic :)

people wanting to "spam" gfy with datinggold fake complaints from fake names..

among other things , sheesh it a corncopia of funny..

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16145088)
bla bla bla "it's a joke thread"
there's nothing funny about slander and libel when you're the owner of the biz on the receiving end

bla bla bla "fucking around" smokey. keep spinning, doesn't matter.

step away from the hate machine son, keep your hands in the air.

AK 08-04-2009 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16145025)
cmon now this is gfy , every sponsor has been called a scam/shave/etc at some point lol its almost a badge of respect. I didnt call them a scam infact I said quite the opposite i was merely quoting the thread that i posted the reference to.

The point of this thread was 3 fold .. 1 to laugh 2 to make dg aware of the thread 3 in some magical land that this guy had a legit complaint he couldnt get it solved there.

2. it's a blackhat world, we do not post there.

3. still trying to figure out who this guy is. he claimed to have made $6k/mo with us, and i still don't recall banning an affiliate with that kind of production.

If you can help us talk to this guy, we would ask what his affiliate ID is. I have a feeling that this guy is a hater or competitor.

If I don't have anything to look for, I am going to have this thread removed.

PS: Thanks Shap for standing up for us. :thumbsup

DatingGold 08-04-2009 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trishauptown (Post 16144985)
Love to my Dating Gold Crew!!!


On that note I'm outta this lame thread. Smokey if you fuck with us again you'll be wiring your attorney a retainer to defend yourself and that's a promise.

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AK (Post 16145109)
2. it's a backchat world, we do not post there.

3. still trying to figure out who this guy is. he claimed to have made $6k/mo with us, and i still don't recall banning an affiliate with that kind of production.

If you can help us talk to this guy, we would ask what his affiliate ID is. I have a feeling that this guy is a hater or competitor.

If I don't have anything to look for, I am going to have this thread removed.

PS: Thanks Shap for standing up for us. :thumbsup

i'll try and find out some info if i can, but my bet would be he broke your tos because i have never heard ANY legit problems about datinggold.com , only good ratio's :)

Like i said sorry if you didnt find the thread funny , no ill will was intended , feel free to yank the thread.

Meeper 08-04-2009 09:59 AM

Yea I have to agree with Shap on this one, the title of this thread really should be changed. Saying you were just joking doesn't make a difference. No one can READ sarcasm through that title, seems like a pretty direct attack on DG and their reputation. Just my :2 cents:

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DatingGold (Post 16145119)
On that note I'm outta this lame thread. Smokey if you fuck with us again you'll be wiring your attorney a retainer to defend yourself and that's a promise.

if you make threats to me again , you will wish a lawyer could solve your problems.

I said i was sorry no ill will intended , dont make enemies out of potential friends.

Nasty 08-04-2009 10:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shap (Post 16144869)
That's how it is when you run a successful company. He has to be the guy you want to have a beer with and know not to fuck over because he can be a real asshole. It doesn't win you any popularity contests but it keeps the business rocking. :thumbsup

This may be the stupidest thing I have ever seen you write imho

sextoyking 08-04-2009 10:07 AM

Smokey,

I gotta agree with what Alan, Shap and the others said.

We have all been pissing on the boards from time to time over the years but to put that in the title of a board thread / post is going a bit far.

I know you said you were joking but it's true, people do read the titles and might / would get a bad impression if they saw that and didn't read the whole the post..

I might of put "this person called DG a scam" or something like that....

Smokey and Alan - Shake virtual hands, let the blood cool off and move on....

In a virtual world - reputation can mean alot or everything smokey :)

peace

Todd

IllTestYourGirls 08-04-2009 10:09 AM

I think anyone who says dating gold is hard to get hold of is a liar. :2 cents: I only do around 2k in business with them a month and they have gone out of their way a lot to help me out. And before that when I was doing less business they were just as helpful.

BradM 08-04-2009 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16145102)
step away from the hate machine son, keep your hands in the air.

no hate, just saying you nonchalantly post a lot of stuff and if this was about my company i wouldn't be jazzed.

lazycash 08-04-2009 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AK (Post 16145109)
2. it's a blackhat world, we do not post there.

3. still trying to figure out who this guy is. he claimed to have made $6k/mo with us, and i still don't recall banning an affiliate with that kind of production.

If you can help us talk to this guy, we would ask what his affiliate ID is. I have a feeling that this guy is a hater or competitor.

If I don't have anything to look for, I am going to have this thread removed.

PS: Thanks Shap for standing up for us. :thumbsup

I'd bet anything he exaggerated his payout to drum up more sympathy. Funny how he says he's been with DG for the longest time, then says he's only received 2 checks.

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 10:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16145199)
no hate, just saying you nonchalantly post a lot of stuff and if this was about my company i wouldn't be jazzed.

true. i prob wouldn't be either, but i would have been miffed for all of 2 seconds, then again i couldnt appreciate your position or dg's since im not in it. Just saying , lighten up, no need to be rude , i wasn't. If it was seriously a "problem" to dg's rep , the thread can be removed, if that "truly" wasnt enough i could post a retraction incase anyone got the wrong impression, but trying to piss on me is a fruitless effort.

seeandsee 08-04-2009 10:20 AM

sig spot :D

BradM 08-04-2009 10:20 AM

I'm hardly being rude smoke :) Goes to show you, you can't tell mood, attitude, sarcasm or what people REALLY mean on the net.

Guess you understand DGs position now.

GotGauge 08-04-2009 10:20 AM

I read the thread based on the words (Maybe), which is in the Title.
I believe he found some crazy stuff, posted it here on a board called Go Fuck Your Self!
I think everyone needs to just step back and drink some (insert beverage).
If someone is interested in promoting a company, and wont based on a Title on GFY, they have problems. Do a search in a SE, might be more threads thatneed killed..

IDK Everyone is right and everyone is wrong.

BradM 08-04-2009 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GotGauge (Post 16145221)
I read the thread based on the words (Maybe), which is in the Title.
I believe he found some crazy stuff, posted it here on a board called Go Fuck Your Self!
I think everyone needs to just step back and drink some (insert beverage).
If someone is interested in promoting a company, and wont based on a Title on GFY, they have problems. Do a search in a SE, might be more threads thatneed killed..

IDK Everyone is right and everyone is wrong.

I think you are sexy. That's what I think.

Pleasurepays 08-04-2009 10:45 AM

why would any regular member of a black hat forum possibly being doing something against an affiliate programs terms of service???

doesn't even make sense.

no sense at all

Robocrop 08-04-2009 10:49 AM

I think a real webmaster would overlook this thread and find out DG isnt under the gun here. But I guess you want surfers as affiliates? :)

Anyway maybe the title could be better..btw what happend to the fight between hardsextube and Shap?

Veevee 08-04-2009 10:53 AM

everything has been said hence, i'm sending love to DatingGold and this thread bears no purpose except malice.

SmokeyTheBear 08-04-2009 10:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GotGauge (Post 16145221)
I read the thread based on the words (Maybe), which is in the Title.
I believe he found some crazy stuff, posted it here on a board called Go Fuck Your Self!
I think everyone needs to just step back and drink some (insert beverage).
If someone is interested in promoting a company, and wont based on a Title on GFY, they have problems. Do a search in a SE, might be more threads thatneed killed..

IDK Everyone is right and everyone is wrong.

well put. Like i said i apologise to dg if they didnt find it funny. I can't honestly see how it could "hurt" their rep, its pretty golden and this kinda solidifies that. I can see getting miffed but not for long..

perhaps i overestimed some people, the joke was , honest company + outrageous claim = thread views, people read thread knowing outrageous title + outrageous poster = funny thread , laugh and go on with their day after seeing funny content in referenced url.

Glad the funny wasn't lost on you :thumbsup

TheDoc 08-04-2009 10:54 AM

I clicked the thread title to read the thread... it worked.

Did I think it hurt DatingGolds rep, of course not.. Only a complete moron trying to be a douche would actually think it hurt them.

And it's GFY people, if you don't like it, go fuck yourself.


Different Bros different day....

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 08-04-2009 11:05 AM

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AK 08-04-2009 11:23 AM

Okay, instead of getting the thread removed I have asked Eric to change the title.

We are not trying to hide anything. I can't find who the affiliate who posted on the BHW, then I can't tell our side of the story.

We do not ban affiliates without grounds.

If anyone has any questions about our program, please ask us directly.

Thanks again Eric.

minddust 08-04-2009 11:24 AM

Ouchies :ohsnap

Mickey_ 08-04-2009 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16145328)
well put. Like i said i apologise to dg if they didnt find it funny. I can't honestly see how it could "hurt" their rep, its pretty golden and this kinda solidifies that. I can see getting miffed but not for long..

perhaps i overestimed some people, the joke was , honest company + outrageous claim = thread views, people read thread knowing outrageous title + outrageous poster = funny thread , laugh and go on with their day after seeing funny content in referenced url.

Glad the funny wasn't lost on you :thumbsup

I have no dog in this fight and I'm on good terms with both parties, so my stance is neutral.

Smokey, let me try to shed some light, from a business owner's perspective, on why the thread title could be damaging. The main issue with the post is that you're assuming the people who read the thread title are regulars of gfy and are well aware of DG, the brand and their history.

You're not thinking of the potential affiliates that either just don't get the joke, don't know DG, won't click the link or don't frequent GFY regularly to understand the joke and are possibly left second guessing whether they should sign up to DG or a different program.

The two parties should find a way to undo the damage (thread title change, etc.) and just let it go. It consumes time and energy and does not generate any money.

Let's get back to making everyone money, shall we?

San 08-04-2009 11:31 AM

Mickey, you've got a huge motherfucking sig, anyone told you that yet?

JFK 08-04-2009 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by San (Post 16145501)
Mickey, you've got a huge motherfucking sig, anyone told you that yet?

That's cause he's a HUGE MO FO :thumbsup:thumbsup

dyna mo 08-04-2009 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 16144883)
i would have if he asked me nicely.

what grade are you in?

San 08-04-2009 11:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK (Post 16145522)
That's cause he's a HUGE MO FO :thumbsup:thumbsup

Well, for one, it's breaking this forums rules.

For other, it's simply disrespectful to other board members when your sig takes half the screen.

Bird 08-04-2009 11:43 AM

I tell Allan he is a Chump Pussy Bitch Ass Nigga once a week, and for some reason he still got my back.


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