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quiet · 11-27-2002, 12:24 AM

how many of you are in long term/live-in relationships?

i've been single for about 8 months (after a 5 year relationship), and i'm curious what your experiences have been.

do you think it's harder to meet people when your life revolves around the adult internet business?

...........

eru · 11-27-2002, 12:24 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
i've been single for about 8 months (after a 5 year relationship),

I guess you are masturabing a lot huh.

Fletch XXX · 11-27-2002, 12:24 AM

Fuck bro.

Now?

5 years in. Long term, yeah.

railz · 11-27-2002, 12:25 AM

Single for 18 months now.

And hating it.

WiredGuy · 11-27-2002, 12:26 AM

Single almost 2 years, not liking it very much...

WG

SleazyDream · 11-27-2002, 12:26 AM

that would all depend on the type of woman you want to meet

Kimmykim · 11-27-2002, 12:27 AM

Someone bump this thread next week lol

m0rph3us · 11-27-2002, 12:27 AM

go clubbing. get some pussy.

quiet · 11-27-2002, 12:28 AM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
Someone bump this thread next week lol

ouch.

eru · 11-27-2002, 12:28 AM

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Originally posted by m0rph3us
go clubbing. get some pussy.

Clubbing sucks. Dance around in a hot, smelly room.. woohoo.

TDF · 11-27-2002, 12:29 AM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
Someone bump this thread next week lol

lol

FlyingIguana · 11-27-2002, 12:29 AM

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Originally posted by eru

Clubbing sucks. Dance around in a hot, smelly room.. woohoo.

damn, clubs must suck in hawaii

Kimmykim · 11-27-2002, 12:30 AM

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Originally posted by quiet

ouch.

Don't try to trick me, I'm not the drunk one ;)

m0rph3us · 11-27-2002, 12:31 AM

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Originally posted by FlyingIguana

damn, clubs must suck in hawaii

agree.

pink_in_the_middle · 11-27-2002, 12:33 AM

Going on 6 years. Long term and happy

kuwawawah · 11-27-2002, 12:33 AM

just hit 12yrs on the 22nd of this month

Marcus · 11-27-2002, 12:34 AM

long term, but noone is married?

quiet · 11-27-2002, 12:34 AM

lol. now, where did i put my hemlock?

Fletch XXX · 11-27-2002, 12:36 AM

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Originally posted by Marcus
long term, but noone is married?

my girl is an athiest and has no concept of marriage.

I love it.

\m/

SleazyDream · 11-27-2002, 12:39 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
lol. now, where did i put my hemlock?

prediction - you'll find the woman you'll love and marry the second you stop looking for her and just start enjoying yourself for your own merits........

L0stMind · 11-27-2002, 12:39 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
lol. now, where did i put my hemlock?

Hahaha.

Calm down! (unless hemlocks a new beer in deadmonton?)

Your first problem is you stay inside too much I bet. Second problem is you are worrying about being single.

Just enjoy being single.. relax, do what you want and dont worry bout shit.

I am into 9 months of a relationship now...

Beastiepoo · 11-27-2002, 12:42 AM

Together nearly 4 years, married for 3, baby due in January. Very happy together. Can't really say that the internet has hindered our relationship either as we met online in a MUD.

As soon as I finish the day job (end of this week - woohoo!) we'll both be webmastering/designing/etc full time. Not bad for someone who thought porn was 'dirty' 6 years ago (yes, that was me).

railz · 11-27-2002, 12:43 AM

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Originally posted by Beastiepoo
Together nearly 4 years, married for 3, baby due in January. Very happy together. Can't really say that the internet has hindered our relationship either as we met online in a MUD.

As soon as I finish the day job (end of this week - woohoo!) we'll both be webmastering/designing/etc full time. Not bad for someone who thought porn was 'dirty' 6 years ago (yes, that was me).

Which MUD?

quiet · 11-27-2002, 12:43 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream

prediction - you'll find the woman you'll love and marry the second you stop looking for her and just start enjoying yourself for your own merits........

nah. actually i'm not looking at all. until recently, i didn't even want to think about a new relationship.

and at this point, i have no time for looking, regardless

drunken banter is fun though...

SetTheWorldonFire · 11-27-2002, 12:44 AM

5 going on 6 years with my ruca

p1mpdogg · 11-27-2002, 12:45 AM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
Going on 6 years. Long term and happy

did you mean going on 6". long and hard?

quiet · 11-27-2002, 12:45 AM

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Originally posted by Beastiepoo
Together nearly 4 years, married for 3, baby due in January. Very happy together. Can't really say that the internet has hindered our relationship either as we met online in a MUD.

As soon as I finish the day job (end of this week - woohoo!) we'll both be webmastering/designing/etc full time. Not bad for someone who thought porn was 'dirty' 6 years ago (yes, that was me).

damn, you met in a mud? a couple of years ago i read this book for a philosophy class: Life on The Screen - Identity In The Age Of The Internet.

there was much discussion of muds, and people who've met and married as a result. interesting.

EscortBiz · 11-27-2002, 12:46 AM

im really done with relationships never works out

J B · 11-27-2002, 12:46 AM

long-term long-distance relationship here... and I love it

CC · 11-27-2002, 12:50 AM

I've been with my boyfriend for over 6 years now. We both work in the adult industry...we stumbled into it together 4 years ago when we had our own amateur paysite and now we're doing bigger and better things

I'm very lucky

Cassie

The Other Steve · 11-27-2002, 12:50 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream

prediction - you'll find the woman you'll love and marry the second you stop looking for her and just start enjoying yourself for your own merits........

A very true statement - 6 years happily married and she makes more money with her websites than I do.

Kimmykim · 11-27-2002, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg

did you mean going on 6". long and hard?

Hahaha, your hand's wishing now too?

MiLo · 11-27-2002, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz
im really done with relationships never works out

so fucking true.

CC · 11-27-2002, 12:53 AM

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Originally posted by J B
long-term long-distance relationship here... and I love it

I'm glad to hear the long-distance thing is working out for ya! My boyfriend and I had to do it for a while (a year) and it wasn't too much fun.

CC · 11-27-2002, 12:54 AM

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Originally posted by MiLo TurboNegro

so fucking true.

You guys sound very bitter. Hehe.

p1mpdogg · 11-27-2002, 12:57 AM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim

Hahaha, your hand's wishing now too?

babe.. My girlfriend that i live with is candice from tricams.

Im hardly looking for any pussy for over 2 yrs now.

But we might be looking for a partner on the weekends sometimes.. you free? err available?

hahah

.:Frog:. · 11-27-2002, 12:57 AM

I'm in a 4 year relationship.
I'm one of those people who hates being single. Spending life alone sucks.

MiLo · 11-27-2002, 01:00 AM

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Originally posted by CC
You guys sound very bitter. Hehe.

Not bitter at all. I actually found that involving myself
in a relationship with a girl has been either frustrating,
dissapointing or unproductive.

So i stick to productivity and happiness.

Hell, i hate to be all alone when i go to bed.

But i just stick to my work, my beer and the occasional pussy.

EscortBiz · 11-27-2002, 01:08 AM

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Originally posted by CC

You guys sound very bitter. Hehe.

nah far from that

J B · 11-27-2002, 01:08 AM

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Originally posted by CC

I'm glad to hear the long-distance thing is working out for ya! My boyfriend and I had to do it for a while (a year) and it wasn't too much fun.

Well, I guess we spend more time together than many people that actually live together. The good thing is that she's been living in many different countries. She's Japanese, so she usually lives in Japan... until August this year she was living in Mexico and from next spring on probably in Spain... I visit her quite often, usually for 2-4 weeks... and she spends about 2 months a year here in Germany with me...

kuwawawah · 11-27-2002, 01:09 AM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz
im really done with relationships never works out

na... just need to find a girl with her own goals, it keeps her busy and gives you, your own time.

p1mpdogg · 11-27-2002, 01:09 AM

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Originally posted by J B

Well, I guess we spend more time together than many people that actually live together. The good thing is that she's been living in many different countries. She's Japanese, so she usually lives in Japan... until August this year she was living in Mexico and from next spring on probably in Spain... I visit her quite often, usually for 2-4 weeks... and she spends about 2 months a year here in Germany with me...

she sounds like a columbian drug lord.. nice travel patterns. on the run from the law? lol
j/k

EscortBiz · 11-27-2002, 01:11 AM

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Originally posted by kuwawawah

na... just need to find a girl with her own goals, it keeps her busy and gives you, your own time.

LOL very rare and if there is such a thing she is most likly a BBW and im not into that

theking · 11-27-2002, 01:19 AM

I have been married to many times. I have had "long term" relationships. I am not currently involved with anyone. I am not looking to get involved with anyone. I hope I never get involved with anyone ever again. I am perfectly content being alone. Well I am not really alone. I live with and care for my mother whose health is frail, but when she passes on I will be Ok with being alone.

J B · 11-27-2002, 01:21 AM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg

she sounds like a columbian drug lord.. nice travel patterns. on the run from the law? lol
j/k

LOL... far from it... would be cool though

Kimmykim · 11-27-2002, 01:27 AM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg

babe.. My girlfriend that i live with is candice from tricams.

Im hardly looking for any pussy for over 2 yrs now.

But we might be looking for a partner on the weekends sometimes.. you free? err available?

hahah

Never heard of her, is she the one you tried to sell the pics of to Greg for Fresh Photos?

p1mpdogg · 11-27-2002, 01:40 AM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim

Never heard of her, is she the one you tried to sell the pics of to Greg for Fresh Photos?

not sure actually.. i tried to sell greg the pics of a stripper/crackhead that worked at fantasy ranch in arlington.. she was such a pig, but i made some easy money off her.. Im not sure if i tried to sell pics of candice or not.. im sure greg still has the email in his inbox from about a year ago

^candice

MakeMeGrrrrowl · 11-27-2002, 01:51 AM

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Originally posted by kuwawawah

na... just need to find a girl with her own goals, it keeps her busy and gives you, your own time.

I think this is the biggest reason my relationships don't usually work out...I am most dedicated to my work, kids and then my man. Not that I am not loyal, or trustworthy...just kinda put him (when I have one) on the back burner til my other obligations are taken care of...thus very hard to maintain a healthy relationship.

I say I will never date anyone 'seriously' in the adult industry...but looks like I may have to if I want a lasting relationship. I think those who have been or are in our situation and mindset are really the only ones who can understand our dedication, and that makes things VERY hard.

EscortBiz · 11-27-2002, 01:53 AM

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Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

I think this is the biggest reason my relationships don't usually work out...I am most dedicated to my work, kids and then my man. Not that I am not loyal, or trustworthy...just kinda put him (when I have one) on the back burner til my other obligations are taken care of...thus very hard to maintain a healthy relationship.

I say I will never date anyone 'seriously' in the adult industry...but looks like I may have to if I want a lasting relationship. I think those who have been or are in our situation and mindset are really the only ones who can understand our dedication, and that makes things VERY hard.

Makes things very hard I know, and fuck relationships always problems its so fucked up the time i spent on it GOSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Fletch XXX · 11-27-2002, 01:55 AM

NOW PLAYING.

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I've become impossible
Holding on to when
When everything seemed to matter more
The two of us
All used, all used and beaten up
Watching fate as it flows down the path we have chose

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
If the world should break in two
Until the very end of me
Until the very end of you

Awake to the sound
As they peel apart the skin
They pick and they pull
Trying to get their fingers in
Well they've got to kill what we've found
Well they've got to hate what they fear
Well they've got to make it go away
Well they've got to make it disappear

The farther I fall i'm beside you
As lost as I get I will find you
The deeper the wound i'm inside you
Forever and ever I am a part of- you

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
If the world should break in two
Until the very end of me
Until the very end of you

All that we were is gone we have to hold on
All that we were is gone we have to hold on
When all our hope is gone we have to hold on
All that we were is gone but we can hold on

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
Even after everything
You're the queen and i'm the king
Nothing else means anything

-------------------------------------

My favorite part.

I know these feelings all too well.

'The farther I fall i'm beside you
As lost as I get I will find you
The deeper the wound i'm inside you
Forever and ever I am a part of- you'

11-27-2002, 12:24 AM	#1
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	long term relationships how many of you are in long term/live-in relationships? i've been single for about 8 months (after a 5 year relationship), and i'm curious what your experiences have been. do you think it's harder to meet people when your life revolves around the adult internet business? ........... __________________ we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	NOW PLAYING. --------------------------- I've become impossible Holding on to when When everything seemed to matter more The two of us All used, all used and beaten up Watching fate as it flows down the path we have chose You and me We're in this together now None of them can stop us now We will make it through somehow You and me If the world should break in two Until the very end of me Until the very end of you Awake to the sound As they peel apart the skin They pick and they pull Trying to get their fingers in Well they've got to kill what we've found Well they've got to hate what they fear Well they've got to make it go away Well they've got to make it disappear The farther I fall i'm beside you As lost as I get I will find you The deeper the wound i'm inside you Forever and ever I am a part of- you You and me We're in this together now None of them can stop us now We will make it through somehow You and me If the world should break in two Until the very end of me Until the very end of you All that we were is gone we have to hold on All that we were is gone we have to hold on When all our hope is gone we have to hold on All that we were is gone but we can hold on You and me We're in this together now None of them can stop us now We will make it through somehow You and me Even after everything You're the queen and i'm the king Nothing else means anything ------------------------------------- My favorite part. I know these feelings all too well. 'The farther I fall i'm beside you As lost as I get I will find you The deeper the wound i'm inside you Forever and ever I am a part of- you' __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me