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MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 08:28 PM

simple question! kissing is cheating! blow job are cheating! sex is cheating! going out on a date with the intentions of being other then a friend is cheating!

Spunky · 03-04-2009, 08:29 PM

Yes and also with married women..

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

Yes and also with married women..

ive actually turned down a married women told her bitch ass to go home to her husband.

LiveDose · 03-04-2009, 08:41 PM

Not in my marriage but when I was younger, yes.

SilentKnight · 03-04-2009, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

Not in my marriage but when I was younger, yes.

Same...same.

Si · 03-04-2009, 09:16 PM

Yes, too many times

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 09:19 PM

i think most people have these days, i actually have NEVER cheated, not even close.

jakethedog · 03-04-2009, 09:20 PM

and still regret it .. biggest mistake I have ever made ... she forgave .. rather allowed me to continue living .. but things have never been the same... serious mistake if you really care about the one your with ..

God I sounded like my father there for a second

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

and still regret it .. biggest mistake I have ever made ... she forgave .. rather allowed me to continue living .. but things have never been the same... serious mistake if you really care about the one your with ..

God I sounded like my father there for a second

im with ya, i cant say it will ever be the same.

now lets throw this into equation for people

how many of you who cheated had divorced parents?

jakethedog · 03-04-2009, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

im with ya, i cant say it will ever be the same.

now lets throw this into equation for people

how many of you who cheated had divorced parents?

yup.. hell I have 3-4 dads .. momma was all about the free love of the 60's ..

digitaldivas · 03-04-2009, 09:48 PM

i have never cheated

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

yup.. hell I have 3-4 dads .. momma was all about the free love of the 60's ..

i am starting to see a connection with people who cheat and peoples whose parents were divorced.

its almost like the ones whose parents divorced dont take a relationship as seriously.

i wonder how much barring it has.

Dating Port · 03-04-2009, 09:53 PM

I don't cheat, I tell my wife in advance.

marzzo · 03-04-2009, 10:02 PM

Nope. Never have.

Spunky · 03-04-2009, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

im with ya, i cant say it will ever be the same.

now lets throw this into equation for people

how many of you who cheated had divorced parents?

First dad left when I was 3 and the second wound up in the pen.I was a whore when I was younger and didn't care.I've mellowed a lot

WarChild · 03-04-2009, 10:30 PM

Not one time. I am a pillar of strength and values.

I am currently studying at the Internet Tought Guy Academy under Grand Master Metaman as well. I soon hope to be a complete package.

PAR · 03-04-2009, 10:32 PM

no.. but she did... does that count

camperjohn64 · 03-04-2009, 10:37 PM

I went to Hawaii for a weeklong shagfest with a hottie, while her husband stayed home and took care their kid. She was 29, he was 44. The first 5 hours in Hawaii we screwed like crazy.

Does that qualify as cheating? I mean, she was cheating, but I wasn't...

ExLust · 03-04-2009, 10:40 PM

I've been cheated.

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by PAR

no.. but she did... does that count

no it doesnt happens to alot of people happened to me, gf kissed some guy so i kicked her to the curb, then she started dating the guy to get back at me, then i told her i was in love with her while they were dating fucked her 20x then kicked her to the curb again. he was out getting her spa packages at banff springs and i was getting head on her luncbreak. PAYBACK IS A BITCH

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Originally Posted by camperjohn64

I went to Hawaii for a weeklong shagfest with a hottie, while her husband stayed home and took care their kid. She was 29, he was 44. The first 5 hours in Hawaii we screwed like crazy.

Does that qualify as cheating? I mean, she was cheating, but I wasn't...

its not right i wouldnt tap a married chick but thats me. i believe if i dont want it done to me i wouldnt do it to anyone else.

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Originally Posted by WarChild

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chelis · 03-04-2009, 10:47 PM

I haven't, had the chance and said no. Then I thought I should have because she cheated on me.

Sam Granger · 03-04-2009, 10:51 PM

camperjohn64 · 03-04-2009, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

its not right i wouldnt tap a married chick but thats me. i believe if i dont want it done to me i wouldnt do it to anyone else.

Well the wierd thing is, she invited me to Hawaii. I didn't really encourage it. But, being a man, I didn't refuse. Yeah, yeah I shouldn't have, but she was hot! It was her choice I just went along for the ride.

We 'dated' for about a year+ afterwards until her husband found out. Oh nice ride while it lasted.

I believe nobody cheats because they are happy. People cheat because they are unhappy and in her case, was unable to talk about it. Her hubby is controlling and dominant and she had no way out. So she cheated.

scuba steve · 03-04-2009, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

i am starting to see a connection with people who cheat and peoples whose parents were divorced.

its almost like the ones whose parents divorced dont take a relationship as seriously.

i wonder how much barring it has.

a lot. i have divorced parents and a cheater

d-null · 03-04-2009, 10:57 PM

I once heard it theorized that women would rather that their man have sex with a hooker rather than an affair with another woman that is not a hooker, due to them being able to accept pure sexual release as a reason more than being able to accept the emotional side that a fling would entail

(just a semi off topic yet related aside for pondering)

jakethedog · 03-04-2009, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

First dad left when I was 3 and the second wound up in the pen.I was a whore when I was younger and didn't care.I've mellowed a lot

oh ya .. I am sure my parents life style and way they raised me contributed to all my crap ..
I was a whore all through school .. worked in the bars .. whore .. managed strip clubs .. whore .. I had banged in the 500's even before I started my 12 years of being a male performer .. I should have a callus on my dick .. went to some councelling found out my whole life and all my actions were done to get "acclimation " or acceptance from my peers .. just finding it out and understanding it .. changed my life ..

jmcb420 · 03-04-2009, 10:58 PM

in my past, ive done some not so honest things. Not while I was married, but all the way up til the night before.

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by camperjohn64

I believe nobody cheats because they are happy. People cheat because they are unhappy and in her case, was unable to talk about it. Her hubby is controlling and dominant and she had no way out. So she cheated.

lol sometimes people cheat because they are sluts and have no morals and they are only "unhappy" when they are caught.

that sounds like an excuse for her "no way out and he was controlling" maybe he was controlling because he had a feeling she was out cheating on him? lol

and why get married if you ever plan on "having a way out", bet you she was the type who trapped the guy with kids or got married for the wrong reasons but it is somehow his fault. hey people make mistakes ok but have the guts to admit wrong, something is fucked up about someone who blames someone else for their destructive behavior.

these types i avoid like a plague because they always "have changed" meanwhile they are out banging the next guy who gives them attention when you are thinking you are the only one.

fuck and chuck them and be happy you do it sooner then later.

hey i aint judging you you do you and i do me just saying.

acctman · 03-04-2009, 11:00 PM

what's considered cheating?

camperjohn64 · 03-04-2009, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

i am starting to see a connection with people who cheat and peoples whose parents were divorced.

its almost like the ones whose parents divorced dont take a relationship as seriously.

i wonder how much barring it has.

You know I didn't think of that until now but there is probably some real truth to that. My parents were divorced, all my brothers and sisters are divorced (2bro + 2sis). When that married chick invited me to Hawaii, I didn't think twice to say yes. I didn't even ask what her husband would think I just blew it off and was like "So how are we going to hide it".

Turns out they take seperate vacations, so he didn't even suspect a thing, and yes, I didn't care - after all my parents and all family is divorced. It was just natural to me.

I like short haired girls. If you don't, she may not be your type:

http://www.bodydot.com/photo-4NhxkJb...I-in-Maui.html

I have no shame and am not embarassed. It was years ago...

PornMD · 03-04-2009, 11:03 PM

No way in hell - cheating is one of the worst things you can do if you're in a serious relationship in my opinion. I sure wouldn't want to be cheated on so I don't do it myself.

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by camperjohn64

You know I didn't think of that until now but there is probably some real truth to that. My parents were divorced, all my brothers and sisters are divorced (2bro + 2sis). When that married chick invited me to Hawaii, I didn't think twice to say yes. I didn't even ask what her husband would think I just blew it off and was like "So how are we going to hide it".

Turns out they take seperate vacations, so he didn't even suspect a thing, and yes, I didn't care - after all my parents and all family is divorced. It was just natural to me.

I like short haired girls. If you don't, she may not be your type:

http://www.bodydot.com/photo-4NhxkJb...I-in-Maui.html

I have no shame and am not embarassed. It was years ago...

hey id bang her and props to your honesty it is what it is. at least you dont try to hide it.

the divorce thing really got me thinking, my parents are old school Ukrainians and lived apart for 11 years due to my dads job and to them it was like no big deal you got married and had kids and it was about the kids and keeping the family. now every relationship i enter i feel like that is what i want and i do my best to emulate it.

one of my ex's friends all cheated on their boyfriends and they all had divorced parents. to them it was like nothing they just couldnt grasp the idea of the big deal about cheating and sacrificing for one person. and the majority of my friends parents are still together and have never cheated and the ones whose parents are not together has cheated. i just find it weird.

doridori · 03-04-2009, 11:09 PM

i just tied the vote.

jakethedog · 03-04-2009, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by camperjohn64

You know I didn't think of that until now but there is probably some real truth to that. My parents were divorced, all my brothers and sisters are divorced (2bro + 2sis). When that married chick invited me to Hawaii, I didn't think twice to say yes. I didn't even ask what her husband would think I just blew it off and was like "So how are we going to hide it".

Turns out they take seperate vacations, so he didn't even suspect a thing, and yes, I didn't care - after all my parents and all family is divorced. It was just natural to me.

I like short haired girls. If you don't, she may not be your type:

http://www.bodydot.com/photo-4NhxkJb...I-in-Maui.html

I have no shame and am not embarassed. It was years ago...

LOL .. truth is when I was single I was exactly the same way .. weird I wouldn't have thought twice about it myself either .. and had several relationships with married woman .. some for yrs ... fuck what a mutt i was .. akkk

MetaMan · 03-04-2009, 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by d-null

I once heard it theorized that women would rather that their man have sex with a hooker rather than an affair with another woman that is not a hooker, due to them being able to accept pure sexual release as a reason more than being able to accept the emotional side that a fling would entail

(just a semi off topic yet related aside for pondering)

i wouldnt be surprised the emotional connection is worse than the action.

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

oh ya .. I am sure my parents life style and way they raised me contributed to all my crap ..
I was a whore all through school .. worked in the bars .. whore .. managed strip clubs .. whore .. I had banged in the 500's even before I started my 12 years of being a male performer .. I should have a callus on my dick .. went to some councelling found out my whole life and all my actions were done to get "acclimation " or acceptance from my peers .. just finding it out and understanding it .. changed my life ..

or maybe because you were used to seeing relationships fade personally that it set in you that you yourself were afraid to have the same thing happen to you so you did it unconsciously "knowing" that by cheating the relationship would be over and wouldnt have to worry about the fear of "when" or "if" it would fade.

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Originally Posted by acctman

what's considered cheating?

SEE FIRST POST

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Originally Posted by PornMD

No way in hell - cheating is one of the worst things you can do if you're in a serious relationship in my opinion. I sure wouldn't want to be cheated on so I don't do it myself.

MetaMan is a good boy with the ladies.

when im single i fart around but im honest about it, but when im in lockdown im all about that person, my eyes dont even wander no joke, because i only go into a committed relationship knowing 100% i want to be in it for the longterm.

that is why people shouldnt jump from relationship to relationship, when you single fuck around get it out of your system the partying and pussy to pussy gets boring after a while for anyone.

camperjohn64 · 03-04-2009, 11:20 PM

She has long hair now.

It get's wierder. After Hawaii, I used to take her everywhere, even though her husband DID know. This photo is when I took her to the US Navy Ball. For whatever reason, I took her to the ball, and HE didn't want to with her.

I somehow think her husband knew I was banging her, and he had some wierd fetish about it.

nolongerexists · 03-05-2009, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

i am starting to see a connection with people who cheat and peoples whose parents were divorced.

its almost like the ones whose parents divorced dont take a relationship as seriously.

i wonder how much barring it has.

there is a connection, no doubt, at least speaking from experience

Phaseman · 03-05-2009, 02:24 AM

You mean this week???

Deej · 03-05-2009, 02:30 AM

nope....

Shey · 03-05-2009, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by acctman

what's considered cheating?

Other than sex... Anything you have to convince yourself that it isn't.

fallenmuffin · 03-05-2009, 03:00 AM

Never cheated, not once. But I'm starting to think about it.

MetaMan · 03-05-2009, 06:21 AM

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Originally Posted by fallenmuffin

Never cheated, not once. But I'm starting to think about it.

payback or whats the deal?

NO has took a clear lead, it was like 10-3 for YES at once point, this poll is more exciting then draft day. LOLZ

StuartD · 03-05-2009, 06:25 AM

Nope, never have. Those who know me know that I could never do such a thing.
I could never live with myself if I did something like that.

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03-04-2009, 08:28 PM	#1
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	Have you ever cheated? simple question! kissing is cheating! blow job are cheating! sex is cheating! going out on a date with the intentions of being other then a friend is cheating!

03-04-2009, 08:29 PM	#2
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,939	Yes and also with married women.. __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

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LiveDose Show Yer Tits! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Somewhere Out there... Posts: 25,792	Not in my marriage but when I was younger, yes. __________________ Scammer Alert: acer19 acer [email protected] [email protected] Money stolen using PayPal

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jakethedog Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Vancouver B.C. Posts: 2,497	and still regret it .. biggest mistake I have ever made ... she forgave .. rather allowed me to continue living .. but things have never been the same... serious mistake if you really care about the one your with .. God I sounded like my father there for a second __________________ No sig .. just me

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Si Such Fun! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 13,900	Yes, too many times

03-04-2009, 09:19 PM	#7
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	i think most people have these days, i actually have NEVER cheated, not even close.

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PornMD Mainstream Businessman Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: San Diego Posts: 9,291	No way in hell - cheating is one of the worst things you can do if you're in a serious relationship in my opinion. I sure wouldn't want to be cheated on so I don't do it myself. __________________ Want to crush it in mainstream with Facebook ads? Hit me up.

03-04-2009, 11:09 PM	#33
doridori So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Canadia Posts: 2,222	i just tied the vote.

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camperjohn64 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,531	She has long hair now. It get's wierder. After Hawaii, I used to take her everywhere, even though her husband DID know. This photo is when I took her to the US Navy Ball. For whatever reason, I took her to the ball, and HE didn't want to with her. I somehow think her husband knew I was banging her, and he had some wierd fetish about it. __________________ www.gimmiegirlproductions.com Last edited by camperjohn64; 03-04-2009 at 11:22 PM..

03-05-2009, 02:24 AM	#38
Phaseman Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Thailand Posts: 159	You mean this week???

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fallenmuffin Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 8,170	Never cheated, not once. But I'm starting to think about it.

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