Have you ever cheated?
 

simple question! kissing is cheating! blow job are cheating! sex is cheating! going out on a date with the intentions of being other then a friend is cheating!

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Yes and also with married women..

ive actually turned down a married women told her bitch ass to go home to her husband. :1orglaugh

Not in my marriage but when I was younger, yes.

Same...same.

Yes, too many times

i think most people have these days, i actually have NEVER cheated, not even close.

and still regret it .. biggest mistake I have ever made ... she forgave .. rather allowed me to continue living .. but things have never been the same... serious mistake if you really care about the one your with ..

God I sounded like my father there for a second

im with ya, i cant say it will ever be the same.

now lets throw this into equation for people

how many of you who cheated had divorced parents?

yup.. hell I have 3-4 dads .. momma was all about the free love of the 60's ..

i have never cheated

i am starting to see a connection with people who cheat and peoples whose parents were divorced.

its almost like the ones whose parents divorced dont take a relationship as seriously.

i wonder how much barring it has.

I don't cheat, I tell my wife in advance.:pimp

Nope. Never have.

First dad left when I was 3 and the second wound up in the pen.I was a whore when I was younger and didn't care.I've mellowed a lot

Not one time. I am a pillar of strength and values.

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no.. but she did... does that count

I went to Hawaii for a weeklong shagfest with a hottie, while her husband stayed home and took care their kid. She was 29, he was 44. The first 5 hours in Hawaii we screwed like crazy.

Does that qualify as cheating? I mean, she was cheating, but I wasn't...

I've been cheated.

no it doesnt happens to alot of people happened to me, gf kissed some guy so i kicked her to the curb, then she started dating the guy to get back at me, then i told her i was in love with her while they were dating fucked her 20x then kicked her to the curb again. he was out getting her spa packages at banff springs and i was getting head on her luncbreak. PAYBACK IS A BITCH :warning

its not right i wouldnt tap a married chick but thats me. i believe if i dont want it done to me i wouldnt do it to anyone else.

i am also a pillar of strength, even when im tanked as fuck i think straight.

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I haven't, had the chance and said no. Then I thought I should have because she cheated on me.

Well the wierd thing is, she invited me to Hawaii. I didn't really encourage it. But, being a man, I didn't refuse. Yeah, yeah I shouldn't have, but she was hot! It was her choice I just went along for the ride.

We 'dated' for about a year+ afterwards until her husband found out. Oh nice ride while it lasted.

I believe nobody cheats because they are happy. People cheat because they are unhappy and in her case, was unable to talk about it. Her hubby is controlling and dominant and she had no way out. So she cheated.

a lot. i have divorced parents and a cheater

I once heard it theorized that women would rather that their man have sex with a hooker rather than an affair with another woman that is not a hooker, due to them being able to accept pure sexual release as a reason more than being able to accept the emotional side that a fling would entail :2 cents:


(just a semi off topic yet related aside for pondering)

oh ya .. I am sure my parents life style and way they raised me contributed to all my crap ..
I was a whore all through school .. worked in the bars .. whore .. managed strip clubs .. whore .. I had banged in the 500's even before I started my 12 years of being a male performer .. I should have a callus on my dick .. went to some councelling found out my whole life and all my actions were done to get "acclimation " or acceptance from my peers .. just finding it out and understanding it .. changed my life ..

in my past, ive done some not so honest things. Not while I was married, but all the way up til the night before.

lol sometimes people cheat because they are sluts and have no morals and they are only "unhappy" when they are caught.

that sounds like an excuse for her "no way out and he was controlling" maybe he was controlling because he had a feeling she was out cheating on him? lol

and why get married if you ever plan on "having a way out", bet you she was the type who trapped the guy with kids or got married for the wrong reasons but it is somehow his fault. hey people make mistakes ok but have the guts to admit wrong, something is fucked up about someone who blames someone else for their destructive behavior.

these types i avoid like a plague because they always "have changed" meanwhile they are out banging the next guy who gives them attention when you are thinking you are the only one.

fuck and chuck them and be happy you do it sooner then later.

hey i aint judging you you do you and i do me just saying.

what's considered cheating?

You know I didn't think of that until now but there is probably some real truth to that. My parents were divorced, all my brothers and sisters are divorced (2bro + 2sis). When that married chick invited me to Hawaii, I didn't think twice to say yes. I didn't even ask what her husband would think I just blew it off and was like "So how are we going to hide it".

Turns out they take seperate vacations, so he didn't even suspect a thing, and yes, I didn't care - after all my parents and all family is divorced. It was just natural to me.

I like short haired girls. If you don't, she may not be your type:

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I have no shame and am not embarassed. It was years ago...

No way in hell - cheating is one of the worst things you can do if you're in a serious relationship in my opinion. I sure wouldn't want to be cheated on so I don't do it myself.

hey id bang her and props to your honesty it is what it is. at least you dont try to hide it.

the divorce thing really got me thinking, my parents are old school Ukrainians and lived apart for 11 years due to my dads job and to them it was like no big deal you got married and had kids and it was about the kids and keeping the family. now every relationship i enter i feel like that is what i want and i do my best to emulate it.

one of my ex's friends all cheated on their boyfriends and they all had divorced parents. to them it was like nothing they just couldnt grasp the idea of the big deal about cheating and sacrificing for one person. and the majority of my friends parents are still together and have never cheated and the ones whose parents are not together has cheated. i just find it weird.

i just tied the vote.

LOL .. truth is when I was single I was exactly the same way .. weird I wouldn't have thought twice about it myself either .. and had several relationships with married woman .. some for yrs ... fuck what a mutt i was .. akkk

i wouldnt be surprised the emotional connection is worse than the action.

or maybe because you were used to seeing relationships fade personally that it set in you that you yourself were afraid to have the same thing happen to you so you did it unconsciously "knowing" that by cheating the relationship would be over and wouldnt have to worry about the fear of "when" or "if" it would fade.

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MetaMan is a good boy with the ladies. :kisskiss

when im single i fart around but im honest about it, but when im in lockdown im all about that person, my eyes dont even wander no joke, because i only go into a committed relationship knowing 100% i want to be in it for the longterm.

that is why people shouldnt jump from relationship to relationship, when you single fuck around get it out of your system the partying and pussy to pussy gets boring after a while for anyone.

She has long hair now.

It get's wierder. After Hawaii, I used to take her everywhere, even though her husband DID know. This photo is when I took her to the US Navy Ball. For whatever reason, I took her to the ball, and HE didn't want to with her.

I somehow think her husband knew I was banging her, and he had some wierd fetish about it.

http://i43.tinypic.com/n682m1.jpg

there is a connection, no doubt, at least speaking from experience :2 cents:

You mean this week???

nope....

Other than sex... Anything you have to convince yourself that it isn't. :1orglaugh

Never cheated, not once. But I'm starting to think about it.

payback or whats the deal?

NO has took a clear lead, it was like 10-3 for YES at once point, this poll is more exciting then draft day. LOLZ

Nope, never have. Those who know me know that I could never do such a thing.
I could never live with myself if I did something like that.