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qwe · 08-27-2008, 08:09 PM

why not get a place in florida/cali ? stay in NJ during summer and in sunny state during winter

xxweekxx · 08-27-2008, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by qwe

why not get a place in florida/cali ? stay in NJ during summer and in sunny state during winter

cost..

qwe · 08-27-2008, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

cost..

so why dont you get a house first and pay that off... then you can fuck around the rest of your life and do whatever you want

xxweekxx · 08-27-2008, 08:50 PM

whats the point of getting a house now? cost too much, plus i rather use the $300k for something else... houses arent all they are cracked up to be..

you can make better returns elsewhere.. besides i just want someone to live thats warm and more fun and cheaper

HighEnergy · 08-27-2008, 09:03 PM

It really is a surfers/wannabe/wuckfad forum.

Page views and impressions pay the rent though.

Spend some quality time with your GI Joe or your GameBoy xxweekxx.
You'll get over it ..............

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media

Ah fuck me. Does it not bother anyone else at all beyond a small joke that he was way underage when he joined here and more than likely had sponsors giving him access to porn and also paying him? I mean this shit is seen all the time on here when people finally state their real age and you look at their join date and realize they were kids when they started.

Young · 08-27-2008, 09:34 PM

I'm 27 years old and at your age I had to make the same decision. I had the perfect opportunity to move with a free spirit girlfriend of mine at the time. Loved that girl to pieces. We broke up over my decision to stay. My decision was based on not wanting to leave friends and family behind.

Months and eventually a couple of years passed and I got stuck in the hometown/homebody mentality, content with the Boston scene and comfortable with the same old places and friends. Bought a car, accrued bills and got stuck in my ways. And as my friends started to move away, get married, and family started doing the same I came to the realization that I made a huge mistake.

And now 5 years later I've finally worked my way back to a place where I'm financially and mentally comfortable to make the jump again. As I'm typing this the ex that I said no to is traveling the globe as a traveling nurse with her fiance.

The moral of my story is that opportunity's only come once in awhile. Take it when you can.

Young · 08-27-2008, 09:36 PM

btw before anyone says anything I'm not saying that 27 is old. Just that I wish I took the opportunity 5 years ago.

Burridge · 08-27-2008, 09:59 PM

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you and im prolly 20 mins away in staten island. I'm 22, in my last year of college, made and saved some good money (offline) and now I'm just building sites and finishing school up unsure of what to do after it's over. One thing I do know though is that I love New York City and I don't wanna leave for shit. I'd travel and even stay in places for months at a time but NY feels like home.

xxweekxx · 08-28-2008, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Burridge

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you and im prolly 20 mins away in staten island. I'm 22, in my last year of college, made and saved some good money (offline) and now I'm just building sites and finishing school up unsure of what to do after it's over. One thing I do know though is that I love New York City and I don't wanna leave for shit. I'd travel and even stay in places for months at a time but NY feels like home.

maybe we should meet up

We are same age and i just graduated last yr..lol

sinkiss · 08-28-2008, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Dude you are 22. Right now you should be enjoying the lack of responsibilities that you have. If you don't, someday you will regret it.

Do some soul-searching... you seem very confused lately.

good advice =)

Burridge · 08-28-2008, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

maybe we should meet up

We are same age and i just graduated last yr..lol

hit me on icq dude, numbers in my profile

xxweekxx · 08-28-2008, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Burridge

hit me on icq dude, numbers in my profile

aiight man.. cool stuff

opulence · 08-28-2008, 05:18 PM

Costa Rica fucking sucks, don't come here if you know what's good for you

Z · 08-28-2008, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by klaze

You think you are going to be less bored there? BY YOURSELF? Doing what? Fishing?

You sound like my friends.. But they know that living in a major city is a must.. so they go to Europe, Asia until they've spent all their money and come back..

Actually A LOT of my friends including me did just this when they were 22 fresh out of college instead of working..

What you want to do is extremely common... But wanting to up and move.. To me that's stupid.. especially a place where it will be almost impossible for you to earn a living..

Why not Asia or Europe?

What did you leave Univ/College with?

A ton of people in adult have moved to those warm places but I think they had a little more to work with than you..

Also never put any priority on your GFs feelings because if an opportunity comes up for her she will drop you SOO FAST! and you will be stuck in NJ crying to a pillow.

You're out of your mind and so is anybody else discouraging this guy from doing what he wants to do. I did it at 27 and have never regretted it, not for one minute. If you all love the sit in traffic, stand in line, be quiet, know your place, get gouged on everything you buy, wait for the jackbooted thug cop to smack you around for whatever nitpicky bullshit this time and big brother watching your every move and word life that is living in the US today, enjoy. By the way, enjoy that depression and the coming world war too. If you treasure your illusions and are comfortable in your denial, have a blast.

Some of the rest of us are courageous enough to strike out, explore and see that the world DOESN'T revolve around the US and that there are NO dragons outside "the colonies". Just like those who went West, the sailors who got on ships going to nowhere and discovered new worlds and every other person brave enough to drop the status quo and think for themselves, there will always be sacrifices and fear of the uknown. But the rewards, the experiences and the wisdom of a life well lived are worth the change that some of you so desperately fear.

You know what you call somebody who speaks one language? American.

Panama is the fastest growing country and economy in Latin America, the #1 real estate market in this HEMISPHERE and one hell of a party country. There's every imaginable water sport in two oceans an hour away from one another with a strip of mountains down the middle that add all of those options too. It's 85 degrees every day, we've got the same rainy season that Florida does and there's no natural disasters here. The US, Central and South America and the Caribbean are a couple hours flight away. There's non-stop flights to Canada and Europe and there's commuter flights all over Panama, Costa Rica and COlombia. The cost of living is great and the quality of living makes up for the stupidity of the people. I haven't washed a dish or cleaned my house in 3 years. I barely touch the kitchen and if I want to go out to eat with 4 or 5 friends, I don't have to budget in advance like you do in a decent restaurant in the states.

There are tens of thousands of foreigners from every country in the world here because there's $140,000,000,000 (that's right, BILLION) in foreign investment pouring into this country and it's a wild west, entrepreneur's dream. Unlike the US, Canada, Europe or most of the rest of the world, here you can be a big fish in a little pond and the money is just as good as it would've been 100 years ago in the US. There's opportunities everywhere for somebody with a brain and the ability to innovate. The "good 'ol boys club" can be circumvented easily with a little brain power and some payoffs. The corruption here is the good kind that helps you, not the kind that keeps you poor and scraping in the US or the kind that shoots you and kidnaps you in Mexico or Brazil.

Did I mention the women? Forget all of that feminist, "Why are you looking at me?", "You don't drive a ferrari, so fuck you" nonsense. The women here are amazing. They're gorgeous, they fuck like animals and best of all, they're actually WOMEN. They enjoy being feminine and all of that idiocy that American guys have to put up with doesn't exist. The Colombianas, Venezuelans, Dominicans, Ticas, Chinese girls, Russians and yes, even Americans, Canadians, French girls, Dutch, German...on and on. They're all here for the same reasons you are and they're a blast to party with in this place that loves to party.

Stop thinking so small and THINK FOR YOURSELF!

I think what he's doing is great and I encourage him and anyone else who isn't tied to WalMart and Applebees for existence to consider it too. There's nothing more freeing, more gratifying and more amazing than to live out of a backpack.

The world's waiting and if you're here, you can most likely work on a laptop. WTF are you waiting for?

xxweekxx · 08-29-2008, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Z

You're out of your mind and so is anybody else discouraging this guy from doing what he wants to do. I did it at 27 and have never regretted it, not for one minute. If you all love the sit in traffic, stand in line, be quiet, know your place, get gouged on everything you buy, wait for the jackbooted thug cop to smack you around for whatever nitpicky bullshit this time and big brother watching your every move and word life that is living in the US today, enjoy. By the way, enjoy that depression and the coming world war too. If you treasure your illusions and are comfortable in your denial, have a blast.

Some of the rest of us are courageous enough to strike out, explore and see that the world DOESN'T revolve around the US and that there are NO dragons outside "the colonies". Just like those who went West, the sailors who got on ships going to nowhere and discovered new worlds and every other person brave enough to drop the status quo and think for themselves, there will always be sacrifices and fear of the uknown. But the rewards, the experiences and the wisdom of a life well lived are worth the change that some of you so desperately fear.

You know what you call somebody who speaks one language? American.

Panama is the fastest growing country and economy in Latin America, the #1 real estate market in this HEMISPHERE and one hell of a party country. There's every imaginable water sport in two oceans an hour away from one another with a strip of mountains down the middle that add all of those options too. It's 85 degrees every day, we've got the same rainy season that Florida does and there's no natural disasters here. The US, Central and South America and the Caribbean are a couple hours flight away. There's non-stop flights to Canada and Europe and there's commuter flights all over Panama, Costa Rica and COlombia. The cost of living is great and the quality of living makes up for the stupidity of the people. I haven't washed a dish or cleaned my house in 3 years. I barely touch the kitchen and if I want to go out to eat with 4 or 5 friends, I don't have to budget in advance like you do in a decent restaurant in the states.

There are tens of thousands of foreigners from every country in the world here because there's $140,000,000,000 (that's right, BILLION) in foreign investment pouring into this country and it's a wild west, entrepreneur's dream. Unlike the US, Canada, Europe or most of the rest of the world, here you can be a big fish in a little pond and the money is just as good as it would've been 100 years ago in the US. There's opportunities everywhere for somebody with a brain and the ability to innovate. The "good 'ol boys club" can be circumvented easily with a little brain power and some payoffs. The corruption here is the good kind that helps you, not the kind that keeps you poor and scraping in the US or the kind that shoots you and kidnaps you in Mexico or Brazil.

Did I mention the women? Forget all of that feminist, "Why are you looking at me?", "You don't drive a ferrari, so fuck you" nonsense. The women here are amazing. They're gorgeous, they fuck like animals and best of all, they're actually WOMEN. They enjoy being feminine and all of that idiocy that American guys have to put up with doesn't exist. The Colombianas, Venezuelans, Dominicans, Ticas, Chinese girls, Russians and yes, even Americans, Canadians, French girls, Dutch, German...on and on. They're all here for the same reasons you are and they're a blast to party with in this place that loves to party.

Stop thinking so small and THINK FOR YOURSELF!

I think what he's doing is great and I encourage him and anyone else who isn't tied to WalMart and Applebees for existence to consider it too. There's nothing more freeing, more gratifying and more amazing than to live out of a backpack.

The world's waiting and if you're here, you can most likely work on a laptop. WTF are you waiting for?

haha perfect.. i know im still gonna do it.. i dont see why not? I built up enough cushion so even if i dont make any income ill be ok for a few years living over there..Plus i dont see how thats possible cuz im making good money again..

Ill def be flying out to panama in a month and half and youll be my guide

xxweekxx · 09-03-2008, 08:23 PM

gonna go check out panama something in october.. will see how it goes

AaliyahLove · 09-03-2008, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

werent you scared leaving? its not easy to pack up and leave what im used to u know.. especially leaving USA

Dude, I have moved once a year every year since 2001 and I love it.. Every time I pack up my webcam and my fav stuff, leave the rest of the crap behind, and move somewhere where I know no one and nothing about the area. This time last year I was in Denver, Colordao, and now I live 8 miles from the beach in Orange County.. and I don't find it scary it all.. its amazing and exciting and liberating.. grow some balls, dump ur girl and travel.

AaliyahLove · 09-03-2008, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Z

You're out of your mind and so is anybody else discouraging this guy from doing what he wants to do. I did it at 27 and have never regretted it, not for one minute. If you all love the sit in traffic, stand in line, be quiet, know your place, get gouged on everything you buy, wait for the jackbooted thug cop to smack you around for whatever nitpicky bullshit this time and big brother watching your every move and word life that is living in the US today, enjoy. By the way, enjoy that depression and the coming world war too. If you treasure your illusions and are comfortable in your denial, have a blast.

Some of the rest of us are courageous enough to strike out, explore and see that the world DOESN'T revolve around the US and that there are NO dragons outside "the colonies". Just like those who went West, the sailors who got on ships going to nowhere and discovered new worlds and every other person brave enough to drop the status quo and think for themselves, there will always be sacrifices and fear of the uknown. But the rewards, the experiences and the wisdom of a life well lived are worth the change that some of you so desperately fear.

You know what you call somebody who speaks one language? American.

Panama is the fastest growing country and economy in Latin America, the #1 real estate market in this HEMISPHERE and one hell of a party country. There's every imaginable water sport in two oceans an hour away from one another with a strip of mountains down the middle that add all of those options too. It's 85 degrees every day, we've got the same rainy season that Florida does and there's no natural disasters here. The US, Central and South America and the Caribbean are a couple hours flight away. There's non-stop flights to Canada and Europe and there's commuter flights all over Panama, Costa Rica and COlombia. The cost of living is great and the quality of living makes up for the stupidity of the people. I haven't washed a dish or cleaned my house in 3 years. I barely touch the kitchen and if I want to go out to eat with 4 or 5 friends, I don't have to budget in advance like you do in a decent restaurant in the states.

There are tens of thousands of foreigners from every country in the world here because there's $140,000,000,000 (that's right, BILLION) in foreign investment pouring into this country and it's a wild west, entrepreneur's dream. Unlike the US, Canada, Europe or most of the rest of the world, here you can be a big fish in a little pond and the money is just as good as it would've been 100 years ago in the US. There's opportunities everywhere for somebody with a brain and the ability to innovate. The "good 'ol boys club" can be circumvented easily with a little brain power and some payoffs. The corruption here is the good kind that helps you, not the kind that keeps you poor and scraping in the US or the kind that shoots you and kidnaps you in Mexico or Brazil.

Did I mention the women? Forget all of that feminist, "Why are you looking at me?", "You don't drive a ferrari, so fuck you" nonsense. The women here are amazing. They're gorgeous, they fuck like animals and best of all, they're actually WOMEN. They enjoy being feminine and all of that idiocy that American guys have to put up with doesn't exist. The Colombianas, Venezuelans, Dominicans, Ticas, Chinese girls, Russians and yes, even Americans, Canadians, French girls, Dutch, German...on and on. They're all here for the same reasons you are and they're a blast to party with in this place that loves to party.

Stop thinking so small and THINK FOR YOURSELF!

I think what he's doing is great and I encourage him and anyone else who isn't tied to WalMart and Applebees for existence to consider it too. There's nothing more freeing, more gratifying and more amazing than to live out of a backpack.

The world's waiting and if you're here, you can most likely work on a laptop. WTF are you waiting for?

...What he said

xxweekxx · 09-04-2008, 03:09 PM

everyone saying dump the gf and move on.. how ez is that

comeplay · 09-04-2008, 06:11 PM

Its funny how very few (one maybe) people mentioned education. You said you were fine where you are and the people you knew while you were in college. I think a good temporary solution would be to continue college? Why not? You never said you didn't like school or the work involved. Just because your degree is finished doesn't mean you HAVE to be done.

moeloubani · 09-04-2008, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

everyone saying dump the gf and move on.. how ez is that

lol well fuck dude there are only 2 options

you say fuck her and you bounce

you say fuck bouncing and you stay

how long until she can take off too? why dont you just move to like a local ghetto and youll have tons of excitement

MaDalton · 09-04-2008, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by punker barbie

u were 16 when u registered on GFY? LOL

as if you had been 18 at that time

xxweekxx · 09-04-2008, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by comeplay

Its funny how very few (one maybe) people mentioned education. You said you were fine where you are and the people you knew while you were in college. I think a good temporary solution would be to continue college? Why not? You never said you didn't like school or the work involved. Just because your degree is finished doesn't mean you HAVE to be done.

yeah college is fun but expensive.. i could go for my MBA but why spend $40k/yr for a degree i most likely wont use.. my bachelors so far is still not useful..$100k later and it hasnt helped me make any money so far..

RTP · 09-04-2008, 11:53 PM

here is a quick bit from someone who has been there before...when i was 20 (30s now) i simply just got on a greyhound and said i'll figure it out, better then sitting around in a state of stagnation (i lived in a small college town in the midwest)

do what you want man, whatever it is do it...doesn't matter if anyone thinks it sucks or you might not like it or you might fail, don't hold back. explore, live life and just enjoy it while you can

you are young and can take chances and makes moves without major problems and other factors that you need to consider. if you are considering something do it or one day you'll be sitting at the bar sipping on your 5th saying i "could have" and "should have". i know many that are in that situation.

if i never took risk i would not be where i am today, literally just doing whatever i want to do now without financial consequences because the chances i took paid off, it all started with a duffel bag and a bus ticket.i am sure you are in better shape. your opportunities in life may only come once and a single act can change your outcome or path

xxweekxx · 09-10-2008, 09:52 PM

yeah im gonna go down to panama next month and "settle" there.. basically live there a bit and try and travel and see the world..

I love internet biz.. u can work from anywhere with internet access.. pretty amazing..

klaze · 09-10-2008, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Z

You're out of your mind and so is anybody else discouraging this guy from doing what he wants to do. I did it at 27 and have never regretted it, not for one minute. If you all love the sit in traffic, stand in line, be quiet, know your place, get gouged on everything you buy, wait for the jackbooted thug cop to smack you around for whatever nitpicky bullshit this time and big brother watching your every move and word life that is living in the US today, enjoy. By the way, enjoy that depression and the coming world war too. If you treasure your illusions and are comfortable in your denial, have a blast.

Some of the rest of us are courageous enough to strike out, explore and see that the world DOESN'T revolve around the US and that there are NO dragons outside "the colonies". Just like those who went West, the sailors who got on ships going to nowhere and discovered new worlds and every other person brave enough to drop the status quo and think for themselves, there will always be sacrifices and fear of the uknown. But the rewards, the experiences and the wisdom of a life well lived are worth the change that some of you so desperately fear.

You know what you call somebody who speaks one language? American.

Panama is the fastest growing country and economy in Latin America, the #1 real estate market in this HEMISPHERE and one hell of a party country. There's every imaginable water sport in two oceans an hour away from one another with a strip of mountains down the middle that add all of those options too. It's 85 degrees every day, we've got the same rainy season that Florida does and there's no natural disasters here. The US, Central and South America and the Caribbean are a couple hours flight away. There's non-stop flights to Canada and Europe and there's commuter flights all over Panama, Costa Rica and COlombia. The cost of living is great and the quality of living makes up for the stupidity of the people. I haven't washed a dish or cleaned my house in 3 years. I barely touch the kitchen and if I want to go out to eat with 4 or 5 friends, I don't have to budget in advance like you do in a decent restaurant in the states.

There are tens of thousands of foreigners from every country in the world here because there's $140,000,000,000 (that's right, BILLION) in foreign investment pouring into this country and it's a wild west, entrepreneur's dream. Unlike the US, Canada, Europe or most of the rest of the world, here you can be a big fish in a little pond and the money is just as good as it would've been 100 years ago in the US. There's opportunities everywhere for somebody with a brain and the ability to innovate. The "good 'ol boys club" can be circumvented easily with a little brain power and some payoffs. The corruption here is the good kind that helps you, not the kind that keeps you poor and scraping in the US or the kind that shoots you and kidnaps you in Mexico or Brazil.

Did I mention the women? Forget all of that feminist, "Why are you looking at me?", "You don't drive a ferrari, so fuck you" nonsense. The women here are amazing. They're gorgeous, they fuck like animals and best of all, they're actually WOMEN. They enjoy being feminine and all of that idiocy that American guys have to put up with doesn't exist. The Colombianas, Venezuelans, Dominicans, Ticas, Chinese girls, Russians and yes, even Americans, Canadians, French girls, Dutch, German...on and on. They're all here for the same reasons you are and they're a blast to party with in this place that loves to party.

Stop thinking so small and THINK FOR YOURSELF!

I think what he's doing is great and I encourage him and anyone else who isn't tied to WalMart and Applebees for existence to consider it too. There's nothing more freeing, more gratifying and more amazing than to live out of a backpack.

The world's waiting and if you're here, you can most likely work on a laptop. WTF are you waiting for?

Thanks for the novel response but you took what I said completely out of context.

Completely missing my point. You also put words into my mouth reading deeper into what I said than what I actually did say.

Who the fuck do you think you are? Bill O'Reilly? No.

I said what I said as simply and as blunt as I could.

I'm not going to argue with you.

Slutboat · 09-10-2008, 10:34 PM

right on ocean dr.. forget the gf you will get more pussy here than a truckload of maxi pads

PS I'm serious about the vacation rental, and if you are cool you can assist me shooting naked chicks

klinton · 09-11-2008, 01:05 AM

i have similiar dillema (move or not) , except that i'am alone

hmmm

xxweekxx · 09-11-2008, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by klinton

i have similiar dillema (move or not) , except that i'am alone

hmmm

where are you now and where do you wanna move to

xxweekxx · 09-11-2008, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Slutboat

right on ocean dr.. forget the gf you will get more pussy here than a truckload of maxi pads

PS I'm serious about the vacation rental, and if you are cool you can assist me shooting naked chicks

not bad at all.. do u have ICQ though, might swing by miami sometime

cherrylula · 09-11-2008, 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Young

I'm 27 years old and at your age I had to make the same decision. I had the perfect opportunity to move with a free spirit girlfriend of mine at the time. Loved that girl to pieces. We broke up over my decision to stay. My decision was based on not wanting to leave friends and family behind.

Months and eventually a couple of years passed and I got stuck in the hometown/homebody mentality, content with the Boston scene and comfortable with the same old places and friends. Bought a car, accrued bills and got stuck in my ways. And as my friends started to move away, get married, and family started doing the same I came to the realization that I made a huge mistake.

And now 5 years later I've finally worked my way back to a place where I'm financially and mentally comfortable to make the jump again. As I'm typing this the ex that I said no to is traveling the globe as a traveling nurse with her fiance.

The moral of my story is that opportunity's only come once in awhile. Take it when you can.

You're in Boston??

Get the hell out!

My cousin from So Cal tried to live there, he said its the coldest place in the USA and sucks assholes. He has so many stories about how bad it sucks, its hilarious.

cherrylula · 09-11-2008, 03:48 AM

some of you guys could be roomies, good luck!

Sands · 09-11-2008, 04:01 AM

I was born in NJ, and lived there while I was young before moving to NY here where I've lived for most of my adult life. I can sympathize with you 100%. For the past year or so I've been constantly nagged with this painfully persistent notion that there is so much more in life and I'm not going to find it in the tri-state area. It's a deep feeling that's beginning to permeate every aspect of my existence and dominate every sector of my mind, and I feel it will do so until it will somehow materialize and tear me from this computer chair.

I have an impending surgical procedure, and once I've recovered from that and have found a steady, full-time, telecommute job, I will sell off all my shit and head West. It will pain me to leave my friends and family behind, but they'll only disappear from my daily life, and not my life in general, and the promise of undiscovered territory is one that is too powerful to ignore.

I hope you make the decision to follow through with your desires.

moneybiz · 09-11-2008, 05:11 AM

Find a a cheap condo for 120k and pay it off really fast. Then go around and travel do what ever.

klinton · 09-11-2008, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

where are you now and where do you wanna move to

Poland -> South America/North Africa

third option is some smaller city/village in Europe (even Poland)

MrAwesome · 09-11-2008, 05:42 AM

do absolutely everything you can while you can!!

xxweekxx · 09-11-2008, 06:50 PM

nice.... klinton its sucks

CrystaliZed · 09-11-2008, 09:26 PM

I'd love to move out and go back to Minneapolis or Seattle or some
other big city. Maybe somewhere warm, down south.
One huge problem tho... Finances.
Normal jobs in South Dakota don't pay enuf to do the whole "rent + bills" gig
and #2... the freelance graphic design gig doesn't get u far...
especially in the conservative, local scene that I'm in.
And most friends are outa state or are married/with kids so
that illiminates an option for trustworthy roomates. LOL!

klinton · 09-12-2008, 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

nice.... klinton its sucks

hm ? / why ?

Manowar · 09-12-2008, 04:40 AM

i think I want to move to panama now

CherryV · 09-12-2008, 04:48 AM

I have homies in Panama... They live there in the winter for teh windy season and then move back to Dominican Republic in the summer for teh wind season.

I hear amazing things about Panama.

Fuk the whole Caribbean is an amazing place to hang your hat if you work online. Cheap food, beer, rent and easy chicks all day long!

Good Luck Mate!

mister_nobodie · 09-12-2008, 05:46 AM

you'll end up resenting your gf if you stay.

xxweekxx · 09-12-2008, 07:04 PM

yeah but shes making me feel X100 guilty..

She cries every night.. she keeps calling/texting me and sending me cards,

saying stuff like I dont know what ill do without you. my life will never be the same..etc,etc.. i feel very very very bad.

klaze · 09-12-2008, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

yeah but shes making me feel X100 guilty..

She cries every night.. she keeps calling/texting me and sending me cards,

saying stuff like I dont know what ill do without you. my life will never be the same..etc,etc.. i feel very very very bad.

Introduce her to one of your friends.

xxweekxx · 09-12-2008, 07:19 PM

heheh my gf is cool though u know.. shes one of those understanding, sexy, loves to have sex kinda gf.. sometimes she acts immature but ill def miss her..

she takes care of me more than anyone else...

eh this suxxx.

BTW i still miss fucking other chics.lol

mister_nobodie · 09-12-2008, 08:26 PM

wow so she's exactly like ever other girl.

before the wedding.

the guilt trip is bullshit.
if she cared about you, she'd care about your happiness and not just HER OWN.

and if she doesnt know what she's going to do without you, then she's needy and a loser who definitely needs to learn.

hopefully you're smart enough to be wearing a condom

Z · 09-12-2008, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by CherryV

I have homies in Panama... They live there in the winter for teh windy season and then move back to Dominican Republic in the summer for teh wind season.

I hear amazing things about Panama.

Fuk the whole Caribbean is an amazing place to hang your hat if you work online. Cheap food, beer, rent and easy chicks all day long!

Good Luck Mate!

Who do you know down here that does that? I've been thinking about doing the same thing and would like the scoop on the DR.

Hit me up.

xxweekxx · 09-12-2008, 09:15 PM

Z i tried hitting u up.. im coming down there in a month.. i need your help buddy

sitesurfer70 · 09-13-2008, 01:20 AM

Come to South East Asia, and I gonna show u around....need a partner in crime

xxweekxx · 09-13-2008, 01:21 AM

what part of SE asia.lol

08-27-2008, 08:50 PM	#104
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	whats the point of getting a house now? cost too much, plus i rather use the $300k for something else... houses arent all they are cracked up to be.. you can make better returns elsewhere.. besides i just want someone to live thats warm and more fun and cheaper __________________ _________________ I am the best

08-27-2008, 09:34 PM	#106
Young Bland for life Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 10,468	I'm 27 years old and at your age I had to make the same decision. I had the perfect opportunity to move with a free spirit girlfriend of mine at the time. Loved that girl to pieces. We broke up over my decision to stay. My decision was based on not wanting to leave friends and family behind. Months and eventually a couple of years passed and I got stuck in the hometown/homebody mentality, content with the Boston scene and comfortable with the same old places and friends. Bought a car, accrued bills and got stuck in my ways. And as my friends started to move away, get married, and family started doing the same I came to the realization that I made a huge mistake. And now 5 years later I've finally worked my way back to a place where I'm financially and mentally comfortable to make the jump again. As I'm typing this the ex that I said no to is traveling the globe as a traveling nurse with her fiance. The moral of my story is that opportunity's only come once in awhile. Take it when you can. __________________ ★★★

08-27-2008, 09:36 PM	#107
Young Bland for life Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 10,468	btw before anyone says anything I'm not saying that 27 is old. Just that I wish I took the opportunity 5 years ago. __________________ ★★★

08-27-2008, 09:59 PM	#108
Burridge Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: New York City Posts: 1,186	I'm pretty much in the same boat as you and im prolly 20 mins away in staten island. I'm 22, in my last year of college, made and saved some good money (offline) and now I'm just building sites and finishing school up unsure of what to do after it's over. One thing I do know though is that I love New York City and I don't wanna leave for shit. I'd travel and even stay in places for months at a time but NY feels like home. __________________ NYC

08-28-2008, 05:18 PM	#113
opulence Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 273	Costa Rica fucking sucks, don't come here if you know what's good for you __________________ icq: 2822543

08-27-2008, 08:09 PM	#101
qwe Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 2,109	why not get a place in florida/cali ? stay in NJ during summer and in sunny state during winter

09-03-2008, 08:23 PM	#116
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	gonna go check out panama something in october.. will see how it goes __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-04-2008, 03:09 PM	#119
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	everyone saying dump the gf and move on.. how ez is that __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-04-2008, 06:11 PM	#120
comeplay Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Greater Washington DC Posts: 1,435	Its funny how very few (one maybe) people mentioned education. You said you were fine where you are and the people you knew while you were in college. I think a good temporary solution would be to continue college? Why not? You never said you didn't like school or the work involved. Just because your degree is finished doesn't mean you HAVE to be done. __________________ Top virtual hosts for under 10$? www.hostmylife.com \| icq 50663030

09-04-2008, 11:53 PM	#124
RTP aka Jimmy James Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Newport Posts: 1,335	here is a quick bit from someone who has been there before...when i was 20 (30s now) i simply just got on a greyhound and said i'll figure it out, better then sitting around in a state of stagnation (i lived in a small college town in the midwest) do what you want man, whatever it is do it...doesn't matter if anyone thinks it sucks or you might not like it or you might fail, don't hold back. explore, live life and just enjoy it while you can you are young and can take chances and makes moves without major problems and other factors that you need to consider. if you are considering something do it or one day you'll be sitting at the bar sipping on your 5th saying i "could have" and "should have". i know many that are in that situation. if i never took risk i would not be where i am today, literally just doing whatever i want to do now without financial consequences because the chances i took paid off, it all started with a duffel bag and a bus ticket.i am sure you are in better shape. your opportunities in life may only come once and a single act can change your outcome or path __________________ Jimmy James ATKingdom/AMK Empire Since 1996 - My Movies Home of ATKGirlfriends - Where we take pornstars on trips...and fuck them. Connect with me on LinkedIn

09-10-2008, 09:52 PM	#125
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	yeah im gonna go down to panama next month and "settle" there.. basically live there a bit and try and travel and see the world.. I love internet biz.. u can work from anywhere with internet access.. pretty amazing.. __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-10-2008, 10:34 PM	#127
Slutboat Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2,388	I have a beach front crib in Miami $350 per week right on ocean dr.. forget the gf you will get more pussy here than a truckload of maxi pads PS I'm serious about the vacation rental, and if you are cool you can assist me shooting naked chicks

09-11-2008, 01:05 AM	#128
klinton So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: online Posts: 8,766	i have similiar dillema (move or not) , except that i'am alone hmmm

09-11-2008, 03:48 AM	#132
cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	some of you guys could be roomies, good luck!

09-11-2008, 04:01 AM	#133
Sands Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: 418194907 Posts: 3,134	I was born in NJ, and lived there while I was young before moving to NY here where I've lived for most of my adult life. I can sympathize with you 100%. For the past year or so I've been constantly nagged with this painfully persistent notion that there is so much more in life and I'm not going to find it in the tri-state area. It's a deep feeling that's beginning to permeate every aspect of my existence and dominate every sector of my mind, and I feel it will do so until it will somehow materialize and tear me from this computer chair. I have an impending surgical procedure, and once I've recovered from that and have found a steady, full-time, telecommute job, I will sell off all my shit and head West. It will pain me to leave my friends and family behind, but they'll only disappear from my daily life, and not my life in general, and the promise of undiscovered territory is one that is too powerful to ignore. I hope you make the decision to follow through with your desires. Last edited by Sands; 09-11-2008 at 04:02 AM..

09-11-2008, 05:11 AM	#134
moneybiz So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 1,391	Find a a cheap condo for 120k and pay it off really fast. Then go around and travel do what ever.

09-11-2008, 05:42 AM	#136
MrAwesome Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 898	do absolutely everything you can while you can!! __________________ CraftCannabis

09-11-2008, 06:50 PM	#137
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	nice.... klinton its sucks __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-11-2008, 09:26 PM	#138
CrystaliZed Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Somewhere I'd Rather Not Fuckin' Be! Posts: 282	I'd love to move out and go back to Minneapolis or Seattle or some other big city. Maybe somewhere warm, down south. One huge problem tho... Finances. Normal jobs in South Dakota don't pay enuf to do the whole "rent + bills" gig and #2... the freelance graphic design gig doesn't get u far... especially in the conservative, local scene that I'm in. And most friends are outa state or are married/with kids so that illiminates an option for trustworthy roomates. LOL!

09-12-2008, 04:40 AM	#140
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	i think I want to move to panama now

09-12-2008, 04:48 AM	#141
CherryV Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: www.blueparadisedr.com Posts: 700	I have homies in Panama... They live there in the winter for teh windy season and then move back to Dominican Republic in the summer for teh wind season. I hear amazing things about Panama. Fuk the whole Caribbean is an amazing place to hang your hat if you work online. Cheap food, beer, rent and easy chicks all day long! Good Luck Mate! __________________ 100% Legal Sex Vacations at Blue Paradise_Exotic Resort

09-12-2008, 05:46 AM	#142
mister_nobodie Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: nowhere Posts: 54	you'll end up resenting your gf if you stay.

09-12-2008, 07:04 PM	#143
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	yeah but shes making me feel X100 guilty.. She cries every night.. she keeps calling/texting me and sending me cards, saying stuff like I dont know what ill do without you. my life will never be the same..etc,etc.. i feel very very very bad. __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-12-2008, 07:19 PM	#145
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	heheh my gf is cool though u know.. shes one of those understanding, sexy, loves to have sex kinda gf.. sometimes she acts immature but ill def miss her.. she takes care of me more than anyone else... eh this suxxx. BTW i still miss fucking other chics.lol __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-12-2008, 08:26 PM	#146
mister_nobodie Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: nowhere Posts: 54	wow so she's exactly like ever other girl. before the wedding. the guilt trip is bullshit. if she cared about you, she'd care about your happiness and not just HER OWN. and if she doesnt know what she's going to do without you, then she's needy and a loser who definitely needs to learn. hopefully you're smart enough to be wearing a condom

09-12-2008, 09:15 PM	#148
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	Z i tried hitting u up.. im coming down there in a month.. i need your help buddy __________________ _________________ I am the best

09-13-2008, 01:20 AM	#149
sitesurfer70 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Singapore Posts: 331	Come to South East Asia, and I gonna show u around....need a partner in crime

09-13-2008, 01:21 AM	#150
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	what part of SE asia.lol __________________ _________________ I am the best