Good Qualities in a relationship ... - GoFuckYourself.com

MeganS · 06-25-2008, 03:49 PM

The other night this topic came up on the phone with one of my girlfriends. What are some of the qualities you look for in a relationship. My friend was all into the "big gestures", expensive dates, etc .. were i am someone who is happier that someone makes my coffee perfectly everytime without asking VS buying me some fat piece of rock.

We then tried to speculate on guys .. of course instantly we joked .. BLOW JOBS!

But on a serious level .. we didn't know what guys thought were good qualities and wondered what other people thought in general. So what better place to poll people then GFY! LOL

xoxo,
Megan

Let the real answers and funny jokes being in ...
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Juicy D. Links · 06-25-2008, 03:53 PM

5- Great Ass
4 Great Tits
3 Great Oral skills
2 Likes 3somes
1 Swallows

Ice · 06-25-2008, 03:55 PM

5 Me
4 Me
3 Me
2 Me
1 Me

Suntan · 06-25-2008, 04:00 PM

She must be hot
Have a hot body
Dont talk much
And loves sex

After Shock Media · 06-25-2008, 04:01 PM

Know how to make breakfast. Other meals I will gladly cook.
Not give me shit for hanging with the guys.
Not try to force me to get rid of one of my friends cause she thinks he is a pig or an asshole etc.
Understand that strip clubs are meaningless and so are the girls in them even if they give you lap dances.
Tell us what the fuck is wrong and not make us guess or ponder why you are stewing for 2 weeks.
Communicate, seriously we do not read minds.
Understand that we forget things, such as certain dates, and shit that happened in the past so please forgive us and while you are at it learn to forget yourself cause every time we have an argument you are not allowed to bring up shit from 10 years ago.
Seriously shoes and purses, not important to us. Odds are we will not even notice them unless they appear on our credit card statement. Do not get pissed about it ok.
Stop buying shit you will never wear. Finding shit in the closet with tags on it really pisses me off.

MeganS · 06-25-2008, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

5- Great Ass
4 Great Tits
3 Great Oral skills
2 Likes 3somes
1 Swallows

You want to clarify that .. you just described trannies too =)

xoxo,
Megan

Ice · 06-25-2008, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SWorldMegan

You want to clarify that .. you just described trannies too =)

xoxo,
Megan

Spunky · 06-25-2008, 04:11 PM

Communication is important.looks are ok but not as important

webgurl · 06-25-2008, 04:14 PM

5 -makes more money then me
4 - Is atleast 6ft tall
3 - Makes me laugh uncontrollably
2 - Is GOOD looking
1 - Is not cheap ass
0 - Not boring has alot of stories to tell me

CDSmith · 06-25-2008, 04:24 PM

The first parts of your post doesn't apply to me at all, but this however...

Quote:

Originally Posted by After Shock Media

Tell us what the fuck is wrong and not make us guess or ponder why you are stewing for 2 weeks.
Communicate, seriously we do not read minds.
Understand that we forget things, such as certain dates, and shit that happened in the past so please forgive us and while you are at it learn to forget yourself cause every time we have an argument you are not allowed to bring up shit from 10 years ago.
Seriously shoes and purses, not important to us. Odds are we will not even notice them unless they appear on our credit card statement. Do not get pissed about it ok.
Stop buying shit you will never wear. Finding shit in the closet with tags on it really pisses me off.

... is spot-on.

Thank you for posting it, you saved me a few minutes.

MeganS · 06-26-2008, 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by After Shock Media

Stop buying shit you will never wear. Finding shit in the closet with tags on it really pisses me off.

OHH i do that!! I am bad about that!

xoxo,
Megan

mrkris · 06-26-2008, 10:30 AM

I'm a pretty simple guy.

1. Understand I am a sarcastic asshole and not get upset.
2. Doesn't play the 'am I fat?' game. I don't like to play, so don't ask.
3. I work a lot. It pays the bills, so don't complain.
4. Be satisfied spending time with me, not necessarily doing something.
5. Gets along with my family.
6. Re #1, throw remarks back at me, makes life much more fun.

Isradude · 06-26-2008, 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

5- Great Ass
4 Great Tits
3 Great Oral skills
2 Likes 3somes
1 Swallows

lol

datawookiee · 06-26-2008, 10:35 AM

5 affectionate
4 smart
3 hygienic
2 empathetic
1 spontaneous

Karupted Charles · 06-26-2008, 10:38 AM

5 The ability to form sentences above 5 words long.

4 Someone who has a goal. It does not have to be a concrete or large goal just a goal that is a real thing they are looking to accomplish in the future.

3 B cup tits or larger

2 have some form of job preferable one were clothes are kept on.

1 must love me for me not for some raw piece of man meat that can be transformed into what she really wants.

Tom_PM · 06-26-2008, 11:04 AM

Be the best friend a person could want; especially when it's not easy to be.

KMR Stitch · 06-26-2008, 11:09 AM

legs open. mouth closed. unless its on my cock.

OMG Jim · 06-26-2008, 11:39 AM

This is from years of experience Megan and why I think 50% of marriages fail in the U.S.

AlmightyJim says, "The best quality in a relationship is for someone to accept someone for who they are and to not try to CHANGE THEM into the person that they think they should be."

Here is an excerpt from Please Understand Me II
http://keirsey.com/pumII.html

If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong. Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.

If my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly. Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.

I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up trying to change me or changing me into a copy of you.

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me.

To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences. Copyright ? 1998 by David Keirsey
__________________

My wife and I fought like crazy for the first ten years we were married and most of the time when the dust settled after an argument I started to realize that almost every disagreement we had related to "How we thought each other should think, act or be" without realizing neither of us was going to change. The result was the same damn argument over and over.

Finally I realized that I am who I am and she is who she is and that's the way it is!

By looking at the relationship a little differently I think I found the secret to a long lasting relationship... I have my life and my personal time as does she and then we have "Our Time". It's the "Our Time" that brought us together initially when we first met and all we had on our minds was spending time together and enjoying everything life had to offer us.

Then "Reality" sets in and things begin to become more routine and uneventful. Now rather than keep the fire burning and finding ways to keep the relationship fresh, time and effort turns more to "If I could only get him/her to think my way or act the way I do". Once the relationship heads down this path it could signal the beginning of the end!

If it gets to this point then it's probably time to go back and re-evaluate the qualities and reasons that attracted you to your significant other in the first place. If you can't identify these or they have drastically changed then maybe it is time to find another.

Bottom line - Enjoy people for who they are, don't try to change them and if you just can't put up with them any more then let them go.

_

Brother Bilo · 06-26-2008, 11:41 AM

The only one I really have is independance. I can't be with a girl that relies on me to do everything. Youre a grown ass women, you should be able to accomplish tasks without me.

Sly · 06-26-2008, 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SWorldMegan

You want to clarify that .. you just described trannies too =)

xoxo,
Megan

I'm sure those are included...

Scott McD · 06-26-2008, 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KMR Stitch

legs open. mouth closed. unless its on my cock.

Word !!

MetaMan · 06-26-2008, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SWorldMegan

My friend was all into the "big gestures", expensive dates, etc ..

do i ever hate bitches like this

your friend has never had a good dick because only losers with small dicks need to spend a bunch of cash to impress a woman.

as soon as a big dick mofo gives her a pounding she will get the fuck off of her high horse.

MetaMan · 06-26-2008, 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlmightyJim

AlmightyJim says, "The best quality in a relationship is for someone to accept someone for who they are and to not try to CHANGE THEM into the person that they think they should be."

this part is true BUT you have people who PRETEND to be something they are not then when the "real" them comes out the other partner is confused and tries to CHANGE THEM back to the person who they thought they knew.

Odie · 06-26-2008, 11:52 AM

someone who makes me smile all the time and that I can truly have a laugh with!

Meeper · 06-26-2008, 11:58 AM

Trust & Communication are the biggest make or breaks in relationships IMO

Looks, Sense of Humor, Intelligence are important too.

Vicious_B · 06-26-2008, 11:59 AM

5. Funny
4. Smart
3. Secure with themselves
2. Independent
1. Accepts me for myself

Z · 06-26-2008, 12:04 PM

<-- That describes me?

Quote:

Originally Posted by webgurl

5 -makes more money then me
4 - Is atleast 6ft tall
3 - Makes me laugh uncontrollably
2 - Is GOOD looking
1 - Is not cheap ass
0 - Not boring has alot of stories to tell me

Z · 06-26-2008, 12:14 PM

Above all, I value loyalty and honesty in a partner. The "I'll step in front of the bullet for someone I love and never turn on them no matter what" type of loyalty, not the modern culture definition of loyalty. Honesty in the "even if it hurts, I'm going to tell you the truth", radical honesty, "I love you too much to lie to you kind".

Shallow, un-interesting women with small thoughts and ideas, they're just not going to do it.

She should be perspicacious, spontaneous, funny, involved, deep, thoughtful, sensual, passionate and sexy. The kind of girl who can go from jean shorts and a bathing suit top during the day to a "damn baby" dress for a nice business dinner that night. She'll be comfortable and have fun at our shows and have all the brains and class for mainstream business too.

This is starting to sound like a personals ad...so I'll stop now.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 06-26-2008, 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan

do i ever hate bitches like this

your friend has never had a good dick because only losers with small dicks need to spend a bunch of cash to impress a woman.

as soon as a big dick mofo gives her a pounding she will get the fuck off of her high horse.

I agree.

It's as simple as that.

One has to wonder why some chicks get with nasty lookin fuckers that are broke?
It's the huge cock doing the work.

MetaMan · 06-26-2008, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

I agree.

It's as simple as that.

One has to wonder why some chicks get with nasty lookin fuckers that are broke?
It's the huge cock doing the work.

bingo, i think alot of that has to do with confidence.

jimmy-3-way · 06-26-2008, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

5 - Great Ass
4 - Great Tits
3 - Great Oral skills
2 - Likes 3somes
1 - Swallows

Wow - first time I've ever agreed with the Juice.

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MeganS Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Cali Baby! Posts: 1,487	Good Qualities in a relationship ... The other night this topic came up on the phone with one of my girlfriends. What are some of the qualities you look for in a relationship. My friend was all into the "big gestures", expensive dates, etc .. were i am someone who is happier that someone makes my coffee perfectly everytime without asking VS buying me some fat piece of rock. We then tried to speculate on guys .. of course instantly we joked .. BLOW JOBS! But on a serious level .. we didn't know what guys thought were good qualities and wondered what other people thought in general. So what better place to poll people then GFY! LOL xoxo, Megan Let the real answers and funny jokes being in ... 5 4 3 2 1 __________________ Megan S Broadcast, Licensing and DVD www.nmgmanagement.com

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OMG Jim Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Atlanta Posts: 3,153	This is from years of experience Megan and why I think 50% of marriages fail in the U.S. AlmightyJim says, "The best quality in a relationship is for someone to accept someone for who they are and to not try to CHANGE THEM into the person that they think they should be." Here is an excerpt from Please Understand Me II http://keirsey.com/pumII.html If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong. Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view. If my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly. Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be. I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up trying to change me or changing me into a copy of you. I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences. Copyright ? 1998 by David Keirsey __________________ My wife and I fought like crazy for the first ten years we were married and most of the time when the dust settled after an argument I started to realize that almost every disagreement we had related to "How we thought each other should think, act or be" without realizing neither of us was going to change. The result was the same damn argument over and over. Finally I realized that I am who I am and she is who she is and that's the way it is! By looking at the relationship a little differently I think I found the secret to a long lasting relationship... I have my life and my personal time as does she and then we have "Our Time". It's the "Our Time" that brought us together initially when we first met and all we had on our minds was spending time together and enjoying everything life had to offer us. Then "Reality" sets in and things begin to become more routine and uneventful. Now rather than keep the fire burning and finding ways to keep the relationship fresh, time and effort turns more to "If I could only get him/her to think my way or act the way I do". Once the relationship heads down this path it could signal the beginning of the end! If it gets to this point then it's probably time to go back and re-evaluate the qualities and reasons that attracted you to your significant other in the first place. If you can't identify these or they have drastically changed then maybe it is time to find another. Bottom line - Enjoy people for who they are, don't try to change them and if you just can't put up with them any more then let them go. _ __________________ ICQ: 254 914 537 - Skype: AlmightyJim

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06-26-2008, 12:14 PM	#28
Z Vidi Vici Veni Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 6,308	Above all, I value loyalty and honesty in a partner. The "I'll step in front of the bullet for someone I love and never turn on them no matter what" type of loyalty, not the modern culture definition of loyalty. Honesty in the "even if it hurts, I'm going to tell you the truth", radical honesty, "I love you too much to lie to you kind". Shallow, un-interesting women with small thoughts and ideas, they're just not going to do it. She should be perspicacious, spontaneous, funny, involved, deep, thoughtful, sensual, passionate and sexy. The kind of girl who can go from jean shorts and a bathing suit top during the day to a "damn baby" dress for a nice business dinner that night. She'll be comfortable and have fun at our shows and have all the brains and class for mainstream business too. This is starting to sound like a personals ad...so I'll stop now.