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Azoy? · 05-05-2008, 07:05 PM

What's worse: An affair or a prostitute in your opinion and can you forgive one but not the other ? Interesting issue.

mikesouth · 05-05-2008, 07:05 PM

cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 05-05-2008, 07:07 PM

neither, they are both part of the american dream.

uno · 05-05-2008, 07:07 PM

affair is much worse.

Azoy? · 05-05-2008, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by uno

affair is much worse.

why do you think so ? like to get your take on this.

05-05-2008, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Azoy?

why do you think so ? like to get your take on this.

Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction.

LeRoy · 05-05-2008, 07:16 PM

Having and affair with a prostitute

Spunky · 05-05-2008, 07:19 PM

I think chicks might be able to forgive you easier if you had a prostitute

wargames · 05-05-2008, 07:23 PM

Affair is much worse prostitute you fuck pay and she leaves an affair can end up with the chick your banging showing up in your house one morning cooking your dog fido

BusterBunny · 05-05-2008, 07:29 PM

prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her

uno · 05-05-2008, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by sherm

Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction.

bingo.

TheSenator · 05-05-2008, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BusterBunny

prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her

Thats some pimp psychology...

Drake · 05-05-2008, 07:36 PM

Depends on which one gives you the STD

NY Jester · 05-05-2008, 07:43 PM

I ahve to say I think an affair is better..if there is such a thing... prostitue carries alot of baggage including STD's and god-knows-what I dont care how clean they appear. id kuch rather not put my family at risk cause I need to nut..id rather j/o

skrinkladoo · 05-05-2008, 07:45 PM

i vote affair.

DaddyHalbucks · 05-05-2008, 07:49 PM

Yipes, neither is good for a marriage.

tony286 · 05-05-2008, 07:49 PM

The affair there tends to be an emotional attachment as opposed to a business transaction.

GetSCORECash · 05-05-2008, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by wargames

Affair is much worse prostitute you fuck pay and she leaves an affair can end up with the chick your banging showing up in your house one morning cooking your dog fido

exactly, and with a prostitute, all she wants is your money. With an affair, they want you every day, so you are tradeing one wife for another.

CDSmith · 05-05-2008, 07:52 PM

All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

BusterBunny · 05-05-2008, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSenator

Thats some pimp psychology...

i figure odds of getting kicked out are high either way...having a free house and pussy lined up seems better than paying the hooker and hotel bill...if the affair chick happens to be married she is obviously an evil bitch that you can manipulate into stealing money from her husband to support you...

Ayla_SquareTurtle · 05-05-2008, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

It's the same overall. Hooker is maybe a little worse because of the disease factor.

Being a hooker also doesn't get her off the hook for a beat down if I walk in on it.

baddog · 05-05-2008, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

Thank you. I was wondering from whose perspective. I would lean towards Bunny Boy's answer though.

Barefootsies · 05-05-2008, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by uno

affair is much worse.

I think it depends on what your consequences are. If you've been/are married, you have a lot to lose in investment, house, happy home and kids.

I would do an affair before some filthy fucking prostitute.

wanted · 05-05-2008, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mikesouth

cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

haha what a great idea

Sam Granger · 05-05-2008, 08:46 PM

Affair is worse. You are not only sexually cheating, but you are also emotionally cheating your wife... Shows her that you dont appreciate all the love that she gives you, while sex with a prositute has no real emotional value to you, probably just doing it for something new and exciting.

aico · 05-05-2008, 08:55 PM

Finding out your wife is a prostitute at the fair.

CDSmith · 05-05-2008, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle

It's the same overall. Hooker is maybe a little worse because of the disease factor.

Being a hooker also doesn't get her off the hook for a beat down if I walk in on it.

And there you have it, the woman's perspective.

Nothing else matters.

syntacks · 05-05-2008, 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Azoy?

What's worse: An affair or a prostitute in your opinion and can you forgive one but not the other ? Interesting issue.

at least source the article.

What's Worse: An Affair or a Prostitute?

Eva PSC · 05-05-2008, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

I'd say prostitute is better. Girl's biggest fair is emotional cheating, as much as a girl would hate the news about a night with a prostitute, it can be somewhat justified by "oh i was drunk, my friends forced me to, i don't know what i was doing... i am so terribly sorry" etc. You can't make the same excuse for an affair and the affair is much more likely to end the marriage with a divorce.

baddog · 05-05-2008, 08:58 PM

I presume you mean, what is worse, getting caught with a prostitute or getting caught in an affair.

d-null · 05-05-2008, 09:06 PM

why do people always bring up the std issue? an affair with some girl you pick up in a bar is probably way more likely to involve stds compared to a high class call girl

anyways, the answer is obviously the affair, as the prostitute is pretty much just masturbation with a helper, whereas an affair is emotion and that is obviously worse

Holly · 05-05-2008, 09:07 PM

I don't think it's that big of a deal for a guy to occasionally hook up with a hooker/stripper/massage parlor person. As long as it's meaningless, it wouldn't bother me. Guys like to do stuff like that from time to time. If someone is good to me and makes me happy, I wouldn't sweat him that thrill.

An affair is different. Then you have to burn the house down while he's asleep in it.

Iron Fist · 05-05-2008, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by BusterBunny

prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her

Wanna get married?

Kard63 · 05-05-2008, 10:31 PM

Affair is worse. It involves betrayal and emotions. You would be untrustworthy. Nailing a hooker just means you have low sexual values. Which is big deal to some people, others dont care, but no one likes someone that is untrustworthy.

Madame0120 · 05-05-2008, 10:32 PM

It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

gadabout · 05-05-2008, 11:09 PM

neither the problem is you are not in a open marriage

Eva PSC · 05-05-2008, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madame0120

It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

so very true

Ayla_SquareTurtle · 05-05-2008, 11:26 PM

While I somewhat understand the "emotional cheating" versus "sex only" thing, it doesn't really factor in with me personally. Hooker or the woman next door, either way, doesn't matter. It's still a lie if you claim to be monogamous and aren't, no matter who you're fucking.

I think I might be more forgiving about a hooker IF I knew there were some sexual need I wasn't fulfilling, but then I'm not really the withholding type.

Some Guy · 05-05-2008, 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sherm

Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction.

You said it, man.

There is no better answer than this. Summed up my take on the situation perfectly.

baddog · 05-05-2008, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madame0120

It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

hmmm, I was taught the exact opposite. Must be an X vs Y thing.

EuroRev_Stacey · 05-06-2008, 05:02 AM

if married, an affair will hurt more unlike prostitute, no emotion is involved...

bronco67 · 05-06-2008, 05:46 AM

My girl says she would rather watch me have sex with some girl I don't know, than to see me walking down the street holding hands with another girl.

Funatico · 05-06-2008, 05:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikesouth

cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

Nice one

I'm think both are pretty bad..but let say that prostitute is worse..

rayadp05 · 05-06-2008, 06:08 AM

I think that for most women, an affair is worse than just banging some bitch one night....especially a hooker.

Sansa · 05-06-2008, 06:14 AM

What if it's a prostitute having an affair (outside of her relationship)?

OG LennyT · 05-06-2008, 06:58 AM

Affair is worse because of emotional ties that begin

Isradude · 05-06-2008, 07:49 AM

affair is much worse............... MUCH WORSE !

carol.prime · 05-06-2008, 12:08 PM

If there's a feeling involved, i think that couldn't be worst at all.

Dime Piece · 05-06-2008, 01:38 PM

Hookers Rule! Get her done.

CurrentlySober · 05-06-2008, 01:38 PM

Whats worse?

A disease

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