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Azoy? 05-05-2008 07:05 PM

What's worse: An affair or a prostitute?
 
What's worse: An affair or a prostitute in your opinion and can you forgive one but not the other ? Interesting issue.

mikesouth 05-05-2008 07:05 PM

cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 05-05-2008 07:07 PM

neither, they are both part of the american dream.

uno 05-05-2008 07:07 PM

affair is much worse.

Azoy? 05-05-2008 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uno (Post 14153507)
affair is much worse.

why do you think so ? like to get your take on this.

shermo 05-05-2008 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Azoy? (Post 14153511)
why do you think so ? like to get your take on this.

Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction. :2 cents:

LeRoy 05-05-2008 07:16 PM

Having and affair with a prostitute :)

Spunky 05-05-2008 07:19 PM

I think chicks might be able to forgive you easier if you had a prostitute

wargames 05-05-2008 07:23 PM

Affair is much worse prostitute you fuck pay and she leaves an affair can end up with the chick your banging showing up in your house one morning cooking your dog fido :2 cents:

BusterBunny 05-05-2008 07:29 PM

prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her:2 cents:

uno 05-05-2008 07:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sherm (Post 14153528)
Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction. :2 cents:

bingo. :thumbsup

TheSenator 05-05-2008 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BusterBunny (Post 14153569)
prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her:2 cents:


Thats some pimp psychology...

Drake 05-05-2008 07:36 PM

Depends on which one gives you the STD

NY Jester 05-05-2008 07:43 PM

I ahve to say I think an affair is better..if there is such a thing... prostitue carries alot of baggage including STD's and god-knows-what I dont care how clean they appear. id kuch rather not put my family at risk cause I need to nut..id rather j/o

skrinkladoo 05-05-2008 07:45 PM

i vote affair.

DaddyHalbucks 05-05-2008 07:49 PM

Yipes, neither is good for a marriage.

tony286 05-05-2008 07:49 PM

The affair there tends to be an emotional attachment as opposed to a business transaction.

GetSCORECash 05-05-2008 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wargames (Post 14153547)
Affair is much worse prostitute you fuck pay and she leaves an affair can end up with the chick your banging showing up in your house one morning cooking your dog fido :2 cents:

exactly, and with a prostitute, all she wants is your money. With an affair, they want you every day, so you are tradeing one wife for another.

CDSmith 05-05-2008 07:52 PM

All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

BusterBunny 05-05-2008 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSenator (Post 14153580)
Thats some pimp psychology...

i figure odds of getting kicked out are high either way...having a free house and pussy lined up seems better than paying the hooker and hotel bill...if the affair chick happens to be married she is obviously an evil bitch that you can manipulate into stealing money from her husband to support you...

Ayla_SquareTurtle 05-05-2008 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 14153637)
All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

It's the same overall. Hooker is maybe a little worse because of the disease factor.

Being a hooker also doesn't get her off the hook for a beat down if I walk in on it.

baddog 05-05-2008 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 14153637)
All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

Thank you. I was wondering from whose perspective. I would lean towards Bunny Boy's answer though.

Barefootsies 05-05-2008 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uno (Post 14153507)
affair is much worse.

I think it depends on what your consequences are. If you've been/are married, you have a lot to lose in investment, house, happy home and kids.

I would do an affair before some filthy fucking prostitute.

:2 cents:

wanted 05-05-2008 08:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikesouth (Post 14153503)
cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

haha what a great idea :)

Sam Granger 05-05-2008 08:46 PM

Affair is worse. You are not only sexually cheating, but you are also emotionally cheating your wife... Shows her that you dont appreciate all the love that she gives you, while sex with a prositute has no real emotional value to you, probably just doing it for something new and exciting.

aico 05-05-2008 08:55 PM

Finding out your wife is a prostitute at the fair.

CDSmith 05-05-2008 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle (Post 14153746)
It's the same overall. Hooker is maybe a little worse because of the disease factor.

Being a hooker also doesn't get her off the hook for a beat down if I walk in on it.

And there you have it, the woman's perspective.

Nothing else matters.

syntacks 05-05-2008 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Azoy? (Post 14153501)
What's worse: An affair or a prostitute in your opinion and can you forgive one but not the other ? Interesting issue.

at least source the article.

What's Worse: An Affair or a Prostitute?

Eva PSC 05-05-2008 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 14153637)
All guys answering the question. :D

Does it matter what the guy thinks is worse? Ask the ladies what's "worse".

I'd say prostitute is better. Girl's biggest fair is emotional cheating, as much as a girl would hate the news about a night with a prostitute, it can be somewhat justified by "oh i was drunk, my friends forced me to, i don't know what i was doing... i am so terribly sorry" etc. You can't make the same excuse for an affair and the affair is much more likely to end the marriage with a divorce.

baddog 05-05-2008 08:58 PM

I presume you mean, what is worse, getting caught with a prostitute or getting caught in an affair.

d-null 05-05-2008 09:06 PM

why do people always bring up the std issue? an affair with some girl you pick up in a bar is probably way more likely to involve stds compared to a high class call girl

anyways, the answer is obviously the affair, as the prostitute is pretty much just masturbation with a helper, whereas an affair is emotion and that is obviously worse

Holly 05-05-2008 09:07 PM

I don't think it's that big of a deal for a guy to occasionally hook up with a hooker/stripper/massage parlor person. As long as it's meaningless, it wouldn't bother me. Guys like to do stuff like that from time to time. If someone is good to me and makes me happy, I wouldn't sweat him that thrill.

An affair is different. Then you have to burn the house down while he's asleep in it.

Iron Fist 05-05-2008 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BusterBunny (Post 14153569)
prostitute is worse...your wife will realize you are a total loser that can't get a chick besides her without paying and obviously weren't worth marrying, divorces you takes all your money and finds a new man with a bigger dick....have an affair and she will get jealous and fight for your love giving you more power and opportunities to cheat on her:2 cents:

Wanna get married? :pimp:pimp

Kard63 05-05-2008 10:31 PM

Affair is worse. It involves betrayal and emotions. You would be untrustworthy. Nailing a hooker just means you have low sexual values. Which is big deal to some people, others dont care, but no one likes someone that is untrustworthy.

Madame0120 05-05-2008 10:32 PM

It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

gadabout 05-05-2008 11:09 PM

neither the problem is you are not in a open marriage

Eva PSC 05-05-2008 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madame0120 (Post 14154048)
It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

so very true

Ayla_SquareTurtle 05-05-2008 11:26 PM

While I somewhat understand the "emotional cheating" versus "sex only" thing, it doesn't really factor in with me personally. Hooker or the woman next door, either way, doesn't matter. It's still a lie if you claim to be monogamous and aren't, no matter who you're fucking.

I think I might be more forgiving about a hooker IF I knew there were some sexual need I wasn't fulfilling, but then I'm not really the withholding type.

Some Guy 05-05-2008 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sherm (Post 14153528)
Because it's emotionless, and neither party has an attachment. You pay a hooker to leave. An affair has attachment, it is done multiple times, and both people are in it for their own self satisfaction. :2 cents:

You said it, man.

There is no better answer than this. Summed up my take on the situation perfectly.

:thumbsup

baddog 05-05-2008 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madame0120 (Post 14154048)
It is easier to get Permission ...

than forgiveness.

hmmm, I was taught the exact opposite. Must be an X vs Y thing.

EuroRev_Stacey 05-06-2008 05:02 AM

if married, an affair will hurt more unlike prostitute, no emotion is involved...

bronco67 05-06-2008 05:46 AM

My girl says she would rather watch me have sex with some girl I don't know, than to see me walking down the street holding hands with another girl.

Funatico 05-06-2008 05:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikesouth (Post 14153503)
cover yer bases...have an affair with a prostitute

Nice one :thumbsup

I'm think both are pretty bad..but let say that prostitute is worse..

rayadp05 05-06-2008 06:08 AM

I think that for most women, an affair is worse than just banging some bitch one night....especially a hooker.

Sansa 05-06-2008 06:14 AM

What if it's a prostitute having an affair (outside of her relationship)?

OG LennyT 05-06-2008 06:58 AM

Affair is worse because of emotional ties that begin

Isradude 05-06-2008 07:49 AM

affair is much worse............... MUCH WORSE !

carol.prime 05-06-2008 12:08 PM

If there's a feeling involved, i think that couldn't be worst at all.

Dime Piece 05-06-2008 01:38 PM

Hookers Rule! Get her done.

CurrentlySober 05-06-2008 01:38 PM

Whats worse?

A disease


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