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digifan 02-21-2008 01:28 PM

Wow, congrats that's a real success story.

mona 02-21-2008 01:30 PM

I think that because alcohol is legal, we don't realize how dangerous it can be. Congrats and thanks for sharing!

TCSMatt 02-21-2008 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadknowslaw (Post 13810417)
February 21, 1999 I was arrested for drunk driving in Cerro Gordo County, Iowa. At the time, I was the Elected County Attorney of Worth County, the county just to the north. I was my usual blitzed self that night. My tolerance was so high after 15 years of heavy drinking I passed the walk and turn but failed the breathalyzer -- if you call over .30 failing. College students die at .24. For me to still be able to walk at that level was amazing. I was 185 pounds and had a 37 inch waist. (now I am 160 and 30 inch waist-- back to normal)
The next day I called an in-patient treatment center and reserved a bed. Since I had been prosecuting drunk drivers, I had a good relationship with the manager of the center and was fortunate that they could take me on short notice.

After I checked into the treatment center, the DT's started and lasted for 4 very long days. Withdrawal from severe alcoholism is the most painful thing I have EVER felt in my life.

A day after I got through the DT's, one of the other patients who was also going through them died in the middle of the night. Going to breakfast in the morning, and seeing them wheel his body away on the gurney I realized how serious this really was for me.

I spent a month in that in-patient treatment center. I don't know how else i would have made it- I was craving a drink so bad my mouth watered.
Somehow I made it through the roughest period and stayed sober. I got into Alcoholics Anonymous and have been going ever since.

Every year I post on my Sobriety Anniversary. It helps me to remember how really really fucked up I was and how lucky I was to have been arrested. It took a kick in the ass that hard to get me to sober up.

Friday, February 22 marks 9 years without a drink. It feels damn good to be here, sober, today.

More power to you, Congrats!!!:D

baddog 02-21-2008 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinky Dollars (Post 13812787)
Its nice to have you here in the castle...

And, its nice to have you here sober!

:-)

John Sander
Director, Marketing
Kink.com

Chad overlooking his kingdom

http://fubarwebmasters.com/galleries...6/100_0448.jpg

Burnt Bacon 02-21-2008 02:49 PM

Congrats for sure, my wife struggles with it every day as well. It takes a lot of fortitude to make the day, week, month... let alone almost a decade. :thumbsup

Blue Eyes 02-21-2008 03:12 PM

Chad,

I am not into congratulating people for each and everything they do or has happened to them but for you I'd like to make an exception!!

Congratulations! Some people must do the same!

yuu.design 02-21-2008 03:31 PM

congrats bro !!!

Meeper 02-21-2008 04:34 PM

congrats!

Pornopat 02-21-2008 04:36 PM

A strong man knows his boundaries.
Congrats Chad!

raymor 02-21-2008 08:06 PM

Congrats. What does the second A in "AA" stand for?

'So Fucking Money 02-21-2008 08:15 PM

Wish you the best of luck. AA is such a depressing thing. It helps a lot and doesnt faze others. Keep on keepin on..

'So Fucking Money 02-21-2008 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by raymor (Post 13814668)
Congrats. What does the second A in "AA" stand for?

ambidextrous amateurs (a new handjob site probably in the works..right about.................now!)

needlive 02-21-2008 08:18 PM

Congrats that's very nice to hear. I hope that everyone facing similar problems will be as lucky as you.

Peter Romero 02-21-2008 08:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by raymor (Post 13814668)
Congrats. What does the second A in "AA" stand for?

It stands for Anonymity - if you look that up it means: "When I'm not me."

.~. 02-21-2008 09:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadknowslaw (Post 13812056)

I spent 7 days in jail, paid a $1500 fine, 2 years probation and license revoked for a full year with NO work permit. I can honestly say I never drove during that year.


That seems like an extremely harsh sentence for a first time offender.
I would bet it was (at least) your second DUI . . . to get a decision like that.

I know of two time offenders that haven't received sentences as harsh as that.

What aren't you telling us?

seeric 02-21-2008 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13814942)
That seems like an extremely harsh sentence for a first time offender.
I would bet it was (at least) your second DUI . . . to get a decision like that.

I know of two time offenders that haven't received sentences as harsh as that.

What aren't you telling us?

shut up....

.~. 02-21-2008 10:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 13814956)
shut up....

Oh you shut up you fat ignorant slut.

He is holding back and if he wants to "confess" on this board . . . . I say do it right!!!! Tell all (honestly) or stfu!!!

No first time offender would get that sort of punishment (unless).

What isn't he telling us???

baddog 02-21-2008 10:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13814998)
Oh you shut up you fat ignorant slut.

A1R3K has to be one of the fattest people I know. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

.~. 02-21-2008 10:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 13815017)
A1R3K has to be one of the fattest people I know. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Exactly how fat is he?

When he goes to the zoo . . . do the elephants throw HIM peanuts?

When he goes jogging, does he leave pot-holes????

seeric 02-21-2008 10:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13814998)
Oh you shut up you fat ignorant slut.

He is holding back and if he wants to "confess" on this board . . . . I say do it right!!!! Tell all (honestly) or stfu!!!

No first time offender would get that sort of punishment (unless).

What isn't he telling us???

yes they do dipshit.

thats a first offense sentence.

jackass.

go back to making dumb threads.

NikKay 02-21-2008 10:59 PM

A first time offender in Florida who pleads no contest gets jail time, fines, forced driving classes, forced MADD courses, and at least 1 year of probation. Second time offenders get much more jail time than only 7 days.

steved 02-22-2008 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13814998)
Oh you shut up you fat ignorant slut.

He is holding back and if he wants to "confess" on this board . . . . I say do it right!!!! Tell all (honestly) or stfu!!!

No first time offender would get that sort of punishment (unless).

What isn't he telling us???

STFU you POS loser....

CB_Voyta 02-22-2008 06:36 PM

Amazing story! Let this be an inspiration to other people that might be having problems.

I'll have a beer to celebrate your anniversary tonite ;-)

Ycaza 02-22-2008 08:48 PM

congrats on nine, 1/17/89 myself, there is, amazingly enough someone here who has the same date.

JayDeeZee 02-22-2008 09:19 PM

Congrats Chad.

9 yrs

One day at a time.

DigitalDruid 02-23-2008 01:37 AM

congrats man

lazycash 02-24-2008 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13814942)
That seems like an extremely harsh sentence for a first time offender.
I would bet it was (at least) your second DUI . . . to get a decision like that.

I know of two time offenders that haven't received sentences as harsh as that.

What aren't you telling us?

Greg, every state is different, for instance when you got your dui in Ohio the penalty was less severe than many other state's first dui. He said he blew a 3.0, so I'm sure he received the max extreme dui penalty.

Azoy? 02-24-2008 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadknowslaw (Post 13810417)
February 21, 1999 I was arrested for drunk driving in Cerro Gordo County, Iowa. At the time, I was the Elected County Attorney of Worth County, the county just to the north. I was my usual blitzed self that night. My tolerance was so high after 15 years of heavy drinking I passed the walk and turn but failed the breathalyzer -- if you call over .30 failing. College students die at .24. For me to still be able to walk at that level was amazing. I was 185 pounds and had a 37 inch waist. (now I am 160 and 30 inch waist-- back to normal)
The next day I called an in-patient treatment center and reserved a bed. Since I had been prosecuting drunk drivers, I had a good relationship with the manager of the center and was fortunate that they could take me on short notice.

After I checked into the treatment center, the DT's started and lasted for 4 very long days. Withdrawal from severe alcoholism is the most painful thing I have EVER felt in my life.

A day after I got through the DT's, one of the other patients who was also going through them died in the middle of the night. Going to breakfast in the morning, and seeing them wheel his body away on the gurney I realized how serious this really was for me.

I spent a month in that in-patient treatment center. I don't know how else i would have made it- I was craving a drink so bad my mouth watered.
Somehow I made it through the roughest period and stayed sober. I got into Alcoholics Anonymous and have been going ever since.

Every year I post on my Sobriety Anniversary. It helps me to remember how really really fucked up I was and how lucky I was to have been arrested. It took a kick in the ass that hard to get me to sober up.

Friday, February 22 marks 9 years without a drink. It feels damn good to be here, sober, today.

are you going out for a drink to celebrate ? :1orglaugh

Rexk 02-24-2008 06:48 PM

Congrats Chad

I just celebrated 60 days...and it has been rough...Ive had to change everything in my life including temporarily getting out of adult..moving...changing friends..I go to at least one meeting per day..sometimes more..my drinking patterns were similar to yours...and finally become all day everyday..It is encouraging to see other webmasters here with the same problem..I know I am not alone in this business

Probono 02-24-2008 06:52 PM

Congratulations.

MaDalton 02-24-2008 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rexk (Post 13827092)
Congrats Chad

I just celebrated 60 days...and it has been rough...Ive had to change everything in my life including temporarily getting out of adult..moving...changing friends..I go to at least one meeting per day..sometimes more..my drinking patterns were similar to yours...and finally become all day everyday..It is encouraging to see other webmasters here with the same problem..I know I am not alone in this business

congrats, rex :thumbsup

keep it up

Rexk 02-24-2008 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaDalton (Post 13827171)
congrats, rex :thumbsup

keep it up

Thanks Stefan....hope to see you soon

.~. 02-24-2008 09:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by steved (Post 13819028)
STFU you POS loser....

YOU make me laugh you fake pos ass scab! Nobody thinks you are real. FUCK OFF MORON!!!!!!



Thanks stupid.

.~. 02-24-2008 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lazycash (Post 13826988)
Greg, every state is different, for instance when you got your dui in Ohio the penalty was less severe than many other state's first dui. He said he blew a 3.0, so I'm sure he received the max extreme dui penalty.


You dirty pos alcoholic liar. I love how you think EVERYONE has a dui just because you have ONE!!!!


FUCK OFF you stupid drunken fatty pos moron!

I know the law for other reasons. You are wrong on your "guess" as to why he got such a harsh penalty. FUCK YOU IDIOT!!!! Fat lazycash stinks up another thread with his "corky" opinion. Thanks fucker!!!

smutsellers 02-24-2008 09:10 PM

a sincere congrats to you mate. good to see something meaningful on these boards once in a while.

.~. 02-24-2008 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rexk (Post 13827092)
Congrats Chad

I just celebrated 60 days...and it has been rough...Ive had to change everything in my life including temporarily getting out of adult..moving...changing friends..I go to at least one meeting per day..sometimes more..my drinking patterns were similar to yours...and finally become all day everyday..It is encouraging to see other webmasters here with the same problem..I know I am not alone in this business

Congrats dude!

Do you remember your mentality during that time? I mean the time in which you seemed to evolve to drinking all day, everyday?

What did you tell yourself you were doing as it progressed? How did you talk yourself into getting to that stage?

Also, do you remember when you made the decision to quit? Can you share what it was that made you realize you needed to stop drinking?


Thanks man!

amateurcanada 02-24-2008 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 13810483)
When university got tough, did you quit? No.
When law school got a little rough, did you quit? Of course not.
When passing the Bar was stressing your last nerve, did you quit? Absolutely no!

Nobody likes a quitter, Chad.

Your crazy, I like how you think LOL "guzzles" j/k

kmanrox 02-24-2008 11:04 PM

damn you all being so supportive, i was gonna post 'i'll drink to that'... but didnt wanna be the spoiler.. blah

lazycash 02-25-2008 01:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .~. (Post 13827515)
You dirty pos alcoholic liar. I love how you think EVERYONE has a dui just because you have ONE!!!!


FUCK OFF you stupid drunken fatty pos moron!

I know the law for other reasons. You are wrong on your "guess" as to why he got such a harsh penalty. FUCK YOU IDIOT!!!! Fat lazycash stinks up another thread with his "corky" opinion. Thanks fucker!!!

Nice try Greg, you already admitted to getting a dui under one of your other nicks in the past.

LeRoy 02-25-2008 01:41 AM

Nice one dude


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