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bausch 12-21-2007 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 13545698)
Did a boy in school trick you into putting out and dumping you or something similar. Or maybe you were anti boys even at school. Any way it's not natural.

Eh, I'm 29 years old, it's been a long time since I was in "school".

I never got "tricked" into anything, but I've been in long-term relationships where I got fucked over. I just got out of one very recently. That's why I'm bitter.

Peter Romero 12-21-2007 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 13545703)

Post a picture of yourself. It doesn't have to be naked or anything....
ADG

Yes it does. Mine are only nudes. Fair is fair.

bausch 12-21-2007 03:18 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 13545703)
From what I've read, you're celibate, anti-social, and cynical and afraid of men (plus you mentioned in another thread that you are flat-chested).

Has a guy ever actually hit on you? If so, think about the kind of guy that would bother to hit on someone like you (based upon your own description of yourself)...that should make it easier to see why you have such a low opinion of men - because the only ones that you attract must be bottom dwellers anyway.

Sorry, but I am having a hard time accepting that you are not a gay/emo man from the way you write.

Post a picture of yourself. It doesn't have to be naked or anything. I think it will reveal many things about why you have the twisted world view that you do...

ADG

I do get hit on. All kinds of men hit on me, good looking ones too.

Why should I post a pic of myself here for people's amusement/entertainment?
There's nothing in it for me. I'm not content.

kane 12-21-2007 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545701)
Well, everyone has been in fucked up relationships at some point I would think and yes, I've been fucked over twice before. It has made me very bitter and pissed off I think.

I just got out of a recent relationship (around 3 months ago) where I got fucked the fuck over so yes, I'm bitter, more now than usual.

Well, to me that says it all. Right now you are in pissed of phase that comes with getting fucked over at the end of a relationship. In time that fades then you open up a little bit and move on. It sounds though like guys tend to fuck you over. wherever you are meeting guys, I would change that up a little :)

Peter Romero 12-21-2007 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545708)
I do get hit on. All kinds of men hit on me, good looking ones too.

Why should I post a pic of myself here for people's amusement/entertainment?
There's nothing in it for me. I'm not content.

Who's talking about you? It's all about me. Post a picture or I'll sick my dog on your 12 cats.

It's a habit with me... I judge how much I'm gonna put up with your shit by how you look.

I'm 42 and overweight but I'm a sexy mother fucker. But everyone here has seen me naked.

Whatchoo got?

Ryan St. Germain 12-21-2007 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545696)
I'm not THAT averse to human contact, I do leave my house everyday to get food, coffee etc

I was in a bad mood when I wrote that. I'm over it though.

I've had bad days. I've had bad relationships. However, i've never had it so bad that I would consider the world and it's inhabitants to be as bleak as the picture you've painted here.

I hope for your sake it was momentary, because you will miss out on a lot of life if that's not the case.

96ukssob 12-21-2007 03:27 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 13545703)
(plus you mentioned in another thread that you are flat-chested)

ADG

off topic... i think flat chested girls are hot, but im into the whole 90 pound cutie thing too :thumbsup

hateman 12-21-2007 03:28 AM

she is a fucking mental attention whore bitch

no sane man would hit on her in real life, so she came here for attention

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 12-21-2007 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545708)
I do get hit on. All kinds of men hit on me, good looking ones too.

Why should I post a pic of myself here for people's amusement/entertainment?
There's nothing in it for me. I'm not content.

Okay, well that pretty much cinches my original hunch that you are a man.

You go gir...er, dude!

ADG

rowan 12-21-2007 03:31 AM

Who says that every man who tries to talk to you just wants a root? I'm personally quite shy around new people, so if I talk to you then it's for something at a higher level. Sure, I wouldn't know the first thing about you apart from some visual clues (your general appearance, the way you act and carry yourself etc) but it's a start. Don't assume we're all into the numbers game.

^^ "You" above of course means a generic female

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 12-21-2007 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 13545716)
off topic... i think flat chested girls are hot, but im into the whole 90 pound cutie thing too :thumbsup

Agreed...but the good looking flat-chested ones have something to prove, and they will f*ck like there is no tomorrow, with few questions asked, and no bitter remorse later like Bauch here.

I would much prefer a 90 pound spinner with small boobs over a horse with implants.

Bauch needs to be debauched... :winkwink:

ADG

DirtyProfits 12-21-2007 04:29 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545569)
All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?

Of course we do! For what do we have a penis? Why can't women just have sex without any relationship etc.?

Seriously, what would be so bad if you get laid every weekend? Take a look at monkeys, they fuck all day long, everywhere without reason. Just for the fun and when they are stressed :)

Emil 12-21-2007 05:03 AM

Can someone please throatfuck this stupid cunt to make her shut up or throw up?

VicD 12-21-2007 05:05 AM

i'd hit it

Iron Fist 12-21-2007 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 13545608)
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.c...ery-756380.jpg

proclaimed "Master Pickup Artist" :winkwink:

Twinkolicious! :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

tranza 12-21-2007 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 13545293)
you think too much

I second what he said..

:2 cents:

tranza 12-21-2007 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545383)
I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.

And what are you going to do once you are "alert"? Stop dating men at all??

Get real.

bausch 12-21-2007 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by tranza (Post 13545968)
And what are you going to do once you are "alert"? Stop dating men at all??

Get real.

I already stopped. Being "alert" is just so I can recognize the games they play. It's good to be prepared, just in case.

Jayvis 12-21-2007 06:45 AM

wait, women can read???!?! :(

monstergalleriesdotnet 12-21-2007 06:56 AM

bummpppp

nico-t 12-21-2007 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 13545558)
wow, awesome way to stereotype all men :thumbsup

how about the women who just talk to men to get free drinks? they have a 50/50 chance imo AT LEAST (as long as you are "somewhat" attractive) to get a man to buy you a drink.

yep, the freeloaders, i never fall for it how hot the chick may be... once a chick i just met says 'why dont you get me a drink' after dancing with her ass against me or something, it shows she's a fucking bum and its all for a fucking drink... the ultimate turnoff for me. Always say no and walk away or when im really drunk i just tell her to fuck off. LOL

bausch 12-21-2007 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 13546129)
yep, the freeloaders, i never fall for it how hot the chick may be... once a chick i just met says 'why dont you get me a drink' after dancing with her ass against me or something, it shows she's a fucking bum and its all for a fucking drink... the ultimate turnoff for me. Always say no and walk away or when im really drunk i just tell her to fuck off. LOL

I would never ask a guy to buy me a drink. I think paying implies socio-economic power. I pay for myself always. Asking someone for a drink is already implying that they have more financial power than you. I think males/females should split it 50/50 down to the penny for dinner, dates, everything.

sltr 12-21-2007 08:11 AM

lol @ the armchair psychoanalysis via message board posts.

tony286 12-21-2007 08:17 AM

You seem to have issues dealing with people in general. Have you ever thought about therapy? It must to awful your like a prisoner in your own home.

SleazyDream 12-21-2007 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545283)
I don't think it's a compliment when a man hits on a woman because I'm aware of the fact that for most men it's only a numbers game; they assume that if they hit up 20 chicks at least one will give him her number (or whatever their personal ratio is), so you are basically just "one of the numbers", it doesn't mean you're anything special at all.

So why should women even be flattered if a guy looks at them or asks for their number, cause fact is that most guys will look at every woman who is remotely attractive.. How is this supposed to be flattering?

I think it might even be insulting because the man is assuming that the woman will actually feel flattered when he hits on her, while for him it's only a numbers game. It's insulting the woman's intelligence because he is assuming she won't recognize his game.

What are your thoughts on this?


sad you think like this.

what if you're the ONLY girl he hits on?

bausch 12-21-2007 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by tony404 (Post 13546288)
You seem to have issues dealing with people in general. Have you ever thought about therapy? It must to awful your like a prisoner in your own home.

I leave my home pretty much everyday. I don't do social things like clubbing/bars but I've been too lazy to cook lately so I leave at least once a day to get food, coffee, juice. I go to the mall about every other day. I go to the movies every week (I like to go alone) so it's not like I never leave my house.

SleazyDream 12-21-2007 08:20 AM

sounds a lot like a whore or stripper attitude to be honest

xmas13 12-21-2007 08:38 AM

Another penis-size competition.

Yes you are the best among the best. :upsidedow

pornguy 12-21-2007 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545308)
I am not asking for anything. I am TELLING the men out there that I do not consider it a compliment. Just to get it out of my system. I feel better now.

Maybe then, you shouold just hang out in the girls only bars and stores.

That is the way things are, and always will be. Its one of the things that never evolved out of us. Although Cave men asked what rock they hung out with, it was part of life. Same today. Same way we are ready to sleep after fucking, and you want to cuddle.

dial 12-21-2007 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545383)
Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.

you are an idiot if you think most men use this type of shit

i would guesstimate the percentage of men that use techniques like this is in the single digits...

in my entire life I have NEVER known any guy personally that employed tactics like the ones on that site

dial 12-21-2007 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545569)
All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?

understand this

you are an idiot

dial 12-21-2007 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 13545622)
You really should seek professional help

fact: you are a lesbian

SteveVVS 12-21-2007 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545569)
All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?

All women want is power, and they are looking for as much money as possible. Is there anything else to understand?

Pornwolf 12-21-2007 08:54 AM

Bausch thinks too much.

I think she's one of the few people who would be better off as a heroin addict so she wouldn't think as much.

pornask 12-21-2007 08:55 AM

What a worthless thread. Three pages long, no pics of boobs...

:pimp

bausch 12-21-2007 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by dial (Post 13546375)
fact: you are a lesbian

No, I'm not a lesbian at all. I get along better with men than women, even though men are playas, because men tend to be nicer. Women are usually very catty and competitive.

bronco67 12-21-2007 09:00 AM

When you're that one guy that is indifferent to her good looks, then she will notice you. Flattery gets you nowhere usually, except looking like the average chump.

bausch 12-21-2007 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by bronco67 (Post 13546423)
When you're that one guy that is indifferent to her good looks, then she will notice you. Flattery gets you nowhere usually, except looking like the average chump.

Yep, according to FastSeduction that's called a neghit

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/0.../neghits.shtml

More neghits explained

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/0...ghits_xp.shtml

Example 1 of using a neghit
ASF: "When you see a HB and she snuffs you ... tell her you think her dress is very nice (something she has heard before) and then tell her you remember seeing her at a club before and she was wearing the same dress. It IS nice though. :) Whether or not you ever saw her before, you can ASSUME she HAS been social before and that she was wearing the dress before. This deflates her INSTANTLY and puts you in control."

Example 2 of using a neghit
Guy: What do you do?
Gal: Oh, I'm a model.
Guy: Oh yeah, your hair looks kinda nice... / Oh, like a hand model or something?

Example 3 of using a neghit
Mystery: "If you are in a bar and you approach a girl, she basically KNOWS you want to fuck her. You have to somehow convey that you didn't come for sex but because you are talkative about some even MORE interesting than HER. The only thing from you that can make a 10 NOTICE you is if you show her she doesn't matter to you in the slightest... that is a NEG"

Negging before kissing. Daniel, ASF: "I love the little gem by mystery where he said to neg a girl before kissing her, now how devious is that? You make her feel self conscious and then you relieve the very feelings you caused:)"

Examples of negging a beauty. (Only for use with 10s or 9s who simply HAVE to know they ARE beautiful, any less beautiful girls can easily be destroyed by these!) After you've negged her looks in some manner, follow up with:

* "You are really interesting, or at least you're not THAT ugly."
* "No really, I've seen uglier girls"
* "Well, at least you should be lucky to have a good body [to compensate for whatever it was you negged]"

More neghits
Dan Scorpio, ASF:

* "You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls (LIFT). Are those heels 4 or 5 inches (DROP)?"

Mystery, ASF:

* "You blink alot"
* "Your nose wiggles when you talk:)"
* "Weren't you wearing this dress the last time you were here?"
* "Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?"
* "Oooh... Sick... You just spit on me!" (when the girl is talking to you).

ASF:

* "Your hair looks kinda nice"

NikKay 12-21-2007 09:20 AM

Everyone is looking to get laid but it's not like they're out there specifically looking for a one night stand. It's usually girls that have little to offer other than their bodies that end up feeling like they've been played... because they give up their bodies too quickly and have nothing else to entice someone to stick around beyond that.

I am an attractive girl and I have never felt like I was being hit on as part of some numbers game. In fact, a lot of the guys I have met in a social setting are people I remain in touch with. Of course, I don't sleep with people I'm not dating and so, even if a guy starts talking to me as part of some "numbers game" he soon gets past that and decides he likes me enough to want to continue our conversation beyond the social situation we met in.

It's only possible to feel used if you let yourself be used. It's not the fault of the guy... and that's truth.

JohnnyJames 12-21-2007 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 13545624)
I'm talking about going somewhere when I absolutely have to, such as going to the store to buy something (usually I buy on-line to avoid situations like this but there are times when I need an item right away).


Poor grocery clerk. Damned if he DOES talk to you, damned if he doesn't.


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