I doubt if she's even in the 20, probably does not get hit on at all. :1orglaugh

Best thing you can do to atract a really hot girl is to make a face at her like her hair just turned blue, look away and say: "Whatever..." works every time.

By the way... she needs to buy me a drink... I'm the fuckin prize. But, I don't drink... and stop flirting with me lest I whip my lawyer out.

I make women come to me. Much more effective.

What a loser.

This doesn't happen to me because I don't engage in any conversation in the first place, I always cut the convo and walk away.

I don't have hatred towards men. The world revolves around sex. There is nothing wrong what that, it is what it is. Would most people be as motivated to become financially successful if it were not for the rewards of pussy? Most men are driven with the pursuit of pussy, especially variety in pussy. Who would want to fuck the same pussy over and over again when there are so many varieties to try?

I don't have hatred towards men anyone but I refuse to have someone win in their conquest game over me. I could care less if they fuck 100 girls, but they will not win their game with me. If I were foolish enough to fall for their "techniques" then that means that they have won "the game."

I would rather remain alone forever and be celibate than have someone win "the game" with me.

Well, if you are treating it like a game, and not receptive to conversation, people will assume that you are not accustomed to men approaching you like that, and, perhaps, it's not flattery but novelty that you are experiencing.

For what it's worth, jerks are typically drawn to the aloof girl, because they think that she will be easier, or will be the sort of challenge they are hoping for.

Take a deep breath and just have fun when you are out.

Then save yourself the trouble and don't bother to leave the house.

well in any case good luck with that.

personally, i would much rather be with someone who is cool and that i share common stuff in, rather than someone that is "hot." ive dated a two girls both long term who people and friends would tell me they are hot, but in reality, it was only looks and 6 months past that, things were increadibly boring.

regardless, i think you need a date with this guy..

http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.c...ery-756380.jpg

proclaimed "Master Pickup Artist" :winkwink:

You really should seek professional help

This is not true, I don't think men will think that it's "novelty" that I'm experiencing, they will mainly think that I'm an unfriendly bitch (which I am) and that I am not receptive to meeting new people (which I'm not).

I don't go out to clubs/bars ever, I'm talking about going somewhere when I absolutely have to, such as going to the store to buy something (usually I buy on-line to avoid situations like this but there are times when I need an item right away).

And how is that working for you? You seem biter... and why come to the obviously socially handicapped of GFY for comfort? I actually agree with you that m o s t women don't like RANDOM compliments... kind of like a cake in the face of thier insecurities the hotter they are. But at the right time, with the right delivery... with some retraction, a backwards compliment can melt any hardened soul into drawn butter for lobster. Hungry?

The fuck do I know? It just says "Talent Scout" on my Tax return every year.

rate yourself

(usually I buy on-line to avoid situations like this but there are times when I need an item right away)

im glad for all of mankind that you don't respond. got to feel sorry for any poor son of a bitch that ends up with you.

And you think a career in porn is a good move for you?

Maybe you're in the wrong business.

It's working out fine for me, I am used to being alone. I know the only person I can count on is myself. Me myself and I.

And yes, I am bitter, but that's ok.

I didn't come for GFY for comfort, only to vent. It makes me feel better.

I'm a webmaster promoting affiliate programs. All I care about is money.

Porn is GREAT for me. I get to sit in front of the pc all day and never have to leave my house or interact with anyone at all (except to deposit checks and buy food so I don't starve). It's the perfect, ideal job for someone like me.

I've been doing great for many years now. Love porn money. I would kill myself if I had to work 9-5.

Blah, Blah, Blah... so do you want to dance or what?

I don't dance.

some men are actually interested in women they approach. :2 cents:

Obviously.

"Work like you don't need the money, Love like you've never been hurt, dance like no-one's watching"

I never asked what you did, I asked if you thought you were in the right job.

Maybe you're pissed off because all those guys out there in bars are hitting on girls and getting some are not buying memberships. :1orglaugh

Seriously with your attitude towards sex you should think of a different career.

Flirting is natural, look around you at the Natural World and you see it everywhere. It's how we reproduce ourselves and 100% normal. It's called "The Mating Game."

I suspect you've had a few guys talk to you and decide you're not the person they want to talk to and then moved on, so you see it as a numbers game. Or even a few one night stands and the guy has decided once with you was enough. Your problem is you, not men.

Flirting is a game, a game you're losing.

thats the only way to live. anything less is just cheating yourself. :thumbsup

emo much? honestly you need to get out and enjoy your life. money isnt everything. you might think it is now, but what are you going to do if you make some serious bank? sit in your houe and calculate the interest ur making?

nm........

This is not true. First of all, I never even engage in conversation back. Second of all, I have never had a one night stand.

The only reason why I am bitter is because I have been reading sites like fastseduction.com (it's a very interesting site, btw) that show all the games men play and they have message boards where men give each other tips on how to "play women" etc It is the MEN that are calling it a game, not me, I am only reiterating what I have read...

Also, from reading books that teach men how to pick up girls, it is those books that are calling it a numbers game. PLUS I have read many times GUYS ON GFY calling it a "numbers game", so it's not something that is coming from my mind, it is something that is coming from guys' minds.

Flirting is not a game that I'm losing because I don't flirt. I chose to be alone.

I don't "go out" but sometimes I have to go to the store to buy stuff. Yes, I order most things on-line but sometimes there are times when I want an item NOW and can't wait for the mailman. I do have to go out to buy food, deposit checks, sometimes I go to the mall etc.

I don't go clubbing/bars ever.

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ ZZZ..................... very dramatic.

Are you agoraphobic? Have lots of social anxieties?

those sites were created by dykes. you really shouldn't believe everything you read. i know a lot of guys who tell me they get laid all the time too. it really doesn't mean its true. :2 cents: :thumbsup

you will end up lonely if you truly believe that.

You will miss out on true love because when that right guy comes along and gives you a compliment you will have already pre-judged him as a guy trying to "get some" and he likely wont be impressed by your attitude.

Yes, I do I have some social anxieties sometimes... and no, I'm not going to go to a therapist...

I'm not agoraphobic though, I have no problems leaving my house, for example during the summer I went to the beach every day...

I leave my house every day to run small errands, like get takeout food, coffee etc.

seriously, you sound like you are on your way to becoming a shut in. I'm not trying to insult you by saying so, but you might want to consider talking to someone professionally about your aversion to human contact.

Eh, don't bump this thread anymore, I was just in a bad mood but I'm over it now... It's all good... lol

Someone had to say it... This thread is useless without pix!!!

You sound like you are angry and lonely and have zero trust in men. You say you don't hate men, but then you say you would rather be alone to than talk to them and you don't want to talk to anyone. Do you have friends? I'm not trying to be an asshole here, it's a legit question. Do you not sometimes wish you had someone to just lay in bed with and talk to or go do something fun with?

I can understand if a girl is a bar or a club or somewhere like that and a guy comes up to her she can just assume he is going girl to girl playing the numbers game. But what if a guy just said, "hi." to you or randomly complimented you and walked away while you were in the grocery store or a starbucks? would that still piss you off?

If you really are most happy sitting in your house alone not having to speak to or deal with anyone, you really might want to talk to someone about that because it's not healthy. You're not far from being that woman with 37 cats that all the neighborhood kids talk about. Maybe you are suffering from depression or something like that.

My last question: did a guy at some point hit on you, you talked to him and went out with him and then he hurt you? It almost sounds like that is the case and you have decided from that one guy that all guys are assholes.

I'm not THAT averse to human contact, I do leave my house everyday to get food, coffee etc

I was in a bad mood when I wrote that. I'm over it though.

Now it's starting to come out.

So did you NEVER have an interest in men or boys? Because this is clearly NOT natural. I suspect some kind of sexual abuse here, whether physical, mental or emotional. Did a boy in school trick you into putting out and dumping you or something similar. Or maybe you were anti boys even at school. Any way it's not natural.

By reading certain sites you can find anything you like to support what ever claims you like. So stating you found a site where "men give each other tips on how to "play women" " It's finding a site where the MEN ON THAT SITE act, not a site that reflects men in general.

Flirting is a game you lose out on, even by not playing you're the loser.

Also when a guy comes over to a girl in a bar, shop or where ever he has nothing to go on but visual clues. If he's not coming over that's your problem, if he's coming over and leaving again your problem.

He does not know you, know if you're compatible, if he likes you, if he wants to get to like you. All he has to go on is visual and under that is the sexual attraction of we all want to mate with the fittest of the species. It's human NATURE, get a life and get out once in a while. Who knows 1 in 20 of the guys who come over might stay.

Post pix of you at the beach and I'll post mine.

Well, everyone has been in fucked up relationships at some point I would think and yes, I've been fucked over twice before. It has made me very bitter and pissed off I think.

I just got out of a recent relationship (around 3 months ago) where I got fucked the fuck over so yes, I'm bitter, more now than usual.

From what I've read, you're celibate, anti-social, and cynical and afraid of men (plus you mentioned in another thread that you are flat-chested).

Has a guy ever actually hit on you? If so, think about the kind of guy that would bother to hit on someone like you (based upon your own description of yourself)...that should make it easier to see why you have such a low opinion of men - because the only ones that you attract must be bottom dwellers anyway.

Sorry, but I am having a hard time accepting that you are not a gay/emo man from the way you write.

Post a picture of yourself. It doesn't have to be naked or anything. I think it will reveal many things about why you have the twisted world view that you do...

ADG