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Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 10:44 AM

Are we better off alone? Marriage is no magic bullet for happiness, some say.

But medical studies show just the opposite?that married people are happier and healthier than single people.

This is something that CNN posted this morning... What do you think are you better off Married or single???

Fucksakes · 12-11-2007, 10:46 AM

married <- I have to say that

killerkay · 12-11-2007, 10:46 AM

single.. gotta test drive the car before u buy it.

Juicy D. Links · 12-11-2007, 10:47 AM

single and gigoling aound from girl to girl is best way

iheartbucks · 12-11-2007, 10:57 AM

married, things are easier when you have a partner

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

single and gigoling aound from girl to girl is best way

But this type of lifestyle gets old and don't you find it a little empty?

L-Pink · 12-11-2007, 11:00 AM

I know I'm better off with out my ex-wife's.

CaptainHowdy · 12-11-2007, 11:00 AM

Better off single... Indeed married couples have a reason to live longer (and even happier): their offspring.

Juicy D. Links · 12-11-2007, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

But this type of lifestyle gets old and don't you find it a little empty?

yes sometimes , then i call up some of my married friends or hang with em and i feel better hehehe

I wouldnt mind aving a long term (over 3 week) g/f dont get me wrong

RyanL · 12-11-2007, 11:02 AM

Married

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:10 AM

I have been single for the past 5 months and I HATE it!! So now I go out every night, it's the same shit over and over again - it's just empty! Dating in our society has changed so much? it?s so hard to find somebody that you mesh well with.

EuroRev_Stacey · 12-11-2007, 11:10 AM

Married, loving and hating it

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

yes sometimes , then i call up some of my married friends or hang with em and i feel better hehehe

I wouldnt mind aving a long term (over 3 week) g/f dont get me wrong

I do hear what you are saying, I was with my girlfriend and she said marriage kills it, she thinks as soon as you sign that paper that when it all goes down hill... I don't know if I believe it... is this what your married friends are saying?

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by EuroRev_Stacey

Married, loving and hating it

Pls explain ??

96ukssob · 12-11-2007, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

Are we better off alone? Marriage is no magic bullet for happiness, some say.

But medical studies show just the opposite?that married people are happier and healthier than single people.

This is something that CNN posted this morning... What do you think are you better off Married or single???

thats because when they asked the people that were married if they were happy, their significant other was standing right there... of course they are going to say yes

^ i dont know this as a fact, but its my guess

Juicy D. Links · 12-11-2007, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

I do hear what you are saying, I was with my girlfriend and she said marriage kills it, she thinks as soon as you sign that paper that when it all goes down hill... I don't know if I believe it... is this what your married friends are saying?

i see it as it progresses.... they dont really need to say anything most of the marriages are still new also ...

i am losing wingmen left and right... they all get married wtfffvhow am i supposed to keep my game on at the clubs?

DaddyHalbucks · 12-11-2007, 11:17 AM

Marry your best friend and everything will be happily ever after.

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

i see it as it progresses.... they dont really need to say anything most of the marriages are still new also ...

i am losing wingmen left and right... they all get married wtfffvhow am i supposed to keep my game on at the clubs?

you start losing them 1 by 1, once you lose them all then it's your turn:-)

reaching_into_the_muck · 12-11-2007, 11:22 AM

If 90% of women where not such self-absorbed neurotic basket cases who try to turn every relationship into a soap opera then perhaps dating would be a better experience and guys would not live by the "hit it and quit it" rule.

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by DaddyHalbucks

Marry your best friend and everything will be happily ever after.

This is so true!!! because at the end of the day, love fades, but when you are with your best friend, you will always have somebody to communicate with; you will have your best friend your partner in life... this is the best relationship

SykkBoy · 12-11-2007, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

I have been single for the past 5 months and I HATE it!! So now I go out every night, it's the same shit over and over again - it's just empty! Dating in our society has changed so much? it?s so hard to find somebody that you mesh well with.

so....um, where do you hang out when you go out?

;-))

Brother Bilo · 12-11-2007, 11:28 AM

It depends on yours and your girl/guys personality. If you both are into the relationship, you'll be happy. If either secretly still wants to be single or just isn't completely feeling the relationship, it will be horrible.

I wouldn't say there is a for sure, blanket answer that covers everyone with this.

Sosa · 12-11-2007, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

yes sometimes , then i call up some of my married friends or hang with em and i feel better hehehe

I wouldnt mind aving a long term (over 3 week) g/f dont get me wrong

lol over 3 week.

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

so....um, where do you hang out when you go out?

;-))

Obviously now at the right places

Jman · 12-11-2007, 11:43 AM

Been single for 2 years now and I just put myself back into dating mode. Kind of miss the complicity you can have in a couple when all is working well.

WiredGuy · 12-11-2007, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

I have been single for the past 5 months and I HATE it!! So now I go out every night, it's the same shit over and over again - it's just empty! Dating in our society has changed so much? it?s so hard to find somebody that you mesh well with.

Well hello there Gianna

WG

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

Well hello there Gianna

WG

hey WG

Fucksakes · 12-11-2007, 11:51 AM

I think the grass is always greener on the other side...

I prefer being married over the both thou.

NikKay · 12-11-2007, 11:51 AM

I've been happy in relationships and I've been happily single. I've been miserable in relationships and I've been miserably single.

I think you're onto something, Gianna, when you say that dating has changed. I think we CAN ask for more out of a relationship than was previously expected, and it seems like a lot of people just can't or won't live up to these new expectations. Of course you could argue; why should they? It seems like the older and (thus) more confident I get, the less I am willing to put up with in another person. My current pattern is a "3 strikes and you're out" kind of thing. Five years ago I would have felt more obligated to work it out. Now I expect things to be entirely equal.

And, of course, the classic line:
Studies show that married men live longer than single men. And I disagree with that. I think it just FEELS longer.

Kevin Marx · 12-11-2007, 11:52 AM

Married, totally happy... going on 15 years together. Yeah we have had our crappy times, but they are far outweighed by the good stuff.

We both really like each other and encourage our individualism as part of the relationship. It makes a huuuuuuuuuuuge difference.

baddog · 12-11-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

I have been single for the past 5 months and I HATE it!! So now I go out every night, it's the same shit over and over again - it's just empty! Dating in our society has changed so much? it?s so hard to find somebody that you mesh well with.

If you discontinue the desperation and just enjoy life someone will eventually come along . . . or they won't. Being single is not that bad unless you spend it wishing you weren't.

Violetta · 12-11-2007, 11:55 AM

Im the kinda guy that likes to have a partner!

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by NikKay

I've been happy in relationships and I've been happily single. I've been miserable in relationships and I've been miserably single.

I think you're onto something, Gianna, when you say that dating has changed. I think we CAN ask for more out of a relationship than was previously expected, and it seems like a lot of people just can't or won't live up to these new expectations. Of course you could argue; why should they? It seems like the older and (thus) more confident I get, the less I am willing to put up with in another person. My current pattern is a "3 strikes and you're out" kind of thing. Five years ago I would have felt more obligated to work it out. Now I expect things to be entirely equal.

And, of course, the classic line:
Studies show that married men live longer than single men. And I disagree with that. I think it just FEELS longer.

Lately I try not to have too many expectations - when you have expectations you get disappointed

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin-SFBucks

Married, totally happy... going on 15 years together. Yeah we have had our crappy times, but they are far outweighed by the good stuff.

We both really like each other and encourage our individualism as part of the relationship. It makes a huuuuuuuuuuuge difference.

15 years - that's great!!! life is full of ups and downs, money comes money goes but really everything means nothing if you don't have somebody to share it will... and when people understand this they can get through everything in life

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

If you discontinue the desperation and just enjoy life someone will eventually come along . . . or they won't. Being single is not that bad unless you spend it wishing you weren't.

well said

Juicy D. Links · 12-11-2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

you start losing them 1 by 1, once you lose them all then it's your turn:-)

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo

NikKay · 12-11-2007, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

Lately I try not to have too many expectations - when you have expectations you get disappointed

Oooh I think that's a dangerous mode of thinking. It sucks to be disappointed, but it's better than not expecting anything at all. What you think you deserve is typically what you shall receive.

tony286 · 12-11-2007, 12:43 PM

Single sucked compared to being married for me.

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by NikKay

Oooh I think that's a dangerous mode of thinking. It sucks to be disappointed, but it's better than not expecting anything at all. What you think you deserve is typically what you shall receive.

I read allot, and they all say you should never have any expectations...

But I think we all deserve the best - therefore I will never settle for anything less then that !

Just Mike · 12-11-2007, 12:47 PM

Gianna, still waiting for you to take me up on my offer. I picked out the ring and everything

O MARINA · 12-11-2007, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexentertain_mike

Gianna, still waiting for you to take me up on my offer. I picked out the ring and everything

Gianna look at all the offers! and WiredGuy!
This thread is not complete yet, where is Krosh ;)

KRosh · 12-11-2007, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

Gianna look at all the offers! and WiredGuy!
This thread is not complete yet, where is Krosh ;)

I am not marrying anyone.. but if you want some good ol sex.. i am your man

WiredGuy · 12-11-2007, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

Gianna look at all the offers! and WiredGuy!
This thread is not complete yet, where is Krosh ;)

Hey, don't get more guys in here, I already have to deal with Mike! LOL
WG

AZSarah · 12-11-2007, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Gianna_CECash

I have been single for the past 5 months and I HATE it!! So now I go out every night, it's the same shit over and over again - it's just empty! Dating in our society has changed so much? it?s so hard to find somebody that you mesh well with.

Word! Fun at first, but meaningless & empty pretty fast.

All I know, is when I am old & gray, I hope there is a little old & gray haired man sitting beside me.

Just Mike · 12-11-2007, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KRosh

I am not marrying anyone.. but if you want some good ol sex.. i am your man

Hahahaha that was the best

O MARINA · 12-11-2007, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KRosh

I am not marrying anyone.. but if you want some good ol sex.. i am your man

you hear that Gianna, he is talking to YOU

(I hope)

KRosh · 12-11-2007, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

you hear that Gianna, he is talking to YOU

(I hope)

We ALL know what you hope -

sin2oh · 12-11-2007, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by DaddyHalbucks

Marry your best friend and everything will be happily ever after.

True Dat! I am not saying it's not without it's challenges but life is soooo much better when you find the ONE. (And trust me, I did a lot of field research across the globe). Also the sex is better http://www.sin20.com/node/1670

ADL Colin · 12-11-2007, 01:06 PM

I'm happier single. No doubt.

Gianna_CECash · 12-11-2007, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexentertain_mike

Gianna, still waiting for you to take me up on my offer. I picked out the ring and everything

you did!!! you know I am coming back to L.A. in month... I might just take you up on your offer

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