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JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 12:19 PM

If you met a guy via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message, is it okay to break up via cell text?

D · 12-07-2007, 12:26 PM

Assuming that you have had personal contact with them at some point in your relationship, I'd say that's never really "ok," unless you're trying to emphasize the point that you really don't care about them.

Redmanthatcould · 12-07-2007, 12:27 PM

So that's what you meant by "stay away"...I thought you were playing hard-to-get.

baddog · 12-07-2007, 12:27 PM

Did the relationship progress past the virtual relationship? If so, a phone call or email would be in order.

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by VS_Jeff

So that's what you meant by "stay away"...I thought you were playing hard-to-get.

Nooooo, you misread that text, you must have not gotten the second part, which was:

... from my shoes, you keep borrowing em without telling me, and your feet stretches em out!

fuzebox · 12-07-2007, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by D

Assuming that you have had personal contact with them at some point in your relationship, I'd say that's never really "ok," unless you're trying to emphasize the point that you really don't care about them.

I agree...

Babaganoosh · 12-07-2007, 12:31 PM

Do whatever is easiest for you. I've been dumped via a dry erase board. It was kinda nice really. We didn't have to mess with that pesky uncomfortable silence.

polish_aristocrat · 12-07-2007, 12:31 PM

if you were talking to him for weeks online, then met him irl and got disappointed already on your first date, then well, i guess that's ok to 'break up' online or via SMS and tell him you don't really want to see him anymore

but if you were closer to him than I described above, then you should handle it better I guess

Evil E · 12-07-2007, 12:35 PM

Never ok to break up via text, email or phone. This is for cowards.

Unless you do it on a dry erase board, because this is funny.

Get yourself balls and do it in person. Unless of course you are talking about your "cyber-boyfriend" that you never met in person, but I doubt that.

Evil E · 12-07-2007, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

if you were talking to him for weeks online, then met him irl and got disappointed already on your first date, then well, i guess that's ok to 'break up' online or via SMS and tell him you don't really want to see him anymore

but if you were closer to him than I described above, then you should handle it better I guess

You don't need to break up after a first date

sumphatpimp · 12-07-2007, 12:37 PM

if Britney done it to Fedex, you can do it too.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 12-07-2007, 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniDahling

If you met a guy via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message, is it okay to break up via cell text?

Just break it to him gently...some people take rejection hard, depending upon how emotionally developed they are. They can be happy one moment...

...and brokenhearted the next...

ADG

Evil E · 12-07-2007, 12:41 PM

Britney is trailer trash, not sure you want to follow her footsteps.

DatingGold · 12-07-2007, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by VS_Jeff

So that's what you meant by "stay away"...I thought you were playing hard-to-get.

fuzebox · 12-07-2007, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by knew

Unless you do it on a dry erase board, because this is funny.

D-Money · 12-07-2007, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniDahling

If you met a guy via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message, is it okay to break up via cell text?

I say yes. You met that way, you can end that way.

It's harsh, but hey, breaking up is harsh.

Love em then leave em.

If you were ruthless, you'd send a text message with your new man and you.

So, this isn't so bad.

Heartbreaker!

Pornopat · 12-07-2007, 12:47 PM

Dont worry. I read gfy. I got the message....

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 12:52 PM

Well, it started off great, almost too perfect... then he angry-drunk dialed me and I broke it off before going going to the LA show. He texted me while I was out there and we proceeded to have a decent convo til he called me later and again was drunk and confrontational. I told him I'm done and good luck with life.

While I was gone I received the heart-wrenching apologetic kiss ass email (friend's wife just died, mom super ill, lots of shit going on, etc)... and felt bad. (I was wearing my Sucker hat that day) Called him when I got back to sort things out... try it again but this time keeping him at arms distance, so the first time I see him after all that he shows up drunk being way too gropy and demanding.
I know better than to confront a drunk so we get something to eat, he's annoying as fuck the entire but as he sobers up he turns back into the normal nice guy I met... and we end up having a nice weekend together, no nooky, just hanging out...

Then last night things went from "meh..." to "oh shit I gotta get out of this..."

iSMOKE · 12-07-2007, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Babaganoosh

Do whatever is easiest for you. I've been dumped via a dry erase board. It was kinda nice really.

RyuLion · 12-07-2007, 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniDahling

If you met a guy via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message, is it okay to break up via cell text?

yeap.
Can I be next?

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D-Money

I say yes. You met that way, you can end that way.

It's harsh, but hey, breaking up is harsh.

Love em then leave em.

If you were ruthless, you'd send a text message with your new man and you.

So, this isn't so bad.

Heartbreaker!

Good stuff D$

I gotta take my refresher course on Pimp Hand 101... you got any online courses coming up?

[ScreaM] · 12-07-2007, 01:07 PM

If you don't know him personally then I don't see a problem.

tranza · 12-07-2007, 01:08 PM

Sure, it's fine.

Imortyl Pussycat · 12-07-2007, 01:31 PM

good gawd, i can't believe you gave that jerk another chance. since you broke it off live before, the text at this point is fine and all he deserves. you have much better stallions in your stable gurl

baddog · 12-07-2007, 01:32 PM

The guy is obviously an alcoholic. Returning his calls or responding to him in any way is insane. Just dump him and move on.

A text message, in this case, is fine.

Tjeezers · 12-07-2007, 01:45 PM

Break up by phone is not original
These days you just leave a message on his myspace

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 01:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

The guy is obviously an alcoholic. Returning his calls or responding to him in any way is insane. Just dump him and move on.

A text message, in this case, is fine.

Baddog!!! Come rescue me!!! LOL!

He left a bag at my house last night. I don't even want to see the guy to give him his shit back.

D · 12-07-2007, 01:51 PM

Sounds like you might want to emphasize the point that you really don't care about him in this case.

In that regard, refer to my what I already done said, Dahlin'.

GigoloMason · 12-07-2007, 01:53 PM

Hey if all else fails this always works for me!

Gianna_CECash · 12-07-2007, 02:06 PM

Just send him a text!

Violetta · 12-07-2007, 02:07 PM

yeah... sure! Dump him on facebook!

truebluetalent · 12-07-2007, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by JenniDahling

Baddog!!! Come rescue me!!! LOL!

He left a bag at my house last night. I don't even want to see the guy to give him his shit back.

Now that's a very old trick. Sounds like he realized he fucked up and needs a reason to come back. Text his ass and tell him to fuck off.

NetCashJoe · 12-07-2007, 02:09 PM

Sure it is.

nAtuRaLbEautY · 12-07-2007, 02:27 PM

with that kind of situation breaking up via sms is fine. well, guys are really fuck up.

Danny_C · 12-07-2007, 02:32 PM

If you want, I can text message him and let him know.

CarlosTheGaucho · 12-07-2007, 02:38 PM

Baby, if you need to get an advice from a person with zero experience in any kind of non sexual relationship, you can ask me anytime!

selena · 12-07-2007, 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Babaganoosh

Do whatever is easiest for you. I've been dumped via a dry erase board. It was kinda nice really. We didn't have to mess with that pesky uncomfortable silence.

Not to seem impolite, but that is funny.

baddog · 12-07-2007, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JenniDahling

He left a bag at my house last night.

Exact same thing that happens when you leave milk out for a stray cat. You can never get rid of them with the mixed signals.

CarlosTheGaucho · 12-07-2007, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by nAtuRaLbEautY

with that kind of situation breaking up via sms is fine. well, guys are really fuck up.

yeah some of them are sick, I just had my first ever foursome three weeks ago..

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by CarlosTheGaucho

yeah some of them are sick, I just had my first ever foursome three weeks ago..

Wo! Carlos~TMI

Can't say I ever had THAT experience!!!

Kiwigirl · 12-07-2007, 03:30 PM

Keep away from him!!!!!

CarlosTheGaucho · 12-07-2007, 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniDahling

Wo! Carlos~TMI

Can't say I ever had THAT experience!!!

I guess you only can't say that here in public

sicone · 12-07-2007, 03:49 PM

Sounds like it may be the best way to end this one... Keep as much distance between you as you can. Good luck.

JenniDahling · 12-07-2007, 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Danny_C

If you want, I can text message him and let him know.

Please do! and take D$'s advice... send him this:

Brother Bilo · 12-07-2007, 05:18 PM

My ex from a few years back broke up with me over a text. So I replied LOL.

raven1083 · 12-07-2007, 10:27 PM

why not in a first place you build a relationship over the net and text. I don't see anything bad about it.

MelodyMaker · 12-07-2007, 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D

Assuming that you have had personal contact with them at some point in your relationship, I'd say that's never really "ok," unless you're trying to emphasize the point that you really don't care about them.

I would strongly agree!!!

seeric · 12-07-2007, 11:32 PM

i am an accomplished relationship guru and psychiatrist specializing in nutcases.

dump his ass via text message. the doctor has spoken.

don't deal with that shit baby!

CarlosTheGaucho · 12-08-2007, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniDahling

If you met a guy via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message, is it okay to break up via cell text?

Ah now I finally read your request right!

If you met a GAY via the internet, had more talks via text, e-mails, and instant message then you HAVE TO break up via cell text!

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JenniDahling Market Penetration Specialist Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Out of my Suitcases Posts: 5,285	Well, it started off great, almost too perfect... then he angry-drunk dialed me and I broke it off before going going to the LA show. He texted me while I was out there and we proceeded to have a decent convo til he called me later and again was drunk and confrontational. I told him I'm done and good luck with life. While I was gone I received the heart-wrenching apologetic kiss ass email (friend's wife just died, mom super ill, lots of shit going on, etc)... and felt bad. (I was wearing my Sucker hat that day) Called him when I got back to sort things out... try it again but this time keeping him at arms distance, so the first time I see him after all that he shows up drunk being way too gropy and demanding. I know better than to confront a drunk so we get something to eat, he's annoying as fuck the entire but as he sobers up he turns back into the normal nice guy I met... and we end up having a nice weekend together, no nooky, just hanging out... Then last night things went from "meh..." to "oh shit I gotta get out of this..." __________________ cLick my kitty, you know you want to jenni {at} prkitty.com Meet me at The Island Gathering

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