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RogerV · 09-22-2002, 06:39 PM

Why are relationships so fuckin hard

how many times have you had your heart broken?
And what was the reason. Cheating?

DrewKole · 09-22-2002, 06:41 PM

Because people in general only care about themselves until someone else throws their persona into their face.

Jer · 09-22-2002, 06:44 PM

I had just one girlfriend in my life. I'm with her since 5 years ago.

Add distance to your relationship and you'll see what its HARD

Jer

WiredGuy · 09-22-2002, 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by RogerV
Why are relationships so fuckin hard

how many times have you had your heart broken?
And what was the reason. Cheating?

Ahh relationships, I could talk for hours about this. I absolutely have feared them since about 2 years ago, but I'd rather not sob about it here. Heart broken, a couple times, once it was cheating with one of my friends (I punched him right in the face in a club for it), once its because she wanted to get back with her X and the other times I guess it just didn't work out, she lost interest in me. I've never actually dumped a girl, I've always been the recipient. And since about 2 years ago I was absolutely humialated on Valentine's Day in front of an entire restaurant that I have more or less feared relationships since then. It's odd because I would prefer a relationship versus a one night stand but at the same time I fear them...

So what are some other stories out there? Could use something to cheer myself up...

How long were you two together Roger? What was her reason for moving out?

WG

Derek L · 09-22-2002, 08:29 PM

I have a story for you all...

In high School i ment the girl of my dreams. Everyhting was perfect, i love her so much, i evem thought i could marry her some day. She even thought the same thing.

When i first went to college, the frist week, she broke up with me and broke my heart. I couldnt believe it. A few weeks later, when i talked to her for the frist time she said something like "i love you and your the perfect guy for me and i dont see my self marrying anyone else but you"

Which broke my hear even more because she didnt want to be with me, she wanted to be a party slut and do anything she wants.

I still dont know where i stand with her, although i do kind of like her roomate!! hehe

Jamie · 09-22-2002, 08:38 PM

Papa bull and his son were sitting on the hill over looking the valley filled with female cows.

The son says "Dad lets run down there and fuck one of those cows"

Papa Bull says "Lets stroll down there and fuck them all"

Point being, screw relationships. Fuck all them dirty whores while your young.

Women are like buses, one's leaving as another one is coming in.

fnet · 09-22-2002, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Derek L
I have a story for you all...

In high School i ment the girl of my dreams. Everyhting was perfect, i love her so much, i evem thought i could marry her some day. She even thought the same thing.

When i first went to college, the frist week, she broke up with me and broke my heart. I couldnt believe it. A few weeks later, when i talked to her for the frist time she said something like "i love you and your the perfect guy for me and i dont see my self marrying anyone else but you"

Which broke my hear even more because she didnt want to be with me, she wanted to be a party slut and do anything she wants.

I still dont know where i stand with her, although i do kind of like her roomate!! hehe

They always seem to be like that at that age... and they should be. Subvert it and it pops up unexpectedly

Kimmykim · 09-22-2002, 09:16 PM

relationships are what you make of them, no more, no less, doesn't matter if its boys and girls, parents and children, attorney and client.

The sooner you learn that the better you will be at relationships.

playa · 09-22-2002, 09:54 PM

just remember MOB

WiredGuy · 09-22-2002, 10:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kimmykim
relationships are what you make of them, no more, no less, doesn't matter if its boys and girls, parents and children, attorney and client.

The sooner you learn that the better you will be at relationships.

That's good advise KimmyKim. I guess my problem is that I've been hanging on to that problem I had 2 years ago and never really getting over what happened. I know its unfair, but I have really gotten tired of being screwed over (and not in a good way) by women. I just don't like the idea of being used until the next better guy comes along. Since then I've just never really been trusting enough to let a girl get close to me...

WG

untitled · 09-22-2002, 10:37 PM

love, relationships, and marriage is all propaganda you've been fed since you were little.

more likely then not people with experience will love the person that gives them the greatest orgasm, and people with little experience will cheat because someone makes them wonder if there getting the greatest orgasm.

it's all about the croch, so fuck it!

HS-Trixxxia · 09-22-2002, 11:59 PM

Hurt a thousand times.....until I met my match.
Someone who could lead when I needed to follow and follow when I needed to lead. Very supportive, very loving, very crazy, and once all is done, we giggle ourselves to sleep. Considering I refused to date anyone less than 5 years older than me, this relationship was really a miracle (he's 5 years younger - very handsome & intelligent). We met on the internet & I didn't know what he looked like until he arrived at the airport 6 months into our *net dating*. We married 3 months later in his country and have been married for 3 years.

So now I'm convinced - whatever you are looking for in a partner - FORGET it, recondition yourself to analyse everyone and perhaps see them as a potential life partner. Whatever you were looking for before hasn't worked for you, right? Obviously, if it doesn't work - change the direction - keep your options open - once you stop looking, you will find that opportunities come like a windfall. Don't discard someone because she/he doesn't fit your prior credentials and you will be pleasantly surprised!

*Fruck I'm making spelling mistakes.......Very tired*

RogerV · 09-23-2002, 01:22 AM

Women are always looking for the bigger better deal.

Then when they feel like there not the big catch anymore they decide to settle. Until the bigger better deal comes around again
if it ever does.

Also every guy starts out good till they get fucked over then we become dogs.

WiredGuy · 09-23-2002, 01:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by RogerV
Women are always looking for the bigger better deal.

Then when they feel like there not the big catch anymore they decide to settle. Until the bigger better deal comes around again
if it ever does.

Also every guy starts out good till they get fucked over then we become dogs.

I couldn't sum it up better than you did. Exactly how I feel after every girl breaks up with me. They always seem to want the better guy and I just got fed up of these bullshit games they would play. I for one don't appreciate just satisfying her needs until someone better comes along...

Hope you had a good night Roger to clear things in your head.

Have a good night.
WG

Exxxotica · 09-23-2002, 01:36 AM

Girls who are boys
Who like boys to be girls
Who do boys like they're girls
Who do girls like they're boys
Always should be someone you really love

09-22-2002, 06:39 PM	#1
RogerV Banned! Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 12,591	Girls and boys Why are relationships so fuckin hard how many times have you had your heart broken? And what was the reason. Cheating?

09-22-2002, 11:59 PM	#12
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	Hurt a thousand times.....until I met my match. Someone who could lead when I needed to follow and follow when I needed to lead. Very supportive, very loving, very crazy, and once all is done, we giggle ourselves to sleep. Considering I refused to date anyone less than 5 years older than me, this relationship was really a miracle (he's 5 years younger - very handsome & intelligent). We met on the internet & I didn't know what he looked like until he arrived at the airport 6 months into our net dating. We married 3 months later in his country and have been married for 3 years. So now I'm convinced - whatever you are looking for in a partner - FORGET it, recondition yourself to analyse everyone and perhaps see them as a potential life partner. Whatever you were looking for before hasn't worked for you, right? Obviously, if it doesn't work - change the direction - keep your options open - once you stop looking, you will find that opportunities come like a windfall. Don't discard someone because she/he doesn't fit your prior credentials and you will be pleasantly surprised! Fruck I'm making spelling mistakes.......Very tired Last edited by HS-Trixxxia; 09-23-2002 at 12:01 AM..

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RogerV Banned! Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 12,591	Women are always looking for the bigger better deal. Then when they feel like there not the big catch anymore they decide to settle. Until the bigger better deal comes around again if it ever does. Also every guy starts out good till they get fucked over then we become dogs. Last edited by RogerV; 09-23-2002 at 01:24 AM..

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09-22-2002, 06:41 PM	#2
DrewKole Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 5,193	Because people in general only care about themselves until someone else throws their persona into their face.

09-22-2002, 06:44 PM	#3
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601	I had just one girlfriend in my life. I'm with her since 5 years ago. Add distance to your relationship and you'll see what its HARD Jer

09-22-2002, 08:29 PM	#5
Derek L Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 58	I have a story for you all... In high School i ment the girl of my dreams. Everyhting was perfect, i love her so much, i evem thought i could marry her some day. She even thought the same thing. When i first went to college, the frist week, she broke up with me and broke my heart. I couldnt believe it. A few weeks later, when i talked to her for the frist time she said something like "i love you and your the perfect guy for me and i dont see my self marrying anyone else but you" Which broke my hear even more because she didnt want to be with me, she wanted to be a party slut and do anything she wants. I still dont know where i stand with her, although i do kind of like her roomate!! hehe

09-22-2002, 08:38 PM	#6
Jamie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: CelebPay.com Posts: 2,517	Papa bull and his son were sitting on the hill over looking the valley filled with female cows. The son says "Dad lets run down there and fuck one of those cows" Papa Bull says "Lets stroll down there and fuck them all" Point being, screw relationships. Fuck all them dirty whores while your young. Women are like buses, one's leaving as another one is coming in.

09-22-2002, 09:16 PM	#8
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	relationships are what you make of them, no more, no less, doesn't matter if its boys and girls, parents and children, attorney and client. The sooner you learn that the better you will be at relationships.

09-22-2002, 09:54 PM	#9
playa Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: atlanta, GA Posts: 6,432	just remember MOB

09-22-2002, 10:37 PM	#11
untitled Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 352	love, relationships, and marriage is all propaganda you've been fed since you were little. more likely then not people with experience will love the person that gives them the greatest orgasm, and people with little experience will cheat because someone makes them wonder if there getting the greatest orgasm. it's all about the croch, so fuck it!