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Lexxx · 09-20-2002, 04:51 PM

Bondage sites, submission sites, fetish sites?

Lensman · 09-20-2002, 05:14 PM

Smoking fetish, panty fetish, butt fetish, redhead fetish, etc.

But no BDSM, that's not our direction.

Cheshire · 09-20-2002, 05:17 PM

So no more daily spankings?

Choder · 09-20-2002, 07:22 PM

(puts away whip)

Honeyslut · 09-20-2002, 07:26 PM

That's so VANILLA !

gothweb · 09-20-2002, 07:33 PM

Not every niche is really a fetish. I know some people have a redhead fetish, but for most people, it's a preference. We don't say "teen fetish" or "blowjob" fetish, so why "redhead fetish"? It's okay to say "we don't have much fetish stuff"... ;)

Jamdin · 09-20-2002, 07:52 PM

If redheads are a fetish, then so would blondes & brunettes...

Sjayne · 09-20-2002, 07:58 PM

I really like PVC as a fashion item. I like it alot and will wear it when I go to an appropriate club. Yet, I am still equally capable of appreciating silk, etc. However, I have a friend that classifies himself as a PVC fetishist. He needs the pvc to get turned on..or in the very least it is the focus of his arousal.

From what I understand, that is sort of the difference between a preference and a fetish. Though, I am sure I am not 100 percent right.

So, to prefer redhead would mean you are attracted to them the most but can get turned on for a blonde. However, if you have a redhead fetish it has to be a redhead or you don't get turned on?

Lensman · 09-20-2002, 08:19 PM

OK, so redheads aren't a fetish, but panties and smoking are.

StacyCat · 09-20-2002, 10:07 PM

fet·ish

Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

This has been debated overly in the BBW community, are we a "preference" or a "fetish." If the girl has to be fat for the guy to like it, its a fetish. If the guy can get aroused by skinny girls (and I know a lot that cant) its a preference.

If you have to smoke to get aroused, its a fetish. If the girl has to be wearing panties, its a fetish. If pain has to be involved for you to enjoy it, its a fetish. anything else is just a preference

Sjayne · 09-21-2002, 06:42 AM

yup, not a day goes by that I don't have the preference vs fetish discussion with someone else in the BBW world.

09-20-2002, 04:51 PM	#1
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09-20-2002, 07:33 PM	#6
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09-20-2002, 05:14 PM	#2
Lensman GFY Chaperone Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Adult.com Posts: 9,846	Smoking fetish, panty fetish, butt fetish, redhead fetish, etc. But no BDSM, that's not our direction.

09-20-2002, 07:52 PM	#7
Jamdin Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,560	If redheads are a fetish, then so would blondes & brunettes...

09-20-2002, 07:58 PM	#8
Sjayne Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: London, UK Posts: 1,182	I really like PVC as a fashion item. I like it alot and will wear it when I go to an appropriate club. Yet, I am still equally capable of appreciating silk, etc. However, I have a friend that classifies himself as a PVC fetishist. He needs the pvc to get turned on..or in the very least it is the focus of his arousal. From what I understand, that is sort of the difference between a preference and a fetish. Though, I am sure I am not 100 percent right. So, to prefer redhead would mean you are attracted to them the most but can get turned on for a blonde. However, if you have a redhead fetish it has to be a redhead or you don't get turned on? __________________ <a href="http://www.wishing.com/money">Make 50% commissions promoting our penis pills, breast pills, weight loss pills and more!</a> <a href="http://www.webinc.com">Need Design Work? Check Out Our Huge Design Portfolio Online, Special: 100 Animated Banners, $799.00 </a> - tell them Sarah sent you.

09-20-2002, 08:19 PM	#9
Lensman GFY Chaperone Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Adult.com Posts: 9,846	OK, so redheads aren't a fetish, but panties and smoking are.

09-20-2002, 10:07 PM	#10
StacyCat Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 1,167	fet·ish Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation. This has been debated overly in the BBW community, are we a "preference" or a "fetish." If the girl has to be fat for the guy to like it, its a fetish. If the guy can get aroused by skinny girls (and I know a lot that cant) its a preference. If you have to smoke to get aroused, its a fetish. If the girl has to be wearing panties, its a fetish. If pain has to be involved for you to enjoy it, its a fetish. anything else is just a preference

09-21-2002, 06:42 AM	#11
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