Lensman - any BDSM sites for AdultPlatinum?
 

Bondage sites, submission sites, fetish sites?

Smoking fetish, panty fetish, butt fetish, redhead fetish, etc.

But no BDSM, that's not our direction.

So no more daily spankings?

:(

(puts away whip) :uhoh

That's so VANILLA !:Graucho

Not every niche is really a fetish. I know some people have a redhead fetish, but for most people, it's a preference. We don't say "teen fetish" or "blowjob" fetish, so why "redhead fetish"? It's okay to say "we don't have much fetish stuff"... ;)

If redheads are a fetish, then so would blondes & brunettes...

I really like PVC as a fashion item. I like it alot and will wear it when I go to an appropriate club. Yet, I am still equally capable of appreciating silk, etc. However, I have a friend that classifies himself as a PVC fetishist. He needs the pvc to get turned on..or in the very least it is the focus of his arousal.

From what I understand, that is sort of the difference between a preference and a fetish. Though, I am sure I am not 100 percent right.

So, to prefer redhead would mean you are attracted to them the most but can get turned on for a blonde. However, if you have a redhead fetish it has to be a redhead or you don't get turned on?

OK, so redheads aren't a fetish, but panties and smoking are.

fet·ish

Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

This has been debated overly in the BBW community, are we a "preference" or a "fetish." If the girl has to be fat for the guy to like it, its a fetish. If the guy can get aroused by skinny girls (and I know a lot that cant) its a preference.

If you have to smoke to get aroused, its a fetish. If the girl has to be wearing panties, its a fetish. If pain has to be involved for you to enjoy it, its a fetish. anything else is just a preference :)

yup, not a day goes by that I don't have the preference vs fetish discussion with someone else in the BBW world.