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JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 07:27 AM

I will be unavailable for an undetermined amount of time.

My 17 year old daughter has again been kidnapped by her mother.

I am working to try and find her.

This post has been placed on JFPDude's behalf. If anybody has been awaiting a response from him since last night he apologizes and will get back to you as quickly as possible.

HomeGrown · 08-20-2002, 07:27 AM

Oh shit, hope you find her man. I'll pray for you.

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 07:29 AM

Anybody in the Richmond Virginia area (where her mother last resided and my daughter was on vacation)

17 yo girl 5'6" 250 pounds

mother would be driving a 1995 green mustang not sure of the license plate.

mother is 5'7" 300 pounds

Please do not intervene but call the local police.

Fletch XXX · 08-20-2002, 07:45 AM

Holy Fuck.

If there was something I could do, I would, Hope it all works out.

Take care brother.

Theo · 08-20-2002, 07:54 AM

honestly I dont understand the "kidnapped" description. The daughter is 17y.old and she is with her mother. Is some man involved in this case? I can't think of a mother kidnapping her daughter at the age of 17. Strange thing. Anyway, I hope everything will be resolved soon and it's not something serious. Best wishes.

ControlThy · 08-20-2002, 08:05 AM

This happens with divorced parents..... Mother or father takes child from other parent and disappears.

Though that usually happens with younger children.

Good luck in finding her.

Theo · 08-20-2002, 08:08 AM

oh,it's a divorced couple

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 08:10 AM

This is the second time the daughter has been kidnapped by the mother

the first time we didn't find her for 13 years

Theo · 08-20-2002, 08:12 AM

sorry to hear that bro, I didn't get a real picture of the event. Maybe you should post their names or something since you gave descriptions, although I doubt we have that many readers from that area.

FreeNetPass Steve · 08-20-2002, 08:15 AM

That is very fucked up. Can't believe it happened a second time. Good luck man, we hope you the best.

ControlThy · 08-20-2002, 08:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JFPdude

the first time we didn't find her for 13 years

Is this serious?

13 years without your daughther?

prostock · 08-20-2002, 08:24 AM

JFPdude

all our hopes are with you , i am really sorry to hear that man i wish you all the best ,,,,,

I hope you get her back soon

we all here wish you the best

Va2k · 08-20-2002, 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ControlThy

Is this serious?

13 years without your daughther?

Holy fuck not again mark ARGH@!#$ Yea this is for real it about killed him last time DAMNIT

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 08:32 AM

Laws Suck.

14 Years ago JFPDude came home to find his house empty. He came home from work early that day because something felt out of place.

For 13 years he searched for his 2 kids only to have his daughter call him finally the week before christmas 2000.

The police and courts did nothing to the kids mother because they wanted to reconcile everything and felt just giving JFPDude custody and the mother a week visitation in the summer would heal things.

JFPDude son now works with him at a large web hoster and most of you know him. However his daughter had to go for the agreed upon visit with her mom last week. His g/f went to pick the daughter up last night to find her missing and again like 14 years ago he doesn't know where she is again.

Laws in this country needs to be changed.

Right wing assholes have gone to far trying to make family's stay together.

This is just another example of the break down of laws in America.

JFPDude thanks all for the support. The ICQ's and stuff are being answered by an employee right now but Thanks for the support all.

RockDaddy · 08-20-2002, 08:37 AM

Go down to your local bail bond agency, find who they use for their "fugitive recoveries" those people can find anyone!

Second bet, hire a good private detective that specializes
in skip tracing.

Good luck

Sly_RJ · 08-20-2002, 09:00 AM

Would the daughter try to contact the brother or JPF on her own?

Good luck man, I hope you find her.

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 09:29 AM

we are hoping she does

Dildozer · 08-20-2002, 09:38 AM

300 lbs? man she'll get noticed in no time!

thechink · 08-20-2002, 09:46 AM

hope you find her. the skip tracer sounds like a good idea. you need to get her tag number, etc. from motor vehicle. see if you can find someone who can monitor her (exwifes) credit card usage, easy to trace then. good luck.

EscortBiz · 08-20-2002, 09:48 AM

very sad story the best way is to have a PI obtain phone records something will lead to the place

Exxxotica · 08-20-2002, 09:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JFPdude

17 yo girl 5'6" 250 pounds

mother is 5'7" 300 pounds

I saw them on Jenny Jones last night.

"Big Mammas who kidnapp their overweight teen daughters"

Sjayne · 08-20-2002, 10:11 AM

you know...250lbs or not she is still his daughter. I know my parents would be worried about me and at her age I was pretty much the exact same weight.

SO....i think this would be the best time to say GFY!

Kidnapping has been very much in the news in the UK over the last two weeks...i hope things turn out much better for you.

Sly_RJ · 08-20-2002, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sjayne
Kidnapping has been very much in the news in the UK over the last two weeks...i hope things turn out much better for you.

Come to SoCal, it's beyond ridiculous anymore. Kids are getting snatched right and left. Sad stuff, pisses me off...

Exxxotica · 08-20-2002, 10:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sjayne
you know...250lbs or not she is still his daughter. I know my parents would be worried about me and at her age I was pretty much the exact same weight.

SO....i think this would be the best time to say GFY!

Kidnapping has been very much in the news in the UK over the last two weeks...i hope things turn out much better for you.

How the fuck do you snatch a 17yr old who is 250lbs???

If this is a real thread, I guess Im somewhat sorry. At 17, I would think your daughter would have a will of her own.

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Exxxotica

How the fuck do you snatch a 17yr old who is 250lbs???

If this is a real thread, I guess Im somewhat sorry. At 17, I would think your daughter would have a will of her own.

Because you didn't read well I'll state it again. We had to bring her to her mothers house for a visit. When we were supposed to pick her up last night the house was empty.

If you think it's a fucking joke I feel sorry for you.

Exxxotica · 08-20-2002, 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JFPdude

When we were supposed to pick her up last night the house was empty.

I hope you brought a forklift.

JFPdude · 08-20-2002, 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Exxxotica

I hope you brought a forklift.

Exxxotica

Is Black 7 hosting the only thing me, my family, and my friends should boycott on you or is there more?

Honeyslut · 08-20-2002, 10:41 AM

If you are not the parent that is the guardian by law, it is kidnapping !

Good luck in finding your daughter ! I hope it's quick !

Shit like this is the only reason I am still married. I don't want anyone fucking up my kids' lifes !

Sly_RJ · 08-20-2002, 10:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Exxxotica

I hope you brought a forklift.

What the fuck is your problem? Grow up.

RockDaddy · 08-20-2002, 10:47 AM

Quote:

If you are not the parent that is the guardian by law, it is kidnapping !

The legal system doesn't really give a shit about kids once they hit 16 or so. I've been going down a similar road for the past couple of years. About kidnapping, it's more or less a "contempt of court" thing on the offending parent.

SilverTab · 08-20-2002, 10:51 AM

Hope you find her as soon as possible!

And Exxxotica, I don't think he's kidding...just in case, I think you shouldn't joke about it....

alias · 08-20-2002, 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Exxxotica

I hope you brought a forklift.

hahahaa

SunTzu · 08-20-2002, 10:52 AM

JFP - I hope you find her.. Here in CA they have the "Amber alert" now that shows the license plate # on all the hwy signs. But they just said they won't be counting custody kidnappings an abduction.

Curious though, if she's 17 couldn't she call you up from wherever she is eventually? I mean, she's not being bound and gagged right?

klik · 08-20-2002, 10:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ

Come to SoCal, it's beyond ridiculous anymore. Kids are getting snatched right and left. Sad stuff, pisses me off...

We usualy don't get them back alive and virgins either.

Sick people.

Pathfinder · 08-20-2002, 11:01 AM

Unless the mother is some kind of a nut (she apparently raised the kid for 13 years so this is most likely not the case) I don't considered spousal custody disputes to be kidnapping, although the law in some instances apparently does.

playa · 08-20-2002, 11:04 AM

whats going on with these kidnappings lately

Sly_RJ · 08-20-2002, 11:09 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pathfinder
Unless the mother is some kind of a nut (she apparently raised the kid for 13 years so this is most likely not the case) I don't considered spousal custody disputes to be kidnapping, although the law in some instances apparently does.

You obviously don't know many parents these days.

Sjayne · 08-20-2002, 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ

Come to SoCal, it's beyond ridiculous anymore. Kids are getting snatched right and left. Sad stuff, pisses me off...

Yeah, i was back in the states a couple weeks ago and heard them on the news.

Over here we just had two ten year old friends go missing for two weeks only for their bodies to be found this week. The people being held were their classroom assistant and her boyfirend which was the school's caretaker.

the world is a sick place.

and oh by the way...I know a hosting company I am never going to use.

LA Mike · 08-20-2002, 11:48 AM

Man, that shit is crazy

Good luck to you!

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hahmike · 08-20-2002, 11:54 AM

very sad news, but if she is with her mother you can at least take some comfort in the 99.9999% fact that she is safe and sheltered.

we hope that everything works out.

T-Rav · 08-20-2002, 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JFPdude
Anybody in the Richmond Virginia area (where her mother last resided and my daughter was on vacation)

17 yo girl 5'6" 250 pounds

mother would be driving a 1995 green mustang not sure of the license plate.

mother is 5'7" 300 pounds

Please do not intervene but call the local police.

Could you please post some photos, I have a friend that lives in Richmond and I'll have him keep an eye out for them. Shouldn't be too hard to spot I imagine.

Don't worry, I don't think he'll want to intervene.

Good Luck!

AcidMax · 08-20-2002, 12:17 PM

Good luck to you.

AJ

Tam · 08-20-2002, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by playa
whats going on with these kidnappings lately

No shit!!! On my way home from the tanning bed and other errands a few minutes ago, I heard about 2 other kidnapping cases where they suspected the non-custodial parent. That's just insane. Then this morning I found out they have a child stalker who is trying to pick up little girls about 30 minutes from me........ this world is getting so fucked up.

JFP, best of luck to you, babe........ I hope everything works out for the best and that you find your daughter soon.

Gemini · 08-20-2002, 01:36 PM

You'll find her JFP.

Keep a cool head and it will al work out. I know EXACTLY how you feel from personal experience.

Exxx, you need your head whacked a good one. I'll leave it at that.

Turboface · 08-20-2002, 02:28 PM

Sorry to hear about that - I'm sure you're upset about this whole thing.

I'd suggest getting in touch with Lawpal (He's a member on here). He might be able to give you some good advice.

dig420 · 08-20-2002, 02:53 PM

when I was 17 I had my own apartment, a job and supported myself.

How can you kidnap a 250 lb 17 year old? why can't she just walk away? who's going to stop her??

Scootermuze · 08-20-2002, 03:01 PM

I'd be expecting a call from her soon. If she is at a place she doesn't want to be, then she's not gonna hang there very long. and as far as the law goes.. especially now.. I doubt they'd be very concerned in that she is so close to being an adult with it being a custody thing.

Who knows.. it could be that she didn't want to come home yet... might be somethin to think about..

RATBOY · 08-20-2002, 03:15 PM

Someone at my day job is conviced all the kidnappings lately are because of terrorism....

...Yes she's blonde.

salsbury · 08-20-2002, 03:25 PM

um, these kinds of kidnappings happen all the time. not to discount JPFdude's experience, but it's not like we're all in some "epidemic" time, no matter how much the media wants you to believe it.

Muffy · 08-20-2002, 03:26 PM

My heart goes out to you...I hope and pray that everything works out for the best.

And on another note, I cannot believe how cruel some of the members of this board can be sometimes.

Muffy

08-20-2002, 07:27 AM	#1
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	Daughter Kidnapped I will be unavailable for an undetermined amount of time. My 17 year old daughter has again been kidnapped by her mother. I am working to try and find her. This post has been placed on JFPDude's behalf. If anybody has been awaiting a response from him since last night he apologizes and will get back to you as quickly as possible.

08-20-2002, 07:45 AM	#4
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08-20-2002, 08:15 AM	#10
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08-20-2002, 08:24 AM	#12
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08-20-2002, 09:00 AM	#16
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08-20-2002, 07:27 AM	#2
HomeGrown Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 345	Oh shit, hope you find her man. I'll pray for you.

08-20-2002, 07:29 AM	#3
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	Anybody in the Richmond Virginia area (where her mother last resided and my daughter was on vacation) 17 yo girl 5'6" 250 pounds mother would be driving a 1995 green mustang not sure of the license plate. mother is 5'7" 300 pounds Please do not intervene but call the local police.

08-20-2002, 07:54 AM	#5
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	honestly I dont understand the "kidnapped" description. The daughter is 17y.old and she is with her mother. Is some man involved in this case? I can't think of a mother kidnapping her daughter at the age of 17. Strange thing. Anyway, I hope everything will be resolved soon and it's not something serious. Best wishes.

08-20-2002, 08:05 AM	#6
ControlThy Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,909	This happens with divorced parents..... Mother or father takes child from other parent and disappears. Though that usually happens with younger children. Good luck in finding her.

08-20-2002, 08:08 AM	#7
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	oh,it's a divorced couple

08-20-2002, 08:10 AM	#8
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	This is the second time the daughter has been kidnapped by the mother the first time we didn't find her for 13 years

08-20-2002, 08:12 AM	#9
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	sorry to hear that bro, I didn't get a real picture of the event. Maybe you should post their names or something since you gave descriptions, although I doubt we have that many readers from that area.

08-20-2002, 08:32 AM	#14
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	Laws Suck. 14 Years ago JFPDude came home to find his house empty. He came home from work early that day because something felt out of place. For 13 years he searched for his 2 kids only to have his daughter call him finally the week before christmas 2000. The police and courts did nothing to the kids mother because they wanted to reconcile everything and felt just giving JFPDude custody and the mother a week visitation in the summer would heal things. JFPDude son now works with him at a large web hoster and most of you know him. However his daughter had to go for the agreed upon visit with her mom last week. His g/f went to pick the daughter up last night to find her missing and again like 14 years ago he doesn't know where she is again. Laws in this country needs to be changed. Right wing assholes have gone to far trying to make family's stay together. This is just another example of the break down of laws in America. JFPDude thanks all for the support. The ICQ's and stuff are being answered by an employee right now but Thanks for the support all.

08-20-2002, 08:37 AM	#15
RockDaddy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 750	Go down to your local bail bond agency, find who they use for their "fugitive recoveries" those people can find anyone! Second bet, hire a good private detective that specializes in skip tracing. Good luck

08-20-2002, 09:29 AM	#17
JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	we are hoping she does

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08-20-2002, 10:11 AM	#22
Sjayne Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: London, UK Posts: 1,182	you know...250lbs or not she is still his daughter. I know my parents would be worried about me and at her age I was pretty much the exact same weight. SO....i think this would be the best time to say GFY! Kidnapping has been very much in the news in the UK over the last two weeks...i hope things turn out much better for you. __________________ <a href="http://www.wishing.com/money">Make 50% commissions promoting our penis pills, breast pills, weight loss pills and more!</a> <a href="http://www.webinc.com">Need Design Work? Check Out Our Huge Design Portfolio Online, Special: 100 Animated Banners, $799.00 </a> - tell them Sarah sent you.

08-20-2002, 10:41 AM	#28
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08-20-2002, 10:51 AM	#31
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08-20-2002, 10:52 AM	#33
SunTzu Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: the box Posts: 456	JFP - I hope you find her.. Here in CA they have the "Amber alert" now that shows the license plate # on all the hwy signs. But they just said they won't be counting custody kidnappings an abduction. Curious though, if she's 17 couldn't she call you up from wherever she is eventually? I mean, she's not being bound and gagged right?

08-20-2002, 11:01 AM	#35
Pathfinder theking of trailer parks Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Tehachapi, California Posts: 2,277	Unless the mother is some kind of a nut (she apparently raised the kid for 13 years so this is most likely not the case) I don't considered spousal custody disputes to be kidnapping, although the law in some instances apparently does.

08-20-2002, 11:04 AM	#36
playa Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: atlanta, GA Posts: 6,432	whats going on with these kidnappings lately

08-20-2002, 11:48 AM	#39
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08-20-2002, 11:54 AM	#40
hahmike So Fucking Banned Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 2,488	very sad news, but if she is with her mother you can at least take some comfort in the 99.9999% fact that she is safe and sheltered. we hope that everything works out.

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08-20-2002, 01:36 PM	#44
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	You'll find her JFP. Keep a cool head and it will al work out. I know EXACTLY how you feel from personal experience. Exxx, you need your head whacked a good one. I'll leave it at that.

08-20-2002, 02:28 PM	#45
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08-20-2002, 02:53 PM	#46
dig420 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 9,240	when I was 17 I had my own apartment, a job and supported myself. How can you kidnap a 250 lb 17 year old? why can't she just walk away? who's going to stop her??

08-20-2002, 03:01 PM	#47
Scootermuze Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 4,513	I'd be expecting a call from her soon. If she is at a place she doesn't want to be, then she's not gonna hang there very long. and as far as the law goes.. especially now.. I doubt they'd be very concerned in that she is so close to being an adult with it being a custody thing. Who knows.. it could be that she didn't want to come home yet... might be somethin to think about..

08-20-2002, 03:15 PM	#48
RATBOY Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 1,592	Someone at my day job is conviced all the kidnappings lately are because of terrorism.... ...Yes she's blonde.

08-20-2002, 03:25 PM	#49
salsbury Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Seattle Posts: 1,070	um, these kinds of kidnappings happen all the time. not to discount JPFdude's experience, but it's not like we're all in some "epidemic" time, no matter how much the media wants you to believe it. __________________

08-20-2002, 03:26 PM	#50
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