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What do you do when you have stalker who just won't give up?
I have a fan who somehow tracked me down and seems to know my every move. I am a huge Aerosmith fan and he went out and got tickets to the show which is 5 hour drive from where I live. Anyone who knows me knows I will not miss that concert! He icq's and emails me and talks as if he is my man. I doubt very much he is dangerous but what would you do in a situation like this?
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GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
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I don't like COPS, and I don't like Aerosmith, tough one.
Restraining Order and Cops would be the best move though.
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yes, call 5-0
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i would block him from my icq and email lists for the first thing...
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im sorry i thought you would like the tickets
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I hope you already canceled his membership.
Who are you going to the show with? Make sure they're with you at ALL times. Drive to the show in a car other than your own. When you leave, make sure you don't go straight home and watch your back. You might want to stay at a friends house. If you are approached by the guy, you might want to alert security of the situation. A restraining order doesn't do much against serious stalkers, so watch your back and please be careful.
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GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
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Get it done ASAP.
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Show your pussy on the internet, accept the risks.
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I have blocked him from my msn. I keep the other messages and emails as evidence. I am still in Florida from being at the Internext in Hollywood, I will go see the cops once I get back home. Thanks guys!
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GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
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Check your windows before you go in. He may be waiting for you.
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I have a house sitter who is aware of the situation, plus my gym is just down the road. I am safe, just pissed about the whole thing. To the dude who wrote " Show your pussy on the net and deal with it" Go fuck yourself!
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Thats not what I said.
I said "show your pussy on the internet, accept the risks". If you want a private life, dont go broadcasting your sexual misadvenures on the internet. Shit attracts flies. |
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I had to put steel bars in the windows to keep the babes out.
Actually, buy two Rottwellers, shemp |
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I finally had to say "look, cyberpunk I'm married, now take your fat fucking gothic ass and get a clue before I smack you in the face with my cock again"
sadly, the woman I was stalking said "look fuckface, don't make me staple your cock to your forhead" I got the message finally.........
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Hey.. . wasnt me... really..
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I had a stalker once. She was a big Aerosmith fan, come to think of it. Got rid of her by moving to a different city.
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![]() but on the serious note...stalkers can be really fucked up, and would do anything to get around you, so I would suggest having a large male friend accompany you around, or get some mace/pepper spray. Most stalkers think that the stalkee will want to be around him, and want to be friends. In the stalkers mind, they feel they already have a connection, so if you see him, dont panic...you want to remain calm, and almost welcome him, then spray him with the pepper spray. You do not want to react in any panic way because in a stalkers mind, a lot of them feel if you dont want them, sudden rage could take over. So if he shows up at your house, dont flip out and threaten your calling the police. Tell him you are "freshening up" and will be out in 15 minutes. Tell him you want to prepare yourself for him. Should give you plenty of time to call the cops and have them respond. Remember to play into his fantasy, and CALL the cops...then go lock yourself in a room with some pepperspray. Good luck! |
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LMFAO, you are all too funny!
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ask cheshire, she gets stalked all the time
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I will definatly do that! I have a strong feeling he will pass by when I get back home. The cop station is also just down the road from me. No Donut shop on the way so it should be fast, lol
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make sure its not Succinylcholyne(sp)?
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All he'd need to do is get another instant messanger ID and look her up. This would possibly infuriate him.. BUT DEFINATLY, CALL THE PO-PO
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I want to thank you all for your post's. I will go to the cops once I get home. I also want to thank some of you for making me laugh. I really enjoyed the responces and jokes. I am a tough little chick, if he comes near me I will put him down........I think I can, lol. I enjoy my life and lifestyle.......I am not going to be chased out by a freak who thinks he can hit it. My bad ass spoke again.
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"This could pose a problem, if she thinks hes dangerous, there is no reason to make him mad."
yes, it could make him mad. i agree that any person enduring such harrassment as this lady describes should immediately contact the police. just the same, allowing him the luxury of contacting her through email and instant messaging has to end. i don't think that kind of direct contact with one's website fans is a good idea in the first place.
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I don't answer him. I keep it as evidence, I doubt he is dangerous, he is just confussing love as lust. He needs a shrink!
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All he'd need to do is get another instant messanger ID and look her up. This would possibly infuriate him.. BUT DEFINATLY, CALL THE PO-PO
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oops fucked up on last post......he thinks he loves me but it is just obsession.
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I had a woman stalker, when I lived in this Townhouse complex. Man I liked to have never got rid of her.. I moved...but just 1/2 block away... she didn't brother me any more... man she came close to have driving me fucking crazier.
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why are you trying to "understand" this person? this is what pisses me off about women!
stop being a fucking lady! don't smile when you're spoken to! don't excuse yourself before making an opinion! and don't think that creeps just need some understanding! the only way to remain safe when you're young, pretty and female is to be a complete bitch! save the graciousness for when you're old and nobody looks at you with lust anymore. ![]()
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Get a gang of brat kids to tap on his skylight every night and distract him.
![]() seriously, involve the cops. If you need more: Consider getting a gun and learning how to use it. (Not for everyone.) Look into a professionally trained security dog ($$$). My old neighbor was a cop. He had two guarding his house. They were simply amazing. |
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Or here is an idea.
Dont show your pussy on the internet and make it easy to find you. Ockhams Razor. |
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Listen Labret
I have ever right to have my fun on the net. I like my fans but stalking is taking it too far. With the responces you have given me just makes me think you are a stalker and think it is ok. I AM a touch chick and can handle myself well. Wanna rumble at the Vegas convention?????? Bring it on babe!
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"Dont show your pussy on the internet and make it easy to find you."
and YOU Labret, are phrasing your statements in such a way so they express your "judgements" yet are still defensible as fair declarations. what you meant to say was "Take extra efforts to protect your privacy if you're going to pose nude on the Internet".
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Now add on to the end of that "if you dont, and scooter from Toronto sucessfully hunts you down... its your own damn fault. Stop crying slut". Women, always playing the victim. |
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The only reason I haven't went to the cops yet is because I felt bad for the guy, he thinks he loves me but he is clearly obsessed. I am a tough little bitch who works out 5 days a week. I am in the position now that the only way to feel free again is to get the cops involved. Sorry that I have a concience and don't like a to give someone a record. I do what I do cause I am a TRUE swinger and love my life. I provide entertainment, no need to be stalked cause of it and anyone who thinks I deserved it well......you know the URL here!
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Hey... I think you need to chill out abit.... no need to be making idiotic comments like "boo hoo"... Thats something an 11 year old would say... so in the tradition of this board.... "Go Fuck Your Self"! See you in Vegas.
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Soulfly......It will be fun to meet you. I really am a fun girl. You will either like me or hate me, your call. I really have meet the best people since I have started in this industry. I really just didn't like what that other dude was saying. When you see me come say hi so I know who you are.
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diamondpierce - i am in no way implying that you somehow "deserve" to be terrorised because you are a female who shows her body for a living. do not confuse me with the little man behind the monitor called Labret.
i will say this, nice people get their asses kicked every day. this person who is bothering you obviously doesn't have your "feelings" in mind when he is evidently scaring you. why on earth should you indulge him one more minute?
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I didn't come here to cry. I was just trying to get opinions from people I didn't know. Funbrunttte posts here all the time and kept telling me to log in and voice my opinion. You can say all you want about me but all I can say is that once you meet me we will most probably get along, I had no idea I would get trashed by posting something here to get your advise. Let me just leave it as......once you know me.....I am real!
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Listen Labret... I'm not going to give you the satisfaction of making comments back to you. Enjoy you life behind the pc and ridiculing people as you see fit. Great life you have.
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You can blow the guy off, but what if he goes on to stalk someone else, and worse yet, rapes them? Where's your conscience then? My conscience is in protecting other people, so when some creep deserves a red flag with the authorities, I give it to 'em. I have before and I will again...
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