Do you think your a leader or a follower? - GoFuckYourself.com

WWC · 03-04-2007, 11:52 PM

Many people might think of themselves as a leader but yet follow others allot throughout their everyday lives....i wonder if those who might lead themselves would do better or even feel better about themselves of their accomplishments?

I always strive not to follow others or copy their steps cause that feeling of doing something of your own mind is hell of a better feeling at the end than an idea of another person. When you follow someone and accomplish whatever you do, you don't feel like a winner, you still feel like a loser or you feel like you never even accomplished it after all....

One that will not apply new remedies must expect new evils, for time is the greatest innovator.

Discuss please....what do you think?

porno jew · 03-04-2007, 11:52 PM

leader obviously.

SleazyDream · 03-04-2007, 11:57 PM

option c -rebel

SomeCreep · 03-05-2007, 12:06 AM

Leadollower, because there are times when it is wisest to lead and times when it is most advantageous to follow.

Sly · 03-05-2007, 12:10 AM

I think we're all a little of both.

Didn't you start an affiliate program at one point? You certainly were not the first. Does that make you a loser?

Personally I think the whole "winner"/"loser" schtick is beyond pathetic. "Be a winner!"

WWC · 03-05-2007, 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

option c -rebel

Dont get it? is that a quote?

porno jew · 03-05-2007, 12:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WWC-Raffi

Dont get it? is that a quote?

no it's just his grade 4 level writing skills.

he's trying to say "not a or b, but c, and option c is rebel."

Nodtveidt · 03-05-2007, 01:51 AM

Generally a leader...it's in the blood as an Aries. I have a very hard time following "orders", I'd rather give the orders myself.

emthree · 03-05-2007, 01:53 AM

Follower I guess. I like to see other people make the mistakes first.

TeenCat · 03-05-2007, 02:10 AM

im the founder of fuckinggood.net which is growing every day and my friend is starting helping me with content filling from today, so i think about me as a leader?

thanks for this nice thread, my ego goes uupppp...

Mike Semen · 03-05-2007, 04:34 AM

Neither. I am the lone wolf that prowls the edges of society picking off the sick and weak.

... or something.

Nicky · 03-05-2007, 05:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porno jew

leader obviously.

Didnt see a Racist option?

martinsc · 03-05-2007, 05:16 AM

i think i am both... following the leader and leading the following....

jayeff · 03-05-2007, 06:34 AM

People may be leaders to a greater or lesser extent, but it is impossible not to be a follower too. Because our genetics have us pegged as communal creatures, a social structure which demands many more indians than chiefs, on balance the vast majority must be followers.

The corollary of which is that it is as foolish to feel proud if one is generally recognized as a leader, as it is to feel ashamed if one is a follower. Both states are determined just as surely as eye or hair color.

Tanya_AWP · 03-05-2007, 06:37 AM

A little of both..To be a leader you must first be a good follower..

wyldworx · 03-05-2007, 06:49 AM

I am a trend setter. I make things look good. No matter how bad it may seem to be, my presence is often followed by many shadows. I do not want to be either, but ones destiny cannot be illuded forever now, can it.

DaddyMustang · 03-05-2007, 06:53 AM

everyone has been at least once both

Jakke PNG · 03-05-2007, 06:55 AM

Depends how you look at it. I do not follow fashion. I don't care what people say or talk. I make 100% of the money in my family, so no living off someone else, or depending on anyone else (sort of, I pay my wife salary) though.
So..in personal life I am not a follower, however I don't consider a leader either. I don't hang around people enough for them to start copying or doing my bidding, except my wife and she's my employee

...in business. Well, I'm probably more of a follower. I don't have too many 100% original ideas, and those that I do have are implemented by someone else before I get started with my version. hah.

I'd like to think I'm neither.

CyberHustler · 03-05-2007, 06:58 AM

I'm just hard headed and stubborn...

alexanderv · 03-05-2007, 07:44 AM

It depends largely on a situation. It is impossible to be a leader or a follower only.

There has been a research: they put people in different discussion groups and naturally in every group there were about 5 % of "leaders". Then they got these "leaders" into another several discussion groups and there were another 5% of leaders. Finally they gathered people who proved to be "the best" in terms of leadership into one group. And guess what... among them there were only 5% of "leaders"

that proves that every person is either a leader or a follower depending on a situation.

Vick! · 03-05-2007, 07:51 AM

No can be totally one of these. I mostly lead, but where I am lack of knowledge, I don't feel ashame to follow. But ya, I start leading in that area very quickly. I got much of guts ;)

Drake · 03-05-2007, 09:40 AM

More of an Independent than anything else.

carol.prime · 03-05-2007, 09:44 AM

In order to be a leader, you must be a good follower.
I am both in many ways.

hzoltan · 03-05-2007, 10:00 AM

I don't know... I ask my buddy, he'll tell me who am I

Klen · 03-05-2007, 10:12 AM

Leader,i always try to dominate hehe

WWC · 03-05-2007, 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

I think we're all a little of both.

Didn't you start an affiliate program at one point? You certainly were not the first. Does that make you a loser?

Personally I think the whole "winner"/"loser" schtick is beyond pathetic. "Be a winner!"

Yes, very true i also believe everyone has been both especially in the early stages of life....

And yes i did own a great affiliate program at one time, these were the 380 + sites i used to own since 1994 :-).... I know i wasnt the first but yes i can say i didnt feel a satisfied winner of innovation by choice...although i still tried to come up with my own ideas within the program...

" Be The Best, Forget the Rest "

gimilin · 03-09-2007, 02:22 AM

I am afriad that i am a follower,but some times when i feel good,i am really want to do something,in that case i just feel that i am a leader,i am the king of the world

Amadora · 03-09-2007, 07:47 AM

I think i am a follower, because if i stood on my own all the time and try to dictate others in my familly what to do, i would have lost my familly long ago.

03-04-2007, 11:52 PM	#1
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Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,339	I think we're all a little of both. Didn't you start an affiliate program at one point? You certainly were not the first. Does that make you a loser? Personally I think the whole "winner"/"loser" schtick is beyond pathetic. "Be a winner!" __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.

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Nodtveidt Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Camuy, PR Posts: 573	Generally a leader...it's in the blood as an Aries. I have a very hard time following "orders", I'd rather give the orders myself. __________________ ICQ: 11541913

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porno jew Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 10,166	leader obviously.

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emthree Dialer Kingpin Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: New York Posts: 10,816	Follower I guess. I like to see other people make the mistakes first. __________________ • Sell Patches & Pills •

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TeenCat Too lazy to set a koala Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: CZ/EU forever! Posts: 16,139	im the founder of fuckinggood.net which is growing every day and my friend is starting helping me with content filling from today, so i think about me as a leader? thanks for this nice thread, my ego goes uupppp... __________________ 6bot / Coming again very soon! Svit Zlin Radio 24/7!

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Mike Semen Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: London Town Posts: 2,924	Neither. I am the lone wolf that prowls the edges of society picking off the sick and weak. ... or something. __________________ ICQ 1454 81 522 \|

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martinsc Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: 127.0.0.1 Posts: 27,047	i think i am both... following the leader and leading the following.... __________________ Make Money

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jayeff Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 2,944	People may be leaders to a greater or lesser extent, but it is impossible not to be a follower too. Because our genetics have us pegged as communal creatures, a social structure which demands many more indians than chiefs, on balance the vast majority must be followers. The corollary of which is that it is as foolish to feel proud if one is generally recognized as a leader, as it is to feel ashamed if one is a follower. Both states are determined just as surely as eye or hair color.

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wyldworx So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: oz-trailer Posts: 5,144	I am a trend setter. I make things look good. No matter how bad it may seem to be, my presence is often followed by many shadows. I do not want to be either, but ones destiny cannot be illuded forever now, can it.

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DaddyMustang Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 1,892	everyone has been at least once both

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Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	Depends how you look at it. I do not follow fashion. I don't care what people say or talk. I make 100% of the money in my family, so no living off someone else, or depending on anyone else (sort of, I pay my wife salary) though. So..in personal life I am not a follower, however I don't consider a leader either. I don't hang around people enough for them to start copying or doing my bidding, except my wife and she's my employee ...in business. Well, I'm probably more of a follower. I don't have too many 100% original ideas, and those that I do have are implemented by someone else before I get started with my version. hah. I'd like to think I'm neither. __________________ ..and I'm off.

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CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 26,482	I'm just hard headed and stubborn...

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alexanderv Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 591	It depends largely on a situation. It is impossible to be a leader or a follower only. There has been a research: they put people in different discussion groups and naturally in every group there were about 5 % of "leaders". Then they got these "leaders" into another several discussion groups and there were another 5% of leaders. Finally they gathered people who proved to be "the best" in terms of leadership into one group. And guess what... among them there were only 5% of "leaders" that proves that every person is either a leader or a follower depending on a situation. __________________ ADULTRATED.COM, simply the best convertions around, excellent promo tools ADULTBOUNCER.COM - promote the biggest AEN on the planet!

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Vick! Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: 20 00'24.00" N, 75 09'00.00 W Posts: 6,882	No can be totally one of these. I mostly lead, but where I am lack of knowledge, I don't feel ashame to follow. But ya, I start leading in that area very quickly. I got much of guts ;) __________________ Affordable Quality Web Hosting

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Drake Hello world! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 12,508	More of an Independent than anything else.

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