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Old 02-20-2007, 08:48 PM   #1
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When is it OK to cheat on your wife?

When is it ok to cheat on the wife. 15 years of constant nagging and lack of sex? Is that valid? Have any of you cheated on your wife or are currently cheating. It would be interesting to get some honest and intelligent answers to this thread.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:49 PM   #2
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IMO, never

if you aren't man enough just to tell her how you feel, then you shouldn't be married
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:49 PM   #3
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:50 PM   #4
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Indeed..divorce her first,although many married women cheat also
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:50 PM   #5
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if you are being nagged during sex.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:50 PM   #6
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it depends. For example, I'm Hispanic and in our culture, if you're married and you don't have at least 3 girlfriends on the side, you're considered gay.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:51 PM   #7
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Its only cheating if she doesnt know about it. Thank God for my wife.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:52 PM   #8
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:52 PM   #9
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its never OK.. if its that bad get a divorce
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:54 PM   #10
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IMO, never

if you aren't man enough just to tell her how you feel, then you shouldn't be married
I'm going with Jace's quote.

Don't be another wimp (whether you're male or female): Fess-the-fuck-up and deal.

Talk and keep the relationship or end it and start dating again.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:55 PM   #11
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After you kill her.
Seriously, just get out and venture back into the seedy, and expensive world of singles bars, late nights, one night stands, and the elusive (but still possible if you are under 50 and have a bank roll) 3 some.

I have never been married, but, I would think the honorable thing to do (especially if you stand to lose money in a divorce),
would be to separate...then it is not cheating.
"You were on a break."

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Old 02-20-2007, 08:56 PM   #12
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uh like Yesterday what the hell are you waiting for.
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Old 02-20-2007, 08:58 PM   #13
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:07 PM   #14
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:08 PM   #15
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:11 PM   #16
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really in australia its only on weekends
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:35 PM   #17
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:43 PM   #18
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Blowjobs don't count as cheating.
True..it's in the rules.
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Old 02-20-2007, 09:53 PM   #19
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Old 02-20-2007, 10:31 PM   #20
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Karma is a mother fucker, and women can be fuckin cold and wreck your life, Don't do it
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:30 AM   #21
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- when you divorced her
- when she cheated on you
- when she is no longer interested in you

i'm thinking of cheating on my wife... can i tell her that i want to cheat on her? will that be cheating? LOL.. just kidding..
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:31 AM   #22
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It's ok to cheat after the divorce has been filed... I'm lovin it right now.. Fresh new pussy after 10 years...
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:33 AM   #23
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It's ok to cheat after the divorce has been filed... I'm lovin it right now.. Fresh new pussy after 10 years...
Media, what's up brother?

long time no talk/see.. hit me up!
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:34 AM   #24
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:38 AM   #25
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if you aren't man enough just to tell her how you feel, then you shouldn't be married

I second what he said.
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:41 AM   #26
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I second what he said.
Agreed, I never cheated on my wife in the 10 years we were together... I was a good MAN until the day she said she wanted a divorce... Now I'm back on the market and I don't feel bad at all about it.. I woulda felt like SHIT if I was doing that while I was married..
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:43 AM   #27
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Karma is a mother fucker, and women can be fuckin cold and wreck your life, Don't do it
They do that regardless whether you've cheated or not :P
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:46 AM   #28
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:47 AM   #29
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I was with this girl for 5 yrs...I cheated on her once and i would never do it again because i felt guilty about it. I never told her but i carried the guilt of it until i broke up with her. Think about it long and hard before you do it.
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Old 02-21-2007, 10:58 AM   #30
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Old 02-21-2007, 11:08 AM   #31
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When is it OK to cheat on your wife?

When she's there with you. But is she cheating as well?
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Old 02-21-2007, 11:12 AM   #32
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yeah, right. Welcome to suckersland
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Old 02-21-2007, 11:15 AM   #33
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Old 02-21-2007, 11:19 AM   #34
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I'd have to say that cheating no matter what sex you are is slimey. If you dont love/respect that person enough not to potentially hurt their feelings then you shouldnt be with them... However being the naughty bitch that I am.. 3somes are always a great way to bring your love closer.... muahahaha
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It is never Okto cheat on your wife. First you divorce and then do what you want.
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I never got the lack of sex part ... don't people discuss this? Say, "hey, I haven't gotten laid in awhile, or I haven't given you incredible oral in awhile, want some?"

And hell, if she refuses, stick it in her when she's sleeping.

But seriously, I agree with Jace ... I've always been open and honest with Chris about anything we may disagree on or have problems with and it only makes us stronger and happier in the end cause we aren't carrying around resentment inside.
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Quoted to show my wife.

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Quoted to show my wife.

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Well, I'm from the country and in our culture, if you're married and you have a girlfriend on the side, you're considered dead.

Don't forget about pops' shotgun;)
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Cheating is not OK. How would you feel if your wife cheated on you ?
the best way to deal with it is to talk about what is lacking in your marriage.

If you feel you are no longer attracted to her, tell her that, might lead to an open relationship where you both get laid outside of your marriage. Then its not cheating. Because you both have agreed up on it.
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dude ! its always ok to cheat on your wife . .aslong as the chick you do it with is hottttt !
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yeah, right. Welcome to suckersland
you make no sense

I am married, and have been happily married for almost 8 years now....of course I have found other women attractive, and by nature wanted to fuck them, but I am grown up to realize that it is just that, a fuck, and definitely no reason to ruin a solid relationship and one of the best friendships I have had

cheating is a pussy move only done by insecure pussy guys

a real man stands up and says how he feels
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