I concur his concurrence.

Good post.:thumbsup

Indeed

It would appear that no one found anything "smart" about how you handled this situation. :(

So bro, just about everyone apologized now. Pony up.

he is in holland anyhow...

Ok.. but why didnt you just call me to sort out what the fuck
was going on?

I never said anything bad or negative about you..
Even my doubts about you being real where/are
overshadowed by the fact you're an entertaining
personality that seemed smart and in for a joke.

I fucking told you that in ALL the emails.

If you REALLY feel the way about this as you described
then obviously there is no need to apologize, i should.

Not that that changes anything: from now whenever somebody raises
a thumbs near a female GFY member teargass will be
pulled out.. But hey.. Reputation is a matter of second
and luck i guess..


:thumbsup

All right. I think it's about time everybody here just... Walk On...


Jak

I am from Northern Calif LOL..

Where is that little bastard when we need him?

And I think everyone knows my handle is cheshire, and my nickname is Kat ~ which was blocked out with *** in the full emails mrthumbs felt necessary to publish on his behalf.

As I said earlier I was not comfortable with disclosing a certain email as I live to be humble and find talking about myself as a form of serious self-publicity to dishonorable. I was embarassed to read what I had written to mrthumbs in explanation to how I had become recognized on this board. That fact remains that seven months ago a person who posts here made a flattering gesture that has turned into something dear to my heart. Maybe my explaination of that in my emails expresses my joy of how people on this board are so sweet to me.

Many have shown their true colors to me today ~ and I thank those who understood why I did this.

pathfinder - I'm sorry to you for things I've said.

I conquer.

Ches: i even offered you to send flowers! :)

Will i always appear in your nightmares or do we have
rehabilitation opportunities here?

doesn't matter.... I haven't read anywhere near the large portion of this thread, nor the emails in question.... but when she says she's freaked out by the things you are doing or saying, that's enough for me. The bottom line is you creeped her out.... and you KEPT on doing it. And that's just not cool at all. It's not funny.... it's not *being smart*, it's not any of those things. I don't know what you were thinking when you began this, but I'm guessing it didn't turn out exactly the way you had envisioned did it?

Use your head man... if a chick tells you she's weirded out by the shit you're doing... she most likely means it.

Honeyslut, what are all those colorful things on the bookshelf behind you? And what is your first name :D

he just Walked On.......

That's what friends are for darlin'. :thumbsup

Correct: that's why explained it.. get my point?

My name is JULENE and I am not a DRAMA QUEEN


LOL..

Damn, he's funny, too

And THAT gives you a correct opinion and you judge me with it?


:thumbsup you should run for president Amp..!

I asked you three times in consecutive emails each more expressive than the last
I never once accused you of slander or saying anything bad about me.

I do, and you should.

There's something oddly cathartic about argument. And something impressive about one that went on so long, and actually got resolved. Normally, after a certain point, nobody will budge. For the most part, I think that didn't happen here.

Thumbs-- I think it was creepy... but you seem to understand it a lot better now, and that's what matters to this co-combattant. ;)

This thread is just a conspiracy so that adult.com doesnt have to pay postage on this weeks DVD player :1orglaugh

I use to own a book/comic/card gift store for about 6 years and I kept a bunch of the books ! LOL

My card wholesaler use to call me MEAN JULENE LOL

Yeah.. and i have to play along otherwise they will reveal my
first name!

:thumbsup

like I thought I already said.... this wasn't about opinions or judgements.... this was about you buggin' Cheshire with this game. I don't care what evidence you have, how many testimonials to your true goodness you come up with, or if God himself comes down and makes you his new adopted Son.... if you're making a problem for Cheshire, you're making one with me too. That's my point.

Only Amp can call me Ches because I respect him, and I am ready to accept your apology if you understand what you are apologizing for.

I take it you are apologizing to me, and if that is the case apology accepted, but just to acknowledge the apology. I don't feel that you owe me an apology as I don't take much of the flaming on this board with any seriousness and I hope that you haven't taken much of any flaming I have done with any seriousness.

John Brady from Los Gatos ?



LOL

I don't take any of it seriously, because it doesn't carry into my outside life and personal safety like this situation did.


mrthumbs has emailed me a personal apology he does not wish posted on the board.

.

Good girl.:thumbsup

I do NOT apologize for 'what i did' because there is NOTHING
to apologize for concerning that.

I do apologize however for providing you information (or not making information clear timely) that you misunderstood in the most extreme way.

however.. if the majority still things i went out of line
and i should be apologizing for something else:
tell me.. and i'll leave GFY.


Okok.. thanks everybody for participating with this thread.

So, in other words, no apology, and you still don't get it? (sigh)

You are welcome !

This topic is way oversized due to my blabbering..

Will you PLEASE stop your ignorant comments?

I am SO f*cking DONE with this LOOOOOSER

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Just want you to know i'm actually i nice guy and saying this really DOES
make me a stalker..i was REALLY just joking.. and if i actually
DID scare you i privatly apologize..

However.. i think it was all just Boneprone Propaganda eh... i believe
in conspiracy.. :-)

Take care,
Chris

hehehehe..... the violator becomes the violated.... no mercy... :glugglug

Jesus, this thread got pretty damn huge since i last checked, and quite frankly i'm too lazy to read everything i've missed. But i did have a look at some stuff, the email header stuff in particular.

It seems that mrthumbs wasn't actually snooping around or anything, but that's not the issue here. Cheshire was obviously upset at the fact that mrthumbs knew her first name, and she had no idea why.

Now, if he had of just said "it's in your email header, here, look"

Problem solved.

But, he didn't. Instead, he makes vague statements via email and in this very thread. And they were indeed creepy! It seemed very much intentional also.

MrThumbs, if you had have been straight up with Cheshire in the first place, instead of acting like an ass, this whole thing wouldn't have been blown out of proportion.

thank you chodadog
:thumbsup

Anything for you *flutters eyelashes*

bwahahah! :winkwink:

I just picked up Training Day on DVD. Should I bring popcorn?

We wrote a few emails (this was in a matter of 15 to 25 minutes)
with 5-10 minute delays in between.

10 minutes later she does a GFY post..

So in order to do that i must have had the opportunity to.
I'm not gonna kiss ass instantly when i see she did
a post on GFY.. although i perhaps better should have done that.

:thumbsup

I am sure it will go on, but I guess the important part was over a while ago... I still think Thumbs is creepy and can't tell (or at least admit) when he does something wrong. However, Cheshire knows he doesn't have all sorts of info, and can rest easier. I guess that's what matters.

Explaining to one moron what is scary about him isn't really worth our time. I am sorry you went through something so scary Cheshire. I hope the worry has settled down.

Now I understand your comment last night Cheshire :xomunch Oh well, gotta love the Soapbox GFY...


I still have to make up my fuckup, Cheshire ... if I only knew how :Oh crap You must still be pissed at me ...

Just as long as everyone here realizes that I'm not Mr.Thumbs then I'm happy.

I said some shit this past week, but I hope Cheshire sees the humor in it.
It was all meant in harmless fun.

Im getting a little pissed.. (havent been in a while)

Let me get this into your Gothic little brain:

I ONLY HAD HER FIRST NAME WHICH WAS PRINTED
IN THE EMAIL SHE SEND ME!

THAT ALL.

No phonenumbers, last names, sex change data, family names

JUST HER FUCKING FIRSTNAME SHE SEND ME HERSELF

And when she said "my name is Kat" and i say "isnt it *****?"
because that's PRINTED in the email im all of the sudden a stalker and a creepy man.

Read my above post considering the TIME FRAME this happened
in.. that explains my lack of clearing things up timely and the
suspicious environment.

:mad:

oh well
:thumbsup

just for admitting that, your alright in my book :thumbsup

Judging by the subsequent posts by mrthumbs since my first post here, I obviously need to re-post what I origninally said, as he obviously didn't see or fully understand what I told him.....

Mrdumbs --- Let me explain something..... The feeling that someone is *watching* you, that you've been somehow violated in the slightest, is a very serious (and scary, sickening) feeling. In this day and age of stalkers finding, raping, and killing their victims in all sorts of horrific manners, your "happy-go-dumbass" mindless humor has no place. There is a lesson for you here mrthumbs.

<b>Lesson:</b> When someone says they are concerned and possibly feeling a bit threatened and fearful of you, don't keep yanking their chain like a dipshit. Try giving your wanker head a shake and being real and honest with them and get the shit straightened out.

If you had've done this in the first page of this thread, there wouldn't now be a few hundred webmasters out there thinking you are a creepy retard. Tell me, why was it so hard to just open up and answer Cheshire's questions without her having to ask them 10 times? I've certainly bestowed the title of dipshit to others for much less. I recommend you be a man and apologize to Cheshire, and then I'm sure she will do likewise for saying some things that she said, and all should be well. Unless you really are stalking her. Bad mistake if you are.

Read it. Learn it. Live with it.