In a truly healthy, trusting relationship, it should have only been a fantasy fulfilled. Sounds like at that point you were already struggling to hold on to things, and it was a measure of desperation that led you to allowing it. I see this a lot in the "lifestyle" community, but it always boils down to ONE thing. The relationship was never strong enough in the first place, and the "incident" that people blame for making things fly apart was only an excuse, something would have happened down the road either way, because if the couple were already that blind and desperate, the problems where there long before it occured.

"If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives."
(Leviticus 20:13 NAB)

:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

Officially nominated for Thead of the Year.

...and if you seen it on TV, you wouldn't beleive your own eyes and thought that producers have gone too far.

Only on GFY....


...and Jerry Springer!

Jerry, Jerry!!!!

Oh and Donny? The best thing you can do is be with your friends and heal. Being here and stewing over this will only turn to poison inside. It's a shitty situation all around with a lot of fault and blame being placed, but in your state of mind/emotion, none of that is going to help you. Get off the computer and go be with people who care about you. Call one of your church friends, hell GO TO CHURCH, but the path you are travelling now is a self-destructive one and will not do the love you are mourning, or yourself, any good in the end. I may not agree with you, I might think some of your choices are a bit nutty, but you're still a nice guy under it all and this ugliness isn't what you want, not really :(

I think he's done that already and this si what his church freinds told him:


If a man commits adultery with another man's wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. (Leviticus 20:10 NLT)


Donny,
do you need help finding gun dealers in your area?

None the less, you've still been fucked over, you were in a relationship when the apparent accusations happened. Pretty fucked up.

Yeah, I would have to second that thought. If Donny's as nucking futs as he sounds, I wouldn't wanna step foot in that house with him if I was her. I say call the police, have them go pick her shit up, and tell Donny to go to Hell.

You mean....we're supposed to be getting laid? Fuck it all, I been doing it wrong!! DAMN IT!

welll fuck ......

i actaully read every post in all 10 pages

my mind hurts now

Donny get help bro .. i've been where you are
the best thing is just to drop it .. step away ...


Belinda .....Do your thing :)

This thread makes good reading but it was no where near my expectations can't you guys fight and post the video or something? or can we watch the threesome tape?

My thoughts

Glad I'm not the only one that has done that. lol

I don't think you've gone crazy but I do think you're on a destructive path.

I'm not reading the entire thread because I imagine from the first few pages I've read that a lot of it is poking fun at a situation that you obviously are hurt by.

Now step back and analyze your situation. The blame is on neither of you - it's how you handle it from here that will show who's got the maturity.

She told you a fantasy, you wanted to make it happen for her. The situation got too hot for you to handle. You step away and go the way of GOD, ask her to come along, she doesn't want to.

Fast forward all the bickering and emotional abuse you've been handing to eachother the past few months. Today is your birthday, obviously, for many reasons, she doesn't want to be with you. As a 'religious' person, I don't see why you want to harm her name and reputation. Are you trying to get back at Spannow with the threats to expose this and take her into the tornado at the same time? Why are you expecting her to find another lover and not him? Do you think you have control over her emotions or her physical attractions?

You consistently come back here to piss on her - you continue to give pieces of info from your relationship that does not belong here, you show lack of respect to your now finished relationship. You are in definite need of counselling (not the religious kind), some therapy and perhaps pills in order to allow you to cope. You are not turning the other cheek. Remember, you don't own her - she doesn't have to do what you tell her. If you two are not 'together' then she is not obliged, nor should it expected that she be there at midnight to wish you a happy birthday. If she is with someone else & your story together is finished - even more so.

I don't understand how you can claim to have loved someone for so long and then want to destroy their future in business or with someone else. I just can't understand that concept & in the same breath, try to convince the world around you that you are a 'reborn' man with religion giving you a new life.

I hope you stepaway, take some time to think and look at all the beautiful things that you experienced in the relationship rather than focusing on the bad part of it. Move on - you are not doing yourself any good. Your continuous destruction to the good memories will not make her come back.

Happy Birthday Donny.

No, everyone is going to side with Belinda because you're a nutcase and an assclown.

You are a sad, sad little man, Donny. Everytime someone says anything, you throw up this "I have years and years of ICQ logs" bullshit. WTF, did you anticipate that someday you would want to blackmail the whole goddamn adult industry, so you hoarded away all these logs, knit picking every fucking word that everyone said to you? I don't know you, Belinda, Mark, Rochard....or hell, any of the people on GFY....personally, but as far back as I can remember, you've been nothing but a whiny bitch on here...while everyone else conducts themselves with some dignity.

And hey...didn't you say "Goodbye GFY" a few posts back? Please....fucking leave! Go fuck your red headed buddy in the ass, and leave GFY, the people that are here, and most importantly Belinda alone!!!

Donny - Check yourself into a psychiatric hospital. I'm not saying this to be a dick, you are spiraling out of control. You have become destructive to those around you. You need a rest away from everything.

Great Christian values, man.

Evidently you do care...or you'd STFU and leave. Goddamn dude, get some mental help.

this thread rocks on soooo many levels..merry xmas to me!

Nothing is wrong with Christianity, The Holy Bible addresses donnys of this world too!

Rods are prepared for the arrogant, and blows for the backs of fools. (Proverbs 19:29 NAB)

Did you have a chat with Jeff Newman from Busty Ams ?

So much for the church teaching you to forgive people and to forget.

What happened to praying for them? You seem to have replaced that with " let me out them and try to make us all look bad" including yourself.

So you liked to have other guys nail your girlfriend. That is something that I would want to keep to myself, especially when I have " hung like a horsefly" next to my name.

But no match for a gun :thumbsup

No, I wasn't downing Christianity with that statement...I was saying Donny is as far from Christian as can be. Because his relationship is fucked, he has to try and ruin someone elses life. That's not just being a hypocrite...that's being a goddamn cocksucker (no offense to my gay friends here on the board).

wasn't that obvious from a get go!?

What relationship? Sounds from what i'm reading that any thing that looked like a relationship was gone quite a while back.

What we have here (if you read carefully) is a control freak that didn't get his way crying to the world and blaming everyone but himself for a situation he helped to create (just imho of course)




edited in: one of the worst things about dealing with people is that they all have free will.

LOl who fucking cares?



You're all a bunch of idiots.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh !! Those are the cliffnotes I was looking for !!

Donny

pray to god to remove your obession

it works!

:helpme

excellent thread.

I've been there before man.. all too recently!

that coming from you is more a compliment. now :321GFY

I was going to watch Season 1 of Weeds today and go shopping. This is MUCH better :)

My question is, will Donny be at Internext this year handing out tie-dyed Bibles? Seriously, I heard that ********* hands out tie-dyed Bibles...and I want one!

what are they supposed to be celibate?

Im sure Hugh wouldnt approve of open sexuality with multiple partners

:1orglaugh

and I had planned to watch season 1 of SNL

now my day is ruined

Just checking in Merry Xmas GFY I hope all is well with you .

P.S.

WAY TO GO SPANNOW!!!!!! good on ya man

Waiting. Very interesting!

I don't think there is anything wrong with donny in his head, He seems a sane person I have followed his blog for ages and read about him on GFY a hell of a lot for about 6 months now. I think he is having problems at the moment as so much seems to be happening in his life right now, And from what I can tell he ain't coping very well. If people keep on telling this man he is insane, mental, nutter It can drive people crazy eg people call you ugly for ages you would think you were ugly. People call him crazy he would eventually believe he is crazy and lose his mind.

I do think that he is being very vindictive and trying his hardest to upset the people he feels have upset him, In future if you are going to post something to hurt someone have a long hard think about it first. You may live to regret it. Also why threaten to reveal ICQ logs if someone has spoken to you in privacy and trusted you to keep it that way, Why destroy it? I think you have dug yourself in a hole here and can't seem to get out of it, My advice to you is to go away and come back to GFY in a week or so (by that time someone will have made an ass of themselves and they will be the hot topic around here)

Also to everyone else if he believes in God let him do so, its his choice just let him get on with it put him on ignore if you don't like it. Everyone is entiled to make their own minds up about what they believe. Would you walk up to an old woman in the street and call her names because she believes in god? Just incase you are wondering I don't believe in god but that is my choice.


phew

Well at least you know that

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Why do so many men turn into psycho stalker/life ruiner freaks after a relationship ends? Donny, ask god and get back to me on his answer ok?

You were in a relationship, you brought someone else into it, you regretted it, now you blame everyone but yourself for the outcome. Donny, relationships go like this...let me give you an example of how it would work in my house.

Guy: Honey, my dream has always been to fuck the living shit out of a hot broad while you watch...what ya say you call up your friend and we make this happen.

Girl: Honey, if you ever put your dick inside another girl, I will chop it off, stuff it in y0ur mouth, sew your mouth shut and watch you die gagging on your own cock.

Guy: So, want to rent a movie and maybe play some cards?

Girl: Sounds good hon


So Donny, fantasy or not, if you could not handle someone fucking the snot out of your girl, you should have grown some fucking balls and let her know. If she really did need someone else in the bedroom, then end the relationship and start anew. Instead, you get stupid, you bring someone else into it, and then blame HER, HIM and everyone else for the consequences. The ONLY person you have to blame is yourself. Right now, you have so much inner hatred of yourself, that it is eating you alive and you are trying to lash out and make everyone hurt as much as you do...but the fact is Donny...they didn't fuck up..you did. Deal with it...move on...and let those involved move on with their lives.

1. No one is taking her side because she is in the industry and you are not. They really aren't taking her side, most people are just pointing out how stupid you are for all of this.

2. If you have to beg a girl to stop cheating on you, you are asking for them to walk all over you. Where is you self respect. " Please stop cheating on me." Fuck that, " Get the fuck out of my house" would have been my response the first time it happened. I know you were the idiot that agreed/wanted to do the 3some, but if it continued without you, then her ass should have been tossed. But instead you go to ********* and come here and cry about what she did to you. :Oh crap

My God...Hef would never be into something like that!! What would his THREE girlfriends think about you even suggesting something that insane?

Happy new year !!!

WO 10 page, Donny deserve the shit kicked out of him. Fucking assclown.

Can someone ban his ass allready ???

Last night I was thinking this may go 15 pages.. congrats on the xbox if they still give them away Donny.

And on a related/unrelated note...how the hell does Hef do it? Seriously, I'm 31 and couldn't keep up with one hot ass blonde...let alone three. Does he get daily shipments of Viagra...tape popsicle sticks to his cock...what?

don't forget thief, liar and cheat :thumbsup

what ever it takes :)