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Jack_Daniels 12-18-2006 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by psili (Post 11542986)
I think having posed nude for something is relevant in regard to public service. The adult industry's filled with scum and thus a public servant should be above such things as associating with scum.

Nonsense.

The girls posing nude aren't (for the most part anyway) the ones doing the real sleazy stuff like installing spyware, spamming people, and such.


Quote:

Originally Posted by psili (Post 11542986)
I have my ideas about the adult industry, and even though I work on a lighter side of it, I still think it's a business filled with shady characters.

There are shady characters in every industry and in this particular biz it's most certainly not the content that does the stuff you're alluding to.

kmanrox 12-18-2006 06:01 AM

don't be a tool Donny

JP-pornshooter 12-18-2006 11:43 AM

She was over 18 and made her own adult decisions, there is a lot of other ways people screw up their futures, you did not do it for her.
Atleast with the money she makes in porn, she can continue her college degree and get a real job (apparently not as a teacher or police-woman)..

Agent 488 12-18-2006 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11545214)
I'd tell them they couldn't and they'd end up wanting to do it more than you can imagine. Reverse psychology? That's probably the best way to describe it.

sounds manipulative to me. :2 cents:

Tanker 12-18-2006 11:48 AM

I thought you left the adult industry?

StarkReality 12-18-2006 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11542403)
First they'll kick her off the team. She's waiting to find out about that now. If they do kick her off, she'll also lose her scholarship.

Not too long ago, another of my models lost a job at Hewlett Packard after they found out she'd posed for me. Violated their morality clause.

Also, another of my models was kicked out of the police academy once the background check revealed that she'd posed for me. She'd wanted to be a cop all her life. Now that is not an option.

These are just a few of the reasons I had to face the fact that the way I was making my living was selfish. :(

It was their decision to pose for you, I can't see anything selfish. You aren't responsible for their decisions and assuming to be nude on the internet without anyone recognizing is pretty dumb. It's the old risk vs. reward and it looks like they didn't caculate the risk right. Bad for them, but as an adult they should know that everything you do results in consequences, good or bad.

Donny 12-18-2006 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by tony404 (Post 11545363)
If your a open book how come you dont answer when I ask why arent you working?

1) I started another business. I'm still self employed. I work my own hours.

2) Why aren't you working?

Donny 12-18-2006 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Wiggles (Post 11545951)
what are you retarded? did you force them to pose for you....no. They made the choice, they can live with the results, good or bad..

That's easy to say when once decides to live selfishly. It's not that I don't agree with you. I do. Everyone must live with their own actions.

That being said, I'm perfectly capable of making a living in numerous other ways. I've already "started over".

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tony286 12-18-2006 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547388)
1) I started another business. I'm still self employed. I work my own hours.

2) Why aren't you working?

What is your new business why so secretive? I do work just got back from shooting in tampa, I work 7 days a week. Im not the one that said he was going to work in a car dealership and then wont share starting a new business. Let me guess does it have something to with slamming the adult industry?

BlackCrayon 12-18-2006 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547402)
That's easy to say when once decides to live selfishly. It's not that I don't agree with you. I do. Everyone must live with their own actions.

That being said, I'm perfectly capable of making a living in numerous other ways. I've already "started over".

every one lives selfishly. if you drive a new car you are selfish. if you have a big house you are selfish. if you don't give away any extra money to those who need it, you are selfish.

escorpio 12-18-2006 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 11544884)
Donny's just acting uptight because his masters at XXX Church won't let him masturbate anymore.

Donny - this is a personal and out of line question but I gotta ask...

Are you still allowed to have sex with Belinda?

will76 12-18-2006 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547388)
1) I started another business. I'm still self employed. I work my own hours.

2) Why aren't you working?


So the car dealership thing didn't work out. I figured it wouldn't. The last person a car dealership needs working for them is someone who has just found a conscious.

Tell us about your business (since you have so much to say about ours). Is it like a MLM God company, do you make money on how many people you convert, and then you get a percentage from the people under you who convert people. Like a God Amway?

Jman 12-18-2006 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404 (Post 11547562)
What is your new business why so secretive? I do work just got back from shooting in tampa, I work 7 days a week. Im not the one that said he was going to work in a car dealership and then wont share starting a new business. Let me guess does it have something to with slamming the adult industry?

He probably gets paid or charges to go preach the wrongfullness of online porn. You know how these guys make bank right.

Then he comes here and feed off GFY.

Yup you're a saint Donny... Fucking Hypocrite :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Donny 12-18-2006 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404 (Post 11547562)
What is your new business why so secretive? I do work just got back from shooting in tampa, I work 7 days a week. Im not the one that said he was going to work in a car dealership and then wont share starting a new business. Let me guess does it have something to with slamming the adult industry?

I've told a few people about the new business I've started. Simply because I didn't tell you about it doesn't mean I'm keeping it secretive.

If you must know, I'm still working as a photographer and webmaster. The only difference is that now I'm photographing cars and managing dealer websites. When the local auto dealership hired me to create an online presence and online marketing campaign for them I started doing research. I spoke with dealers all over the area. The overwhelming feedback I received was that they didn't have time to photograph their inventory and put it online.

Their internet sales managers told me they don't like doing anything "technical" with their websites (such as adding photos, changing descriptions or changing anything else that needed changed).

Hey, what a need, eh? And right up my alley. I have the photo gear and "know how" to both photograph their inventory and update their websites. I found a company that does something similar in a different market and met with them, leasing their "back end" software to make my job a bit easier (don't have to develop it myself).

And now I'm once again back in business for myself. Now I show up once a week to each client, photograph their inventory, figure out what they want changed on their website, and handle it.

Donny 12-18-2006 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by escorpio (Post 11547603)
Donny - this is a personal and out of line question but I gotta ask...

Are you still allowed to have sex with Belinda?

You do realize Belinda and I aren't together anymore, don't you?

tony286 12-18-2006 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547630)
I've told a few people about the new business I've started. Simply because I didn't tell you about it doesn't mean I'm keeping it secretive.

If you must know, I'm still working as a photographer and webmaster. The only difference is that now I'm photographing cars and managing dealer websites. When the local auto dealership hired me to create an online presence and online marketing campaign for them I started doing research. I spoke with dealers all over the area. The overwhelming feedback I received was that they didn't have time to photograph their inventory and put it online.

Their internet sales managers told me they don't like doing anything "technical" with their websites (such as adding photos, changing descriptions or changing anything else that needed changed).

Hey, what a need, eh? And right up my alley. I have the photo gear and "know how" to both photograph their inventory and update their websites. I found a company that does something similar in a different market and met with them, leasing their "back end" software to make my job a bit easier (don't have to develop it myself).

And now I'm once again back in business for myself. Now I show up once a week to each client, photograph their inventory, figure out what they want changed on their website, and handle it.

Im sorry then for assuming and wish you all the best.

Donny 12-18-2006 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by will76 (Post 11547616)
So the car dealership thing didn't work out. I figured it wouldn't. The last person a car dealership needs working for them is someone who has just found a conscious.

Tell us about your business (since you have so much to say about ours). Is it like a MLM God company, do you make money on how many people you convert, and then you get a percentage from the people under you who convert people. Like a God Amway?

Will, you're right. Actually selling cars wasn't for me. Read a few posts below yours and you'll find the answer to what I'm doing now.

will76 12-18-2006 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Tanker (Post 11547357)
I thought you left the adult industry?

he has come back to try to make us feel guilty and to justify he decission to leave porn.
And on the remote chance that he can convert a few of us, but he has to know that is a long shot.

Martin 12-18-2006 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JasonB (Post 11544404)
Yes, i bought it from him over a year ago.

I wonder if he gave the proceeds to a worthy cause, like a Good Born Again would do.

stev0 12-18-2006 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11542403)
First they'll kick her off the team. She's waiting to find out about that now. If they do kick her off, she'll also lose her scholarship.

Not too long ago, another of my models lost a job at Hewlett Packard after they found out she'd posed for me. Violated their morality clause.

Also, another of my models was kicked out of the police academy once the background check revealed that she'd posed for me. She'd wanted to be a cop all her life. Now that is not an option.

These are just a few of the reasons I had to face the fact that the way I was making my living was selfish. :(

So you decided to hop over the fence and join the people discriminating against them? Doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me.

Stories like this are sad. It's not about morals, people decide those themselves, its a level of personal decency that a person holds. When it comes to pushing your personal, social, church, professional, or any other beliefs on someone else then you are violating their personal freedoms and liberties in the process.

Donny 12-18-2006 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by will76 (Post 11547651)
he has come back to try to make us feel guilty and to justify he decission to leave porn.
And on the remote chance that he can convert a few of us, but he has to know that is a long shot.

I don't want to make anyone feel guilty. That's not my place. But I also get really tired of doing a search for my name and finding it being used as the butt of so many jokes. So what I do is share some of the reasons why I can't produce content anymore. FOR ME, it's far too selfish to keep doing it.

Are there other things in life that are selfish? Of course there are. Everywhere. My lifestyle was one that was very selfish and I'm willing to admit that. I've had other people from this industry (and in positions of "power") who tell me they agree with my decision and wish they had the balls to do the same thing, but tell me they can't because the money is just too good for them.

Do you know what I say in response? Nothing of condemnation, that's for sure. I say "I understand". Because I do. I wanted to quit for a long long long time before I finally did. The money was too good and too easy.

What's really weird is that I enjoy the "struggle" of living as a "normal" person. I love wondering where the money is going to come from to support myself. I can only describe it as "it makes me feel alive".

As for why I come here, here's why:

I love you guys. Most of you, anyway. If you want to know a secret read on:

********* travels all over the country talking to churches everywhere. Do you know what they tell churches about pornographers? That they've never met better people. That is a fact. And it's true. I've also said the same things to people. If you've been to a church service where ********* (or Donny) has spoken, you'll undoubtedly hear something almost identical to this:

"Pornographers are the most 'real' people you've ever met. They don't hide things about themselves. They let it all hang out. They're not worried about who will condemn them for being human."

At the churches I spoke on the weekend of my first public speaking engagement I publicly stated that the worst pornographers I've ever met are put to shame by some of the Christians I've met from my past.

Now, the real goal is to bring the "honesty" of the porn business into the church. What a great day that would be! When people can speak freely about any aspect of their lives without fear of condemnation we'll really be accomplishing something, now won't we?

Donny 12-18-2006 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Martin (Post 11547682)
I wonder if he gave the proceeds to a worthy cause, like a Good Born Again would do.

A year ago I wasn't a "born again".

bareskin 12-18-2006 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547711)
I don't want to make anyone feel guilty. That's not my place. But I also get really tired of doing a search for my name and finding it being used as the butt of so many jokes. So what I do is share some of the reasons why I can't produce content anymore. FOR ME, it's far too selfish to keep doing it.

Are there other things in life that are selfish? Of course there are. Everywhere. My lifestyle was one that was very selfish and I'm willing to admit that. I've had other people from this industry (and in positions of "power") who tell me they agree with my decision and wish they had the balls to do the same thing, but tell me they can't because the money is just too good for them.

Do you know what I say in response? Nothing of condemnation, that's for sure. I say "I understand". Because I do. I wanted to quit for a long long long time before I finally did. The money was too good and too easy.

What's really weird is that I enjoy the "struggle" of living as a "normal" person. I love wondering where the money is going to come from to support myself. I can only describe it as "it makes me feel alive".

As for why I come here, here's why:

I love you guys. Most of you, anyway. If you want to know a secret read on:

********* travels all over the country talking to churches everywhere. Do you know what they tell churches about pornographers? That they've never met better people. That is a fact. And it's true. I've also said the same things to people. If you've been to a church service where ********* (or Donny) has spoken, you'll undoubtedly hear something almost identical to this:

"Pornographers are the most 'real' people you've ever met. They don't hide things about themselves. They let it all hang out. They're not worried about who will condemn them for being human."

At the churches I spoke on the weekend of my first public speaking engagement I publicly stated that the worst pornographers I've ever met are put to shame by some of the Christians I've met from my past.

Now, the real goal is to bring the "honesty" of the porn business into the church. What a great day that would be! When people can speak freely about any aspect of their lives without fear of condemnation we'll really be accomplishing something, now won't we?

No offense but go fucking play elsewhere, You are no longer one of us thanks and take as many webmasters as you can( that way I can make more sales )

Ramos 12-18-2006 01:10 PM

Which one is it?

http://www.csuchico.edu/athletics/wb...es/06_team.gif

I'm guessing one of these 3

http://www.csuchico.edu/athletics/wb...th,-amanda.gif

http://www.csuchico.edu/athletics/wb...off,-renee.gif

http://www.csuchico.edu/athletics/wb...n,-melissa.gif

AdultInsider Cloner 12-18-2006 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ismokeblunts (Post 11542394)
It's stupid how many girls lose their jobs, get kicked out of school, and are generally shat on in their proffesional lives just because they chose to pose nude at some point. seriously what affect does her one time nude modelling have upon her performance on the court or in class? none! i hate hearing stories like this...

agreed... I have a friend who is in law school and had two days left at a Courthouse internship.... they just handed her a letter that said, "You position with (so and so) federal agency is terminated immediately."

LOL... the issue of Playboy College Girls she was in just came out..... what pisses me off is that more than likely, one of the partners or lawyers in the firm must have bought one of the mags... was getting ready to wack off and saw his intern.....then prolly DID wack off, then decided to fire her....heh.

stev0 12-18-2006 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547711)

Now, the real goal is to bring the "honesty" of the porn business into the church. What a great day that would be! When people can speak freely about any aspect of their lives without fear of condemnation we'll really be accomplishing something, now won't we?

I think a better goal would be to bring the community aspect of the church into real life. You seem like an intelligent person, i'm sure you must realize that the christian church is an organization that prides themselves in condemning those that think outside of their box. The community aspect makes people feel good about it, like watching a soccer game and cheering for the same team. But that's all it is when it boils down, mob mentality.

Christians pass judgement and use "god" a scapegoat.

Donny 12-18-2006 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Ramos (Post 11547772)


She's in this photo, but wasn't one of the girls in the solo photos you posted.

Ramos 12-18-2006 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547790)
She's in this photo, but wasn't one of the girls in the solo photos you posted.

damn those are the 3 hot ones :winkwink:

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE 12-18-2006 01:19 PM

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh
I guess 12..... Did I win?

Donny 12-18-2006 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by stev0 (Post 11547788)
I think a better goal would be to bring the community aspect of the church into real life. You seem like an intelligent person, i'm sure you must realize that the christian church is an organization that prides themselves in condemning those that think outside of their box. The community aspect makes people feel good about it, like watching a soccer game and cheering for the same team. But that's all it is when it boils down, mob mentality.

Christians pass judgement and use "god" a scapegoat.


You're right. That's why I'm enjoying getting involved in the church again, because right now there are many people who agree with what you said and are trying to change things.

One of the best selling books on the Christian book lists is a book by Donald Miller called Blue Like Jazz. He addresses the very same concerns you have. He basically tells Christians they have no right to condemn anyone, and Christians are reading the book like crazy. With so many million Christians around this is something that will take a long long time to change, but there are those who are trying to do so.

Donny 12-18-2006 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jon Clark (Post 11547811)
:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh
I guess 12..... Did I win?

#12.... hmmm.... I'll neither confirm nor deny that guess. :)

needlive 12-18-2006 01:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ismokeblunts (Post 11542394)
It's stupid how many girls lose their jobs, get kicked out of school, and are generally shat on in their proffesional lives just because they chose to pose nude at some point. seriously what affect does her one time nude modelling have upon her performance on the court or in class? none! i hate hearing stories like this...

You're right. It was her choice, but why judge someone till the end of her life JUST BECAUSE ONE choice she made? It's a very huge problem of our world...

FelixFlow 12-18-2006 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547630)
I've told a few people about the new business I've started. Simply because I didn't tell you about it doesn't mean I'm keeping it secretive.

If you must know, I'm still working as a photographer and webmaster. The only difference is that now I'm photographing cars and managing dealer websites. When the local auto dealership hired me to create an online presence and online marketing campaign for them I started doing research. I spoke with dealers all over the area. The overwhelming feedback I received was that they didn't have time to photograph their inventory and put it online.

Their internet sales managers told me they don't like doing anything "technical" with their websites (such as adding photos, changing descriptions or changing anything else that needed changed).

Hey, what a need, eh? And right up my alley. I have the photo gear and "know how" to both photograph their inventory and update their websites. I found a company that does something similar in a different market and met with them, leasing their "back end" software to make my job a bit easier (don't have to develop it myself).

And now I'm once again back in business for myself. Now I show up once a week to each client, photograph their inventory, figure out what they want changed on their website, and handle it.



wow, sounds like a good gig man! good luck with that....(realtors are another market that could be of intrest to your business as well)


you weren't comfortable with what you were doing and decided to move on, nothing bad with that...everyone defines happiness in their own ways.

good luck in the future man! :thumbsup

fris 12-18-2006 01:51 PM

god sucks dicks

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE 12-18-2006 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by FelixFlow (Post 11547945)
realtors are another market that could be of intrest to your business as well)

He has that right, you could go in and set up your tripod in the middle of each room and take a pic every 45 degrees, do the same at each door way and put together a nice online tour of homes....

will76 12-18-2006 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547711)
If you've been to a church service where ********* (or Donny) has spoken, you'll undoubtedly hear something almost identical to this

Did someone write this for you or did you copy and paste it off of their website? Or are you now referring to yourself as "Donny" instead of "me, myself, I," etc..

Mr. Romance 12-18-2006 02:21 PM

that sucks..hope it works out

Mr. Romance

OG LennyT 12-18-2006 02:21 PM

Pray for her Donny and all will be better....

praise Jebus

will76 12-18-2006 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Donny (Post 11547633)
You do realize Belinda and I aren't together anymore, don't you?

no surprise there. Everyone knew she would be the next to go after your porn career. The church is getting a stronger hold on you, she was a "bad" influence and represented too much of your past. They couldn't truely convert you until you got rid of her. Obviously you made your choice of what is more important to you.


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