Then you goto jail bro. Not worth it.. Stay cool man....

Why not ask one of her friends out to dinner and show up at the restaurant? Make sure you sit close to them and just sit there and act like you don't notice her. Let me stomp over, make a scene, and get kicked out.

I go with F too, in the meanwhile try to find someone else to fill her space before dumping her.

I am not the kind of guy that would ever advise fighting fair, except in a case like this.

But what would you be fight for? Her? Fuck that!

Ah, so you are a coward who has to shoot a man in the back too.

I'm learning a lot about you today.

Pussy...CHECK
Coward.....CHECK

Misdirected anger, bro. He's just trying to fuck your slutty girlfriend, she's the cheater that's lying to your face and laughing behind your back.

:thumbsup :thumbsup

NyLos, She is not a puppy. You can't raised you're voice, smack her with a rolled-up newspaper and expect her to try the rest of her life to never disappoint you again.

Women are different. She showed you the kind of woman she is.

You are actually getting off lucky.

LOL....You know....It would be funny to try that approach first though. :1orglaugh

I wouldn't slap her. Violence isn't the answer. I'd just show up on her date and drop off her stuff.

Again, violence is not the answer. UNLESS a.) He knows that she is in a relationship and he is not under the impression from her that it is soon to be over and b.) you are physically able to kick his ass. He might be a 240 lb killing machine. I would jsut tell him that he can help her carry her shit home.

I think it makes you an ass that you violated her trust by reading her email if she doesn't want you to have it. Her sins do not make yours okay.

[qoute]d. Dump her right away.[/quote]

why spoil the suprise!

not as much fun as the first option.

definitely keep doing so, until that day!


If you can live with her banging other guys, then keep her. She'd probably like to have 2 dicks in her, so maybe when you show up on the date you could just be sociable ask if you can join 'em!

What are you trying to do man ? I am one of your affiliates and you know I have got shitloads of traffic ;-) why would you try to offend me while I have a serious problem here

you really think he should of done nothing when suspicious things started to happen? you know she'll just deny it and do it as long as she can get away with it. doesn't seem fair that he should 'play by the rules' and play the fool while she isn't following the rules herself. trust no one! i love my girlfriend, and i trust her but only to the extent that any human being can be trusted. they all can break it at any given time and to think otherwise is naive.

thank you

Hey bro... I really feel for you and I definitely have an idea how you are feeling like. It sucks to know that it's happening to you and that it comes from the person you love very much. I don't know what I'd be doing if my gf was about to have a date. Actually I let her go with her male friends but I trust her enough and I don't think she'd be cheating on me.

Maybe the situation is kinda the same with you gf. Maybe she wants to have some changes, that doesn't mean she will cheat you at first place. If she loves you it'll be very tough decision to go with another guy at the same time, not to mention that sleeping with that guy thing. I really don't think she's ready to do that, bearing in mind you 'exist' and you love her, and the love is mutual.

If she's really plan on cheating to you then the best solution for both would be to have one serious talk. To tell her the truth, tell her you read her mail and all details you've known. Then ask her whether she still loves you or not. Don't afraid to tell her that you trust her and all that but that you have some doubts because there's nothing to hide between you two, if you both love each other. Talk to her like the part of you and find out how she feels. If she admits it and says you she still loves you then just ask her why would she like to go to dates w/o you know about you (behind your back). Let her explain... if she wants to have some friends, let her go but also ask her to meet you with that 'new friend' of her. And so on...

Basically, talk to her and find out what you should do. Don't just act too fast and too childish, you both are grown persons. Nice warm talk can make up every doubt and at least help you and your girlfriend pass over one hard period together!!

That's what I have to say.
Cheers.

I had the same stoty with my girlfriend she told me that she had a date with her old friend and i find out that she has a date with her ex-boyfriend after she had this date and i ask her why she lied to me? She told me bla-bla-bla, i don't want to hurt you and so on. I told her not to lie me any more and tell me only the truth, because if she did it ones she will do it next time. And she was afraid to tell me the truth and she never has a date with him or another guy. :2 cents:

I'd either dump her right away, or start cheating on her and stay with her for eye candy and pussy when I can't find any. Among other things she brings (cooking cleaning)

It has scence. Pink is right.

"Sweety, honesty and loyalty is what keeps people from being burried in the desert"

Owned. Smooth Move Dude.

One of my affiliates huh?

I run an invite only affiliate program and I have never heard of you....How the hell are you one of my affiliates?

Why would I try to offend you? Because you are acting like a fucking pussy and I call it like I see it.

The only serious problem you have is that you don't have the balls to handle this like a man should.

agreed! have her shit waiting for her ass in boxes out front! :thumbsup

The answer is easy: Fuck her like a dirty whore (you know, choking and calling her names and shit) and tell her you know she wasn't at work, and dump her when she confesses.

She's probably holding back other secrets as well..dump her ass

She wouldnt be living at my house after the day I found out.

That simple.

My money is on the fact that the new guy has no idea she is with you as well.

call Tom Leykis!

start looking for a new hole to hit

nothing worse then a cheating girl..especially one that is dumb enough to get caught

...a classy guy doesn't go through his girlfriends emails for weeks like an insecure stalker. lol It happens though, all the time, don't sweat it too much.

Maybe you forgot to log out of her account one day on your computer, she was cleaning your room, read it, and now she's decided to throw a prank on you. lol

Come clean, talk about it, have her talk about it... don't play cop, don't play the priviate investigator...

If you saw one of your employees taking $20 out of the cash register and pocketing it, would you scope him out for weeks and try getting him at the most humiliating moment? no. When you find something out, you deal with it then and don't sleep on it. Reduce the drama in your life.

man Nylos is one of the most RESPECTED TGP owners and believe me the guy HAS shitloads of traffic!! YoungerBabes.com is one of his sites by the way...
Anyways why would you care about his life and call him pussy and coward? Just chill in man, I am sure Nylos will sort that out himself.

its possible but unlikely. i guess you would rather be cheated on time and time again because you're too classy to dig a bit deeper when something doesn't look right. if she has lied about this so far, she will just lie about it some more, make excuses, etc.
most people aren't in love with their employees. there is no emotional attachment, i don't even think its comparable. i wouldn't be talking to the employee though, they would just be fired.

nude pics! nude pics!!! :banana :banana :banana

Save up a load of cum until the night before her little date, fuck the shit out of her that night, half way through start giving her anal and spit a monster load in her ass... then kick her the fuck out. She'll be farting YOUR cum all day long thinking about what a dirty, cheating cunt she is. Whatever you do, dump her ass with no mercy..if you take the 'classy' ( read little bitch ) way out, you'll probably regret it.

I'll show her where is the door ...

break up with her and found someone else... there are lots of fish in the ocean bro:)

ok, you are just a sig whore, you don't work for the program you advertise in your sig... now I noticed you have a different program listed today... damn you suck :1orglaugh

whore destroy the bitch and tell her whos the man

THANK YOU

I'm down with THIS plan

Not sure what I'd do really. Not sure I'd even admit this was happening online. Well not before I killed her anyway

I would be mad that she did not invite me!!! I hate greedy people!!!
Moni Michaels

hmmm.. i would fuck her one more time.
why not ? :)

Personally, I'm all about the making a scene. I'd hit the place they were eating and grab a seat next to her. I'd say hello and start chatting like her being there with another guy was the most normal thing in the world. Then I'd start telling the dude stuff like:
"Man you are lucky, this girl is great in the sack."
"She loves it when you stick it in her ass and call her your sister."
"When you're banging her be sure to bend her over the kitchen table and use carrots. etc."

Then add in the "It's too bad she's a dirty whore. She'd made a great wife / partner but you can't even trust her not to meet people behind your back while you are sitting at home missing her. If you hook up remember to just use her as your fuck toy because she'll break your heart if you get any more serious than that".

Once that is out of the way stand up and say "Ok sweetie I have to go. You are welcome to come home when you're done here but please know that because of this I will never trust or respect you again. If you aren't opposed to living with me, fucking whenever I want, and having unlimited 3somes and 4somes that you arrange with other women for me then I'll see you at home."

Go to the exact same place with a different girl (a friend who knows what is going on) and when you see her there, tell her "oh I thought that this was normal. Isn't it??!!".

Or have the waiter bring her an envelope (or a surprise dessert, always a good one) in which you put a note saying it's over.

If you really want to keep her... just tell her this is not the way you want to be together and that you don't accept it.

This thread is begging for some pics or spycam action. And IF she is cheating, perhaps even make some money with it?

http://www.17bb.com/photos/anal.jpg

call that show on tv i think it's called Cheaters.

i dont know what my hands can do to them..!

1. Print out email

2. Hand it to her when she walks in after work today.

3. Point to the door.

Now you know I would insist on all the sexual stuff she hates before the date. If she hates anal then ram it up her pooper, if she hates facials cum in her eyes and up her nostrils, etc. Make it completely unpleasant for her, it is this shag she will remember from you.

Then turn up at the date explain the relationship to the guy (he should leave) and dump her and her stuff.

By the way, was this a full on serious relationship?

I think what you do depends on your feelings for her and where/how far (marriage) you intended the relationship to go. If you thought she was the "one" then this is going to be very hard on you. If not, it will still be hard on you, just not "very" hard.

Either way I think you should show up at the place they are going to. You need to see it with your own eyes or some other hard evidence and she needs to know you have proof. Otherwise, she will lie her ass off and probably convince you that what really happend was something other than reality. That is the way it works.

She has already lied and things will only get worse. If you stay with her she will mind fuck you. People do fuck up and make bad decisions and it is really up to you wether or not you want to deal with what is going on and confront her and tell her that you want to fix things between you. If you do this, you will be snooping everything she does, because you already cannot trust her. It will take time for her to rebuild that trust. Again, is that the life that you want?

More than likely this is a good indicator of the type of person she is. That's difficult to hear, I know. But more than likely this is who she really is. This may not even be the first time, you never know. If it is the first time, there is a good chance it will not be the last.

If I were in your shoes now, I have been there before and this is what I would do now, I would go to the place they are going to. BRING A FRIEND with you. You can say that you will be cool if you see them together but you really can't predict that. You emotions may go through the roof and you may end up doing something that will get you in jail. You do this because 1. You have to know for yourself. YOU will need hard proof or your mind will always be second guessing the true nature of the event. 2. She must know that you know 100% what she is up to. Otherwise she will do that lying thing that will warp the shit out of your reality.

Once you see it with your own eyes do what another poster suggested. Buy her and the guy she is with a drink. Maybe a Kamikaze or some other descriptive drink that applies to the situation. Along with that drink send a note that says something as simple as "It's over", "I'm glad you've shown me who you really are"...whatever...just something to the point with maybe a little creative twist. Using a creative twist will give you the feeling of, "hell yeah! Zinger! Fuck you bitch"...you get the point.

Now, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A FRIEND WITH YOU. Go home, pack her stuff and tell her to get the fuck out. You need a friend there so that you have 1. a witness to the events that unfold and 2. to make sure you do not fly off the handle (not saying you would, but emotions are always unpredictable). When I found out in my situation the first thing she said was "don't hit me". I was like, wtf I've never laid a hand on you in 10 years. Then I was thinking that this lying bitch may tell people or the cops that I hit her. It was scary because being a man with that accusation you are put in a no win situation.

When you find out your girl is cheating on you (don't forget, emotional affairs are affairs as well and usually lead to physical affairs) the person you thought she was is gone. At that point you question and do not know what they are capable of.

Anyway, to summarize: RUN AWAY! Run away now! Run away before she puts your balls in a vice! (you laugh...it happens)

Hope that was clear I know it was long and I'm not proof reading it. It's just too long : )

just tell her you know and then dump her

Okay okay. I cancelled the date with her...Happy now :D

On a serious note...When you are already having this kind of issues after a few months, it's better to stop IMO...Why don't you just tell her what you know, and how you feel?

Just my 2 cents....