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Sosa 11-06-2006 08:21 AM

fuck no, no one should spit in anothers face

CDSmith 11-06-2006 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by sweethotkayla (Post 11252773)
Thats wrong very very wrong.. I wouldnt put up with it, after the first time id be out the door

Exactamundo.

Unless you're into it, I'd say the spitter needs to grow the fuck up... it's not as if this is wartime and you're a nazi invader or something.

SO = significant over.

MandyBlake 11-06-2006 08:32 AM

that's pretty demeaning. that wouldn't go over very well with me.

CDSmith 11-06-2006 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11254222)
I know it's disrespectful and nothing can justify it, but what if < snip >

There is no "what if". Case closed. Game over. If it were me and she and I were at my place I'd show her the fucking door, then change the locks.

If we were at her place I'd leave and pop her the finger over my shoulder one last time.

Let her find some other chumpstain to spit at.

Aneros Josh 11-06-2006 09:00 AM

Bausch...It's ok to use the word "him".... :) He's obviously doing it because he knows it is against societal standards and is one of the most disrespectful things he can do to you without "physically" hurting you. What would you do to a dog that kept shitting on your favorite rug? What would you do to a guest that put their muddy shoes all over your mahogany coffee table? Treat this idiot with the same respect as you would these types of people because that is obviously the level he is trying to achieve.

ztik 11-06-2006 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11252740)
Intentionally spitting in the face, NOT spitting cause their yelling or talking and some spit hitting you accidentally, but spitting tons of spit in your face in anger on purpose while yelling and cursing you out (while the other party is yelling too).

I'm talking about doing it mean spiritedly out of hate during a fight on purpose.

Fuck that. Kill her imo

ztik 11-06-2006 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11252891)
Ok, what if the person who spit says the other person (who got spit on) deserves it for "talking too much shit"? Does that justify getting spit at or is spitting in the face so horrendous that nothing can justify it?

Ok, what happened is that I got spit in the face, but the other person claimed I "deserved" it for talking shit. The "talking shit" just refers to an argument that we were having, I was questioning the other person about something that happened, but I wasn't calling them names or using foul language, I wa just upset and being persistent when they didn't want to talk about it.

Also, this is not the first time it has happened. Of course at first I was angry and felt disrespected, but the other individual keeps doing it everytime we fight and thinks it's no big deal.

I was stupid and of course forgave the other person the first time it happened... So by now it happened probably 6 or 7 times... The fight I mentioned above is the latest episode where spitting was involved btw.. not the first one where it happened...

Ok but for real. That girl doesn't a fuck about you or respect you. Leave her now. I could forgive it once, maybe maybe twice. But no way more than that. 0 respect.

MissMina 11-06-2006 09:15 AM

Mine spit food in my face once. But I stayed. Love is the shits..

wyldblyss 11-06-2006 09:19 AM

I think you are both insane. Her for thinking that it is perfectly acceptable to spit in someones face and you for allowing it.

Spitting in someones face is abuse, it is also intended to humiliate/degrade someone.

Quickdraw 11-06-2006 09:22 AM

If I had no spine or pride, yes I would forgive them.

In my opinion, this is just a prelude to something worse.. good luck

nico-t 11-06-2006 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11254088)
I don't think it matters if I'm a guy or a girl. Would it make a difference to the answer of the question in the thread? Would it be ok for a guy to spit on a girl but not vice versa?

Is it worse if a guy spits at a girl or if a girl spits on a guy? I don't think it matters.

doesnt matter its both direspectul, i was just wondering

frank7799 11-06-2006 09:24 AM

Thatīs GFY. You get answers to questions which you would never have asked...

BigB 11-06-2006 09:24 AM

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I cant believe what people will ask on GFY

Big B

Trixxxia 11-06-2006 09:29 AM

Spitting on your significant other is not only demeaning it's a sign of 'disgust', the object (in this case you) is 'worthless' all this besides the fact of it being gross - there's not justifying it.

In a heated arguement and considering the upbringing psycho analysis - once the person did it once, that's where the person had to realize that they are continuing his,her parents' error. The cycle had to stop. By you essentially going back, calling a truce, forgiving or justifying it with his her childhood - you are, in fact, allowing this person to prolong their pain rather than stop, realize, commit to change and break the cycle.

BoyAlley 11-06-2006 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11252740)
Intentionally spitting in the face, NOT spitting cause their yelling or talking and some spit hitting you accidentally, but spitting tons of spit in your face in anger on purpose while yelling and cursing you out (while the other party is yelling too).

I'm talking about doing it mean spiritedly out of hate during a fight on purpose.

I wouldn't be with the type of person that would spit in ANYONE'S face, much less MINE.

Definitely a lack of respect, and a pretty big clue as to type of person that they are. :2 cents:

BlackCrayon 11-06-2006 09:42 AM

why make a post about it if you just want to justify it to be ok in your mind?

from reading another post about your boyfriend he is a psycho who is nothing more than a parasite leeching from you. in my mind spitting in someones face is just as bad as them hitting you.

schneemann 11-06-2006 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11252740)
Intentionally spitting in the face, NOT spitting cause their yelling or talking and some spit hitting you accidentally, but spitting tons of spit in your face in anger on purpose while yelling and cursing you out (while the other party is yelling too).

I'm talking about doing it mean spiritedly out of hate during a fight on purpose.


I don't hit women, but if my SO did that, I'd knock the fucking taste out of her mouth. In fact, she'd be lucky not to wake up in a shallow grave in the back yard.

Aneros Josh 11-06-2006 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by schneemann (Post 11254897)
I don't hit women, but if my SO did that, I'd knock the fucking taste out of her mouth. In fact, she'd be lucky not to wake up in a shallow grave in the back yard.

Better hope she hasn't mastered the 2 inch punch....

http://www.imagesjournal.com/2004/re...bill2/pic9.jpg

L0stMind 11-06-2006 10:24 AM

If my wife spit in my face, I would seriously consider a divorce.

If you can't show respect for a person even when you disagree, what kind of relationship have you built?

schneemann 11-06-2006 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by FleshJosh (Post 11254982)
Better hope she hasn't mastered the 2 inch punch....

http://www.imagesjournal.com/2004/re...bill2/pic9.jpg

Do you mean the one inch punch?

Aneros Josh 11-06-2006 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by schneemann (Post 11255110)
Do you mean the one inch punch?

The one inch punch is when you have your knuckles out, the two inch punch is when you have your fingertips out...I somehow knew someone would try to call me out on this...

RSgk11 11-06-2006 10:39 AM

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh Spit in her face after you throw her stinkin azz out the window:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

schneemann 11-06-2006 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by FleshJosh (Post 11255209)
The one inch punch is when you have your knuckles out, the two inch punch is when you have your fingertips out...I somehow knew someone would try to call me out on this...

Never heard of two inch, bro. I've heard of one inch and three inch.

Aneros Josh 11-06-2006 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by schneemann (Post 11255269)
Never heard of two inch, bro. I've heard of one inch and three inch.

My bad...you are right...the 3-inch punch is the one I was thinking of, I guess in my case though, it would be more like a 5 inch punch because of my "salad fingers"

Pleasurepays 11-06-2006 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11253200)
I guess everyone thinks it's bad and disrespectful. I dunno, even though I feel disrespected I just thought of it as being "immature" or something that's not a big deal... but I guess most people think it IS a big deal.

Obviously the person who is doing the spitting has done a good job of convincing me that I'm making a big deal out of nothing.

if you really don't get the fact that you are in a terrible relationship, you have some growing up to do. she has the gall to spit in your face and you think she won't fuck your friends or do anything else she can to hurt you?

its absolutely, 100% impossible that she only does this one weird thing and other than that, she's an angel.

dude... seriously, you need to end it before you end up coming back to GFY to start a "so she stabbed me 6 times in my sleep... should i end it?" thread.

BlackCrayon 11-06-2006 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays (Post 11255320)
if you really don't get the fact that you are in a terrible relationship, you have some growing up to do. she has the gall to spit in your face and you think she won't fuck your friends or do anything else she can to hurt you?

its absolutely, 100% impossible that she only does this one weird thing and other than that, she's an angel.

dude... seriously, you need to end it before you end up coming back to GFY to start a "so she stabbed me 6 times in my sleep... should i end it?" thread.

bausch is a woman, but it doesn't make any difference. in another thread she talks about how her boyfriend has some sort of paraniod schizo disorder where he thinks people are always after him and has apparently spent 1000's of her money trying to get cars cleaned to 'bugs'. very fucked up.

Pleasurepays 11-06-2006 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 11255772)
bausch is a woman, but it doesn't make any difference. in another thread she talks about how her boyfriend has some sort of paraniod schizo disorder where he thinks people are always after him and has apparently spent 1000's of her money trying to get cars cleaned to 'bugs'. very fucked up.

whats tragic is that it doesn't matter. the alarm bells are going off all the time but there she is. and when she finally can't rationalize the merits of the relationship, she will probably break up with him... but the cycle will remain the same. the next guy will be no different.

i think relationships are based on individual needs. we find fulfillment of those needs in the other person. so her life will never improve until she gets help and changes the pattern. its almost funny when you think about it... a guy spits in her face, more than once and she just isn't sure if its acceptable behavior. obviously she knows its really far out there and no doubt, this isn't the only red flag.

The Heron 11-06-2006 12:05 PM

Grow some balls and decide for yourself if you like it or not.
Personally I'd say wtf, kick her in the cunt and leave.

jennym 11-06-2006 12:22 PM

So, your boyfriend has not job (can't hold one because he is nutso), spends all your money, AND spits in your face?? Do you honestly not think this is one of the most fucked up relationships ever???:disgust

E$_manager 11-06-2006 12:47 PM

I wouldn't forgive that, because it seems to me that if he did so,he had to hate you a lot. Next time he will probably beat you.

sicone 11-06-2006 12:50 PM

I'd boot that person to the curb with the quickness and never give them another thought

Sly 11-06-2006 01:02 PM

Absolutely unacceptable and you show lack of self-respect for allowing ANYONE to spit on you. Your boyfriend has you tricked. Kick him out.

Platinum Red 11-06-2006 01:57 PM

omg that realationship would be so over for me that is the eqivilent to cheatting.. there is no respect there none at all and why in the world would you let it happen a second time let alone 6 or 7. just like a kid if you let it happen and it does not get the right reaction it will continue to happen.....

interracialtoons 11-06-2006 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11254088)
I don't think it matters if I'm a guy or a girl. Would it make a difference to the answer of the question in the thread? Would it be ok for a guy to spit on a girl but not vice versa?

Is it worse if a guy spits at a girl or if a girl spits on a guy? I don't think it matters.

I guess I'm just asking in terms of a relationship, regardless of whether your male or female, do you consider it acceptable if the other party maliciously spits at you? That goes for both sexes...

It's disrespectful yes, but the other person justified it by saying "when you kiss me it's the same thing, it's my spit.", but i'm thinking there's a difference between kissing and maliciously spitting in someone's face out of anger or resentment. The intent is difference, but this person doesn't get it and just does it over and over again.


I think you must be a girl because only a female could come up with some stupid logic to stay around after that happened.

And yes, it is way worse if a guy spits on a girl than vice versa because it shows a complete disrespect for anything that is feminine about the female.

If you are a female, and you stay in this situation then you are the quentisential dumb ass bitch that deserves to end up face down in a ditch on a back road. Don't expect me to cry for you when it happens.

Get some brains and get the fuck out.

BV 11-06-2006 06:39 PM

I spat in my wifes face once and we were soon divorced. She forgave me though because she still wanted the cock afterwards.

I don't believe in hitting a woman so that was the only thing I could think of at the time that would get my point across. (without going to jail)

BTW, she deserved it 100% and then some.

HouseHead 11-06-2006 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by dustin101 (Post 11254177)
leave her first time she did it,

if I guy spat in my faace anytime in history, save the last 100 years I would have to fight him to death!

Wow that was great bud!

shekinah 11-06-2006 06:58 PM

Spitting to someone's face is so rude.. but if you know that the person you're dealing with is such a nuts and don't know good manners, just let it pass first.. but if it continues..do the best plan for it.

Big Red Machine 11-06-2006 07:19 PM

On film agreed upon ahead of time....sure
But in an arguement....pffff he obviously was losing the arguement thats a sign of desperation.

E$_manager 11-06-2006 07:21 PM

You need to stop it from the very beginning. Don't wait untill it happends again.

XMaster 11-06-2006 07:46 PM

of course i do.
then i cut his balls off.


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