Ok, what's going on over there?

Number whateverwe'reuptonow:

How did you and Jman meet and what do you think keeps your relationship so strong? Most people, male or female, have trouble spending a lot of time with ANYONE - significant others, parents, kids, etc. but you and Jman get along great (from what I can tell).

What's the secret? :)

87- Are you superstitious?

as a general rule no - but why temp fate?


touch wood - ohhhh - that felt good. I like touching my wood

did you get splinters again ??:1orglaugh

there's alcohol comsumption going on in winnipeg tonight i think. :winkwink:

not yet today - but soon me thinks

Awesome question Babe !

:thumbsup

KY Jelly:Graucho

Pfft. You know I would...

JMan has dibs though. I can't mess with that.

low blow :upsidedow

do we ever piss each other off - fuck yeah

do we fight - no.

he's got his own space and I got mine. we generally leave each other alone when one or the other is pissed and we calm down eventually. Thank GOD this house is big enough for that - we each got our own wing.

basically we respect each other - or at least try to.

that's the key

88- Ever sued/served anyone since you are in the Adult Industry?

anyone in adult - I've threatened to - got lawyers involved but never had to sue/serve anyone in adult. they always backed down.

I know too many people in adult I generally don't need courts - I can damage someone's servers, hosting, reputation and pay check in soo many ways with my connections that few with a brain will fuck with me. I'm not saying people can't fuck with me - there's hundreds who can and could hurt me - but I bite back and it would leave welts even on large players in this game. I know most people of any significance in online adult these days - and most on a personal level.

Outside of this industry - a contracter ripped me off - charged me an extra $2000 on building a deck - and then sued me for the AMOUNT cause I refused to pay it. I counter sued him for $4000 in damages and won a good chunk of that plus he lost his suit. Jman served him on X-mas eve or the day before at his home in a Santa suit. Hillerious!!!!!!

even though I won the lawsuit and got a judgement against him - the contractor never paid me. :(

89- If you had the choice: go to war for your country or bail, what would you do?

that would honestly depend on the reason for going to war.

if I agreed with it - I would go. if for the right reasons I might even sign up. eg - WW1, WW2, I would go. Canada invaded - I'm in, no one needs to draft me for that. many other nations invaded and Canada goes to war to help - I'm in. most 1st world nations would be included in that - USA, neatherlands, most of europe, england, austraila, etc...

If it was for a reason I totally disagreed with - no fucking way do I blindly step into the line of battle.

:2 cents:

90- Do you ever cause fake drama for mad views on GFY?


yes

Busted :thumbsup

Honestly, I think it's the fact that we never did went to do business together and we always kept it as straight up friends.

There's only 1 guy i'd take a bullet for and his name is Scott :thumbsup

Can you please elaborate ? ;-)

Busted ??

I do hope that smell I am getting is sarcasm because I feel for anyone who did not just work that out, but smiled and followed for the fun of it.

:2 cents: :winkwink: :1orglaugh

Yes it's all in FUN...I kinda like the Sleazy Dude :thumbsup

gotta get the pics of jman in that santa suit again. that was hilarious.

You know, more married people should be like that. My Mom goes to Alabama 3 days a week to work. It's great for she and my Dad because after 4 days, they're starting to get tired of each other :winkwink:

And take Kathi, who lives in ATL and Mr. Kathi lives in Seattle. Perfect!! :thumbsup

damn .. 10 to go ...

91- What is the best advice you?ve received in your life thus far?

a philosoohy - which I can sumerize as "never let the things you own own you"

i lerarnt it at about age 12. I went with my father and great uncle and some other guy to the race track. we lived about an hour away - comming home - my dad had gambled too much money. sure he could still pay the mortage and put food on the table - but this hit hurt and he was complaining about it - on and on and on. 1/2 hour into the drive - it's late at night on an empty highway and we're traveling 60mph - my great uncle daniel ( a very sucessful businessman from the concrete business) slams on the braked and barks at my dad. "what the fuck are you complaining about - you work for yourself! Go make some more" Silence. That never happens when someone barks at my Dad. He was right and my Dad knew it and took it. Never sceen him take anything before or since, but he took that one cause it was unrefutable.

Never forgot that line and embrasing it has helped to realize anything is within reach - all you have to do is WANT it. It;s why i've never been afraid of bankrupty either. It's just stuff. Thats not to say I'm stupid about my money - just how I think about it is all. I never let the things I own own me. Once you embrace that - you make undreamnt of money.

Most Everyone else told me the opposite - well at least everyone who never acheived their dreams did. Most ultra successful people I know have similar philosphies about material things. Don't get me wrong - I LOVE toys - but I'm more about the GETTING than the HAVING.


well i guess i never got that advise - i overheard it. but it made an impact

92- So who the Fuck is Miss GFY?


ok, it's official - I won.

Congrats to the Winner:Graucho

good evening people.This day is very hot

congrats to all that made it this far. you passed the chunky pee part

good evening everyone.It's very cold in my town...

93- Did your Dad ever thaught you where Gay, care to explain the reasons behind is thoughts?


When I left my ex wife I moved in with Jman in what is now my cottage in Gimli one day my then girlfriends Daphne, Jman and I went to a fair called the red river ex. There Jman and I had a picture of us made and put on a banner of Jman and I looking lovingly into each other's eyes and that caption of the banner was "I LOVE YOU" - we used this for a joke we were playing at the time on the Aly TV live show where she was having a gay day and we faked comming out of the closet. Anyway - we had the banner up in the living room as we had been partying hard the night before and my father came in early the next morning - we were still asleep - and saw the banner in the living room and ran out. He called my brother and proceeded to tell him I was gay and living with Jman - to which my brother reassured my father it was a joke but my Dad was adimate - he had sceen the banner. Grant knew all about the joke and kept telling my Dad otherwise but it took some time to convince my father. My Dad was even sure my girlfriend at the time was a fag hag. LOL

we still laugh at him about that

That was a little tough for a minute

94- How many girls have you met through AFF and Lavalife?

Although I think I may be one of if not the top affilate of AFF over time, I have met only a few single girls though AFF when I was single. I do way better these days as a couple on there with my girlfriend meeting people. Aff seems to be amazing for couples looking to meet single girls and other couples and we use it a lot.

Myspace is a great place to meet cool women as a single guy- and I dated (and fucked) a few from there.

I've met by far the most women though lavalife - the phone service. there were days when I was single that I'd date ( and fuck) 2-3 women a day though that service. Usually at least 2-3 a week though I could count on and I had rediculous amounts of casual sex with women I'd meet though it.

if your'e single -my advise is use a telephone dating service if you like to get laid. You'll get a LOT of action if you're honest, sincire and willing to be a little patient and nice - not saying two dates - you'll fuck most on a first date - but dont' expect to show up and fuck every woman you meet. Some do that - most like to have dinner, drinks or a coffee first. Basically invest a little time and you'll have GREAT results on those services.

:2 cents:

95- How many joins a day can you send to a decent converting program, what niche would the site be?

I don't generally talk about how much money I make or how many joins I do or can do.

more than one - less then 100,000,000 a day :2 cents:

96- Why the fuck did you choose 12clicks for Ambush 99? Did he pay you?

Although I may not agree with some of 12clicks current or past business practices and he can be a total dink in person sometimes - fact is 12clicks holds an important part of the history of what we do online today and does command some respect for that in my opinion.

No 12clicks did not pay me to do his ambush, nor did I pay him.

I do these for fun.

97- Why does everyone who visits you get hurt?

Cause they're fucking idiots.

next question

98- If you had to start over again in this industry would you do anything differently?


I wana go back - go back - and do it all over but I can't go back you know!

Awesome philosophy.

Tired and proven this end as well - it's about people, NOT language or culture.

:2 cents: :thumbsup

Man that was a long read to catch up to here but well worth it.

I know of a certain hosting company that might be getting some business from me just because of this thread

99- Why did you break up with your brother as a business partner when you started online?

when we broke up - we had two business ventures - one paysite and one freesite. I believed the future was with the freesite - My brother believed it was with the paysite. He took the paysite - I took the freesite. We went our seperate ways.

The freesite exploded right away after we broke up - the paysite never took off. After a few years my brother works with paysites AND freesites now.

100- Why is there Bibles in your rooms at home and hotels are you a hardcore religious guy?

I'm agnostic for the most part - but I have a world religion minor in my undergrad degree.

most hotel rooms have bibles in them - open your nightstand.

at home - My Girlfriend likes to read the bible. She finds peace in it. Doesn't stop her from being wild when necessary so I say - power to her I say!

wow - 100 questions in a week - not bad.

tomorrow I'm gona go though all 12 pages and answer any other questions people may have asked to finish this up and hopefully by about wed we should have a new ambush on someone else running! :thumbsup

Thank you all for the support - I answered as truthfully as I could.

Great questions Jman and Lulu - you guys did a TON of work preparing this!


THANK YOU!



SMOOOOOOOOOOCH!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup

whoah, 100 already... man you're fast!

all the women say that!!! :thumbsup

Awesome Scott, simply awesome.

;-)

you're still upset about the McDonald's pic, aren't you?:1orglaugh

great read.. particularly enjoyed "never let the things you own own you".. good advice! :)