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pornJester · 06-10-2002, 10:02 AM

Do your kids know you are in the porn biz?

If they do, do they ever talk about it to you, or do they tell their friends?

If not when do you plan on telling them? If they find out before you tell them do you think they will feel deceived or think different about you?

I was just wondering how I will approach the topic when I have kids.

UnseenWorld · 06-10-2002, 10:17 AM

I really think the porn biz is for people without kids. Porn is for adults, and insulating them from your business and the content you work with is pretty nigh impossible.

Then, if you get them involved in lying or being slippery when they're asked what daddy/mommy does, it's not fair to the kid.

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sexyclicks · 06-10-2002, 10:23 AM

Hopefully by the time I have kids other people will run my businnes for me....

ServerGenius · 06-10-2002, 10:23 AM

I have no kids yet but I will have no problem telling them what
daddy does. All this hypocracy about porn it total bullshit.

Besides the fact that this is a legit business I would rather have
my kids watch porn instead of violence....for some reason nobody
seems to be bothered by that or at least not as much as tits and ass.

DynaMite

s0laris2 · 06-10-2002, 10:27 AM

If porn is a full time job, then I would avoid having kids.
But if it is part time, then the kids only need to know what your "DAY" job is :-)

G Sharp · 06-10-2002, 10:30 AM

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Originally posted by sexyclicks
Hopefully by the time I have kids other people will run my businnes for me....

ServerGenius · 06-10-2002, 10:36 AM

I can´t believe the reactions......especially not from fellow porn
peddlers. What´s so secret about your job? Why not just explain
the situation. Tell them everything they want to know.

Sex is good, sex is nice...educate them prevent them from silly
experiments....teach what safe sex is. Don´t play hide and seek
Offcourse you shouldn´t tell them when they are 3 but at that
age kids also don´t understand what insurance agent means

So what´s the big deal here? My kids will know it and I hope that
when there is something worthwile for them to run once I´m done
they´re more than welcome to take over the wheel.

I´ll be the proudest silly dad on this side of the planet.

DynaMite

Gemini · 06-10-2002, 10:43 AM

businnes ?? We hope that is SOON Sexyclicks ;-)p

Mine is 1500 miles that way ---->S and 24, his are 18 and close enough and 70 miles that way N<---

Our dawg and cat frequently cover their eyes tho.

None of their business, His son knows and could care less. If he ever mentioned it, I am SURE his ex would have called.

sexyclicks · 06-10-2002, 10:43 AM

G Sharp:

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Gramma · 06-10-2002, 10:57 AM

My kids all know
My husband's two narrow minded idiot chiildren (ages 38 and 40) - have cut off all contact with us and the grandchildren. for the last 4 years)
Like it changed me at all .. except that I could NOW afford to send all the grandkids through college.

My son, age 24, - works in the industry too - he's a programmer for a major sponsor. So of course he has NO problem with it, and never has.

Paul Markham · 06-10-2002, 11:29 AM

My first daughter knew what I was doing. Until she was 16 I kept her away from seeing any of the porn I did. But I would have guessed she found where I hid it.

Up until she was 12 I did it part time and as me and her mother were seperated, I could not shoot the weekends she was with me.

I always told her what I did and was straight with her, porn is not a dirty word in my house. Plus as she was eating the food the business provided she can't complain.

She grew up pretty straight, never been in trouble with the police, does not do drugs and lost her viginity at 19. She is now 25 with a beautiful 8 month old daughter and in a long term relationship. Sometimes I wonder where I went wrong

Just hope I can do as good a job with her half sister Victoria, 4 months and had her first solid food this weekend

Techie Media · 06-10-2002, 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DynaSpain
I can´t believe the reactions......especially not from fellow porn
peddlers. What´s so secret about your job? Why not just explain
the situation. Tell them everything they want to know.

Sex is good, sex is nice...educate them prevent them from silly
experiments....teach what safe sex is. Don´t play hide and seek
Offcourse you shouldn´t tell them when they are 3 but at that
age kids also don´t understand what insurance agent means

So what´s the big deal here? My kids will know it and I hope that
when there is something worthwile for them to run once I´m done
they´re more than welcome to take over the wheel.

I´ll be the proudest silly dad on this side of the planet.

DynaMite

Well said

UnseenWorld · 06-10-2002, 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DynaSpain
I have no kids yet but I will have no problem telling them what
daddy does. All this hypocracy about porn it total bullshit.

Besides the fact that this is a legit business I would rather have
my kids watch porn instead of violence....for some reason nobody
seems to be bothered by that or at least not as much as tits and ass.

DynaMite

But you will be pitting your kids against the attitudes of the world around them. This is fair for an adult, but being a kid is pretty hard as it is nowadays. They'll have to go through their youth as "that pornographer's kids," won't they?

UnseenWorld · 06-10-2002, 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by charly
My first daughter knew what I was doing. Until she was 16 I kept her away from seeing any of the porn I did. But I would have guessed she found where I hid it.

Up until she was 12 I did it part time and as me and her mother were seperated, I could not shoot the weekends she was with me.

I always told her what I did and was straight with her, porn is not a dirty word in my house. Plus as she was eating the food the business provided she can't complain.

She grew up pretty straight, never been in trouble with the police, does not do drugs and lost her viginity at 19. She is now 25 with a beautiful 8 month old daughter and in a long term relationship. Sometimes I wonder where I went wrong

Just hope I can do as good a job with her half sister Victoria, 4 months and had her first solid food this weekend

I didn't get into the biz until my daughter was an adult. She's okay with it now, but I'm glad I didn't saddle her with it when she was an adolescent. Being a teen is hard enough without having to put up with all the shit she would have gotten. And it wouldn't be like me to hide anything I do from anybody. She knows about it now and is cool enough with it to have sent one of her friends to me when she was looking for ways to round up some quick $.

pornJester · 06-10-2002, 11:51 AM

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Originally posted by Jokke
I am a pornographer and why should there be something wrong with that ?, its ledgit, its good money. And if people dont like it then i actually think its their problem not mine, but if i had children, i would make sure that the school did not know, and that my neighbours did not know. To protect the children

Yes, this is along the line i'm thinking, you don't want other kids that they are around finding out because then they go home and tell their parents... "Susie's dad works with porn" ..then those parents tell their kids that "susie's dad is a dirty man" then your kids gets hell at school...

Allison · 06-10-2002, 11:52 AM

I don't have kids, but I always just imagined that if you had kids and told them, then they would tell their friends, their friends would tell their parents and then it becomes a situation where the other parents tell their kids they can't go over to so and so's house because his parents are perverts.... then it becomes like salem witch hunt situation...

Just what I always assumed, but I could be wrong...

~Alli

UnseenWorld · 06-10-2002, 11:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Allison
I don't have kids, but I always just imagined that if you had kids and told them, then they would tell their friends, their friends would tell their parents and then it becomes a situation where the other parents tell their kids they can't go over to so and so's house because his parents are perverts.... then it becomes like salem witch hunt situation...

Just what I always assumed, but I could be wrong...

~Alli

You're not wrong. What's wrong, in my opinion, is putting your kids through that.

Allison · 06-10-2002, 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by UnseenWorld

You're not wrong. What's wrong, in my opinion, is putting your kids through that.

So what you're saying is either don't tell them until they are old enough to have friends that don't care what their parents say or don't be in the biz?

Paul Markham · 06-10-2002, 12:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by UnseenWorld
I didn't get into the biz until my daughter was an adult. She's okay with it now, but I'm glad I didn't saddle her with it when she was an adolescent. Being a teen is hard enough without having to put up with all the shit she would have gotten. And it wouldn't be like me to hide anything I do from anybody. She knows about it now and is cool enough with it to have sent one of her friends to me when she was looking for ways to round up some quick $.

I would like to know why you quoted me in your post?
So when was your daughter not okay with it?
And how long were you doing it before you told her?

While she was at college Jo (daughter) would bring a friend to the models parties we had at Stringfellows in London. Where the porn industry used any excuse for a gathering. She met people like David Sullivan, Ben Dover and Sarah Young. She had a list of people wanting to come to the next party. But she never sent any of her friends to work for me, not sure I would have liked that.

I think the problem is, many of you that you live in the US. The biggest market for porn and prudishness. I lived in the UK and here in Czech it's less of a problem.

Allison, tell your neighbors you have an AK47 and they will all come over to try it. Tell them you photograph nudes and they will burn your house down.

shann · 06-10-2002, 12:19 PM

DynaSpain, you can hardly predict what you will do once you have kids until you have them.

I tell my daughter i do online sales and marketing, the specific products I work with are not important. I used to bartend, my daughter knew that, she didn't ask what kind of drinks i made.

boldy · 06-10-2002, 12:26 PM

I've told them both... They understand they are 2 and 1 years old...

Paul Markham · 06-10-2002, 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by boldy
I've told them both... They understand they are 2 and 1 years old...

Yes Victoria is cool with it as well.

jimmyf · 06-10-2002, 12:37 PM

I just told my little girl am in porn last month...
She's 56 years old...
Going to tell my son when I see him next month he's
59.

hahmike · 06-10-2002, 12:40 PM

"daddy is a photographer"

"daddy works on internet advertising"

etc etc

that said, my parents think i work for yahoo. ;)

mjrools23 · 06-10-2002, 12:47 PM

lol theres many alternatives..."im a web designer", "im a photographer...etc

Sly_RJ · 06-10-2002, 03:02 PM

I'm fairly certain that surgeons, army generals, morticians, and gynecologists don't tell their children exactly what they do.

Why should we be any different? Children aren't meant to know the fine details of every aspect of life, that's why they have parents to help them along the way.

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ServerGenius Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Amsterdam Posts: 9,377	I can´t believe the reactions......especially not from fellow porn peddlers. What´s so secret about your job? Why not just explain the situation. Tell them everything they want to know. Sex is good, sex is nice...educate them prevent them from silly experiments....teach what safe sex is. Don´t play hide and seek Offcourse you shouldn´t tell them when they are 3 but at that age kids also don´t understand what insurance agent means So what´s the big deal here? My kids will know it and I hope that when there is something worthwile for them to run once I´m done they´re more than welcome to take over the wheel. I´ll be the proudest silly dad on this side of the planet. DynaMite __________________ \| http://www.sinnerscash.com/ \| ICQ: 370820 \| Skype: SinnersCash \| AdultWhosWho \|

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Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	businnes ?? We hope that is SOON Sexyclicks ;-)p Mine is 1500 miles that way ---->S and 24, his are 18 and close enough and 70 miles that way N<--- Our dawg and cat frequently cover their eyes tho. None of their business, His son knows and could care less. If he ever mentioned it, I am SURE his ex would have called.

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Gramma Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 402	My kids all know My husband's two narrow minded idiot chiildren (ages 38 and 40) - have cut off all contact with us and the grandchildren. for the last 4 years) Like it changed me at all .. except that I could NOW afford to send all the grandkids through college. My son, age 24, - works in the industry too - he's a programmer for a major sponsor. So of course he has NO problem with it, and never has. __________________ gramma at ix.netcom.com Last edited by Gramma; 06-10-2002 at 11:06 AM..

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Paul Markham Too old to care Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: On the sofa, watching TV or doing my jigsaws. Posts: 52,943	My first daughter knew what I was doing. Until she was 16 I kept her away from seeing any of the porn I did. But I would have guessed she found where I hid it. Up until she was 12 I did it part time and as me and her mother were seperated, I could not shoot the weekends she was with me. I always told her what I did and was straight with her, porn is not a dirty word in my house. Plus as she was eating the food the business provided she can't complain. She grew up pretty straight, never been in trouble with the police, does not do drugs and lost her viginity at 19. She is now 25 with a beautiful 8 month old daughter and in a long term relationship. Sometimes I wonder where I went wrong Just hope I can do as good a job with her half sister Victoria, 4 months and had her first solid food this weekend __________________ Blowout deal. 880 videos, 2,400 image sets, plus many RAW videos. $500. PM me for a deal. Skype Paulmarkham70

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