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Validus · 07-03-2006, 05:48 PM

On the last little photo session the chicks BF/friend was there. It felt really strange and she was distracted, talking with him, or rather kept on looking to him. How do you deal with that stuff?

MaDalton · 07-03-2006, 05:50 PM

never in the same room

even better: not in the same building

tell him to come back in a couple of hours

BoyAlley · 07-03-2006, 05:51 PM

Yeah I think that's a huge mistake. Never allow spectators, even if, or maybe I should say especially if, they're boyfriend/girlfriend.

You're just ASKING for dramas........

Validus · 07-03-2006, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by MaDalton

never in the same room

even better: not in the same building

tell him to come back in a couple of hours

Yea ah?! I mean, in theory I didn't care much... but it was distracting. Messed up a lot with the focus and so on.

PTM Desiree · 07-03-2006, 05:54 PM

We have no problem if a model brings someone along, but boyfriends are just asking for trouble, either they lend their 'input' or you find out later in the week that they cant handle it and your model goes byebye.

MaDalton · 07-03-2006, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Validus

Yea ah?! I mean, in theory I didn't care much... but it was distracting. Messed up a lot with the focus and so on.

it doesn't work, been there, done that

she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

big mistake

only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases

fitzmulti · 07-03-2006, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by MaDalton

it doesn't work, been there, done that

she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

big mistake

only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases

What he said. NO!

Validus · 07-03-2006, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by PTM Desiree

We have no problem if a model brings someone along, but boyfriends are just asking for trouble, either they lend their 'input' or you find out later in the week that they cant handle it and your model goes byebye.

Back in the days, when I was working with talent a lot... they never wanted their BFs to even know... but now. Doing these easy shots (non-nude)... having the BF there just messes me up... was wondering if it just me...

Honez · 07-03-2006, 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaDalton

it doesn't work, been there, done that

she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

big mistake

only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases

100% agree with you on all of it.

MaddCaz · 07-03-2006, 05:59 PM

never ever ever

Mutt · 07-03-2006, 06:01 PM

don't allow it - even if the guy is a decent guy it distracts and affects the model's interaction with the photographer and the camera - u will get shittier work. it's a job - ask the girl if she is allowed to bring her boyfriend to her job at Hooters or Starbucks. he can come once to meet you - that's it - then go away.

minusonebit · 07-03-2006, 06:01 PM

Not a good idea. Closed set.

Doctor Dre · 07-03-2006, 06:04 PM

Definitly not ... That's just asking for trouble there.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life · 07-03-2006, 06:06 PM

I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

MaDalton · 07-03-2006, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Batts

I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

yeah, that works sometimes. and it might get you a second model

ChefJeff · 07-03-2006, 06:08 PM

Closed set. No boyfriends. Hot girlfriends, yes.

Validus · 07-03-2006, 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Batts

I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

Yea. Ok.. good point

Basic_man · 07-03-2006, 06:09 PM

Never let the GF/BF in the same room during the shoot..

Validus · 07-03-2006, 06:10 PM

I messed up soooo much... like lighting.. and focus... grrrr

zigx · 07-03-2006, 06:11 PM

yeah i wouldnt have done it

NoWhErE · 07-03-2006, 06:11 PM

I've seen a model flake because her boyfriend was pushing her too hard to perform... it was sad.

Even though I took the guy for a walk so that the photographer could do his job, the girl was so freaked out she couldn't do anything anymore

MandyBlake · 07-03-2006, 06:15 PM

i think you need to bring it up beforehand.
ask her if she is comfy with him there...or if he will make her feel inhibited at all. if she's ok with him being there and you are also, just mention to her that its cool with you if he's there but he needs to stay low key as to not interrupt the shoot at all.

The Duck · 07-03-2006, 06:18 PM

no way in hell

LiveDose · 07-03-2006, 06:20 PM

Avoid it at all costs. If she wants a girl friend there that is fine. Suitcase pimps/ boyfriends bring nothing but jealousy and suddenly they feel they have some type of knowledge or advice to offer.

Tell the model no boyfriend or no shoot.

07-03-2006, 05:48 PM	#1
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07-03-2006, 05:51 PM	#3
BoyAlley So Fucking Gay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 19,714	Yeah I think that's a huge mistake. Never allow spectators, even if, or maybe I should say especially if, they're boyfriend/girlfriend. You're just ASKING for dramas........

07-03-2006, 06:01 PM	#12
minusonebit So Fucking Banned Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: [email protected] Posts: 7,391	Not a good idea. Closed set.

07-03-2006, 06:06 PM	#14
Mr.Right - Banned For Life I guarantee it Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 18,314	I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car. However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

07-03-2006, 06:08 PM	#16
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Validus Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Calgary, Canada Posts: 4,012	I messed up soooo much... like lighting.. and focus... grrrr

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07-03-2006, 06:15 PM	#22
MandyBlake The one and only! Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 17,761	i think you need to bring it up beforehand. ask her if she is comfy with him there...or if he will make her feel inhibited at all. if she's ok with him being there and you are also, just mention to her that its cool with you if he's there but he needs to stay low key as to not interrupt the shoot at all. __________________ Mandy's Playhouse Her First Fat Girl If you're interested in promoting my sites, ICQ me! 178411921

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07-03-2006, 06:20 PM	#24
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