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Silent_Thunder · 06-13-2006, 11:45 PM

Please share your stories of how you began to be independent? And how to make this process more pleasant and acceptable for both sides?

babedirect · 06-13-2006, 11:49 PM

I basically just kept pushing my limits until my parents didn't give a shit any more

FreakinWebmaster · 06-14-2006, 12:01 AM

moved out got my own apartment

gooddomains · 06-14-2006, 12:05 AM

just moved out

dissipate · 06-14-2006, 12:07 AM

It's quite simple, move out.

GatorB · 06-14-2006, 12:12 AM

I killed them.

fallenmuffin · 06-14-2006, 12:15 AM

I plan on moving out sometime this year after I get my drivers license

I'm 21, yes I know, but you don't understand. I'm agoraphobic.

Darkland · 06-14-2006, 12:18 AM

Just do it... Most times the parents are ready for them to move out, more so depending on the age of the child. I am already telling mine that when he hits 16 he is going to get a job and start learning to take on some responsibilty so that when he is 18 or so he needs to go to college or start living on his own. I was out by 17 to college and just never moved back.

It seems all to common these days you still have people 21 to 28 still living at home, thats only hurting their chances of being a productive part of society as well as crippling their independance.

Dont sweat it, I dont think they will hold you against your will...

madawgz · 06-14-2006, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by GatorB

I killed them.

uh oh

Pornwolf · 06-14-2006, 01:00 AM

Just move out. There should be no drama with your parents when you are over 15 if you have a mature mindset.

SleazyDream · 06-14-2006, 01:01 AM

soo many minors on this board

Lutz Meyerding · 06-14-2006, 01:09 AM

they kicked me out so i went into banking

dissipate · 06-14-2006, 01:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fallenmuffin

I plan on moving out sometime this year after I get my drivers license

I'm 21, yes I know, but you don't understand. I'm agoraphobic.

Damn, I moved out when I was 17.

Silent_Thunder · 06-14-2006, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

soo many minors on this board

i'm over 18...

fallenmuffin · 06-14-2006, 01:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dissipate

Damn, I moved out when I was 17.

I don't live with my parents.. I live with my sister, lol. Similar but different. But yeah it's not that simple for me. I have a serious problem with outsideness

Silent_Thunder · 06-14-2006, 01:15 AM

i read every reply, they are inspiring!

fallenmuffin · 06-14-2006, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Silent_Thunder

i read every reply, they are inspiring!

My best mate lives in the UK. Makes like $9k a month in the industry and still lives at home. Don't feel bad.

woj · 06-14-2006, 01:27 AM

It's a pretty complicated process, but I'll try to give you step by step instructions:

step 1: move out

GatorB · 06-14-2006, 01:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fallenmuffin

I plan on moving out sometime this year after I get my drivers license

I'm 21, yes I know, but you don't understand. I'm agoraphobic.

Trust me I've been there. I was 22 before I got mine. Now I don't even think twice about getting in a car and driving somewhere.

fallenmuffin · 06-14-2006, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by GatorB

Trust me I've been there. I was 22 before I got mine. Now I don't even think twice about getting in a car and driving somewhere.

That was a helpful and inspiring post.

reynold · 06-14-2006, 01:40 AM

Try acting insane in front of them.

* Try pulling a hair strand from each of them while shouting 'DNA'!

I LOVE Little Brown Asses · 06-14-2006, 03:41 AM

step 1: HAVE A JOB. if you're going to be independent, be independent. Be able to pay your rent and your car and your bills.

step 2: MOVE OUT. Often it's easier to move in with a friend first time out - have someone to share responsibility (and get fucked up nightly) with.

step 3: DON'T MOVE BACK. A lot of people move out before they are ready and can't pay their bills, can't take care of themselves in the big bad scary world, and end up beggin their parents for money - or eventually move back home.

You need to create a new social network that has NOTHING to do with high school, your parents, or the town you grew up in.

That being said, I left at 17 for college and never looked back. It can be done. Even in today's irresponsible "tweenager" world of the "stay at home until you're 30" crowd.

Vitasoy · 06-14-2006, 05:59 AM

If you have the money, just pack up your bags and move out

Vitasoy · 06-14-2006, 06:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by reynold

Try acting insane in front of them.

* Try pulling a hair strand from each of them while shouting 'DNA'!

Give me what you're smoking

MaddCaz · 06-14-2006, 06:02 AM

get a job and move OUT

polish_aristocrat · 06-14-2006, 07:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

soo many minors on this board

Silent Thunder is from Lithuania, in that part of Europe people move out from their parents often in their mid 20's...

Jill_J · 06-14-2006, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Silent_Thunder

Please share your stories of how you began to be independent? And how to make this process more pleasant and acceptable for both sides?

how old are you?

Drake · 06-14-2006, 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GatorB

I killed them.

Mother will always be with you.

Young · 06-14-2006, 08:34 AM

Graduated for College....they gave me the house and moved out.

PerrieBelle · 06-14-2006, 08:39 AM

Moved out of my mum's and in with my dad.. then when i was old enough not to be told what to do anymore i moved back in with my mum! haha

writersworld8 · 06-14-2006, 08:43 AM

yea moved out..

BluewireAngie · 06-14-2006, 08:44 AM

I'm living with my in-laws.

It's nice to have them coz they're taking care of my son. And they always cook healthy foods

AtlantisCash · 06-14-2006, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Vitasoy

If you have the money, just pack up your bags and move out

that's a what i want to say

if you can save your own Economy; just move out, i thing this is logic for anybody.

VicJay · 06-14-2006, 09:50 AM

This is all very simple - you can move out or escape from your parents only if you are independent yourself! In other words you can totally support yourself. If this is the case then you can rent a flat or a house and just move out!!!

BlackCrayon · 06-14-2006, 09:57 AM

as soon as i was making enough money to get my own place, i did.

Vasago Reno · 06-14-2006, 01:14 PM

Both parents were killed in an auto accident when I was 8 - so there was no weening off period.

I was in foster homes until I turned 16, then said fuck this - and split. Been on my own ever since.

WWC-Pajio · 06-14-2006, 01:16 PM

.......i'm on my own!! :D

HouseHead · 06-14-2006, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Silent_Thunder

i'm over 18...

I second that

Fucksakes · 06-14-2006, 01:21 PM

I said Dad I got accepted in college and need to move out to that city, he gave me the money and said good luck. soon after my sister and brother moved out, my parents were happy as ever.. now they are bored as hell and always want us to visit..

fallenmuffin · 06-14-2006, 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fucksakes

I said Dad I got accepted in college and need to move out to that city, he gave me the money and said good luck. soon after my sister and brother moved out, my parents were happy as ever.. now they are bored as hell and always want us to visit..

Must be nice to have real parents. I'd have to track my dad down first and my mom just hit me up 1k.

minusonebit · 06-14-2006, 01:43 PM

Fucking typo.

Rhesus · 06-14-2006, 01:44 PM

Just went to uni & moved out, just like everybody should.

iWeb_Iya · 06-14-2006, 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fucksakes

I said Dad I got accepted in college and need to move out to that city, he gave me the money and said good luck. soon after my sister and brother moved out, my parents were happy as ever.. now they are bored as hell and always want us to visit..

Same here. The difference is I'm the youngest so it was an easy move all my siblings moved out years ahead of me.

MsWild · 06-15-2006, 04:42 AM

I had explained to them that I need to find a job to help them...
In my first job I got an apartment and I went home once a week but now I'm just visitng them twice a year because I am living far from them.

PussyTeenies · 06-15-2006, 04:44 AM

living on your own !

Yngwie · 06-15-2006, 05:15 AM

easy, my dad (who I was living with at the time) moved in with his girlfriend and he just rented his house to me an my brother. A few years later I moved out due to my brother getting a girlfriend which I fucking hated because she would mooch (sp?) of of ME and I said fuck that shit. A year after I moved out, they broke up. 2 years later my dad offered to sell us his house which we took up that offer since we grew up in that house. This is in a span of 15 years or so.

06-13-2006, 11:45 PM	#1
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Darkland Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,488	Just do it... Most times the parents are ready for them to move out, more so depending on the age of the child. I am already telling mine that when he hits 16 he is going to get a job and start learning to take on some responsibilty so that when he is 18 or so he needs to go to college or start living on his own. I was out by 17 to college and just never moved back. It seems all to common these days you still have people 21 to 28 still living at home, thats only hurting their chances of being a productive part of society as well as crippling their independance. Dont sweat it, I dont think they will hold you against your will... __________________ "The towers are gone now, reduced to bloody rubble, along with all hopes for Peace in Our Time, in the United States or any other country. Make no mistake about it: We are At War now -- with somebody -- and we will stay At War with that mysterious Enemy for the rest of our lives." H.S.T. 09/12/01

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fallenmuffin Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 8,170	I plan on moving out sometime this year after I get my drivers license I'm 21, yes I know, but you don't understand. I'm agoraphobic.

06-14-2006, 01:09 AM	#12
Lutz Meyerding So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 103	they kicked me out so i went into banking

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I LOVE Little Brown Asses Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Paradise Posts: 1,047	step 1: HAVE A JOB. if you're going to be independent, be independent. Be able to pay your rent and your car and your bills. step 2: MOVE OUT. Often it's easier to move in with a friend first time out - have someone to share responsibility (and get fucked up nightly) with. step 3: DON'T MOVE BACK. A lot of people move out before they are ready and can't pay their bills, can't take care of themselves in the big bad scary world, and end up beggin their parents for money - or eventually move back home. You need to create a new social network that has NOTHING to do with high school, your parents, or the town you grew up in. That being said, I left at 17 for college and never looked back. It can be done. Even in today's irresponsible "tweenager" world of the "stay at home until you're 30" crowd. __________________ ladyboygold.com \| joonmali.com \| lilykoh.com \| ashakumara.com \| girlslovetoys.com POTD/MOTD/GOTD \| Geo-IP Fansigns \| Custom Gallery Builder \| RSS Feeds 60% Revshare \| 10% Webmaster Referral \| Console Free \| 100% EXCLUSIVE \| ICQ: 194519692

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06-14-2006, 08:43 AM	#31
writersworld8 Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 432	yea moved out..

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Vasago Reno So Fucking Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 483	Both parents were killed in an auto accident when I was 8 - so there was no weening off period. I was in foster homes until I turned 16, then said fuck this - and split. Been on my own ever since.

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Fucksakes Shit... Fuck! What the Hell? Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 7,567	I said Dad I got accepted in college and need to move out to that city, he gave me the money and said good luck. soon after my sister and brother moved out, my parents were happy as ever.. now they are bored as hell and always want us to visit..

06-14-2006, 01:43 PM	#41
minusonebit So Fucking Banned Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: [email protected] Posts: 7,391	FZuck Fucking typo.

06-14-2006, 01:44 PM	#42
Rhesus Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,009	Just went to uni & moved out, just like everybody should.

06-15-2006, 04:42 AM	#44
MsWild Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 2,803	I had explained to them that I need to find a job to help them... In my first job I got an apartment and I went home once a week but now I'm just visitng them twice a year because I am living far from them. __________________ Always the biggest checks: [img]http://****************/sig/fhv3_j2_624x80_2.gif[/img]

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06-15-2006, 05:15 AM	#46
Yngwie I am an Alien from space Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 11,118	easy, my dad (who I was living with at the time) moved in with his girlfriend and he just rented his house to me an my brother. A few years later I moved out due to my brother getting a girlfriend which I fucking hated because she would mooch (sp?) of of ME and I said fuck that shit. A year after I moved out, they broke up. 2 years later my dad offered to sell us his house which we took up that offer since we grew up in that house. This is in a span of 15 years or so. __________________ ICQ: 16544251 - Skype: gator37 @ eastlink.ca - email: yngwie @ isys.ca