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Old 05-16-2006, 08:34 AM   #1
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i am getting divorced

My husband said he can't live with me any longer, because we have fights all the time. He said he will send me home - buy me a ticket - me and my daughter will fly home. He doesn't want to see and know us any more.
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Old 05-16-2006, 08:49 AM   #2
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you need a lawyer.
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Old 05-16-2006, 08:50 AM   #3
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:02 AM   #4
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Home - Europe.
I am in America.
The ticket costs money, that he hasn't and we have to live together now.
I sleep with my doughter
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:03 AM   #5
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:03 AM   #6
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you need a lawyer.

what can a lower do?
if for money - there is nothing to ask from him.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:04 AM   #7
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:04 AM   #8
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Do you want to go back home or stay in the states? Seems a little harsh for the husband to "send" you home. A divorce doesn't have to end with you leaving the country.
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Do you want to go back home or stay in the states? Seems a little harsh for the husband to "send" you home. A divorce doesn't have to end with you leaving the country.
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yeah seriously what the fuck is that about... sue the fucker get child support for the kid and then start over
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:11 AM   #11
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Maybe he just need time to be alone. My brother and sis-n-law had that relationship too and they decided to get separated. And then he realize that his life is incomplete without his wife and his daughter. Now they're living together again, fights are part of a relationship sometimes we just need to deal with it.
Sometimes we just need to add some spice into our marriage life to keep us in-love forever.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:18 AM   #12
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in which state you are? i may have a lawyer that handle divorces
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:20 AM   #13
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you need a lawyer.

what can a lower do?
if for money - there is nothing to ask from him.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:20 AM   #14
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send you home? err youre married prolly got dual cit ship n all he cant send you home... weird
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:22 AM   #15
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Without money to get, a lawyer isn't worth much. Let me rephrase since you have a daughter. You will need a lawyer to handle custody of the child. There will be child support assigned. If he doesn't have enough money to send you somewhere, something tells me child support will be low and there will be collection problems.

Sounds like there isn't enough resource to get divorced. Guess you need to meet another man. This time pick one with money. Or start making some cash on your own.

Not a wonderful situation. Good luck to you.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:23 AM   #16
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:24 AM   #17
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sory to hear that...he seems harsh to send you home tho.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:25 AM   #18
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i am in South America, so no lawers .
i do not want to divirce, i just want to stop fights. I never start them
This man is like 2 different . when he is angry - i hate him, when nic - i live him.
We live togethr 56 years.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:25 AM   #19
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Do you want to go back home or stay in the states? Seems a little harsh for the husband to "send" you home. A divorce doesn't have to end with you leaving the country.
WG

I totally agree...you don't have to go anywhere and your deserve child support also, him sending you on a plane is just not good enough, make sure you fight for what you feel is right!!!
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:25 AM   #20
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What? Is the child his or did you already have her?

Anyone who would turn their backs on their CHILD, deserves a couple rounds in the courtroom. Don't say he has nothing cuz obviously you have a roof over your head

Do you guys own your house?

Take half of that bitch and move right down the street so he can watch you with your new guys driving up and down the street daily.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:30 AM   #21
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My husband said he can't live with me any longer, because we have fights all the time. He said he will send me home - buy me a ticket - me and my daughter will fly home. He doesn't want to see and know us any more.

You should thank him for spending any time at all with you
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:31 AM   #22
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Without money to get, a lawyer isn't worth much. Let me rephrase since you have a daughter. You will need a lawyer to handle custody of the child. There will be child support assigned. If he doesn't have enough money to send you somewhere, something tells me child support will be low and there will be collection problems.

Sounds like there isn't enough resource to get divorced. Guess you need to meet another man. This time pick one with money. Or start making some cash on your own.

Not a wonderful situation. Good luck to you.
i hate this idea - to meet another man.
i'd better be alone.
Now i stard to search for a good job.
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:31 AM   #23
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:37 AM   #24
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What? Is the child his or did you already have her?

Anyone who would turn their backs on their CHILD, deserves a couple rounds in the courtroom. Don't say he has nothing cuz obviously you have a roof over your head

Do you guys own your house?

Take half of that bitch and move right down the street so he can watch you with your new guys driving up and down the street daily.
This is our child, but he never educated her. spend time with her.
Now he realised that she is bad brought and started to make her listen to him by tagging her hand and roaring
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Old 05-16-2006, 09:46 AM   #29
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Are you around 75?
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Now he realised that she is bad brought and started to make her listen to him by tagging her hand and roaring
Bad brought??? Please explain

And what do you mean by "tagging" her hand and roaring.. ?

Sounds like a total asshole. You should be able to show up to court with NO lawyer and they will give you the basics. Half of everything and he will have to help financially raise that child if he makes more money than you.

But if he's hurting your girl in any way you probably should take the plane ticket and get her out of there.
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i am in South America, so no lawers .
i do not want to divirce, i just want to stop fights. I never start them
This man is like 2 different . when he is angry - i hate him, when nic - i live him.
We live togethr 56 years.

56 years????? WTF????
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I need Coles Notes, this makes no sense.
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this thread looks like a joke...
56 years together??? how old are you?
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this thread looks like a joke...
56 years together??? how old are you?
5-6 years I think.
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We live togethr 56 years.
No offense but my offer is off the table...and forget about the pic...that's ok
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If this is serious, sorry for the crap. Divorces always suck, especially when there are children involved. Best of luck to you!
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I'm a little skeptical - however, on the slight chance that it's true (It was her birthday yesterday - she turned 27 - from GFY profile)

I'll say this Cristie - even if your husband is broke, you must get a lawyer to represent you in the divorce (most courthouses can guide you to government agencies/lawyers that are covered for free). You MUST ask for child support - even if he can't pay you.

Here's the scenario - your ex-husband comes into big money (wins a lottery - someone leaves him their estate or he actually works ) while you and your daughter are trying to make ends meat, your husband is living the life of Riley. He's her responsability too - whether he wants to take credit for her upbringing or not. The fact that he didn't do anything to help - is already one of the leading reasons if she's acting up. Even if you don't need the money, even if you don't think he'll ever get money, for the love of your child, you have to have at least fought for your child's rights.

On another note - a good piece of advice is to also get on court documents that he maintain a life insurance until the child turns 18.

Honestly, I hope it's just someone joking - I would never want my child to hear or even remotely think that their father would have wanted to ship them halfway across the world in order to get some emotional revenge on me. He sucks. Cristie, in cases like this, you're best off alone than in bad company Be strong.
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.... how quickly you change your mind just because she is older than you thought!!! hahahahaha
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