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eddie-executive · 04-25-2006, 06:42 PM

Would u trust her? Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

Elli · 04-25-2006, 06:43 PM

I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. If you don't trust someone, you don't trust them. That's a different question than who their friends are.

Scott McD · 04-25-2006, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by eddie-executive

Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem...

Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

eddie-executive · 04-25-2006, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Elli

I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. If you don't trust someone, you don't trust them. That's a different question than who their friends are.

How can you trust someone you just started dating? Yea if she cheats no loss. I just don't know if I should even start anything if most of her friends are guys.

eddie-executive · 04-25-2006, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott McD

I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem...

Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

I know its my problem and yes I have dated girls with only girl friends and no guy friends.

eddie-executive · 04-25-2006, 06:57 PM

ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me

madawgz · 04-25-2006, 07:03 PM

fuck that man! only go for the ones with girl friends

ready lube · 04-25-2006, 07:03 PM

In my opinion girls that hang onto their guys friends are keeping their options open. There is nothing wrong with people having friends with the oppisite sex but seems to me that everyone one of my friends that had a gf with lots of guyus friends always had a ton of stress about it. Not to mention that it's very often a "friend" that they cheat on you with and not some stranger right...Not to say that she's not being honest with you but I can say for certain that if the guy friends are not gay then they most likely have a thing for her deep down and maybe they never tried to do anything about it or maybe they got shut down in the past or who knows...maybe it's an X bf that stayed friends with her

You could wonder and say "what if" all day long but what it really comes down to is whether you trust her or not and you shouldn't be with someone if you do not trust them.

WWC-Pajio · 04-25-2006, 07:15 PM

...nah! I won't cause when girls have a lot of boy fiends.. it's like dancing with the devil!!

Sly · 04-25-2006, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by eddie-executive

ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me

Even if it was a date with this other guy, you really shouldn't care unless you're "exclusive".

Elli · 04-25-2006, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by eddie-executive

ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me

I avoid dinners alone with my guy friends, just to keep the boundaries clear. And anything I go to, my bf is welcome to come with. I have lunch/coffee with guy friends though, or go photograph some animals and the zoo or something. My bf has female friends and I trust him.

reynold · 04-25-2006, 07:32 PM

we have a few girls in my mostly-guy circle of friends. the guys they date always have a problem with them being very close with us.

BlackCrayon · 04-25-2006, 07:35 PM

depends if their guy friends were past lovers/fuck buddies or not i guess.

Nismo · 04-25-2006, 07:36 PM

I did once; never again.

bdld · 04-25-2006, 07:49 PM

not unless you mind orgy's.

Vitasoy · 04-25-2006, 09:04 PM

Of course I would, and I would trust her. No point in having a relationship without trust

eddie-executive · 04-25-2006, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Vitasoy

Of course I would, and I would trust her. No point in having a relationship without trust

You would trust a girl you just met? good luck to you

mattz · 04-25-2006, 09:30 PM

probably not i would be too worried all the time

crodj · 04-25-2006, 09:32 PM

At some point , I can guarantee that some of her guy friends have tried to tax that ass. But trust is important.

Dejan

Scottie Apples · 04-25-2006, 09:33 PM

RUN!!!!! Trust me! its happened before!

Spunky · 04-25-2006, 09:34 PM

Sure..as long as she saves a piece for me..it's all good

pxxx · 04-25-2006, 09:35 PM

There is always someone trying to tap her ass, but trust is the key. If you trust her and she fucks a friend, i guess you take the shitty end of the stick and get your feelings hurt. Pray for best.

Pleasurepays · 04-25-2006, 10:26 PM

a girl with many guy friends is a BIG red flag. a stripper. a whore. or both. this is a girl who needs the wrong type of attention... from the wrong people, for the wrong reasons. besides... no guy wants to be "just friends" with a hot girl... guys want to fuck. thats all. so from her side and theirs, its just bad. if she doesn't want to fuck them... they want to fuck her. and she KNOWS this, thats why she keeps them around.

now you want to become a guy friend because you think you are special???? yeah right!!!!

Monique Niccole · 04-25-2006, 10:33 PM

I have more guy friends than girl friends. The red flag should go up if she makes an effort not to allow you to hang out with her and her guy friends.

broheim · 04-25-2006, 10:38 PM

depends. does she have a lot of girlfriends too? avoid girls that don't get along with other girls

Chichio · 04-25-2006, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Afrekete

I have more guy friends than girl friends. The red flag should go up if she makes an effort not to allow you to hang out with her and her guy friends.

Bingo! I think as long as she doesn't care if you're coming along whenever you want. Or if you are often invited to kick it with the "guy friends." If she's asking that you not come, something's going on. You gotta trust to a certain level, past that you're going to get played a fool. That's my

uno · 04-25-2006, 10:49 PM

My gf's guy friends are all scumbags.

p1mpdogg · 04-25-2006, 11:02 PM

trust is earned not given.

Downtime · 04-25-2006, 11:06 PM

I'm in this exact situation now, and have been for just about 3 years now. You just gotta trust her, that's all.

skinnay · 04-25-2006, 11:12 PM

i hate bitches with lots of/only guy friends, i will never date another one, too much stress

Bdiddy · 04-25-2006, 11:13 PM

Yes I would. The only girls I know without guy friends are uptight bitches who usually dont have many friends.

gecko · 04-25-2006, 11:16 PM

Yes but I would kept an eye on her, until she earns my trust

Pornwolf · 04-25-2006, 11:37 PM

If you act like you are afraid to lose something you will. That goes for everything.

It doesn't matter if it's guys she knows or guys she just met, if there's reason for her to cheat there's nothing you can do to stop it anyway. Don't be jealous.

Stacey_JoinRightNow · 04-25-2006, 11:54 PM

yeah mostly of my guy friends are my true friends, at least I have two girl friends around...

WWC · 04-26-2006, 12:59 AM

yes i would date her, fuck her then dump her and say i am another to your collection ;-)

SmutGiant · 04-26-2006, 01:44 AM

You need to factor in how long she's known these guy friends for and how she "acquired" them. If she has like three guy friends who she met at all different times within the past 30 days or so, major red flag... if these are guys she's known since high school, I wouldnt worry too much about it. Most importantly, just go with your gut in a situation like this.

Choppa · 04-26-2006, 03:25 AM

Jealousy does not show someone how much you love them it shows how insecure you are....so yes date her

jimmy-3-way · 04-26-2006, 04:01 AM

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Originally Posted by eddie-executive

Would u trust her? Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

I wouldn't date her...

...but I'd fuck the shit out of her.

Dating is overrated. If I date a girl I usually like her and then I have a hard time doing things like getting her to blow me and then grabbing her ears while I choke her with a few teaspoons of chub chowder.

kursk · 04-26-2006, 04:05 AM

theres no reason for girls to have guy friends

sofm · 04-26-2006, 04:07 AM

I wouldn't date her

irbobo · 04-26-2006, 04:07 AM

Ya.. my experience on this one. STAY AWAY from it. Save you lots of trouble in the end.

Sexsitesurfer · 04-26-2006, 04:11 AM

You have to be mature about it.

Most women like men's attention because insecure men are putting women down all the time and the media constantly tells them they need to be slimmer, browner, have fuller eyelashes, etc.

Same way guys like to have girls who are friends to flirt with.

Trust her until she does something untrustworthy. I hate it if a gf is jealous of my relationship with other girls and so it would be hypocritical of me to be suspicious, jealous, etc in return.

Of course guys are trying to tap her ass, if she is decent she'll let them that now she's with you and not interested!

Do you want to live in an insecure relationship founded on jealousy and suspicion?

Just my

Gentle_Ben · 04-26-2006, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Downtime

I'm in this exact situation now, and have been for just about 3 years now. You just gotta trust her, that's all.

exactly. I can only speak from my experience, but most of my girlfriends and female friends who hang out more with guys than girls tend to be the coolest chicks around, and prefer hanging out with guys because they say they have to deal with less bullshit and drama. It's not because they are some kind of cock craving sluts.

nofx · 04-26-2006, 04:31 AM

its a fucked up situation to be in

worst kind of them all

lots of stress/worry/drama involved

try to get out of it

white-rob-like-whoa · 04-26-2006, 05:11 AM

If the freinds have been around for a while and you haven't... then I don't think you can say much....
Unless she has a history of getting gangbanged by them... then I would only let her see them on the weekends

BlackCrayon · 04-26-2006, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Scott McD

I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem...

Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

didn't you make a post all stressed about this guy friend of your girls always calling her? asking what to do? seemed like that bothered you.

its a hard thing to get around no matter what. even if your girls intentions are honorable you can guarentee the guy friends are waiting for the right time to strike after you've had a fight or whatever. i know i've played that role in the past. and girls have a bad habit of doing whatever makes them happy in that moment. people are so hard trust period. not just genders. everyone seems to have an agenda.

Kevin - The PNN · 04-26-2006, 05:21 AM

Yes I would, in my experience they are the best women to date. If they have a lot of guy friends, they relate to men better than women. You can talk with easier, there is less drama, they love sports, it like hanging out with a great friend but your get to bang her too. Don?t underestimate the value here. There is a reason she hangs out with guys, mentally she is more on their level.

cool1 · 04-26-2006, 05:45 AM

trust her until she does something to break that trust.
and if a women I am dating, seeing , fucking goes out and fucks one of her guy friends, big deal, as the say goes, "there is always a lot more fish in the sea".

Wiggles · 04-26-2006, 06:55 AM

depends on the chick, but most are just sluts.

Sexsitesurfer · 04-26-2006, 07:00 AM

This thread is useless without a pic of her... Then we can judge if it is worth all the discussion....

04-25-2006, 06:42 PM	#1
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eddie-executive Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 2,061	ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me __________________ Jealousy... is a mental cancer. ~B.C. Forbes

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04-25-2006, 07:03 PM	#8
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mattz Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: AZ Posts: 7,697	probably not i would be too worried all the time

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Pleasurepays BANNED - SUPPORTING TUBES Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I live in a pile of boogers Posts: 11,913	a girl with many guy friends is a BIG red flag. a stripper. a whore. or both. this is a girl who needs the wrong type of attention... from the wrong people, for the wrong reasons. besides... no guy wants to be "just friends" with a hot girl... guys want to fuck. thats all. so from her side and theirs, its just bad. if she doesn't want to fuck them... they want to fuck her. and she KNOWS this, thats why she keeps them around. now you want to become a guy friend because you think you are special???? yeah right!!!!

04-25-2006, 10:33 PM	#24
Monique Niccole Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: San Francisco Posts: 5,653	I have more guy friends than girl friends. The red flag should go up if she makes an effort not to allow you to hang out with her and her guy friends.

04-25-2006, 10:38 PM	#25
broheim Registered User Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 7	depends. does she have a lot of girlfriends too? avoid girls that don't get along with other girls

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	You need to factor in how long she's known these guy friends for and how she "acquired" them. If she has like three guy friends who she met at all different times within the past 30 days or so, major red flag... if these are guys she's known since high school, I wouldnt worry too much about it. Most importantly, just go with your gut in a situation like this.

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