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eddie-executive 04-25-2006 06:42 PM

Would u date a girl that has a lot of guy friends?
 
Would u trust her? Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

Elli 04-25-2006 06:43 PM

I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. If you don't trust someone, you don't trust them. That's a different question than who their friends are.

Scott McD 04-25-2006 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie-executive
Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem... :2 cents:


Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

eddie-executive 04-25-2006 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elli
I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. If you don't trust someone, you don't trust them. That's a different question than who their friends are.

How can you trust someone you just started dating? Yea if she cheats no loss. I just don't know if I should even start anything if most of her friends are guys.

eddie-executive 04-25-2006 06:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott McD
I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem... :2 cents:


Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

I know its my problem and yes I have dated girls with only girl friends and no guy friends.

eddie-executive 04-25-2006 06:57 PM

ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me:1orglaugh

madawgz 04-25-2006 07:03 PM

fuck that man! only go for the ones with girl friends :)

ready lube 04-25-2006 07:03 PM

In my opinion girls that hang onto their guys friends are keeping their options open. There is nothing wrong with people having friends with the oppisite sex but seems to me that everyone one of my friends that had a gf with lots of guyus friends always had a ton of stress about it. Not to mention that it's very often a "friend" that they cheat on you with and not some stranger right...Not to say that she's not being honest with you but I can say for certain that if the guy friends are not gay then they most likely have a thing for her deep down and maybe they never tried to do anything about it or maybe they got shut down in the past or who knows...maybe it's an X bf that stayed friends with her

You could wonder and say "what if" all day long but what it really comes down to is whether you trust her or not and you shouldn't be with someone if you do not trust them.

WWC-Pajio 04-25-2006 07:15 PM

...nah! I won't cause when girls have a lot of boy fiends.. it's like dancing with the devil!! :pimp

Sly 04-25-2006 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie-executive
ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me:1orglaugh

Even if it was a date with this other guy, you really shouldn't care unless you're "exclusive".

Elli 04-25-2006 07:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie-executive
ok so her going out to dinner with a guy tommorow and playing miniture golf is nothing to wrry about?lol sounds like shes keeping her options open to me:1orglaugh

I avoid dinners alone with my guy friends, just to keep the boundaries clear. And anything I go to, my bf is welcome to come with. I have lunch/coffee with guy friends though, or go photograph some animals and the zoo or something. My bf has female friends and I trust him.

reynold 04-25-2006 07:32 PM

we have a few girls in my mostly-guy circle of friends. the guys they date always have a problem with them being very close with us.

BlackCrayon 04-25-2006 07:35 PM

depends if their guy friends were past lovers/fuck buddies or not i guess.

Nismo 04-25-2006 07:36 PM

I did once; never again.

bdld 04-25-2006 07:49 PM

not unless you mind orgy's.

Vitasoy 04-25-2006 09:04 PM

Of course I would, and I would trust her. No point in having a relationship without trust

eddie-executive 04-25-2006 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vitasoy
Of course I would, and I would trust her. No point in having a relationship without trust

You would trust a girl you just met? good luck to you:1orglaugh

mattz 04-25-2006 09:30 PM

probably not i would be too worried all the time

crodj 04-25-2006 09:32 PM

Girl with guy friends..
 
At some point , I can guarantee that some of her guy friends have tried to tax that ass. But trust is important.

Dejan

Scottie Apples 04-25-2006 09:33 PM

RUN!!!!! Trust me! its happened before!

Spunky 04-25-2006 09:34 PM

Sure..as long as she saves a piece for me..it's all good

pxxx 04-25-2006 09:35 PM

There is always someone trying to tap her ass, but trust is the key. If you trust her and she fucks a friend, i guess you take the shitty end of the stick and get your feelings hurt. Pray for best.

Pleasurepays 04-25-2006 10:26 PM

a girl with many guy friends is a BIG red flag. a stripper. a whore. or both. this is a girl who needs the wrong type of attention... from the wrong people, for the wrong reasons. besides... no guy wants to be "just friends" with a hot girl... guys want to fuck. thats all. so from her side and theirs, its just bad. if she doesn't want to fuck them... they want to fuck her. and she KNOWS this, thats why she keeps them around.

now you want to become a guy friend because you think you are special???? yeah right!!!!

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Monique Niccole 04-25-2006 10:33 PM

I have more guy friends than girl friends. The red flag should go up if she makes an effort not to allow you to hang out with her and her guy friends.

broheim 04-25-2006 10:38 PM

depends. does she have a lot of girlfriends too? avoid girls that don't get along with other girls :2 cents:

Chichio 04-25-2006 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Afrekete
I have more guy friends than girl friends. The red flag should go up if she makes an effort not to allow you to hang out with her and her guy friends.

Bingo! I think as long as she doesn't care if you're coming along whenever you want. Or if you are often invited to kick it with the "guy friends." If she's asking that you not come, something's going on. You gotta trust to a certain level, past that you're going to get played a fool. That's my :2 cents:

uno 04-25-2006 10:49 PM

My gf's guy friends are all scumbags.

p1mpdogg 04-25-2006 11:02 PM

trust is earned not given.

Downtime 04-25-2006 11:06 PM

I'm in this exact situation now, and have been for just about 3 years now. You just gotta trust her, that's all.

skinnay 04-25-2006 11:12 PM

i hate bitches with lots of/only guy friends, i will never date another one, too much stress

Bdiddy 04-25-2006 11:13 PM

Yes I would. The only girls I know without guy friends are uptight bitches who usually dont have many friends.

gecko 04-25-2006 11:16 PM

Yes but I would kept an eye on her, until she earns my trust

Pornwolf 04-25-2006 11:37 PM

If you act like you are afraid to lose something you will. That goes for everything.

It doesn't matter if it's guys she knows or guys she just met, if there's reason for her to cheat there's nothing you can do to stop it anyway. Don't be jealous.

Stacey_JoinRightNow 04-25-2006 11:54 PM

yeah mostly of my guy friends are my true friends, at least I have two girl friends around...

WWC 04-26-2006 12:59 AM

yes i would date her, fuck her then dump her and say i am another to your collection ;-)

SmutGiant 04-26-2006 01:44 AM

You need to factor in how long she's known these guy friends for and how she "acquired" them. If she has like three guy friends who she met at all different times within the past 30 days or so, major red flag... if these are guys she's known since high school, I wouldnt worry too much about it. Most importantly, just go with your gut in a situation like this.

Choppa 04-26-2006 03:25 AM

Jealousy does not show someone how much you love them it shows how insecure you are....so yes date her :thumbsup

jimmy-3-way 04-26-2006 04:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eddie-executive
Would u trust her? Never dated a chick with guy friends before.

I wouldn't date her...



...but I'd fuck the shit out of her.

Dating is overrated. If I date a girl I usually like her and then I have a hard time doing things like getting her to blow me and then grabbing her ears while I choke her with a few teaspoons of chub chowder.

kursk 04-26-2006 04:05 AM

theres no reason for girls to have guy friends

sofm 04-26-2006 04:07 AM

I wouldn't date her

irbobo 04-26-2006 04:07 AM

Ya.. my experience on this one. STAY AWAY from it. Save you lots of trouble in the end.

Sexsitesurfer 04-26-2006 04:11 AM

You have to be mature about it.

Most women like men's attention because insecure men are putting women down all the time and the media constantly tells them they need to be slimmer, browner, have fuller eyelashes, etc.

Same way guys like to have girls who are friends to flirt with.

Trust her until she does something untrustworthy. I hate it if a gf is jealous of my relationship with other girls and so it would be hypocritical of me to be suspicious, jealous, etc in return.

Of course guys are trying to tap her ass, if she is decent she'll let them that now she's with you and not interested!

Do you want to live in an insecure relationship founded on jealousy and suspicion?

Just my :2 cents:

Gentle_Ben 04-26-2006 04:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Downtime
I'm in this exact situation now, and have been for just about 3 years now. You just gotta trust her, that's all.


exactly. I can only speak from my experience, but most of my girlfriends and female friends who hang out more with guys than girls tend to be the coolest chicks around, and prefer hanging out with guys because they say they have to deal with less bullshit and drama. It's not because they are some kind of cock craving sluts. :2 cents:

nofx 04-26-2006 04:31 AM

its a fucked up situation to be in

worst kind of them all

lots of stress/worry/drama involved

try to get out of it

white-rob-like-whoa 04-26-2006 05:11 AM

If the freinds have been around for a while and you haven't... then I don't think you can say much....
Unless she has a history of getting gangbanged by them... then I would only let her see them on the weekends

BlackCrayon 04-26-2006 05:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott McD
I don't believe that a chick would have no guy friends at all. And if you have a problem if she did, then that's your problem... :2 cents:


Mine has more guy friends than chicks. Doesn't bother me at all...

didn't you make a post all stressed about this guy friend of your girls always calling her? asking what to do? seemed like that bothered you.

its a hard thing to get around no matter what. even if your girls intentions are honorable you can guarentee the guy friends are waiting for the right time to strike after you've had a fight or whatever. i know i've played that role in the past. and girls have a bad habit of doing whatever makes them happy in that moment. people are so hard trust period. not just genders. everyone seems to have an agenda.

Kevin - The PNN 04-26-2006 05:21 AM

Yes I would, in my experience they are the best women to date. If they have a lot of guy friends, they relate to men better than women. You can talk with easier, there is less drama, they love sports, it like hanging out with a great friend but your get to bang her too. Don?t underestimate the value here. There is a reason she hangs out with guys, mentally she is more on their level.

cool1 04-26-2006 05:45 AM

trust her until she does something to break that trust.
and if a women I am dating, seeing , fucking goes out and fucks one of her guy friends, big deal, as the say goes, "there is always a lot more fish in the sea".

Wiggles 04-26-2006 06:55 AM

depends on the chick, but most are just sluts.

Sexsitesurfer 04-26-2006 07:00 AM

This thread is useless without a pic of her... Then we can judge if it is worth all the discussion.... :1orglaugh :1orglaugh


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