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AaronM · 05-06-2002, 03:18 PM

I have a friend who is a lurker on this board so I am posting this knowing damn good and well that he will read it.

The other night he tells me he just proposed to the girl he has been dating for about 3 months. He then asks me what I think of it. I told him I was not sure that it was the right thing. This sparked a mild depate as to why I felt this way. Here are the facts....

Him:
57 years old
Father of 3 childeren 21F, 26M, & 32F
White
State Police Officer

Her:
19 years old...almost
Friends with 21 year old daughter
Hispanic
Stripper

Now, what advice would you give him?

Westin · 05-06-2002, 03:20 PM

GIV 'ER!

Amputate Your Head · 05-06-2002, 03:20 PM

the same advice I'd give anyone, regardless of any factors whatsoever:

Don't get fucking married!

If you love this woman, for god's sake, don't fucking marry her.... you'll only ruin a good thing.

why the hell do people still insist on gettng married.....

Theo · 05-06-2002, 03:20 PM

Hispanic stripper? Better stay away...

AdultWire · 05-06-2002, 03:21 PM

Whatever makes him happy. The whole "freinds with daughter" thing is risky, and he should think about whether he will be happy despite that. It's not a situation he can ignore.

Cheshire · 05-06-2002, 03:22 PM

She does not sound like wife material. What happends when her little girl fantasy of being a wife wears off and she's banging the neighbor's 17 year old son like a screen door in a hurricane?

RobertD · 05-06-2002, 03:25 PM

Dude, have a good time, boff your brains out, have fun, whatever. DO NOT MARRY HER!

Theo · 05-06-2002, 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cheshire
What happends when her little girl fantasy of being a wife wears off and she's banging the neighbor's 17 year old son like a screen door in a hurricane?

FATPad · 05-06-2002, 03:27 PM

Wow. This has some sort of mid/late life crisis written all over it.

Just nail her. He knows enough to know that 19 year olds can't realistically make lifelong decisions like marriage very often.

SetTheWorldonFire · 05-06-2002, 03:28 PM

He was 38 when she was born. just a thought.

Theo · 05-06-2002, 03:28 PM

and he can share her with his son

Lev · 05-06-2002, 03:29 PM

Yeah, the marriage is not gonna last a month, she is 19 year old stripper for god's sake.

AaronM · 05-06-2002, 03:29 PM

Oh, I forgot to mention that she has a 2 year old.

Theo · 05-06-2002, 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SetTheWorldonFire
He was 38 when she was born. just a thought.

so what? it's not problem of age. She is hispanic!

Cheshire · 05-06-2002, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
Oh, I forgot to mention that she has a 2 year old.

Oh, well never mind what I said before. She's obviously very intelligent, and has a strong ability to make realistic life decisions.

TheSpaceBulldog · 05-06-2002, 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Soul_Rebel

so what? it's not problem of age. She is hispanic!

So are you saying that he is too good for a Hispanic? Are you a racist or did you have another reason for this reply?

AaronM · 05-06-2002, 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheSpaceBulldog

So are you saying that he is too good for a Hispanic? Are you a racist or did you have another reason for this reply?

Why is everything with you a racial issue lately? I could swear that you were the one yelling "DOWN WITH WHITEY" just a few days ago.

Yeah, there is a difference in the race but personally I think she is a gold digging little bitch who needs somebody to support her brat. There....I said it. Don't hate me John.

Theo · 05-06-2002, 04:16 PM

hispanic girls are wilddddddddddd, you can't handle them

Jamie · 05-06-2002, 04:21 PM

You would think after 57 years he would know better. Any girl under 30 is going to go through a million changes as she matures into a women. I personally wouldn't take that risk of dealing with those changes.

Sleep with her, live with her, but don't fucking marry her.

Sly_RJ · 05-06-2002, 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cheshire
She does not sound like wife material.

Not everyone can be like you.

dipshit moron retard · 05-06-2002, 04:28 PM

JERK OFF ON HER BUTT !!! HEHEHHE

ONTARIO

redshift · 05-06-2002, 04:31 PM

Is your friend rich, well-off ....
Sounds like a gold digger if he is

Gary · 05-06-2002, 04:39 PM

Tell him to pass her over here.

Mike Semen · 05-06-2002, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dipshit moron retard
JERK OFF ON HER BUTT !!! HEHEHHE

ONTARIO

AAAAAAAAhahahahhahahaaa!

Seriously though, I think he should take her to Vegas, get dressed up as Elvis, marry her and sign over the deeds of his house to her tomorrow.

Its what I would do...

hyper · 05-06-2002, 04:47 PM

Give him your opinion

it's his decision support him either way
and be there when and if he falls.

Common Sense would tell you that it probably wont work but you never know

the bulldog · 05-06-2002, 04:53 PM

At least shes not black.

jimmyf · 05-06-2002, 04:57 PM

Am 57 years old and I'd be dam if I would marry a 19 year old...
I don't care how good looking she might be...

Might be nice to look at or dream about but get real..... He has problems.... big ones if he thinks he's going to have an good relationship with this KID... and that's what she is a KID...

That's my

I might be wrong.... but I think the guy is getting ready to screw up his life BIG time......

LiveDose · 05-06-2002, 05:01 PM

Aaron,

How can you ask us to give you opinions about this without a pic of her?!

Milton · 05-06-2002, 05:04 PM

Scootermuze · 05-06-2002, 05:09 PM

Is he pushing the marriage issue or is she?

If she's pushing it, then that should throw up a really bright red flag, and if he's going along with it, it could be because he doesn't want to lose the company of a young woman which might happen if he says 'no'.

If he's pushing it, he needs to ask himself why she is accepting.. What's the payoff, other than the obvious?

Have him mention a prenup to her and see how she reacts..

Lots of common sense questions could be asked, and the answers would be obvious.

Gemini · 05-06-2002, 05:10 PM

He should also be taking in to consideration of what his superior officers are going to have to say. An officer of the law and a stripper sounds like trouble brewing.

Speaking as an ex dancer that started young dancing? If you ARE reading this post... you'd better cut a shuck for the hills as the old man just put it. Its not worth it. She'll change with the wind and be watching all those guys that watch her as well...

Do you ACTUALLY believe deeeeeeep down inside you can compete with a 22 yr old guy in her eyes? She may be infatuated with the attention right now, and this is experience talking, she won't STAY infatuated.

Breaking your heart now will be alot easier than if you get more attached and break it later.

Never mind the fact that your daughter will cause problems once it soaks in that her one time girlfriend is NOW her Step Mom. WHat the HECK are you thinking with?

Don't answer that. I already know.

05-06-2002, 03:18 PM	#1
AaronM Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: ┌∩┐ ◣_◢ ┌∩┐ Posts: 46,909	Serious Question I have a friend who is a lurker on this board so I am posting this knowing damn good and well that he will read it. The other night he tells me he just proposed to the girl he has been dating for about 3 months. He then asks me what I think of it. I told him I was not sure that it was the right thing. This sparked a mild depate as to why I felt this way. Here are the facts.... Him: 57 years old Father of 3 childeren 21F, 26M, & 32F White State Police Officer Her: 19 years old...almost Friends with 21 year old daughter Hispanic Stripper Now, what advice would you give him?

05-06-2002, 03:21 PM	#5
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Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	She does not sound like wife material. What happends when her little girl fantasy of being a wife wears off and she's banging the neighbor's 17 year old son like a screen door in a hurricane? __________________ just a little bit naughty

05-06-2002, 03:25 PM	#7
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05-06-2002, 03:27 PM	#9
FATPad Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 6,693	Wow. This has some sort of mid/late life crisis written all over it. Just nail her. He knows enough to know that 19 year olds can't realistically make lifelong decisions like marriage very often. __________________ <a href="http://www.adultcontent.co.uk">Adult Content UK - Great British Content</a>

05-06-2002, 03:20 PM	#2
Westin Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Canada Posts: 393	GIV 'ER!

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Amputate Your Head There can be only one Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Somewhere else Posts: 39,075	the same advice I'd give anyone, regardless of any factors whatsoever: Don't get fucking married! If you love this woman, for god's sake, don't fucking marry her.... you'll only ruin a good thing. why the hell do people still insist on gettng married.....

05-06-2002, 03:20 PM	#4
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	Hispanic stripper? Better stay away...

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SetTheWorldonFire Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: California Posts: 7,444	He was 38 when she was born. just a thought. __________________ www.STWOFDesign.com hit me up on icq 154206276 or Skype: JaimeGizzle

05-06-2002, 03:29 PM	#12
Lev Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 3,545	Yeah, the marriage is not gonna last a month, she is 19 year old stripper for god's sake.

05-06-2002, 04:16 PM	#18
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	hispanic girls are wilddddddddddd, you can't handle them

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Jamie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: CelebPay.com Posts: 2,517	You would think after 57 years he would know better. Any girl under 30 is going to go through a million changes as she matures into a women. I personally wouldn't take that risk of dealing with those changes. Sleep with her, live with her, but don't fucking marry her. __________________ CelebPay: Promote Celebrity Reviews i/c/q - :1851935

05-06-2002, 04:28 PM	#21
dipshit moron retard Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 667	JERK OFF ON HER BUTT !!! HEHEHHE ONTARIO

05-06-2002, 04:31 PM	#22
redshift Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: anus fuckin' yo mama Posts: 1,044	Is your friend rich, well-off .... Sounds like a gold digger if he is

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05-06-2002, 04:47 PM	#25
hyper Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Mass Ass Posts: 5,294	Give him your opinion it's his decision support him either way and be there when and if he falls. Common Sense would tell you that it probably wont work but you never know __________________

05-06-2002, 04:53 PM	#26
the bulldog Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Land of Chocolate!! Posts: 519	At least shes not black.

05-06-2002, 04:57 PM	#27
jimmyf OU812 Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: California Posts: 12,651	Am 57 years old and I'd be dam if I would marry a 19 year old... I don't care how good looking she might be... Might be nice to look at or dream about but get real..... He has problems.... big ones if he thinks he's going to have an good relationship with this KID... and that's what she is a KID... That's my I might be wrong.... but I think the guy is getting ready to screw up his life BIG time...... __________________ Epic CashEpic Cash works for me Solar Cash Paysite Plugin Gallery of the day freesites,POTD,Gallery generator with free hosting

05-06-2002, 05:01 PM	#28
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05-06-2002, 05:04 PM	#29
Milton Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Mauritius Posts: 1,118	hmm

05-06-2002, 05:09 PM	#30
Scootermuze Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 4,513	Is he pushing the marriage issue or is she? If she's pushing it, then that should throw up a really bright red flag, and if he's going along with it, it could be because he doesn't want to lose the company of a young woman which might happen if he says 'no'. If he's pushing it, he needs to ask himself why she is accepting.. What's the payoff, other than the obvious? Have him mention a prenup to her and see how she reacts.. Lots of common sense questions could be asked, and the answers would be obvious. Last edited by Scootermuze; 05-06-2002 at 05:10 PM..

05-06-2002, 05:10 PM	#31
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	He should also be taking in to consideration of what his superior officers are going to have to say. An officer of the law and a stripper sounds like trouble brewing. Speaking as an ex dancer that started young dancing? If you ARE reading this post... you'd better cut a shuck for the hills as the old man just put it. Its not worth it. She'll change with the wind and be watching all those guys that watch her as well... Do you ACTUALLY believe deeeeeeep down inside you can compete with a 22 yr old guy in her eyes? She may be infatuated with the attention right now, and this is experience talking, she won't STAY infatuated. Breaking your heart now will be alot easier than if you get more attached and break it later. Never mind the fact that your daughter will cause problems once it soaks in that her one time girlfriend is NOW her Step Mom. WHat the HECK are you thinking with? Don't answer that. I already know.