Fiances and the business? - GoFuckYourself.com

cranki · 03-25-2006, 09:34 AM

How do your significant others view the whole porn business thing?

Are they into it?

Do they know about your profession at all?

How did they react when you first told them about it?

toonces · 03-25-2006, 09:36 AM

I am marrying the most conservative man on the planet. I told him on our first date. I figured he'll either run for the door (in which case he was the wrong guy for me) or he'ld think it was hot....He thinks its hot!

Egomancer · 03-25-2006, 09:38 AM

She does not agree!

Egomancer

Jakke PNG · 03-25-2006, 10:05 AM

She's on my payroll.

jackie1 · 03-25-2006, 10:16 AM

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

wdsguy · 03-25-2006, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

he needs to pick up the slack

toonces · 03-25-2006, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

Time to get a new boyfriend

Manowar · 03-25-2006, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by toonces

Time to get a new boyfriend

hahaha yep

sonofsam · 03-25-2006, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

what a catch!

NoWhErE · 03-25-2006, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

Shush honey, you're not supposed to tell

Wordsforhire · 03-25-2006, 03:15 PM

My hubby is fine with it. He does PHP so its kind of a good team we have going. He doesnt do anything adult but likes to sneak a peak at the sites im on now and then..

Of course he thinks that now that I do adult he should get sex like all these girls on the sites do lol...Typical man I suppose huh..

Pornwolf · 03-25-2006, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Wordsforhire

Of course he thinks that now that I do adult he should get sex like all these girls on the sites do lol...Typical man I suppose huh..

He should.

Wordsforhire · 03-25-2006, 04:30 PM

lmfao I dont see how. Think of it this way.

Imagine you are a garbage man. You cleanup garbage all day long, you certainly dont want to come home and do it all the time there aswell. You like a break from it now and then.

Well its the same thing with the writing. I write about sex all day every day its not as if I dont want sex but sometimes I just need a break from it lol. I dont ask him to bring his code to bed!

zigx · 03-25-2006, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

lol you need to find a real man.

zigx · 03-25-2006, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Wordsforhire

lmfao I dont see how. Think of it this way.

Imagine you are a garbage man. You cleanup garbage all day long, you certainly dont want to come home and do it all the time there aswell. You like a break from it now and then.

Well its the same thing with the writing. I write about sex all day every day its not as if I dont want sex but sometimes I just need a break from it lol. I dont ask him to bring his code to bed!

lol

but if he could... he would!

Wordsforhire · 03-25-2006, 06:30 PM

Oh god I hope not!

Twisted Dave · 03-25-2006, 06:40 PM

I'm just drawing illustrated characters but my girlfriend is a big lover of porn too, so it's cool... plus, she draws girls etc ...

She's awesome

u-Bob · 03-25-2006, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

sounds like your b/f is a kept bitch

Morgan · 03-26-2006, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his

It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

sounds like a real keeper. you should show him this thread.

iWeb_Allan · 03-26-2006, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by toonces

I am marrying the most conservative man on the planet. I told him on our first date. I figured he'll either run for the door (in which case he was the wrong guy for me) or he'ld think it was hot....He thinks its hot!

congratulations on both counts

Doctor Dre · 03-26-2006, 07:48 PM

lol @ the girl getting pimped

I'm young and people here are open minded... I have not yet seen a bad reaction.

rodney25 · 03-26-2006, 11:29 PM

I'm so fortunate to have a very supportive and open-minded gf.

jackie1 · 03-26-2006, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by toonces

Time to get a new boyfriend

I don't see why he is a loser. If he paid more bills you all would say I'm a gold digger, but if I pay more than he is a "loser". Ideally both would pay half, but I happen to make more than him, not because I'm smarter, or more hard-working, but just because it's easier for me to make money on-line than it is for most people to make it in the real world. If I had to work in the "real-world" and look for a 9-5 there is no way I would make what I do selling porn.

Usually in a relationship whoever makes more pays a bit more because it's more proportionate to their income. It's not fair to ask someone to pay half if it's half of their income when for the other person it's less than 1/10th. Not everyone wants to sell porn on-line or make easy money, so why judge someone because they make less? There are noble professions out there that pay low such as teachers, for example, even though they contribute a lot to society. Some people chose certain jobs that don't pay high because they enjoy their jobs or because their passionate about something, such as artists for example. Why call him a loser because his girlfriend makes more?

I thought a persons character was defined more than just money.

Anyways, he's just joking about bragging about the car, he is not actually going to DO that, it was a joke.

RayBonga · 03-27-2006, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

Not everyone wants to sell porn on-line or make easy money, so why judge someone because they make less?

...

I thought a persons character was defined more than just money.

You know this is gfy, right?

Everyone that's not making 1k a day is a loser

Bob_cougar · 03-27-2006, 01:06 AM

well, based on our present status, i dont think this is the right time to get a new girlfriend.

nick1980 · 03-27-2006, 01:19 AM

my fiancee is very supportive of me and she understands it.

c-lo · 03-27-2006, 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted by jackie1

I don't see why he is a loser. If he paid more bills you all would say I'm a gold digger, but if I pay more than he is a "loser". Ideally both would pay half, but I happen to make more than him, not because I'm smarter, or more hard-working, but just because it's easier for me to make money on-line than it is for most people to make it in the real world. If I had to work in the "real-world" and look for a 9-5 there is no way I would make what I do selling porn.

Usually in a relationship whoever makes more pays a bit more because it's more proportionate to their income. It's not fair to ask someone to pay half if it's half of their income when for the other person it's less than 1/10th. Not everyone wants to sell porn on-line or make easy money, so why judge someone because they make less? There are noble professions out there that pay low such as teachers, for example, even though they contribute a lot to society. Some people chose certain jobs that don't pay high because they enjoy their jobs or because their passionate about something, such as artists for example. Why call him a loser because his girlfriend makes more?

I thought a persons character was defined more than just money.

Anyways, he's just joking about bragging about the car, he is not actually going to DO that, it was a joke.

True. I think the people that replied negatively towards your boyfriend did so because your first post unintentionally made him come off as a leach.

But if he makes less & still contributes a fair (proportionate) share, then there's really nothing bad anyone can say about him.

c-lo

reynold · 03-27-2006, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by rodney25

I'm so fortunate to have a very supportive and open-minded gf.

damn, you are so fortunate to have a fiancee like her.

quantum-x · 03-27-2006, 01:46 AM

My gf is down with it, and does some galleries in her spare time

Dagwolf · 03-27-2006, 01:52 AM

My wife got me started on it.. No problem there.

Barefootsies · 03-27-2006, 03:57 AM

She's not into it.

A lot of women are turned off by the fact I am around models all the time. No matter what you say otherwise, they always think you want to tap some 18 year old's arse, or they want to come after you because you have some money to your name.

As a whole, the best policy is you do not talk about it. They know what you do, they do not approve, so just keep it off the radar. Do not talk about the models, what they say, do, or how hot a shoot was. When it's after 5, and they call to go to dinner you go. Keep most of your business dealings between 9-5, and just do not get into work related things. Even the most secure of women still have a problem with their man being around other women. Not that they do not trust you, it seems they do not trust other WOMEN.

03-25-2006, 09:34 AM	#1
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jackie1 Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 137	I'm a girl. My boyfriend likes it cause I pay for most of all the bills round here. He can't wait for me to get a new bmw so he can show it off to all his friends and tell them that it's his It's only selling on the pc, you don't interact or have any physical interaction with anyone so I don't see why anyone would have a problem.

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Wordsforhire Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Scotland Posts: 502	lmfao I dont see how. Think of it this way. Imagine you are a garbage man. You cleanup garbage all day long, you certainly dont want to come home and do it all the time there aswell. You like a break from it now and then. Well its the same thing with the writing. I write about sex all day every day its not as if I dont want sex but sometimes I just need a break from it lol. I dont ask him to bring his code to bed! __________________ Adult Words for Hire - Custom Adult Writing - Fantasy stories, reviews, blog posts, site descriptions, gallery descriptions and much, much more! My New Indian Paysite Coming Soon You can check out my blog till it gets here!

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