Public Apology to Tam... - GoFuckYourself.com

BuckNaked · 03-24-2006, 08:55 PM

After the issues with aaron and tam today, I finally talked to tam and came to realize that I owe her a huge apology.

See tam worked for me for 10 months and during that time I was so stretched that I couldn't get anything going for her to really do, yet I kept her on because of stubbornness and male ego, taking more work than I could handle which screwed my design rep up even more than I already had. I don't blame tam for my failures, hell she truly believed that i could succeed...

When it finally got too much to bare tam decided she needed security for her family(can't blame her) and we ended our employee-employer relationship. She took a job with bad girl bucks and unfortunately my male ego and stubborness made me feel betrayed and hurt and I lashed out making comments that as soon as they came out of my mouth they were forgotten by me, sort of a chance to just rant like therapy for my hurt feelings.

It turns out, as I guess I should have known it would, that it got back to her and she felt betrayed, hurt and totally fucked over, and I can't blame her one bit.

I want to go on record and I hope that anyone who I ever talked to or who ever has heard my rantings in the past that I hold myself responsible for my failures. Not tam or anyone esle, tam was a great friend when I really needed someone and she is very loyal in that area.

I would like to personally apologize to Tam for everything that has went down and to the fact that I was oblivious to what I was doing to you and your business reputation, you have no idea how sorry I am....

Tam is a workhorse that doesn't quit till she falls over dead everyday, and that is the god's honest truth.

I hope Tam that you can accept my apology and somehow make amends even if we're just okay with each other, I hope we can...

As far as aaron, man you're right I have done a lot of crazy shit without thinking and have eaten a lot of shit in this biz because of it, I have always tried to stand up and make amends or at least accept responsibility for my actions and who knows maybe someday I'll get it right.

Thanks for the 2 minutes.

Peace & porn
Buck

xclusive · 03-24-2006, 08:57 PM

takes a big man to say they are sorry

AaronM · 03-24-2006, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xclusive

takes a big man to say they are sorry

Yes, yes it does.

Tam · 03-24-2006, 09:08 PM

Yup, I agree.... while I didn't expect this and certainly didn't see it coming, I do respect the fact that you stood up and took responsibility for your attacks on me, for whatever reason you did it, hurt feelings or otherwise, this was very big of you to do and I accept your apology and respect you for doing it. I didn't ask for this though, and you didn't need to, but it took a lot for you to do it and I appreciate it. I won't say we'll ever be the best of friends again, but I will say this, this took a lot of courage from you and I know what your pride means to you, you swallowed it here and I see that and respect it.

Thank you!!

Peaches · 03-24-2006, 10:14 PM

Very, very classy!!

03-24-2006, 08:55 PM	#1
BuckNaked Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Moved to a tent in the back yard Posts: 399	Public Apology to Tam... After the issues with aaron and tam today, I finally talked to tam and came to realize that I owe her a huge apology. See tam worked for me for 10 months and during that time I was so stretched that I couldn't get anything going for her to really do, yet I kept her on because of stubbornness and male ego, taking more work than I could handle which screwed my design rep up even more than I already had. I don't blame tam for my failures, hell she truly believed that i could succeed... When it finally got too much to bare tam decided she needed security for her family(can't blame her) and we ended our employee-employer relationship. She took a job with bad girl bucks and unfortunately my male ego and stubborness made me feel betrayed and hurt and I lashed out making comments that as soon as they came out of my mouth they were forgotten by me, sort of a chance to just rant like therapy for my hurt feelings. It turns out, as I guess I should have known it would, that it got back to her and she felt betrayed, hurt and totally fucked over, and I can't blame her one bit. I want to go on record and I hope that anyone who I ever talked to or who ever has heard my rantings in the past that I hold myself responsible for my failures. Not tam or anyone esle, tam was a great friend when I really needed someone and she is very loyal in that area. I would like to personally apologize to Tam for everything that has went down and to the fact that I was oblivious to what I was doing to you and your business reputation, you have no idea how sorry I am.... Tam is a workhorse that doesn't quit till she falls over dead everyday, and that is the god's honest truth. I hope Tam that you can accept my apology and somehow make amends even if we're just okay with each other, I hope we can... As far as aaron, man you're right I have done a lot of crazy shit without thinking and have eaten a lot of shit in this biz because of it, I have always tried to stand up and make amends or at least accept responsibility for my actions and who knows maybe someday I'll get it right. Thanks for the 2 minutes. Peace & porn Buck __________________ The BuckNaked Show! LIVE! Thursday's Midnight EST Daily Grind Radio

03-24-2006, 08:57 PM	#2
xclusive Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Buffalo, NY Posts: 35,218	takes a big man to say they are sorry __________________ I support MediumPimpin.com / Shemp's Outlawtgp.com /

03-24-2006, 09:08 PM	#4
Tam Rude Bitch Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,514	Yup, I agree.... while I didn't expect this and certainly didn't see it coming, I do respect the fact that you stood up and took responsibility for your attacks on me, for whatever reason you did it, hurt feelings or otherwise, this was very big of you to do and I accept your apology and respect you for doing it. I didn't ask for this though, and you didn't need to, but it took a lot for you to do it and I appreciate it. I won't say we'll ever be the best of friends again, but I will say this, this took a lot of courage from you and I know what your pride means to you, you swallowed it here and I see that and respect it. Thank you!! __________________ Get in Touch on Telegram if you need a hardworker - (since 1999) - All About Me!

03-24-2006, 10:14 PM	#5
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	Very, very classy!!