My friends husband abandoned her!!! - Page 2 - GoFuckYourself.com

BradM · 01-31-2006, 05:19 PM

I think I am right. 50.

Mr Pheer · 01-31-2006, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stallion

Thats pretty fucked up on his part.. What a loser..

so quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the story

Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them

dbavaria · 01-31-2006, 05:25 PM

Girls, don't ditch your dreams for him.

reginaldo · 01-31-2006, 05:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

They were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.

What do you guys think she should do?
He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.

They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.

she needs to do the opposite of what she was doing before..

Mr Pheer · 01-31-2006, 05:30 PM

Loryn posted the best advice, pretty much what I would have said if I wasnt too lazy to type all of that for someone I dont know. Living well is the best revenge. And showing someone that you dont need them or give a fuck if they live or die, is a good feeling (for me, anyway)

xxxdesign-net · 01-31-2006, 05:35 PM

What's his nick ?

WME · 01-31-2006, 05:48 PM

some men are not designed for marriage

Bird · 01-31-2006, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

They were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.

What do you guys think she should do?
He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.

They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.

TOM LEYKIS

Hue G. Pness · 01-31-2006, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by WME

some men are not designed for marriage

Not defending the guy in this scenario, but it seems some women are not designed for marriage either. I mean, the woman in question gave up a promising future, a scholarship, and who knows what else at the age of 19 to marry and move around with some dude. This is not a very bright idea if you ask me. Then again I always get a kick out of people that get married so young. Plus, keep in mind, we have not heard both sides of the story.

The issue presented could be true. Then again, it could be the dude split after coming home from work early to find some dudes cock in his wife's mouth. I'm not saying this happened, but you never know in these cases. It's easy to take sides when you only hear one side and don't know the facts.

Who really knows what happened. However, I agree with a few others. What good is posting this shit here going to do? Get advice from a bunch of arm chair lawyers and people who have no idea how to deal with relationships? I would like to think that if my friend asked me to post something like this, as thier friend, I would explain to them why this would not be a good idea. Then as thier friend I would try to help them figure things out on a personal level. I don't think I'd ask for advice from a board called "Go Fuck Yourself" that's for sure.

Nismo · 01-31-2006, 06:01 PM

The couple in question is xlogger and Kyle Hoppes. They are breaking up.

wyldblyss · 01-31-2006, 06:24 PM

There are always two sides to every story. My advice applies to any and all women.

1. If he lays a hand on your, leave.
2. Never give up your independance or your future for anyone.
3. Making it on your own just takes determination and hard work, it IS Possible.

On a personal note it appears your friend is in the adult business, there is no reason why she can't make a living doing it. You can't make someone love you nor can you make them want to be with you. If they don't want to love you or be with you GOOD...that means they are not the person for you and move on.

Cat for cash · 01-31-2006, 06:56 PM

Yep, have her fuck his best friend and/or brother. Then, set fire to his clothes.

Stallion · 01-31-2006, 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrPheer

so quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the story

Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them

If he was hitting her then he is a loser. Reguardless of what else he did. In my book you are scum of the earth if you hit your wife or girlfriend.

EdgeXXX · 01-31-2006, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Bird

TOM LEYKIS

Gesundheit

Big Red Machine · 01-31-2006, 07:16 PM

I'd like to hear his side of the story. Alot of guys get bashed by bitter ex's.
She sounds like a catch, coming from a biased friend. I mean no disrespect by this just would need all sides to decide

adultchica · 01-31-2006, 07:21 PM

If the guy hit her, she's better off, period.

She will find someone better down the road

Spunky · 01-31-2006, 07:27 PM

Sounds like she should have left him a long time ago..she will find someone better..hopefully the courts will give her what's owed to her

fr0gman · 01-31-2006, 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

What do you guys think she should do?

Hit me up on ICQ. I have a suggestion.

Anal Hobbit · 01-31-2006, 07:29 PM

Is she hot??????

Pics.....

She could come shack up with the Hobbit.

aico · 01-31-2006, 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

She ASKED me to post this, please read hun.

My friends ask me to do thing all the time, and when it's a bad idea, I tell them, and don't do it. They do the same for me...

I know how to read hun

Alphonso · 01-31-2006, 08:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.

i would like to hear his side of the story

i hope this is not off topic but cooking, cleaning, laundry, and never denying sex is a women job but the stupid fatass feminist changed all that if i see a feminist i would headbutt them

iwantchixx · 01-31-2006, 09:27 PM

SO who paid for the house though?

Pornwolf · 01-31-2006, 09:49 PM

I can only think of a few couples in that age bracket that post here.

Eservices2k3 · 01-31-2006, 11:14 PM

So, are you goin to name names or what? If not, why not simply leave it as a friend of yours as opposed to stating that she's part of the GFY community?

Something tells me she wasn't exactly the peach you're making her out to be. You basically described a robot. But hey, if she is in fact made of wires, please send her to me. Got lots of work that needs to be done over here. Thanks.

Webby · 01-31-2006, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Loryn-Adult.com

Go back to school and start over. Fuck him who cares about it. She obviously saw red flags if he called her names and hit her and she chose to ignore them. The best revenge is to forget. Tell her to move to a new town, start a new life. If she was capable of taking care of a grown child and his abuse she is strong enough to start over. Key thing I would do is hit the gym. Make it my new religion. It will relieve stress, give her more energy and make her feel better. Then go back to school and work hard. If she enjoys school and finds a job she likes then she will enjoy school and work and have fun while doing both. The gym is a big thing. It helps increase positive thoughts and will help her keep her energy level up.

Life is too short! She, from you said, has already given up part of her life to him, why give the rest to him by fighting and chasing. MOVE AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. That means no calls no nothing. BYE BYE SAILOR!

Don't care whether married or good friends - ya never shit on your partner or your friends. And you sure as hell don't steal from them. If there's a problem - you work it out whether you like it or not and, if possible, continue as friends.

Only thing I'd add to your post - dump the baggage. It may not be easy, but don't carry that forward in future life. We all got only one life - so make the most of it.

uno · 02-01-2006, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by LittleC

Get a laywer, screw his best friend, drive him over with your car and if he still stands - hehe drive backwarts !

Jeffrey Ross
I miss her sometimes...

I ran into my ex-girlfriend the other day. Then I backed up, and ran into her again. I miss her sometimes...

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nismo

The couple in question is xlogger and Kyle Hoppes. They are breaking up.

Sorry I don't know them so no I'm not talking about them. I have no clue who Kyle Hoppes is.

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 12:40 PM

She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.

I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
I need to work on my masters.
I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.

Ice · 02-01-2006, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.

I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
I need to work on my masters.
I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.

Thanks for the update.... sounds like she is on the right track

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 12:46 PM

I think she is allso but I don't think she'll be able to get any of the $$ from the sale of the house.

NetRodent · 02-01-2006, 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.

You should still go talk to a lawyer. Most lawyers won't charge you for an initial consultation. Many lawyers will take on cases without an upfront fee, in exchange for a portion of the winnings.

Tom_PM · 02-01-2006, 12:57 PM

Yeah I'd say STILL go see a lawyer about suing for the divorce, plus whatever else. If it's a strong case, they'll be paid if they win anyway right? Let THEM decide if you can afford them or not.

Jakke PNG · 02-01-2006, 01:00 PM

So she cheated on him?

jennym · 02-01-2006, 01:27 PM

They are married....he can't just take what he wants and leave. She definitely needs to see a lawyer.

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

So she cheated on him?

Hell no she has been only with him, she was only 19 when they got together.

Jakke PNG · 02-01-2006, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

Hell no she has been only with him, she was only 19.

Well, everyone else assumed something.. I figured I might as well.

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 01:43 PM

You know what they say about assuming.

Jakke PNG · 02-01-2006, 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

You know what they say about assuming.

It's good for the soul?

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 01:52 PM

Yea, LMFAO! I love you now I just had a good laugh.

Big Red Machine · 02-01-2006, 01:57 PM

So she's only 26.... goto a lawyer get her fair share. Then put it behind her she has her whole life ahead of her, and avoid controlling ,domineering men.
Leason learned be it the hard way, just learn from your mistakes

Nightnday · 02-01-2006, 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

What do you guys think she should do?
He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.

A contract killer maybe?

O MARINA · 02-01-2006, 03:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aico

Not having a friend post her personal shit on an adult webmaster forum would be my first suggestion.

No class.

hey Aico, this is not related to this thread but I sent ya an email.
Holla back....

Eservices2k3 · 02-01-2006, 03:18 PM

Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?

TurboAngel · 02-01-2006, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Eservices2k3

Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?

Sorry no, I don't know them. She'll post in this thread in the next few day's, she doesn't have a pc or internet right now.

Quagmire · 02-01-2006, 04:32 PM

I dunno whats wrong with that dude. getting laid, getting fed, getting laundry done. What else do you need?

chase · 02-01-2006, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Eservices2k3

Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?

They're not breaking up; and they've just celebrated their first wedding anniversary.

Eservices2k3 · 02-01-2006, 04:49 PM

Good deal, was just a guess. Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. Lenny.

everestcash · 02-01-2006, 04:52 PM

guy is a jerk

Wiggles · 02-01-2006, 05:00 PM

whats his side of the story?

reynold · 02-02-2006, 04:42 AM

It's time to hire the lawyer, go to a Family Court, and file for a civila action/petition to divorce.

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01-31-2006, 07:16 PM	#65
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Mr Pheer So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 21,582	Loryn posted the best advice, pretty much what I would have said if I wasnt too lazy to type all of that for someone I dont know. Living well is the best revenge. And showing someone that you dont need them or give a fuck if they live or die, is a good feeling (for me, anyway)

01-31-2006, 05:35 PM	#56
xxxdesign-net My hips don't lie Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 10,129	What's his nick ?

01-31-2006, 06:24 PM	#61
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	There are always two sides to every story. My advice applies to any and all women. 1. If he lays a hand on your, leave. 2. Never give up your independance or your future for anyone. 3. Making it on your own just takes determination and hard work, it IS Possible. On a personal note it appears your friend is in the adult business, there is no reason why she can't make a living doing it. You can't make someone love you nor can you make them want to be with you. If they don't want to love you or be with you GOOD...that means they are not the person for you and move on.

01-31-2006, 06:56 PM	#62
Cat for cash Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 11	Yep, have her fuck his best friend and/or brother. Then, set fire to his clothes.

01-31-2006, 07:29 PM	#69
Anal Hobbit So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Old Skool GFY Negro Posts: 2,308	Is she hot?????? Pics..... She could come shack up with the Hobbit.

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01-31-2006, 11:14 PM	#74
Eservices2k3 Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 361	So, are you goin to name names or what? If not, why not simply leave it as a friend of yours as opposed to stating that she's part of the GFY community? Something tells me she wasn't exactly the peach you're making her out to be. You basically described a robot. But hey, if she is in fact made of wires, please send her to me. Got lots of work that needs to be done over here. Thanks. __________________ "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest" "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it" -Bob Marley

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TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread. I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life. I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money. I need to work on my masters. I got a job and I still can't make ends meet. I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for. I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.

02-01-2006, 12:46 PM	#80
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	I think she is allso but I don't think she'll be able to get any of the $$ from the sale of the house.

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Tom_PM Porn Meister Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 16,443	Yeah I'd say STILL go see a lawyer about suing for the divorce, plus whatever else. If it's a strong case, they'll be paid if they win anyway right? Let THEM decide if you can afford them or not. __________________ 43-922-863 Shut up and play your guitar.

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Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	So she cheated on him? __________________ ..and I'm off.

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jennym Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Location: the south Posts: 1,622	They are married....he can't just take what he wants and leave. She definitely needs to see a lawyer.

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TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	You know what they say about assuming.

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Big Red Machine Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: XXXBigRed@Twitter Posts: 9,586	So she's only 26.... goto a lawyer get her fair share. Then put it behind her she has her whole life ahead of her, and avoid controlling ,domineering men. Leason learned be it the hard way, just learn from your mistakes __________________ ICQ:475437214

02-01-2006, 03:18 PM	#93
Eservices2k3 Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 361	Mr. and Mrs. Lenny? __________________ "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest" "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it" -Bob Marley

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Eservices2k3 Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 361	Good deal, was just a guess. Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. Lenny. __________________ "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest" "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it" -Bob Marley

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02-02-2006, 04:42 AM	#100
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	It's time to hire the lawyer, go to a Family Court, and file for a civila action/petition to divorce.