How would your dad react if you brought home a black girl? - GoFuckYourself.com

marty · 12-26-2005, 04:42 PM

I'm white and mean no disrespect to anyone with this post but this issue has recently come up and I wanted to know how the rest of the world feels.

I'm modern enough to accept cross race relations but my father would chuck an absolute fit.

It's not only for blacks but for asians, indians, mediteranians, eskimos and latinas too.

Lycanthrope · 12-26-2005, 04:59 PM

Most families, or rather most members of any family, regardless of race, will at least silently object to an interracial relationship.

I will say this though - my ex-girlfriend's family (black), was far more tolerant of our relationship than was my family (white). Some of her family gave us shit at first, but once they realized who / what I was, things were pretty cool. I am actually still good friends with her, her brother and a few of cousins. Now my family never said anything to me, outloud anyway, but there is a feeling you just get when you know people are displeased.

There are two forms of racism - 1) the blatant outspoken type, which can be easily dismissed as ignorance or cleared up after some getting-to-know-you and 2) the quiet stab them in the back type, which if far more damaging.

Bluewire Ross · 12-26-2005, 05:01 PM

a very sensitive issue...that should have been long resolve...it's sad that this thing still exist!

Persignup Qon · 12-26-2005, 05:03 PM

my parents have very little influence in my life... i really don't care what they'd think

Babagirls · 12-26-2005, 05:04 PM

i know the question was geared towards the fellas but my dad would shoot me if i brought a black man home lol

devilspost · 12-26-2005, 05:14 PM

My dad would say who the hell are you and wtf is this nigga doing on my porch.

wdsguy · 12-26-2005, 05:23 PM

he would want a peice of the action.

DEA - banned for life · 12-26-2005, 05:23 PM

Depends on how much she cost...anything over $100 bucks and im pretty sure he would be pissed!

tristan_D · 12-26-2005, 05:24 PM

watch Guess Who's Coming To Dinner and take note of Spencer Tracy's long speech at the end of the movie.

reynold · 12-26-2005, 07:11 PM

As long as it's Thandi Newton, he said it doesn't matter..

Spunky · 12-26-2005, 07:13 PM

He wouldn't care as long as I was happy..he probably would want a piece

viki · 12-26-2005, 07:15 PM

I grew up in a Russian/Jewish household and a Russian Jewish boy is exactly what my parents want for me and my sister. I've been with my American WASP for about four years now and they tolerate him pretty well. Conversely, my sister has only dated Russian Jews and they couldn't stand a single one.

Bringing home a black man would be bad enough, but bringing home a black girl would get me killed!

2HousePlague · 12-26-2005, 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by viki

I grew up in a Russian/Jewish household and a Russian Jewish boy is exactly what my parents want for me and my sister. I've been with my American WASP for about four years now and they tolerate him pretty well. Conversely, my sister has only dated Russian Jews and they couldn't stand a single one.

Bringing home a black man would be bad enough, but bringing home a black girl would get me killed!

lesson: close your eyes, perceive *essence* and make your choice from there.

$5 submissions · 12-26-2005, 07:25 PM

I am Filipino-American. When I brought home my white girlfriend back in high school, my extremely conservative Filipino parents booted me out of the house. It was quite a jarring experience.... to say the least. My parents were very much anti-interracial dating.

Grapesoda · 12-26-2005, 07:40 PM

I'd be a bit more concermed if good old dad 'came back to life' myself

sfera · 12-26-2005, 07:43 PM

id do what i want, dont need anyones permission

butterflybucks · 12-26-2005, 07:44 PM

My parents are cool people. They'd accept anyone I'd bring home.

Martin · 12-26-2005, 09:19 PM

well since none of my family are red neck bumkins assholes. They wouldn't give too shits. If im happy they're happy.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life · 12-26-2005, 09:21 PM

I am white and i would love to have a black girlfriend, and my father would not mind at all.

Doctor Dre · 12-26-2005, 09:21 PM

He certainly wouldn't see any problems with it ... ;) He'd joke arround but thoses would just be what they are, jokes.

bliket · 12-26-2005, 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DEA

Depends on how much she cost...anything over $100 bucks and im pretty sure he would be pissed!

Marshal · 12-26-2005, 11:12 PM

he would say: "welcome here!" :D

Slap Dot · 12-26-2005, 11:20 PM

Probably make a bunch of jokes and look at her ass every time she turned around. My grandfather on the other hand would flip his lid. He's an 89 year old from MD.

reed_4 · 12-26-2005, 11:41 PM

My dad would probably kick me out and will no longer treat me as part of the family.

Yngwie · 12-27-2005, 12:04 AM

my entire family would not object. my dad would not care about the race of the girl I would bring home.

cmos · 12-27-2005, 12:30 AM

If its a nice girl I dont think its a problem.

baddog · 12-27-2005, 12:32 AM

my parents would not care, I have done worse

12-26-2005, 04:42 PM	#1
marty Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 1,656	How would your dad react if you brought home a black girl? I'm white and mean no disrespect to anyone with this post but this issue has recently come up and I wanted to know how the rest of the world feels. I'm modern enough to accept cross race relations but my father would chuck an absolute fit. It's not only for blacks but for asians, indians, mediteranians, eskimos and latinas too.

12-26-2005, 04:59 PM	#2
Lycanthrope Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 4,517	Most families, or rather most members of any family, regardless of race, will at least silently object to an interracial relationship. I will say this though - my ex-girlfriend's family (black), was far more tolerant of our relationship than was my family (white). Some of her family gave us shit at first, but once they realized who / what I was, things were pretty cool. I am actually still good friends with her, her brother and a few of cousins. Now my family never said anything to me, outloud anyway, but there is a feeling you just get when you know people are displeased. There are two forms of racism - 1) the blatant outspoken type, which can be easily dismissed as ignorance or cleared up after some getting-to-know-you and 2) the quiet stab them in the back type, which if far more damaging. __________________

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DEA - banned for life V.I.P. Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: InYour Head Posts: 7,886	Depends on how much she cost...anything over $100 bucks and im pretty sure he would be pissed!

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12-26-2005, 07:15 PM	#12
viki Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,640	I grew up in a Russian/Jewish household and a Russian Jewish boy is exactly what my parents want for me and my sister. I've been with my American WASP for about four years now and they tolerate him pretty well. Conversely, my sister has only dated Russian Jews and they couldn't stand a single one. Bringing home a black man would be bad enough, but bringing home a black girl would get me killed! __________________ viki [at] realsexcash [dot] com 228 263 454

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$5 submissions I help you SUCCEED Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Pearl of the Orient Seas Posts: 32,195	I am Filipino-American. When I brought home my white girlfriend back in high school, my extremely conservative Filipino parents booted me out of the house. It was quite a jarring experience.... to say the least. My parents were very much anti-interracial dating. __________________ Need a NON-ADULT income stream? We build your YOUTUBE CHANNEL for only $20 per video! For Hire: $3/hour or $400 per month Marketing Specialist Virtual Assistants

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Grapesoda So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Montana Posts: 46,238	I'd be a bit more concermed if good old dad 'came back to life' myself

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12-26-2005, 09:19 PM	#18
Martin "Assassins" Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: At home Posts: 17,277	well since none of my family are red neck bumkins assholes. They wouldn't give too shits. If im happy they're happy. __________________

12-26-2005, 09:21 PM	#19
Mr.Right - Banned For Life I guarantee it Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 18,314	I am white and i would love to have a black girlfriend, and my father would not mind at all.

12-26-2005, 11:12 PM	#22
Marshal Biz Dev and SEO Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 15,186	he would say: "welcome here!" :D

12-26-2005, 11:20 PM	#23
Slap Dot Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: BASS Posts: 3,168	Probably make a bunch of jokes and look at her ass every time she turned around. My grandfather on the other hand would flip his lid. He's an 89 year old from MD. __________________ » AIM: slapdotted » Skype: slapdot » ICQ: 190444

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reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	My dad would probably kick me out and will no longer treat me as part of the family. __________________

12-27-2005, 12:04 AM	#25
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12-27-2005, 12:30 AM	#26
cmos Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 268	If its a nice girl I dont think its a problem.

12-27-2005, 12:32 AM	#27
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	my parents would not care, I have done worse