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escorpio 12-17-2005 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MrPheer
Where I come from, its very insulting to refuse a gift from someone.

I would not be offended if someone I gave a gift to exchanged it for something else, but I would be offended if they outright refused it.

Agreed. Refusing a gift is an insult and shows a total lack of class.

emthree 12-17-2005 09:00 PM

NoCarrier, why are you riding Sleazy's dick so hard in this thread?

Hey You . . . I Know You! 12-17-2005 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Trixie Racer
Instead of being hurt or offended when someone does not want your gift, you should appreciate his/her honesty. :thumbsup


I once tried to give our hot receptionist a kiss for Christmas . . . she was hurt and offended. I appreciated her honesty, but the lawsuit was totally unnecessary.

Next time, I'll just be safe and get her something from Victoria's Secret.

NoCarrier 12-17-2005 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by emthree
NoCarrier, why are you riding Sleazy's dick so hard in this thread?

You have sick gay fantasies. But I only prefer girls sorry.

But since you seem to like it with men, don't be shy, you should ask Sleazydream yourself. I am sure he'll say yes.

d00t 12-17-2005 10:04 PM

Does this same employee give back their salary to you as well? If not...

On a physiological level this means "hey, ill take everything from you that I can get, and give you back the crap I don't want"

Imagine when this employee applies that same logic to sensitive infomation about your business.

This shows their true loyalty to you is either very low, or that they don't respect you enough, or that they know you're a pushover. All comes back to respect really.

You don't want a dis-respectful employee regardless of how hot good looking they may be. If this is the case, you would be smart to "re-distribute" them ASAP.
The last thing you want is for them, or other employees to think they can push you around.

Hey You . . . I Know You! 12-17-2005 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MrPheer
People these days are greedy and selfish and forget that its not the gift, its the thought that counts.

So, if the "gift giver" was giving zero thought to the actual gift(s) and was just using award points from some affiliate program that they were never going to use anyway?

Then, can you just say, "No, thank you."????

Peaches 12-17-2005 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly
I wouldn't exactly consider regifting being "gracious" either. My mom would skin me if she ever caught me doing that. In my opinion, regifting behind someone's back is even more rude than giving a gift back.

This situation really depends on how the gift was given back. There are ways to give back gifts, and there are ways to not give back gifts.

Erm, that's the whole point - the person who originally gave you the gift doesn't know you actually put the gift to good use :winkwink:

What else do you do with a gift you don't want/need? Mine either go to charity (the marble candlestick holders that weigh about 10 pounds each) or I regift (someone gave me a sterling silver dachshund charm necklace, my Mom has a dachshund so I regifted to her) or it sits there doing absolutely no one any good - I'd rather someone get some use out of it :)

Mr Pheer 12-17-2005 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Hey You . . . I Know You!
So, if the "gift giver" was giving zero thought to the actual gift(s) and was just using award points from some affiliate program that they were never going to use anyway?

Then, can you just say, "No, thank you."????

Well, I cant speak for Sleazy, dont know him and never met him. But I can say that if I think of someone highly enough to give them a gift, I'm also going to put some thought into the gift to. I dont know if Sleazy did that or not (I didnt read every post in the thread) but I would be hurt and offended if I gave a gift to someone and they didnt accept it.

emthree 12-17-2005 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by NoCarrier
You have sick gay fantasies. But I only prefer girls sorry.

But since you seem to like it with men, don't be shy, you should ask Sleazydream yourself. I am sure he'll say yes.

What?

I'm not the dick rider here. Sleazy must really be getting to you.
Looks like you have this thread bookmarked or something. Fucking weirdo. :2 cents:

OY 12-17-2005 11:03 PM

Sleazy - you have an enormous amount of drama in your life.

Sack her.

Marshal 12-18-2005 12:52 AM

that's no good... :D

ServerGenius 12-18-2005 12:59 AM

Let me be the first..........This thread is useless without pics :xmas-smil

edit: Did you perhaps give a Louis Vuiton purse to a straight single guy?

SomeCreep 12-18-2005 05:22 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream
nope - they said thye didn't have room for it. my thoughts are - re-gift the fucking thing then to someone else

If they had no one else to give it to, then perhaps they would've just thrown it away. So instead, they're thinking, I'll give it back to him so he can return it and at least get his money back.

SomeCreep 12-18-2005 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Brad Mitchell
That's very strange. Otherwise, shoot, who doesn't need new luggage?!

:)

Brad

I definitely dont. I have 2 - 3 luggage bags and that's all I ever use. Why would I need more luggage bags? They're quite bulky.

NoCarrier 12-18-2005 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by emthree
What?

Don't be shy and stop denyint it, we all know you want him. Just ask him, I'm sure he will let you suck his cock.

Hey You . . . I Know You! 12-18-2005 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Peaches
I regift (someone gave me a sterling silver dachshund charm necklace, my Mom has a dachshund so I regifted to her) or it sits there doing absolutely no one any good - I'd rather someone get some use out of it :)


Although I promised your mother I wouldn't tell you, she was offended by that crap gift. She discovered that it wasn't sterling and that it wasn't originally meant for her.

Why would someone give you a silver colored dachshund anyway? What kind of gift is that? Why were you not offended at their thoughtlessness?


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