100 :glugglug

I had problems with live365 who I was running my station from ripping me off. So, I had to cancel the account. Once I come back from the States after Thanksgiving I will be looking to start it up again. Anyone need a dj? lol

I was Rick James's bitch for the night.

12. Where do you get/do these fetish surveys?

Like I said before, I hunted down surfer forums and mailing lists for various fetishes and started there. I also bought some small advertising in some fetish publications. In addition to all that, when I started I asked around the boards and some webmasters that run feitsh related sites or communities helped me by asking their surfers to respond. The people over at bondage.com were particuarly helpful.

**** SHAMEFUL PLUG ALERT **** If anyone runs any websites, yahoo groups, communities, newsletters, etc that are related to any fetish and would be willing to tel your surfers about my survey PLEASE let me know. The more information I have the better.

13. Have you ever had your ties sucked?

I've had the ties of my pvc garments sucked if that counts ;) Really though, I have had my toes sucked and I have had various entertaining things done to me with other people's toes.

For some reason I find having my toes sucked more stressful than being gone down own. I always worry that they would smell or something even after a shower but they must have been okay as they came back for seconds.

It isn't something I ask for but it if happens I won't stop it.

Easily amused or just a dick rider?

i didnt get one of the previous answers... do you have AIDS?

yes/no

Apparently you need a reading aid.

I learned while meeting 3 people that Scott interviewed and it's the same story; they all know it's coming. That being said, I give a :thumbsup to Sarah for taking it like a pro. Great reading.
PS: I'd hit it. :pimp

those are good questions

WOW, Sarah is totally cool!! Been hanging around the same boards for years but seem to know so little about you. Nice getting to know you a little better

Thank you..that is a very sweet thing to say.

That was my understanding too. But there are ways of asking a question without sounding like an ignorant moron.

Sarah is handling them with class as expected.

YES , you know its coming , the ambush part is you dont know what the questions will be :2 cents:

true..it isn't that it will happen but more how it will happen

Good luck with your book, sarah! :)

14. Do you live in a trailer, apt or house? pics. describe

Sort of none of the above. I live in a pretty unique housing estate in South East London called Thamesmead. This place was a housing experiment in the late 60's/ early 70's when London needeed to find a lot of housing and fast. The way this place is laid out is rather unusual in that all the places are connected by a series of walk ways. There is a walk way that goes over to a doctor office and row of shops and originally there was a walk way that went over to a school. The idea was that at no time did anyone have to go down and cross a road. That combined with the fact that the houses were built in a butt ugly concrete gives is a weird feeling.

In fact, this place is so unusual and odd that it was the setting for the film version of A Clockwork Orange. If anyone remember the scene where they attack the bum? Well that parking garage is across the street from me and I do my best not to be there at night.

This place has also been used in a lot of tv shows in the UK but the only other noteable film is 'A Beautiful Thing' which is a gay themed movie version of a play that was actually written about life as a gay teenager in Thamesmead.

I just bought my cam yesterday so I don't have any of my own pics so I had to search the internet for pics of these places. Most of the pics are old so you have to forgive the quality but they demonstrate it.

This first pic isn't my house but it is exactly like it. Mine is a two story that sticks out on the end like this and doesn't share any walls. Most houses here share walls so I love my place for being detached. I moved here because my husbad lived here..I stay because I am close to London and my rent is sinfully low for this size of a place in London.

http://sjayne.com/thamesmead2.jpg

This pic shows the walkways:

http://sjayne.com/thamesmead3.jpg

This old pic is taken from across the street from me. Most of the Clockwork Orange bits were filmed over there and that parking garage I was talking about is under there. In addition there is a dogging site under there - or so I have been told.

My place is peaking out in the very distance of the pic at the end of the long walkway. You can just see the top of it hiden behind the row of houses on the right:


http://sjayne.com/thamesmead1.jpg

Thank you :)

Yes, we know it is coming, we just don't know the questions that will be asked.

Is that a yes?

15. What kind of car do you drive? pics

http://sjayne.com/londonbus.jpg




That pic pretty much sums it up. I don't drive. I was about to go for my licence when I was 17 and my mother decided she didn't want me to get it (very over protective). The next year I moved to a city and I have lived in cities ever since where I didn't need a car. My flatmate has a car so I now have access to one for grocery shopping for the first time in a decade and I have to admit I like it so I might learn at some point.

There are two things I learned from doing HIV/AIDS education. The first is never to have sex without a condom outside of a committed relationship and the second is that there are a lot of ignorant people in the world. The first thing is a rule I have never broken and the second you continue to reinforce for me.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh
Now that reminds my of my family ... all teachers (mostly university), business mans, mostly hagning out with doctors and other teachers lol

Yup...many hours of my youth spent in a room full of off-duty teachers. It certainly impacts your outlook on education.

damn tofu really does like the BIG girls.

Loves them...and better than most.

I love the "flatmate" expression lol

so you do have AIDS..

Just makes you love to learn new things ... so many people hate learning because it makes them feal stupid or something ... it shouldn't be like that.

great interview

If I did have AIDS why would you care?

Exactly and a good teacher would help them not to feel stupid regardless of their level of intellegence.

umm....hello! A little station called; bbwradio.com, where the people LOVE you!
:helpme

I know babe and I will be back there when I get back from the States. The same thing happened with both of them. Something went nuts with my firewall and I couldn't get on shoutcast.

I promise you I will be back. I miss playing my songs and chatting with you and the audience about them. I enjoy that bit as much as playing them.

now playing: I Wanna Be Your Lover - Prince.

16. What exactly do you do for WebInc?

Webinc and Wishing.com :) Both are owned by the same people. For Webinc and do customer support and am the public face on the boards,etc and for Wishing.com I am affiliate relations for the affiliate promoting our pill products. Essentially, I am the person people hit up on icq and email when they need a qoute, want to place an order or if they need help or information promoting our products.

Webinc and Wishing.com place a high priority on having a high quality product and recognize customer service is part of that product. I always try my best to give the best public image I can for Webinc and Wishing.com because I want to reflect the quality people associate with the companies. I think it is important to behave in public forums and such as a buisness person so that people don't every have to think twice about if they trust you and by relation if they trust the company.

Webinc and the team here are a fantastic bunch of people. I know everyone says that when they talk about their companies but in my case I mean what I am saying. Todd is the best boss I have had anywhere and he has my loyalty until the end.

17. Have you ever had cybersex? describe the experience.

I have but the vast majority of the times were when I was still on the other side of the ocean from my future husband. Since then I haven't really done it. I think there is something in it that it appealed to me more when I was an actual virgin. Once I had real sex the cyber variety was never going to do it for me again. I like to talk about sex and build up sexual tension but actual cybering isn't for me. Not the least because it is easier for men to type one handed.

Might want to ask Tofu about a cyber orgy but that is the only time I can think of that I even came close in the last decade or so.

18. Are you into anal?

Giving or getting? I do own a strapon and I am not afraid to use it.

With the right partner I enjoy anal sex a great deal. However, it isn't something everyoneis offered (very few in my life actually) because I have to fully trust the person to know they will listen to me if I need them to stop. That said, as long as the partner knows what he is doing I am more than willing to participate.

Just to put you out of your misery, the answer is no.

I don't see why he needed to know either way and how my health status would have effected his life in any way or how I do my job. Thanks setting it straight though :)

19. Are you mad at Lisa Marie for firing you?

Well, again, I wasn't fired. What happened was that Lisa Maire and her husband Les ran Go Postal and Thumblords and some other TGPs. They were the ones that headed up the review team for JJJ. When JJJ stopped using reviewers it hit me hard but hit them much harder. Despite that they tried as best they could to give a lifeline to the reviewers that had lost their jobs. They asked me to do the reviews for Thumblords so I did but she had to sell Thumblords and her and Les made the choice to leave the industry.

I am sad about that because if it wasn't for her I would never have started to work full time in this industry. When I first started playing with the industry in 1998 I briefly tried to start my own tgp and I wrote her an email to Go Postal asking to trade links. She responded and offered me the chance to review galleries and from there I got my foot in the door.

great interview

thank you :)

This thread is disturbing.. wow.

Amazing how smut merchants are so easily disturbed.

20. What kind of AVS work do you do?

I work mainly with CyberAge Platinum sites and Premium sites I use to upsell to the Platinum memberships. The AVS sites I do are all micro-niche or fetish related. I can't sell a teen site for the life of me so years ago I decided to use my knowledge of fetish to help me in AVS. My game plan is to corner the market on small niches that have dedicated followers but that most webmasters don't even know exist. It has worked well for me and makes my work more interesting.

No shit.. as with my last thread things with you keep 'surprising' me to say the least.

Im positive youre a good person (too good probably.. i mean it) in your heart but boy are things fucked up.

You make things difficult for yourself beyond believe and it follows you around everywhere you go and look.

You seem to be the postergirl for bad karma and im not feeling sorry for you:
youre _not_ stupid and weak like most of the people that 'defend' you might think. You should know better than hide yourself behind the misery you indirectly inflict upon yourself.

You need to learn to respect yourself otherwise there will be no more Sarah
in a few years. Start working on it time is running out. And you know it.

Exuse me but Ihave no idea at all what you are talking about. What bad karma have I ever tried to pass off. I don't recall anyone that actuall knows me ever saying that I ever tried to pass myself off as weak and especially not stupid. How did I bring misery onto myself? Answer that.

Now, I have held back on this for a year but go to hell. You are the person that decided after my husband died that you had to pick on something I stupidly posted when I was at a mental low and rake me over the coals for it. You then applied that I didn't love my husband and I believe that even cause a brief theory that my husband didn't actually die.

I should have had a thicker skin on that but the wound of my husband's death was still very raw and you purposly poured salt into it. I then explained myself in that thread and you never even addressed anything I said on the issue and certainly never appolagized.

I tell you one thing I have learned over the last year - to stand up for myself. So, If you don't like my lifestyle then go on and live your own life. If you have something else to say then be a man and say it.

Some people just don't want to learn outside school ... they fucking hate it