Please..for the love of men and those of us who have sane relationships...become a lesbian...you'll be happier.

Was OPRAH just plugged on GFY? :helpme

Lol.... No, I'm a webmaster. But just because I SELL porn on the net doesnt mean I have to live a wild and hedonistic lifestyle. Sorry, but I think a guy getting his dick grinded till he cums is cheating, and sorry but I believe in monogamy and being FAITHFUL.

Porn to me is just product. I don't care wtf I sell as long as it makes money. I don't GIVE A FUCK if other people want to swing or get gangbanged, I ONLY care about things that affect me personally. But in my personal life I expect my significant other to be FAITHFUL to me and not go to strip clubs.

of course not

I remember when Scott took me to the Grand Prix. I heard it's closed now though.

i wouldn't want my girl around a bunch of half naked men grinding on her

I have been to strip clubs in lots of different cities and I have never had an orgasm in one. So I guess I don't cheat but why would you not discuss it before hand? "Honey, if you go don't suck the titties!" Problem solved.

er. no?! To adult businesses, that's like saying the boardroom is off limits! lol

Then again, I am not the type to fuck strippers. I'm in a secure relationship, and my girl knows I'm not going to go run off with anyone. ...so if I go to a strip club at a show with other webmasters, it's no problem.

We actually used to say zip code, but then Atlanta got two new area codes, so you are pretty safe where ever you may be :-)

Matt

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I did not have sexual relations with that woman

because his wife usually has a big fat ass

:2 cents:

No....Neither is Bukkake! :pimp

men are pigs and always want more?

i think most men YOU HAVE KNOWN just regret coming home to a bitch like you.

men are men. woman are woman. we are different animals completely. different needs, wishes desires, fantasies etc. why can't you just accept that we are different? why does a man have to be inferior just because YOU are threatened by his behavior?

and keep thinking you are going to find a guy that's not attracted to naked bodies that aren't yours. how fucking stupid is it for someone to work in porn and have a mentality like that?

I'm guessing you are A: male B: weigh in around 300lbs, or C: carrying every STD known to man.

And no, we're not 'all horny sexual creatures who like to fuck new people every once in a while'.

nope....

She enjoys it more than me :thumbsup

Nope it's still open for business! :thumbsup

Duhhhh.... of course I know that men have fantasies, but there is a difference between having a fantasy and ACTING IT OUT.

Also, the thing about men being different, I really think that women are JUST as horny as men, women just have been conditioned by society to appear more demure and virginal, but now that society is loosening up, men are becoming threatened by women's sexuality.

Basically I don't care what I sell as long as I make money, it's all about money and sex sells best of course! I respect other people's desires to get gangbanged, be swingers, whatever but it's just not for ME. Because I expect someone to be faithful to me doesn't mean that I don't respect other people's rights to be wild or whatever. I am only concerned with what affects me PERSONALLY, I DO NOT CARE about other people's sexual behaviours, only that of my significant other!!

Because people have urges to fuck around doesn't mean they have to fullfill them. That's what makes us different from animals: self-control!

men are becoming threatened by womens sexuality? sorry... seeing my balls dangle from any girls chin is no threat at all. I don't think any other guy see's that as a threat either.

you sound really bitter and spiteful towards men? what happened to you? can we talk about this first? jesus.

woman today are no less sexual than men and no less likely to act on thier impulses and act out their fantasies. and i certainly don't think men are threatened by that... its actually the way we prefer it.

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well that nastyboy dude and that swinger bitch sure did score a few points. props for that. thing is, i dont cheat either, i have self control over myself. but i would be mad as shit if i went through all this trouble to get cheated on. your point of views seem to take away any form of commitment; should we ban marriage? should we have kids with different partners? i think nots; may be its me that's wrong. anyhow i guess its ok for a swinger couple to "cheat" on each other; same principle applies over a faithful couple. and thats when its wrong for ANY (man or woman) of the two to cheat. but you still defended your points very well, although i have not been hurt in the past, nor am i a jealous guy; im actually more independent than anything, but it has served me well thru my relations to this day. take care now.

it definitely is! well, I suppose it depends on your partner, whether she will consider it as cheating or not. As for me, I don't think it's good.

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you're not on this earth to fuck as many bitches as you can, you're here to find a mate, reproduce and care for it's upbringing to make sure your genes are passed on and taken care of.

THAT IS THE MEANING AND GOAL OF LIFE - TO REPRODUCE AND MAKE SURE YOUR OFFSPRING GROWS UP STRONG WITH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER'S SUPPORT.

So to all you professional daters, femanists and haters - go enjoy your 3somes, orgy gangbangs and constant std tests. It might work for you, but there are some things more important in life than seeing how many people you can screw in an hour.

People need to frame this post and hang it on their refrigerators. This is sooooo true. My s/o says EXACTLY the same thing and I couldn't agree more.

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Congrats! That makes you and your s/o two of the most narrow minded, intollerant people on the board :thumbsup where would you like your prize sent?

Morning J-$! Look..I appreciate your stand and if monogamy serves you well you should stick to it. My goal was simply to broaded peoples minds a bit around here. There is no one way for every marriage or relationship. How would everyone here like it if we were made to live by the rules of the church?

My wife and I love and respect eachother on every level. We just experience one part of our lives differently than other people. That in and of itself doesn't make it wrong...just different. I am just amazed that people...especially here...would fault our choice when we have a great mariage.

I am not asking anyone to conform to what works for us..dont ask me to conform to what works for you.

"In America, through pressure of conformity, there is freedom of choice, but nothing to choose from."
Peter Ustinov

"Communism is the death of the soul. It is the organization of total conformity - in short, of tyranny - and it is committed to making tyranny universal."
Adlai E. Stevenson

"Follow the path of the unsafe, independent thinker. Expose your ideas to the danger of controversy. Speak your mind and fear less the label of "crackpot" than the stigma of conformity."
Thomas John Watson, Sr.

"Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth."
John F. Kennedy

"If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity."
John F. Kennedy

This shit is so funny

Well, you're definitely NOT a psychic, toddler!

I'm 28 year old fit woman -- girl-next-door look, and I use condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX with anybody who IS NOT my primary partner. Only idiots who fuck around without using protection get STDs... maybe YOU could tell us about that! Oh wait.. you're probably the type of guy who's too afraid to even get tested for STD's (and yet probably also complains about wearing condoms... LOL)

Hmmm... and you are NOT a horny sexual creature who likes to fuck new people every once in a while? So... how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime... just 1? That would totally explain why you're so frustrated when you see someone like me who gets everything I want in bed without burning in hell for it or contracting any easily avoidable STDs.

I'd wish you a nice life... but it seems that you'd much rather be miserable and unfulfilled!

I didnt watch Oprah, but I say no.. its not cheating

Oprah is an idiot :2 cents:

Because married men want to see OTHER women naked as well :) If you dont, you havent been married long enough.

i like how everyone has "self control" and procliams themselves in the moral right.

maybe you also have a lower than normal sex drive? you're insecure? too shy? horribly unnatractive? erectile dysfunction? heigene issues? have low self esteem and can't approach girls or girls are not attracted to you? maybe you are just an idiot that gets shot down all the time by the opposite sex? maybe you weigh 300 pounds and smell bad?

the list could go on forever.

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Wow, I'm still laughing over some of the replies in this thread...

"cheating" is defined by the people in a relationship. Of course there are other things that make a relationship work, besides fidelity. Things like trust, truthfulness, communication, you know, those other words that define a person's character.

Girls should be soft, and they should smell good. Who doesn't (except for the obvious, which would be gay men) like to be around girls? I've probably been to more strip joints that most of the guys in this thread -- with people from the business and with people I've dated. Do I think it's a big deal? No. Of course I also realize that while some guys may not have it figured out, they are just dollars when a stripper looks at them.

Yes, I know there are strippers that add a little extra in the champagne room, and yes, I know there are strippers that will end up back at the hotel with guys that come into the club.

At the end of the day, in a good relationship, you know what and where the boundaries are, because you've communicated the truth of how you feel about things with your partner, and vice versa. Then you either trust your partner or you don't. And if you don't, there's nothing in your relationship that a stripper can break, since it's already broken.

I don't really understand the swinger lifestyle, more in the fact that it's not something I would choose personally, but I don't condescend to it and I don't judge it. To each his own, and as long as both halves of the relationship are in agreement on the boundaries, then hey, it's no one else's business if you ask me.

There's a reason why Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors...

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! :1orglaugh

A-Fucking-men

I've been to soo many stripjoints lately that its starting to get boring sometimes. Do I tell my girl I went..Yeah, does she care...NO. Why not? cause she trusts me and knows its just entertainment for me.

Haha, I hear you on the boring part.

I think the moral of the story is CHEAT on your partner because he/she will too!
:upsidedow
nah really, the moral is, going to the strip club isnt cheating. actually it helps you not to cheat

I've had this fight more than once in my life...DAMN

So am I the only one here that thinks a bad or "boring" night at the stripclub is one in which no soilage occurs??

I mean if you are in Vegas, and pay all that cash for a dance you better get some soilage.. Some stains.. Something..

Or else whats the point right?



I mean my bud Son Of Rage wears Swim Shorts to the Club for this very reason..

#1 you feel much much more of that VEGAS GRIND with ultra thin swimshorts with no undies.

#2 Its an easy wipe and clean after soilage.

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