going to a strip club here can very quickly become cheating. Sex is legal. And about 60 to 80 for an hour. 30 to 45 for a quickie.

Depends if you partake in extras behind the shades. The club scene in San Francisco are basically brothels masquerading as high class strip clubs, no one goes to these places for anything other than sex.

i'm not allowed within a 1-mile radius of strip clubs anymore

yet i shoot hardcore porn content, so go figure... LOL

depends on whether the strip club is on the outskirts of Montreal or downtown.

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simply going doesn't make it cheating. Cheating implies deception and lies. For example I can go to a club and if I DIDN"T get my dick sucked my wife would be dissapointed.

have her come over to my house while u are out :thumbsup

i agree.

well I didnt read most of the replies but so far i have one guy just saying he disagrees with no argument whatsoever (if being right is ignorant then fuck me silly, or prove me wrong), one guy who thinks im out of whisky, and one bitch (i mean girl) who doesn't believe I am that good looking, and honestly, i cant blame you since this is GFY. my only point here is that women stereotype men as cheaters, when they are way better hypocrites than us. if you wanna live in denial and not admit to yourself that a girl craves the cock just as much as you like pussy, then you'll be happy all your life. and stuck up, and self absorbed. but happy. I still dont see where I was wrong, as no one seems to turn any of my statements around. Now sherie I would like to insist on the 51% part; if you cannot recognize that 51% of women have cheated throughout their whole life, i will eat my own dirty boxers :) this said i will be accepting comments and replying early tomorrow. you take care now children xxx

sometimes we play that game...she goes one place...I go to another then we meet back up and share the stories :thumbsup

You must have been spending all your time in English class looking in the mirror.

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! Freak! :winkwink:

hi there woj :)

No, of course not

damn, missed :)

I'll be there BP! :thumbsup

just started watching :P

1) I feel sorry for you because you hate women
2) Ignorant because you refuse to accept that men do exactly what you say (and correctly so btw) women do.
3) Ignorant because in your world " a pearl" can only be one thing
4) Ignorant because you are defining sexually liberated as "worthles slut"

Someone must have hurt you bad and for that I feel badly but it IS ignorant to now generalize your beliefs into a global fact.

Don't think it's cheating but i could see how females would have a a probelm with it. I wouldn't want my girl going to see some male strippers

I don't think going to the strip club is cheating. I go to the chippendale style strip club shows in Austin, so I'd be a bitch if I told my man he couldn't go to the strip club. He goes every once in a while, and no it's not cheating unless he's fucking her in the parking lot afterward.

I appreciate your stance and find it interesting...can you explain why?

It's cheating if you are doing something that your significant other doesn't accept and you are aware of it.

i'm watching oprah and shes evil.... no wonder so many women who watch that show are unhappy....

Thank God for Tivo! I'll be here at the office all night :Oh crap

Its not cheating if it involves strippers..or hookers...or occurs in a different area code...

Matt

Don't you mean zip code?

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if going to a strip club is cheating well then all married men have cheated. hasn't anyone ever heard of a bachelor party? what the hell do you think goes on there? lol ridiculous.....

People keep trying to mistakenly link romantic love with sexual urges, in that if you "love" your partner enough, all of your sexual urges will simply go away. And how well has THAT theory worked over the past span of human civilization? Even with the threat of death, torture, public humiliation, and such ON TOP of the supposed "love" that married people have for one another, people still fuck around! In fact, I would bet that the more "modern" civilization gets, the more fucking around happens!

There is NOT an inverse relationship between getting my sexual needs met and how much I love my man. My needs are my personal needs for sexual gratification -- and they exist regardless of whether or not I am single or attached. This whole thing that keeps people fearful of sexuality -- their own urges, their partner's potential opportunities for infidelity -- is the big problem, in my opinion!

You know what's funny? I don't hide the fact that I like to fuck around. I'm a kinky bi swinger chick who is former talent. I put that whole "especially if they don't get caught" bit in for all the people who get their action on the side and then get up on their high horse to point their finger at those of us who are honest about what we do.

You mention having to find a pearl among the sluts -- well, you're still fucking the sluts, aren't you! Fucking girls who like to fuck -- and yet women are the evil ones! Do you even see your hypocrisy? Probably not!

In the meantime, I'll just be here having a wild threeway with my b/f and his good buddy and cumming my face off, waiting for an answer from frustrated ol' you!

Just like last year...

Till the sun comes up.. Breakin Daylight at Rhino with the BP4L.

It's different for every couple because everyone couple draws their lines differently, some are even swingers...

but in my opnion I think it's cheating because guys usually end up getting lap dances where the strippers grind them until they come , play with their dicks through their pants while they are giving them a dance and I heard that some guys even wear a condom during the dance in case they cum. Sorry, to say but I think this is cheating and on par with prostitution.

If the guy goes to a classy place and just WATCHES the stage, then that's fine. But if a guy gets physical contact with the stripper grinding him until he gets or orgasm and plays with his dick, that to me is cheating.

There are forums on-line where guys even ask each other which stripclub to go to get the best "mileage" and which dancers are the best at giving didrty dances and making them orgasm... It's not innocently just looking at naked women on the stage and just giving tips, they are getting physical contact.

How would you feel if your significant other just got dry hunped by a stranger? And if you don't like the thought of that, WHY would it make it any different if the stripper was getting paid for it? It's the same thing to me, except when a guy goes to a stripper the INTENT is usually to get off.

Also, the guys don't just get dances, the strippers sit on their laps usually, and kiss their cheeks, stroke their faces and talk to them. In my opinion that is totally inappropiate when you are in a relationship.

All that money the guy is spending on strippers should go to his girlfriend or wife. GUYS, how would you like it if your girl spends her money on random men she doesn't even know? It's betrayal on more levels than one, and can
be a dealbraker in a relationship.

Also for the guys that go to strip clubs, if you do that, I hope you feel fine if your girl goes to a club and gets grinded by a studly male until she cums.... there should be NO double standards.

Great insightful posts, Jackie! And welcome to the board!

another fucked up response full of conjecture....geez!

I hope not otherwise my wife and I are cheating on eachother together... :uhoh

isnt that what their there for,so you dont cheat,you can go and get lapdance or two and get it out of your system right?

Only if the guy isnt black!

Other than that.. Grind away!

That would be another way of cheating. why going to those kinds of places which you know in the first place that you will be having a contact with those flirty sluts? once you get there you know already what to happen and that to me is the cheating part...why go there if you have your girl already? just to have fun? i don't think that would be fun if one day you will discover that your girl is also doing that??? guys think first of your partner before getting into a very complicated thing....think of the "what if's" before doing something.

You are 100% correct...

Now about the sites that give the reviews about milage, can you post that??

It could be intresting.. Just to look at that is..

And second, I think its ok to spend the money on the stripper If There is enough money to go around and you arent taking it from your gal its ok..

In my book, $200.00 for a good Grind is ok..

Anymore and its too much..

With the drycleaning bill and the admission to get into the club, I feel anything under 300.00 is a great deal..

Unless the girl is Black, Asian, Or Mexican.. Then Id skim 35% or so off that figure.

ding ding ding...we have another winner :321GFY

I still feel it's cheating and wrong! Even if you can justify the payments ...

The only way to circumvent this problem is to find a man who doesn't go to strip clubs and fuck whores, make sure that YOURS is one that doesn't, because if he is one that DOES he will not change no matter what. I have learned this the hard way. The majority of men do like to go to strip clubs and fuck whores on the side (and thereby endangering the lives of their girlfriends and wives with deadly diseases).

Now if a guy was in a strip club and some drunk stripper started to suck his dick for free in VIP, would any man have the willpower to say no? It's better not to put yourself in that situation in the first place. And some strippers DO date their customers, I have heard of this happening ocassionally.

As for the sites, I did A LOT of research on strip clubs and read sites like stripperweb.com, and usasexguide.info (that's where I found posts about whores and strip clubs) and to reveal the TRUE nature of men. A lot of these men are married too and post tips on how to fool their wives and think up excuses so they don't get caught. They are all pigs!

Fact is most men are pigs and always want more, they are never happy and appreciate what they have.