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TheMob · 10-10-2005, 07:23 PM

The first time I ever saw porn... or at least I could recognize as pron... was during a garage sale for my grandmother. My grandfather had passed away and my grandmother was selling the house and all of her old crap. I came across a box of playing cards. The images on the cards were not of the normal pictures. They were of naked ladies. Later I was to find out from some of my older cousins that my grandfather had always had porn magazines and such in his office.

Then skip forward a few years. My family got the internet and as any young curious boy, I found porn. At first it was just sort of a curious "I know I'm not supposed to be looking at this" sort of feeling but it eventually grew into more.

Being a computer geek, I was also able to find out that my father had been viewing internet porn. I wanted to know for sure so I used a program called pcAnywhere to both see what he saw on his screen and if I so chose to, take over his computer entirely. I had blocked a few of the sites he regularly went to so I saw him bring up Yahoo and search for other sites. Immediately I took control of his computer and typed "Dad please stop." Then the computer shut off and I heard him pacing back and forth upstairs (I lived in a modified basement at the time).

We never spoke about it. But now I've seen the effects strongly in my life. I've become addicted to porn.

Occasionally I can get a stronghold on it and stop for a few days, a week, even a month at a time but it ALWAYS comes back. I've tried getting help from friends but more often than not they look upon it as a "sensitive subject" and never are faithful to hold me accountable.

I don't know what to do. I saw that this site has an accountability program but I know myself and I know how to find ways around those things so if the temptation became too hard, I know I could just fool the system.

I just feel lost. I feel that I can't do God's will because of this thing hanging over me constantly.

I found a wonderful girl who I have every intention of marrying once I can afford the ring, but I wonder how I can be a husband (or right now a good boyfriend) if I'm constantly cheating on her with internet porn. I don't want to be like my father and sometimes I asolutely hate him for this family curse.

I just don't know what to do.

// Sheesh. That was from http://www.*********.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=14984

People are strange!

nastyboy1 · 10-10-2005, 07:29 PM

I feel bad for the kid...ANYTHING that consumes our thoughts and effects our work, relationships etc is a problem....but addiction..NOT

Perhaps the church and its imposed guilt are more of a problem than the "porn"

On a lighter note..I'm wonder if the ********* will post the picture set Brandi and I just did with one of their shirts " Jesus Loves Pornstars Too"

mikeet · 10-10-2005, 07:36 PM

Looking at porn on the internet is cheating on your girlfriend??? is it ...

Spunky · 10-10-2005, 07:41 PM

It defiantly can be considered an addiction like gambling ..

TheMob · 10-10-2005, 07:43 PM

he could've had more fun than 'dad please stop' though..

like 'son, please stop'

mikeet · 10-10-2005, 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spunky

It defiantly can be considered an addiction like gambling ..

You do have a point i guess.

bhutocracy · 10-10-2005, 07:46 PM

"sometimes I asolutely hate him for this family curse."

religion is far worse than porn... look at this poor fuck, something so natural is bent into making him hate his dad... I'd feel bad for him if he wasn't such a cocksucking zealot.. any kid of mine that hijacked my computer to stop me looking at porn would be grounded indefinately.

BeatingSkull · 10-10-2005, 07:48 PM

what's wrong with those people? Addicted to porn?? i'm on my computer almost all the time looking at porn & i'm not addicted.

but GFY is an addiction.. we need GFY'ers anonymous

Adult Site Traffic · 10-10-2005, 07:48 PM

I was actually pretty good friends with a pastor who was addicted to porn. He lost his marriage, his church and all of his money to porn and he had to move to hell. I mean California.

But then a lot of people have lost more than that to heroin, gambling and horses.

I play the porn game and horses and I haven't lost too much. I sure have lost a lot of nickles to those Arizona Indians though..

I guess I recognize when too many nickles is enough nickles for a while.

Some people can't.

.

LiveDose · 10-10-2005, 07:50 PM

He should become a sperm donor. He'll be a millionaire in a year...

BeatingSkull · 10-10-2005, 07:57 PM

do you think they'll see the hits in their server logs & come over & try to convert us & make us repent from our evil ways

........

where's theo the theologian.. he's a pretty chaste man & he like porn too

DWB · 10-10-2005, 08:05 PM

Yea, that internet porn is a bitch. i'm sure god will understand.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-10-2005, 08:09 PM

Yeah thats the typical Religeous preaching now a days.

They think porn is a "Drug" of some sort and it is "Addictive". Thats what clergy are telling people these days, and you know how it goes.

If it is said enough people will believe it.

nofx · 10-10-2005, 08:11 PM

he should just put a gun to his temple and blow his brains out

just another dumb surfer i rather not have at my porn sites

tony286 · 10-10-2005, 08:13 PM

Dont you realize that story is complete bullshit to pluck heart strings. He got pc anywhere and could control his dads pc. What horse shit if you ever used pc anywhere you know its not a sleath program.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-10-2005, 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tony404

Dont you realize that story is complete bullshit to pluck heart strings. He got pc anywhere and could control his dads pc. What horse shit if you ever used pc anywhere you know its not a sleath program.

Yeah I went through the board.

Its all weird back scratching shit kinda "Trollish" to drive curiousity.
Its a stunt board to drive interest from the film and drive sales is all.

There is no way that thread was authentic.

TheMob · 10-10-2005, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

Yeah I went through the board.

Its all weird back scratching shit kinda "Trollish" to drive curiousity.
Its a stunt board to drive interest from the film and drive sales is all.

There is no way that thread was authentic.

did you see how many posts there are on that site?

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-10-2005, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMob

did you see how many posts there are on that site?

Just that section.

I went somewhere else...
On the site:

Check this out.

"I have thankfully beaten my former addiction to pornographic material. Thank the lord. I think my friend has the same problem I have, but is unable to break its awful grasp. I have talked to him about prayer and God and he seems interested, but then I talk to other people and find out differently. He recently graduated from college, and because of his horrible addiction he is unable to find a decent job. Is there anyway that I can approach him or is there any thing to do. I need help, because he is a great friend and person but has lost his way. please pray for colin, he needs all of our prayers and Gods help. Please help me help my friend!!!!!"

These people are really fucked up...

BlingDaddy · 10-10-2005, 08:24 PM

These are the same idiots that put out a movie called "Missionary Positions" are they not?

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-10-2005, 08:25 PM

Naughty1 you are exactly correct:

"Perhaps the church and its imposed guilt are more of a problem than the "porn" "

Thats what it is.

Wiggles · 10-10-2005, 08:25 PM

hahah 'dad please stop' hahaha
my dad watches alot of porn, i guess he;s addicted, i'm just addicted to making money from it

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-10-2005, 08:26 PM

Anyways this bores me.

Next topic.

BeatingSkull · 10-10-2005, 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

Just that section.

I went somewhere else...
On the site:

Check this out.

"I have thankfully beaten my former addiction to pornographic material. Thank the lord. I think my friend has the same problem I have, but is unable to break its awful grasp. I have talked to him about prayer and God and he seems interested, but then I talk to other people and find out differently. He recently graduated from college, and because of his horrible addiction he is unable to find a decent job. Is there anyway that I can approach him or is there any thing to do. I need help, because he is a great friend and person but has lost his way. please pray for colin, he needs all of our prayers and Gods help. Please help me help my friend!!!!!"

These people are really fucked up...

WTF!!

i see porn all night & i get up every morning & go to my job at the office

They're fucking WEAK!!!

The real problem is they're addicted to stroking their cocks..hmm.. i'm gonna go to one of their rallys with boxes of fleshlights & sell em... hehe

Nismo · 10-10-2005, 08:29 PM

Amazing how these so called religious people are so "addicted" to internet porn that they can't get a job. What the hell are they doing? Staring at porn 18 hours a day? Jerking off 5+ times a day? I still don't understand what the hell they are doing.

Paraskass · 10-10-2005, 08:30 PM

if he ran a TGP he could make money and buy a ring for her.

gruvr777 · 10-10-2005, 08:51 PM

An addiction, sure. cheating... Well thats a stretch. I had a girlfriend who accused me of cheating whenever I masterbated. I told her, I'm just keeping things in tune for ya. Besides, if you'd give me sex everytime I wanted it I wouldn't have enough extra energy left to masterbate. Sometimes masterbation is even preferrable.

nastyboy1 · 10-10-2005, 09:26 PM

Earlier I said "problem" I did not say "addiction"....an important distinction especially as the US government holds hearings on our industry...

From: The Baron Edmond de Rothschild Chemical Dependency Institute -NY

Definition - Relationships and Distinctions: Addiction, Physical Dependence & Tolerance

Per the recently published consensus document from AAPM/APS/ASAM

Addiction: A primary, chronic neurobiologic disease, with genetic, psychosocial, and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. It is characterized by behaviors that include one or more of the following: impaired control over drug use, compulsive use, continued use despite harm, and craving.

Physical Dependence A state of adaptation that is manifested by a drug class specific withdrawal syndrome that can be produced by abrupt cessation, rapid dose reduction, decreasing blood level of the drug, and/or administration of an antagonist.

Tolerance A state of adaptation in which exposure to a drug induces changes that result in a diminution of one or more of the drug's effects over time.

KingK7 · 10-10-2005, 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMob

he could've had more fun than 'dad please stop' though..

like 'son, please stop'

bhutocracy · 10-10-2005, 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tony404

Dont you realize that story is complete bullshit to pluck heart strings. He got pc anywhere and could control his dads pc. What horse shit if you ever used pc anywhere you know its not a sleath program.

Exactly, I don't believe a guy would seriously be waiting around for his dad to jerk off so he could IM him.. it's just really disturbed even as a made up story.. way more creepy and disturbing than dad using porn.

10-10-2005, 07:23 PM	#1
TheMob Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: 2006 Posts: 8,584	Family Porn Problem The first time I ever saw porn... or at least I could recognize as pron... was during a garage sale for my grandmother. My grandfather had passed away and my grandmother was selling the house and all of her old crap. I came across a box of playing cards. The images on the cards were not of the normal pictures. They were of naked ladies. Later I was to find out from some of my older cousins that my grandfather had always had porn magazines and such in his office. Then skip forward a few years. My family got the internet and as any young curious boy, I found porn. At first it was just sort of a curious "I know I'm not supposed to be looking at this" sort of feeling but it eventually grew into more. Being a computer geek, I was also able to find out that my father had been viewing internet porn. I wanted to know for sure so I used a program called pcAnywhere to both see what he saw on his screen and if I so chose to, take over his computer entirely. I had blocked a few of the sites he regularly went to so I saw him bring up Yahoo and search for other sites. Immediately I took control of his computer and typed "Dad please stop." Then the computer shut off and I heard him pacing back and forth upstairs (I lived in a modified basement at the time). We never spoke about it. But now I've seen the effects strongly in my life. I've become addicted to porn. Occasionally I can get a stronghold on it and stop for a few days, a week, even a month at a time but it ALWAYS comes back. I've tried getting help from friends but more often than not they look upon it as a "sensitive subject" and never are faithful to hold me accountable. I don't know what to do. I saw that this site has an accountability program but I know myself and I know how to find ways around those things so if the temptation became too hard, I know I could just fool the system. I just feel lost. I feel that I can't do God's will because of this thing hanging over me constantly. I found a wonderful girl who I have every intention of marrying once I can afford the ring, but I wonder how I can be a husband (or right now a good boyfriend) if I'm constantly cheating on her with internet porn. I don't want to be like my father and sometimes I asolutely hate him for this family curse. I just don't know what to do. // Sheesh. That was from http://www.*********.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=14984 People are strange!

10-10-2005, 07:29 PM	#2
nastyboy1 Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: NC Posts: 257	I feel bad for the kid...ANYTHING that consumes our thoughts and effects our work, relationships etc is a problem....but addiction..NOT Perhaps the church and its imposed guilt are more of a problem than the "porn" On a lighter note..I'm wonder if the ********* will post the picture set Brandi and I just did with one of their shirts " Jesus Loves Pornstars Too" __________________ Naked Rhino Presents XCLUSIVECASH!

10-10-2005, 07:36 PM	#3
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10-10-2005, 07:46 PM	#7
bhutocracy Not making A Comeback Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 10,218	"sometimes I asolutely hate him for this family curse." religion is far worse than porn... look at this poor fuck, something so natural is bent into making him hate his dad... I'd feel bad for him if he wasn't such a cocksucking zealot.. any kid of mine that hijacked my computer to stop me looking at porn would be grounded indefinately. Last edited by bhutocracy; 10-10-2005 at 07:47 PM..

10-10-2005, 07:43 PM	#5
TheMob Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: 2006 Posts: 8,584	he could've had more fun than 'dad please stop' though.. like 'son, please stop'

10-10-2005, 07:48 PM	#8
BeatingSkull Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: The Confederate States of America Posts: 713	what's wrong with those people? Addicted to porn?? i'm on my computer almost all the time looking at porn & i'm not addicted. but GFY is an addiction.. we need GFY'ers anonymous __________________ "Every Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday in October PussyCash will pay you a $100 FOR EVERY IMLIVE SIGN-UP you refer" Last edited by BeatingSkull; 10-10-2005 at 07:49 PM..

10-10-2005, 07:48 PM	#9
Adult Site Traffic Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: South-East of the Border of Disorder Posts: 5,093	I was actually pretty good friends with a pastor who was addicted to porn. He lost his marriage, his church and all of his money to porn and he had to move to hell. I mean California. But then a lot of people have lost more than that to heroin, gambling and horses. I play the porn game and horses and I haven't lost too much. I sure have lost a lot of nickles to those Arizona Indians though.. I guess I recognize when too many nickles is enough nickles for a while. Some people can't. . __________________ ALL Domains and Websites are GOING AWAY NOW! Ask me! Many great domains, mainstream and adult, some complete sites with databases, some names with traffic and PR, some investment quality names. Come take a look! { Traffic Orders: Please go here } .:: SHARPEN the Elite - BURN the leftovers! Ooh-Rah!! ::. Last edited by Adult Site Traffic; 10-10-2005 at 07:50 PM..

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BeatingSkull Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: The Confederate States of America Posts: 713	do you think they'll see the hits in their server logs & come over & try to convert us & make us repent from our evil ways ........ where's theo the theologian.. he's a pretty chaste man & he like porn too __________________ "Every Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday in October PussyCash will pay you a $100 FOR EVERY IMLIVE SIGN-UP you refer"

10-10-2005, 08:05 PM	#12
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	Yea, that internet porn is a bitch. i'm sure god will understand.

10-10-2005, 08:09 PM	#13
AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE best designer on GFY Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: IALIEN.COM - High Definition Video and Photographic Productions -ICQ 78943384 Posts: 30,307	Yeah thats the typical Religeous preaching now a days. They think porn is a "Drug" of some sort and it is "Addictive". Thats what clergy are telling people these days, and you know how it goes. If it is said enough people will believe it. __________________ NAKED HOSTING FTW!11 I'm On The INSANE PLAN $9.95/mo! \| The Alien Blog Adult News Worth Reading Updated Daily \| Content For Sale! 641 PICS 216 MINUTES OF VIDEO $350.00 \|ICQ: 78943384 \|

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nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	he should just put a gun to his temple and blow his brains out just another dumb surfer i rather not have at my porn sites __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

10-10-2005, 08:13 PM	#15
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	Dont you realize that story is complete bullshit to pluck heart strings. He got pc anywhere and could control his dads pc. What horse shit if you ever used pc anywhere you know its not a sleath program.

10-10-2005, 08:24 PM	#19
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AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE best designer on GFY Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: IALIEN.COM - High Definition Video and Photographic Productions -ICQ 78943384 Posts: 30,307	Naughty1 you are exactly correct: "Perhaps the church and its imposed guilt are more of a problem than the "porn" " Thats what it is. __________________ NAKED HOSTING FTW!11 I'm On The INSANE PLAN $9.95/mo! \| The Alien Blog Adult News Worth Reading Updated Daily \| Content For Sale! 641 PICS 216 MINUTES OF VIDEO $350.00 \|ICQ: 78943384 \|

10-10-2005, 08:25 PM	#21
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	hahah 'dad please stop' hahaha my dad watches alot of porn, i guess he;s addicted, i'm just addicted to making money from it __________________ no sig

10-10-2005, 08:26 PM	#22
AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE best designer on GFY Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: IALIEN.COM - High Definition Video and Photographic Productions -ICQ 78943384 Posts: 30,307	Anyways this bores me. Next topic. __________________ NAKED HOSTING FTW!11 I'm On The INSANE PLAN $9.95/mo! \| The Alien Blog Adult News Worth Reading Updated Daily \| Content For Sale! 641 PICS 216 MINUTES OF VIDEO $350.00 \|ICQ: 78943384 \|

10-10-2005, 08:29 PM	#24
Nismo Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 4,977	Amazing how these so called religious people are so "addicted" to internet porn that they can't get a job. What the hell are they doing? Staring at porn 18 hours a day? Jerking off 5+ times a day? I still don't understand what the hell they are doing. __________________ i buy massive xxx dating traffic.

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Paraskass Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: QC Posts: 5,829	if he ran a TGP he could make money and buy a ring for her. __________________

10-10-2005, 08:51 PM	#26
gruvr777 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 306	An addiction, sure. cheating... Well thats a stretch. I had a girlfriend who accused me of cheating whenever I masterbated. I told her, I'm just keeping things in tune for ya. Besides, if you'd give me sex everytime I wanted it I wouldn't have enough extra energy left to masterbate. Sometimes masterbation is even preferrable.

10-10-2005, 09:26 PM	#27
nastyboy1 Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: NC Posts: 257	Earlier I said "problem" I did not say "addiction"....an important distinction especially as the US government holds hearings on our industry... From: The Baron Edmond de Rothschild Chemical Dependency Institute -NY Definition - Relationships and Distinctions: Addiction, Physical Dependence & Tolerance Per the recently published consensus document from AAPM/APS/ASAM Addiction: A primary, chronic neurobiologic disease, with genetic, psychosocial, and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. It is characterized by behaviors that include one or more of the following: impaired control over drug use, compulsive use, continued use despite harm, and craving. Physical Dependence A state of adaptation that is manifested by a drug class specific withdrawal syndrome that can be produced by abrupt cessation, rapid dose reduction, decreasing blood level of the drug, and/or administration of an antagonist. Tolerance A state of adaptation in which exposure to a drug induces changes that result in a diminution of one or more of the drug's effects over time. __________________ Naked Rhino Presents XCLUSIVECASH!