How many of you can admit to being a jealous type in relationships? - GoFuckYourself.com

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 04:32 PM

Comon everyone, spill....

i can admit i am the jealous type... but not to the point where i actually mention stuff.. i just keep it in because i know i'm being irrational

Pleasurepays · 09-19-2005, 04:33 PM

there is no such thing as "jealousy" in a relationship - its actually called "insecure"

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays

there is no such thing as "jealousy" in a relationship - its actually called "insecure"

i've heard that before too... that its either insecurity or that there isn't really any trust...

but that hasn't proven true in my relationship, been with my girlfriend for 4 years and she has never been the type to act flirty with anyone or respond to guys who flirt with her... i trust her 100% but still get jealous over stupid shit sometimes, though im trying not to as much

galleryseek · 09-19-2005, 04:34 PM

it depends on what you mean by "jealous".

i think every guy who actually loves his girl, experiences some sort of a negative feeling when their girl is socializing in one way or another with a different male (who this male is, obviously plays a big role)..

tgpshack · 09-19-2005, 04:35 PM

I'll admit Ive been jealous. Its a normal instinct. Nothing to be ashamed of.

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by galleryseek

it depends on what you mean by "jealous".

i think every guy who actually loves his girl, experiences some sort of a negative feeling when their girl is socializing in one way or another with a different male (who this male is, obviously plays a big role)..

very good point

interesting, so far 100% of the people who voted are the jealous type... i'm assuming people like stewie/vanilla duke/ramona halycon/tassy newbreed/arika are going to vote no because they have really strong relationships.. in my opinion their type of relationship is one of the strongest because they are so open with eachother and are okay with other people looking at their loved ones... i give them props for being able to be okay with that, because that takes a REALLY strong relationship to be able to do that

u-Bob · 09-19-2005, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by tgpshack

I'll admit Ive been jealous. Its a normal instinct. Nothing to be ashamed of.

what he said.

Pleasurepays · 09-19-2005, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by galleryseek

it depends on what you mean by "jealous".

i think every guy who actually loves his girl, experiences some sort of a negative feeling when their girl is socializing in one way or another with a different male (who this male is, obviously plays a big role)..

i think there is also basic male biology to content with. we are programmed to protect our mate from others just as any other animal on the planet is.

Babagirls · 09-19-2005, 04:38 PM

not jealous at all.

Honez · 09-19-2005, 04:42 PM

Yeah, I have played the part of the green eyed monster before. I admit it.

poisson · 09-19-2005, 04:42 PM

I admit it. i'm jealous.

Because peoples dint take care of me enought when i was a kid. I alway's have the fear that my lover would find someone else more interresting then me and will loose interrest.

That suck because i'm truly a nice person and loose many fine girls because of that. I still want to found a family and have kids.

galleryseek · 09-19-2005, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam

very good point

interesting, so far 100% of the people who voted are the jealous type... i'm assuming people like stewie/vanilla duke/ramona halycon/tassy newbreed/arika are going to vote no because they have really strong relationships.. in my opinion their type of relationship is one of the strongest because they are so open with eachother and are okay with other people looking at their loved ones... i give them props for being able to be okay with that, because that takes a REALLY strong relationship to be able to do that

you can't attribute tassy's & halycon's relationship to being strong simply on account of their open sexuality...

smack · 09-19-2005, 04:48 PM

i'm jealous. not incredibly jealous, but pretty jealous.

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by galleryseek

you can't attribute tassy's & halycon's relationship to being strong simply on account of their open sexuality...

I may have worded that wrong... what i was trying to say is that if they can both handle eachother getting hit on and stared at all the time, its pretty safe to say they have a really strong relationship..

(if halycon and tassy are reading this, sorry for using you guys as an example i know your relationship is none of my business, but just seemed like a good example of a strong relationship)

cool1 · 09-19-2005, 04:52 PM

Iam not jealous at all, really could care less.
If my lady wanted to cheat on me, what right do I have to say anything except goodbye.
it is her life and she can do as she pleases.

Damian_Maxcash · 09-19-2005, 04:52 PM

Im a nightmare - so jealous its scary

But to be honest most of the people I have had relationships with have fucked around on me. I think its a "self fulfilling prophecy".

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by cool1

Iam not jealous at all, really could care less.
If my lady wanted to cheat on me, what right do I have to say anything except goodbye.
it is her life and she can do as she pleases.

would you be able to keep that mindset right after finding out your girlfriend that you love cheated on you?

Dukes · 09-19-2005, 05:05 PM

It almost ended a 6 year relationship with Ramona, I am extremly jealous with her. She has never given me a reason to be, she has been the most loyal and trustworthy girlfrind I've ever had, but I tend to say stupid shit to her when I'm drunk and excuse her of the most stupid things ever. And your right its my insecurities, I have always landed hot chicks and have never been ashamed of who I was with cuz I can pull fine bitches, needless to say all my relationships have ended because of my jealousy and insecurities, but I'm working on it and try and not act like a total ass with her as much as i did

Yes and as fucking ugly and short as I am the ladies just tend to melt in the Dukes arms;) Those of you who know me have seen it happen..LOL

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by damian2001

Im a nightmare - so jealous its scary

But to be honest most of the people I have had relationships with have fucked around on me. I think its a "self fulfilling prophecy".

i think the more jealous a person is, the more it pushes the other one away from you to the point where they end up DO cheating because the relationship has gone to shit..

i've noticed the more you act like you don't give a fuck, the more the girl clings to you

sonofsam · 09-19-2005, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Dukes

Yes and as fucking ugly and short as I am the ladies just tend to melt in the Dukes arms;) Those of you who know me have seen it happen..LOL

hahha i feel you, i'm ugly as fuck too

Spunky · 09-19-2005, 05:08 PM

I was a little bit in the begining of a long term relationship,but then later on I didn't care at all

pubenemy · 09-19-2005, 05:19 PM

Not jealous at all.

Doctor Dre · 09-19-2005, 05:30 PM

Not me . My girl does whatever the fuck she wants when she wants . Same for me ... if she's not happy, she can go to hell.

I just trust her ... a relationship is nothing without trust. I rather get cheated on then be insecure about everything.

tranza · 09-19-2005, 06:17 PM

yeah, i'm jealous in some way...it's healthy

je_rome · 09-20-2005, 12:23 AM

I will admit to having the trust I have for my g/f being shaken at some point. Its because of some aroused suspicions and the ending, I was right about it.

reed_4 · 09-20-2005, 12:40 AM

Jealousy is just normal within a relationship. It will only shows that you love that person.

Furious_Female · 09-20-2005, 12:51 AM

Yes, I'm jealous, insecure etc. I have no problem admitting that. I'm needy

I also find jealousy to be a 'turn on.' Deranged? Maybe. I think it's cute! As long as it's in a caring way and not in an angry/abusive way.

Th!nk · 09-20-2005, 03:07 AM

i admit, i do get jealous. eventhough you trust your guy and all, time will really come that you will feel something and you start to get jealous. and once you tell it to your partner and discuss about it, everyting will turn out right. nothing to be ashamed of being jealous...

Oracle Porn · 09-20-2005, 03:11 AM

me....I hate that shit.

Stacey_JoinRightNow · 09-20-2005, 03:13 AM

I'm the jealous type...

But if he cheats on me just be honest and I will let it go...

Jealousy comes when the guy/girl doesnt feel secure to their partners...
that's it!

TurboAngel · 09-20-2005, 03:14 AM

I'm not thank god.

Violetta · 09-20-2005, 03:15 AM

I admit it!!

cool1 · 09-20-2005, 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by sonofsam

would you be able to keep that mindset right after finding out your girlfriend that you love cheated on you?

Yep
I have been married 3 times and my last 2 wifes cheated on me.
But like I told them it is thier life if they want to be with someone else then who am I to stop them, I do not own them.
Of course I will not be with an unfaithfull woman. So now I am single until the next time

pink_in_the_middle · 09-20-2005, 05:29 AM

Do any of the people who are jealous think they aren't good enough for their other half?

PixeLs · 09-20-2005, 05:49 AM

I am a jealous person but I make sure I am not showing it to my someone.

Jer · 09-20-2005, 05:52 AM

I'm very secure but I've been jealous.
I only don't trust other men.

reynold · 09-20-2005, 06:11 AM

Jealousy is not bad at all.

Ace-wtf · 09-20-2005, 06:14 AM

it's mutual
girls hide it better

basschick · 09-20-2005, 06:33 AM

nope, i sure don't.

i am occasionally jealous - mostly for weird, random shit. i know arie has never given me cause, and it's not massive amounts of jealousy. i tell him calmly how i feel because i think holding it in is worse. he's had a few jealous moments, and let me know, too. neither of us flirt, but i think a tiny bit of jealousy is normal at times unless you're very stable stable people.

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Do any of the people who are jealous think they aren't good enough for their other half?

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09-19-2005, 04:32 PM	#1
sonofsam Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 18,638	How many of you can admit to being a jealous type in relationships? Comon everyone, spill.... i can admit i am the jealous type... but not to the point where i actually mention stuff.. i just keep it in because i know i'm being irrational __________________ I like turtles.

09-19-2005, 04:35 PM	#5
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09-19-2005, 04:38 PM	#9
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09-19-2005, 04:42 PM	#10
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09-19-2005, 04:33 PM	#2
Pleasurepays BANNED - SUPPORTING TUBES Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I live in a pile of boogers Posts: 11,913	there is no such thing as "jealousy" in a relationship - its actually called "insecure"

09-19-2005, 04:34 PM	#4
galleryseek Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 8,234	it depends on what you mean by "jealous". i think every guy who actually loves his girl, experiences some sort of a negative feeling when their girl is socializing in one way or another with a different male (who this male is, obviously plays a big role)..

09-19-2005, 04:42 PM	#11
poisson Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sea Posts: 6,474	I admit it. i'm jealous. Because peoples dint take care of me enought when i was a kid. I alway's have the fear that my lover would find someone else more interresting then me and will loose interrest. That suck because i'm truly a nice person and loose many fine girls because of that. I still want to found a family and have kids. __________________

09-19-2005, 04:48 PM	#13
smack Push Porn Like Weight. Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Inside .NET Posts: 10,652	i'm jealous. not incredibly jealous, but pretty jealous. __________________ Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war.

09-19-2005, 04:52 PM	#15
cool1 sex is good Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Carman, MB Canada Posts: 24,939	Iam not jealous at all, really could care less. If my lady wanted to cheat on me, what right do I have to say anything except goodbye. it is her life and she can do as she pleases. __________________

09-19-2005, 04:52 PM	#16
Damian_Maxcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: MaxCash.com Posts: 12,745	Im a nightmare - so jealous its scary But to be honest most of the people I have had relationships with have fucked around on me. I think its a "self fulfilling prophecy".

09-19-2005, 05:05 PM	#18
Dukes Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 440	It almost ended a 6 year relationship with Ramona, I am extremly jealous with her. She has never given me a reason to be, she has been the most loyal and trustworthy girlfrind I've ever had, but I tend to say stupid shit to her when I'm drunk and excuse her of the most stupid things ever. And your right its my insecurities, I have always landed hot chicks and have never been ashamed of who I was with cuz I can pull fine bitches, needless to say all my relationships have ended because of my jealousy and insecurities, but I'm working on it and try and not act like a total ass with her as much as i did Yes and as fucking ugly and short as I am the ladies just tend to melt in the Dukes arms;) Those of you who know me have seen it happen..LOL __________________ ICQ- 218503927 AIM- DannyDks

09-19-2005, 05:08 PM	#21
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09-19-2005, 05:19 PM	#22
pubenemy Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: SW FL Posts: 990	Not jealous at all. __________________ ICQ: 22-920-445 Aim: OGpubenemy

09-19-2005, 06:17 PM	#24
tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	yeah, i'm jealous in some way...it's healthy __________________ I'm just a newbie.

09-20-2005, 12:23 AM	#25
je_rome Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,846	I will admit to having the trust I have for my g/f being shaken at some point. Its because of some aroused suspicions and the ending, I was right about it. __________________ Make money on any traffic. Join KlikRevenue.com Today!

09-20-2005, 12:40 AM	#26
reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	Jealousy is just normal within a relationship. It will only shows that you love that person. __________________

09-20-2005, 12:51 AM	#27
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	Yes, I'm jealous, insecure etc. I have no problem admitting that. I'm needy I also find jealousy to be a 'turn on.' Deranged? Maybe. I think it's cute! As long as it's in a caring way and not in an angry/abusive way. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

09-20-2005, 03:07 AM	#28
Th!nk Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 6,996	i admit, i do get jealous. eventhough you trust your guy and all, time will really come that you will feel something and you start to get jealous. and once you tell it to your partner and discuss about it, everyting will turn out right. nothing to be ashamed of being jealous...

09-20-2005, 03:11 AM	#29
Oracle Porn Affiliate Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Icq: 94-399-723 Posts: 24,433	me....I hate that shit. __________________

09-20-2005, 03:13 AM	#30
Stacey_JoinRightNow Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Montreal Posts: 6,269	I'm the jealous type... But if he cheats on me just be honest and I will let it go... Jealousy comes when the guy/girl doesnt feel secure to their partners... that's it! __________________ Last edited by Stacey_JoinRightNow; 09-20-2005 at 03:15 AM..

09-20-2005, 03:14 AM	#31
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	I'm not thank god.

09-20-2005, 03:15 AM	#32
Violetta Affiliate Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 28,735	I admit it!! __________________ M&A Queen

09-20-2005, 05:29 AM	#34
pink_in_the_middle Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: O Canada Posts: 4,503	Do any of the people who are jealous think they aren't good enough for their other half? __________________ pinkysteph AT gmail DOT com I'm a native english speaker from Canada with a firm ass, excellent grammar and punctuation skills. If you're in need of text for your: blog, paysite galleries, DVD covers, image cropping, content purchasing, content insertion or anything else along these lines, please feel free to give me a shout. And I’m female to boot

09-20-2005, 05:49 AM	#35
PixeLs Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 11,922	I am a jealous person but I make sure I am not showing it to my someone. __________________ Make money on any traffic. Bi-weekly payments with no hold.

09-20-2005, 05:52 AM	#36
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601	I'm very secure but I've been jealous. I only don't trust other men.

09-20-2005, 06:11 AM	#37
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	Jealousy is not bad at all.

09-20-2005, 06:14 AM	#38
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